The Lost Art of Dating (And What We Forgot)

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I’m about to say something that might make me sound like the “old soul” on the block, but here’s the truth: Modern dating is exhausting. While I’ll be the first to praise the convenience of Uber and the magic of Google Maps, it’s clear that when it comes to romance, something vital has been lost…

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Break the Cycle of Toxic Relationships (Be a Cycle Breaker)

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Where did you learn how to love? If you’re like most of us, there wasn’t a formal classroom or a profound “sit-down” talk. Instead, you learned through the quiet observation of your parents. You watched how they handled conflict, how they showed affection (or didn’t), and how they navigated commitment. The truth is, relationship struggles…

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The Lies You’ve Been Told about What Men Want

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Whenever we host a live Q&A, one question is a 100% guarantee. Without fail, a hand goes up and a woman asks: “What is up with guys? What do they actually want?” I always thank them for finally asking a man instead of making an assumption. Because the truth is, most of what you’ve been…

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5 Guys You MUST AVOID to Find Love Successfully

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We all have a list. You know the one: handsome, tall enough, financially stable, masculine, handy around the house. It’s a great list. In fact, almost everyone has it. But if you’re sitting there wondering why you keep ending up with the wrong people despite having a “clear vision,” you might have a “Broken Picker.”…

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7 Things Men Secretly Desire More Than Looks

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You already know this, but it’s worth saying clearly: your appearance can get a man’s attention. It cannot hold his devotion. What keeps a healthy, high-quality man emotionally invested is not your dress size or your contouring. It is how he feels when he is with you. That feeling is what we’ll call emotional attraction:…

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5 Simple Tests to Know If He’s the One

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Don’t you just wish you could look at a man and instantly know if he was worth your time? Imagine having a simple technique to see into the future—to know if the road ahead leads to a fulfilling partnership or miserable heartbreak. While there isn’t a single “magic pill” for love (and we really need…

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3½ Words That Make Men Pursue a Woman

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There is a quiet moment every woman knows: you see a man you’re drawn to, you feel his interest, and then everything stalls. No one moves. He is waiting for a clear sign he won’t be humiliated. You are waiting for a clear sign he will step up. If you want a man to pursue…

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Is Dating Feeling Hopeless? 7 Questions to Get You Unstuck

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Let’s be honest: you’ve thought about quitting. Maybe you’ve fantasized about giving up on dating entirely, staying single, or just accepting that this whole relationship thing isn’t for you. We get it. Dating can be frustrating, annoying, and downright confusing. When you’re stuck in the middle of it all, not sure what to do or…

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9 Things to Look for in the Man You Marry

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There is a moment in almost every woman’s love life when she realizes: “The men I’m attracted to and the men I can build a life with are not always the same people.” That moment is sobering. It is also the beginning of real power in your love life. The qualities that make someone a…

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Give Me 20 Minutes and I’ll Make You Magnetic to Mature Men

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We hear this from clients all the time. They can spark initial interest with men — but those sparks fizzle out before anything real gets going. They’ve been asked for their number at the grocery store. Friends notice men fawning over them. Yet somehow, that attention never turns into a lasting connection. Here’s the truth:…

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7 Subtle Things Men Do to Test Women

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You are not imagining it. Some men really are “testing” you in dating and relationships. Not with a clipboard and a grading rubric, but in small, often unconscious ways that tell them, “Is she casual, or is she someone I could build a life with?” You do not need to study for these tests. You…

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7 Signs He’s Playing Games and Breadcrumbing You

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Why, oh why, do they do this? A guy contacts you on an app. You chat. Then he disappears. A week later, he’s back. He texts just enough to stay on your mind. He says he “misses you”… but somehow, he’s always too busy to actually see you. If you’ve ever framed this behaviour as…

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He’s moving too Fast? Say This

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There is a particular whiplash a lot of women know well. Date one: he is charming, present, respectful. Date two: his hands are suddenly everywhere and he is asking if you want to “continue this somewhere more private.” You feel a mix of chemistry, confusion and a quiet dread: “Is this just who men are?”…

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7 Harsh Truths about Why You’re Still Single

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You’re single. You know it, your friends and family know it (and probably brought it up awkwardly over the holidays). But what isn’t totally clear is WHY, though absolutely everyone seems to have an opinion. In the most supportive way possible, we’re here to break it to you: If you’ve been single and actively looking…

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3 Things to Look for in a Long Term Relationship

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Most dating advice is built around short-term outcomes: attraction, chemistry, excitement, momentum. And while those things matter, they’re not what determine whether a relationship lasts or quietly falls apart a few years in. Long-term love doesn’t fail because two people didn’t feel enough in the beginning. It fails because they built a relationship on the…

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7 Ways to Spot MAJOR Red Flags Before It’s Too Late

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You can’t scroll through social media without seeing posts about dating red flags. Here’s the irony: spotting the obvious ones—like inconsistent communication, constant bragging, or disrespectful behavior—is not the hard part. The real challenge is that the guys who carry these flags don’t come right out and tell you. They don’t announce they’re about to…

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5 Signs a Guy Doesn’t Like You

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You are not confused. You are overriding what you already know. When a smart, capable woman finds herself obsessing over a man’s mixed signals, it is almost never because she cannot read him. It is because she does not want the answer she is getting. This article is about treating your confusion as data, trusting…

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Men’s Dating Coach Spills His Secrets

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For over a decade, I’ve been immersed in the world of dating, guiding countless individuals through the complexities of modern romance. While my journey began unexpectedly – I never initially intended to coach women – my years of experience have given me an unparalleled perspective: an insider’s view into the male mind.   My colleague…

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Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men (and How to Stop)

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If you’ve spent any time in the modern dating landscape, you’ve heard the term “high-value” repeated endlessly. It’s the supposed gold standard: “look for high-value,” “be high-value,” “only accept high-value.” But what if we told you this popular dating term is not only confusing and imprecise, but is actively steering you away from the partner…

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Why Moving Slow in Dating Gets You Commitment FASTER

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If you’re used to moving quickly in every area of your life, “go slow” in dating can feel inefficient, indulgent, or just unnecessary. You know what you want. You are busy. You are not interested in wasting time with the wrong person. That is exactly why pacing matters. Moving slowly is not about being passive.…

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Why Dating Your Type is Keeping Your Single

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Is Your “Type” The Reason You’re Still Single? You’ve been dating for a while, and you know what you like. There are certain guys you just click with, and it feels natural, easy. But here’s a hard truth: what if your “type” isn’t what’s best for you? What if the very qualities you seek are…

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8 Things Men Find Emotionally Attractive in a Woman

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If dating has ever felt like it starts strong but mysteriously fades out after a few weeks or months, there’s a reason for that. Most people focus almost entirely on physical attraction. And while physical chemistry gets attention quickly, it’s not what makes a relationship last. It’s what sparks interest, not commitment. The real differentiator…

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How to Deal with a Guy Who Is Too Sexual

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You’re innocently texting a new guy, and suddenly he sends an unsolicited shirtless picture. Or maybe he’s talking about a date he wants to take you on and then sends an eggplant emoji. Yikes! You feel a familiar mix of awkwardness, disgust, and confusion. What do you do? What do you say? These situations are…

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9 Things Women Wish They Knew About Men Sooner

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Every few months, women fly in from all over the world to attend our event in Boston. By the end of the weekend, many of them say the same thing: I wish I’d known this about men sooner. Not because they were naive, but because no one ever taught them how relationships actually work. Here…

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How to Find Love as a Widow: 7 Things You Need to Know

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Losing a spouse is an unimaginable loss, and the thought of dating again can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even guilt-ridden. You might feel lost in a world that has changed completely since you last dated, navigating apps and new social norms. But as our client Denise’s story shows, it is possible to find love again—and…

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Welcome to 2026 – The Year You Attract Love

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If you are reading this, there is a good chance you are looking back at last year and thinking the same thing many women are thinking. Dating felt exhausting. The apps were full of dead ends. Conversations went nowhere. The same patterns kept repeating themselves, and at some point you hit that internal wall where…

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The Emotionally Unavailable Man Checklist (And Why You Keep Choosing Him)

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“It’s the apps… they’re the problem.” “It’s modern dating.” “All these guys today are emotionally unavailable!” We’ve all heard the complaints, maybe even said them ourselves. While it’s true that emotionally unavailable guys ARE OUT THERE, they’re not the only ones. Sweet, caring, emotionally available, high-quality men exist, but you might be so focused on…

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What a Man Looks for in a Wife

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When a man is actively dating, he tends to sort women into one of two mental categories almost immediately. You are either someone he sees as a potential wife or someone he views as a short-term option. Once that decision is made, it is very difficult to change. This is why so many women find…

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The Gender Myth: How ‘Men vs. Women’ Thinking Destroys Intimacy

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For decades, we’ve been operating under the assumption that men and women are so fundamentally different, they might as well be from Mars and Venus. Phrases like “men are logical, women are emotional” and “men need space, women need closeness” have become ingrained dating gospel. The problem? It’s a lie. Extensive research, analyzing over 13,000…

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5 Things You Should Never Do for a Man

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If you’re anything like most of the women I work with, you’re a giver. You care deeply. You show up. You support the people you love and genuinely want to see them succeed. When you’re interested in a man, your instinct is not to hold back or play games, but to lean in and give…

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The Start of Something Real: How to Create Meaningful Commitment

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If your relationships always seem to fade around the one to three month mark, it can feel confusing and unfair. Everything starts with excitement and possibility, and then, almost predictably, the energy drops. The messages slow down. The connection cools. And you’re back at the beginning again. This pattern isn’t random. It’s what happens when…

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How to Break Your Bad Boy Habit (For Good)

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If you have ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic men, you are not alone. Many women fall into a cycle of dating the same type: the mysterious guy with great chemistry and zero follow through. Here is the truth most people never tell you: We do not chase what is healthy. We…

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3 Reasons to Avoid Long Distance Relationships

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The question comes up all the time: “How far is too far?” It’s a question that feels like a plea for a permission slip. As dating experts, we don’t believe in absolute rules. But we do have a guideline: “No more than one hour away.” This isn’t an arbitrary number. It’s a conclusion drawn from…

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How to Stop Being Manipulated By Men

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You’re smart, successful, and self-aware — the kind of woman who handles her life like a pro. But when it comes to dating, even the most confident women can find themselves tangled in manipulation. It’s not because you’re weak. It’s because manipulators are masters of finding your empathy and using it against you. But here’s…

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Compliments that Drive Classy Guys Wild

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Imagine being able to say just the right thing, at the right time, to make a meaningful connection. It sounds like magic, but in many ways, that’s what coaching is all about. You might think you’re being complimentary when you tell a guy he’s “so nice,” but you’re actually using a romance-killing phrase that’s a…

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Is Wanting a Boyfriend Now “Embarrassing”?

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Every now and then, a headline pops up that makes me stop mid-scroll and this one did exactly that. Vogue recently published an article exploring whether having a boyfriend is now… embarrassing. Yes, really. And while part of me wanted to laugh it off, another part of me knew this deserved a real conversation. Not…

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The Silent Killer: Decoding the Science of Infidelity

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Love is often sold as a fairy tale—simple, perfect, and a lifelong state of bliss. But real relationships are far more complex, and sometimes, they don’t end with a bang, but with a slow, silent erosion. One day you’re laughing over dinner, and the next you’re sitting in silence, wondering how the emptiness crept in.…

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Do Masculine, Emotionally Secure Men Still Exist? Here’s How to Spot One

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If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Do masculine, emotionally secure men even exist anymore?” — you’re not alone. For many successful, independent women, dating can feel like navigating a wasteland of emotionally unavailable guys, fragile egos, and overgrown boys who call themselves men. But here’s the truth: emotionally secure, masculine men do exist. You just…

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5 Ways to Get More Affection From Men

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Let’s be honest—when you’re not feeling the affection you crave in a relationship, it’s easy to assume it’s because the guy is emotionally unavailable or just “not affectionate by nature.” But what if there were specific things you could do to naturally inspire more affection, without chasing it? Good news: You don’t need to beg,…

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Beyond Butterflies: Finding a Guy Who Protects Your Heart

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“Finding someone to protect you physically is cool, but being protected emotionally is what matters.” This quote, surprisingly from Love is Blind, hit me hard. It’s a profound truth about relationships, even though it comes from an unexpected source. It begs the question: in our modern world, are we prioritizing the right things in love?…

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Dating After 40: The 5 S’s for Finding Love and Thriving

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Many women over 40 find themselves discouraged by the dating scene. But what if you could find a fulfilling, lasting relationship and thrive while doing it? This post outlines the 5 S’s of successful dating after 40, drawn from the expertise of Gary, a dating coach who helps established women navigate love in a new…

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Is He the One? 10 Signs Your Guy is Securely Attached

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Wouldn’t it be great if we could ask potential partners the most important questions upfront? Like, “Are you emotionally stable and ready for a healthy relationship?” Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. But fear not, there are subtle signs that can reveal a guy’s attachment style. In this blog post, we’ll explore 10 key indicators of…

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Am I With the Wrong Person? Time to Quit or Commit?

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Notes Summary: Am I With the Wrong Person? How to Navigate Relationship Uncertainty Have you ever found yourself in a relationship that’s not terrible but not great, either? You’re not alone. This common yet rarely discussed situation leaves many people feeling stuck in “relationship purgatory.” Let’s explore this dilemma and discuss strategies to help you…

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Is Your Relationship Toxic? 5 Warning Signs You Should RUN!

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Is Your Relationship Toxic? Toxic relationships can be incredibly damaging. If you’re not sure whether your relationship is toxic, here are five warning signs to watch out for: You feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner. This means you’re constantly afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing, and you’re always…

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5 Ways Men Change When They Fall in Love

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Notes from the Video: Have you ever wondered what goes on in a man’s mind when he transitions from casual dating to true love? In today’s video, I reveal the 5 key shifts that indicate a man is falling for you. 1. Listening: This goes beyond simply hearing your words. A man falling for you…

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Is He The One? The Secret to Using Your Intuition

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Notes From The Podcast: Not sure if he’s right for you? In today’s podcast, we provide a step-by-step system for harnessing your natural intuition and weeding out the wrong men so you can finally open your heart to the right guy.   Intuition, by its very nature, is the ability to understand something instinctively without needing conscious reasoning. It’s…

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Is Your Guy Falling Short? One thing you should NEVER do

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Notes from the podcast: In relationships, a hard truth remains: no one is perfect. This acknowledgment sets the stage for a phenomenon I’ve come to call the “Near Miss” phenomenon, where apps and social encounters introduce us to potential partners who tick most of the boxes yet seem to fall just short in certain areas.…

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#1 Way to Fix Bad Communication With Your Guy

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Notes from the podcast: Every relationship, without exception, encounters its fair share of problems, ranging from minor irritations and daily annoyances to major, deep-seated issues. Sometimes, it’s not a specific problem but a lingering sense that things are not clicking as they should. The First Step to Resolution: Communication The root of most relationship problems…

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10 Relationship Truths Every Woman NEEDS to Hear

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Here are ten relationship truths we believe every woman needs to hear: #1. You’re beautiful, but don’t let people fall in love with you for your looks. Prioritizing superficial qualities leads to superficial relationships. This goes for you, too. Don’t get distracted by physical qualities. Looks are temporary; character is forever. #2. You have to…

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4 Traits Linked to Career Success but Relationship Heartbreak

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Professional triumph didn’t fall into your lap. It’s the fruit of your perseverance, the relentless hours you invested, and the unyielding persona you’ve honed. Yet, the triumph turns bittersweet as these victories don’t echo in the corridors of your love life. Instead, they reverberate as the silent echoes of solitude. Are you to choose between…

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4 Ways to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work

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Over the past decade, long-distance relationships have seen a significant surge. With over 3 million couples in the United States currently navigating the challenges of distance, it’s clear that this trend is on the rise. A staggering 10% of all marriages today began as long-distance relationships.   Two reasons are driving this shift in dynamics.…

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10 Dangerous Relationship Red Flags Most Women Ignore

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Today we will explore ten dangerous red flags that many women ignore, despite their potential impact on relationships. #1. He Goes Overboard with the Compliments: While compliments are pleasant, you must be cautious when someone showers you with excessive praise too early in a relationship. These compliments may lack sincerity and might be a tactic…

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Is He Relationship Material? 3 Simple Questions to Ask Your Guy

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When trying to find the right partner, it can be challenging to determine if someone is truly relationship material. However, three simple questions can provide valuable insights into a person’s intentions, emotional availability, and compatibility. Forget about trying to read signs or bombarding them with countless inquiries. Instead, focus on open communication and asking the…

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Why ‘The Notebook’ Sets You Up for Relationship Failure

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When it comes to romantic movies, “The Notebook” is often hailed as a classic. It has captivated the hearts of audiences worldwide with its tale of passionate love and undying devotion. However, beneath the surface of this seemingly heartwarming story lies a dangerous set of relationship myths and toxic behaviors. This blog post will explore…

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The Power in Leaning Back and Letting a Man Lead (4 Ways to Do It)

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Are you a powerful, go-getting woman who dominates in the boardroom? If so, you might find that your strong masculine energy, which serves you well in your professional life, doesn’t always translate to success in the dating world. Unconsciously, you may be repelling masculine men and attracting more submissive, beta partners. Let’s explore the importance…

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6 Signs It’s Time To Break Up (It’s OVER!)

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One thing is for sure: breakups are the worst. But sometimes you’ll find yourself in a relationship and wonder, “why the heck are we still together?!” Maybe he sucks. Perhaps the two of you are great alone, but together you suck. But what do you do if you’re on the fence about it? How can…

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The 10 Challenges Every Relationship Must Face

Everyone wants romantic relationships to be simple. They’re not. Instead, relationships are complicated, tricky, and confusing. It’s enough to leave you feeling indecisive and unsure. And yet, we’ve all seen happy couples who have been together forever. What’s their secret? Those “super couples” don’t avoid complications. They have struggles, just like the rest of us.…

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Holding on Too Long? A Story about Cars and Love

Over the summer, I was in Boston and out to dinner with a colleague who specializes in relationships. We’ll call him Adam because, well, his name is Adam LoDolce. When two relationship experts go out to dinner and strike up a conversation with the waitress, you’d assume the topic du jour would be love, dating,…

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7 Subtle Signs that Your Relationship Is In Trouble

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You never saw it coming. Just like that. Your relationship is a mess, or worse, it’s completely over. Everything seemed to be going well, then suddenly, it wasn’t. No one likes to be blindsided. While it may seem like the end came out of nowhere, the truth is there are always signs. You just missed…

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How to Use Passion to Find (and Keep) Long-Lasting Love

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Early in a relationship, the mere thought of your partner brings a smile to your face and a flutter to your stomach. You feel downright giddy. That’s passionate love. It feels AMAZING. But it’s more than that. Passionate love motivates us to spend every possible moment together and move the relationship forward. It’s all so…

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5 Ways to Improve Communication in A Relationship

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We’ve all heard of communication and how it’s essential to any healthy, successful relationship. But what exactly is communication, and why do we need it? Communication = two people exchanging ideas, including their feelings, wants, and needs. It’s about opening up about important things and receiving that information from your partner. Without open communication, problems…

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3 Simple Strategies To Fix Any Struggling Relationship

Everyone wants the best relationship possible. Yet, no relationship is perfect. We all have room for improvement. But how? What should couples do? You could read the scientific literature or try to sort through a bunch of questionable advice on the Internet. It’s overwhelming, which just begs you to do nothing and simply hope for…

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How to Attract Men Who Aren’t Intimidated by Your Success

Strong relationships require a strong foundation. To build that base, each partner must embrace who they are and continually strive to grow. In other words: Improve yourself to improve your relationships. Simple. Smart. Intuitive. But we all know that in real life, relationships are rarely that simple. I recently tweeted (actually a retweet from someone…

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5 Simple Tests that Prove He’s “the One”

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Have you ever wished there was an easy way of knowing if the man you’re dating is the right one for you? Life would be much simpler if you could send him off with a list of questions and then have a computer program tell you yay or neigh. Unfortunately, real life isn’t that simple,…

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What Is Micro-Cheating? Here Are 16 Signs It’s Happening

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If your partner sleeps with someone else behind your back, I think we can all agree that qualifies as cheating. Just try and worm your way out of that one, buddy. But what about flirting with a colleague at work, frequently posting fire emojis on someone’s Instagram photos, or texting your ex? Welcome to micro-cheating.…

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When Should You Let Go of Him? WATCH THIS

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Have you ever stayed in a toxic or unsatisfying relationship for way longer than you should have? There are so many reasons why people stay even when they KNOW they should leave: It’s comfortable It’s familiar The relationship makes sense on paper You don’t want the past x years to have been a total waste…

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18 Relationship Goals Every Couple Needs For Long-Term Love

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The term “relationship goals” is a popular hashtag thrown around on social media to accompany staged and filtered couple photos, but what exactly are relationship goals, and why should you have them? Healthy, successful relationships are built on two individuals coming together and being intentional about their shared goals and actions, today and in the…

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NEVER Marry a Man Who Has These 7 Habits

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Marriage can be a beautiful thing. But anyone who is in a long-lasting, committed, loving marriage will also tell you that marriage is hard work. Couples in those relationships devote their time and energy to making it work, and they’re both all-in on their marriage. This brings me on to the flip side: marriage can…

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5 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Love You [Walk Away]

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Are you in a relationship and struggling to figure out if this guy really loves you? When you’re crazy in love with someone, it can be tricky to see your relationship clearly. It’s like you’re walking around with blinders on. But there’s a reason you’re here. Something feels off. You’re not totally convinced he’s fully…

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7 Scientific Signs A Guy Is Falling In Love With You

When it comes to knowing whether a guy is falling in love with you or not, you don’t have to be a mind reader. You don’t have to dissect everything he says with your girlfriends (though you enjoy that, don’t you?). You don’t even need a sign from the heavens. There are scientific signs that…

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He’s Not Ready for a Relationship? Say THIS

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Things were going really well with this guy and then he dropped a bomb… “Uh, the truth is…I’m not ready for a relationship.” You’d been doodling his name in your notebooks. Telling all your friends about your hot new boyfriend. Picking out curtains for the house you knew you’d move into together. And NOW he…

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3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away

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The guy you’re talking to normally texts first thing to wish you a good day…but today you haven’t heard from him. Is this you? “OMG he always texts by 10 am! It’s 10:07! He’s clearly found someone he likes better! Why did I waste my time? What did I do wrong? WAAAAH!” It can feel…

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THIS Will Make Him Chase You (And Worry About Losing You)

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Let me guess: you’ve seen other so-called “dating experts” give you advice saying, “this will make him chase you:” Ignore his texts… …post pics with other men on Facebook… …basically don’t give him any of your time. If that’s what you’re hoping to find here, I’m sorry to disappoint you. I don’t believe in manipulating…

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5 Reasons Why He Hasn’t Said “I Love You”

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Falling in love before you know whether he feels the same is like jumping out of a plane. Do you have a parachute…or will you plummet to the earth? Will he respond that he desperately has fallen head over heels for you…or will you make a fool of yourself by telling him how you feel?…

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3 Reasons Why NOW Is the Best Time to Find Love

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In addition to being an economic and financial disaster, this coronavirus has also become an emotional disaster. We aren’t able to connect with the people we care for like we used to. We miss the physical connection. Video doesn’t always cut it. And if you’re single…that might make things worse. You’re lonely…you feel disconnected…and you’re…

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7 Ways Your Insecurities Are Actually Pushing Him Away

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Have you ever been dating a guy and things are going really, really well… But then suddenly your heart is telling you to run? Your head tries to tell you that things are going well, but for whatever reason, you pull into your turtle shell and hide. It’s not rational, and you probably realize this.…

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3 Reasons Why Men Get Hot and Cold (+ What to Do Next)

One minute, a guy is texting you nonstop and trying to spend all his time with you… …then he ghosts you for a week. It’s f#%!ing frustrating, isn’t it? You and your girlfriends have no idea why men get hot and cold, but if you could only crack that code…maybe dating would be more fun.…

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3 Toxic Ways You Might Be Over-Communicating in Your Relationship

All of the experts tell you to communicate your feelings in a relationship… …but is it possible to over-communicate? I’ve been guilty of this myself. Rocking the boat when the relationship was cruising along just fine. Watch the video below to learn the 3 toxic ways you might be over-communicating in your relationship.  Have…

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5 Signs a Guy is SERIOUS About a Future With You

Have you ever dated a guy who was a complete waste of time? When the relationship ended, you discovered that he had ZERO interest in a serious relationship, and then you had to start all over again. Never again, my sexy single lady. Here are 5 signs that a guy is serious about a future…

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How to Stop Giving a F#CK About What Men Think

Do you care too much about what men think about you? I think the image below sums up this week’s video perfectly. Click on it to learn one simple principle to developing your inner confidence around men. Are you ready to stop caring? Then leave a comment below committing yourself to the principles outlined in…

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4 Secret Signs He Thinks About You More Than You Know

Are you constantly on his mind? Instead of “bait texting” him to see if he responds… …watch the video below and learn the 4 secret signs he thinks about you more than you know.  Have you ever seen these signs from a guy? Leave a comment below letting me know how it went. Your…

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How Men Test Women (4 Psychological Tricks We Play)

When you first start dating a guy, you’re probably testing him.  Does he take charge of situations?  Is he a nice guy?  Is he respectful to the waiter? You know…standard things to look out for. And believe it or not, he’s testing you too…except his tests are VERY different than yours.  Fail these “tests,” and…

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7 Signs of a Possessive Boyfriend (And How to Deal With Him)

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Are you in a relationship with a guy who seems to be a possessive boyfriend? Maybe it feels like he’s controlling you… …he freaks out when you spend time with other people (especially men)… …or he starts arguments when things don’t go his way. And worse, your friends and family are starting to notice. They…

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4 Signs of a Healthy Relationship (He’s a Keeper)

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Have you ever been in a relationship that was so exciting, where you never knew what was going to happen next? One that felt like a roller coaster? That guy was totally unpredictable, wasn’t he? Him: Man, I love you! I just want to be with you forever… You: [totally smitten] I love you too! Him: …But…

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26 Soulmate Signs You’ve Found Your Forever Person

soulmate signs

From a young age, we’re conditioned to believe that finding our soulmate is the key to falling in love and living happily ever after (thanks, Disney). But what exactly is a soulmate, and what are some of the signs someone is your soulmate? Is it enough if you love each other and don’t want to…

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27 Ways to Appreciate Your Man and Give Him The Love He Needs

Whether you’re dating someone new or are in a serious relationship, learning how to appreciate your man will go a long way to building your relationship in a positive way. After all, who doesn’t like feeling appreciated? I can tell you from personal experience: when Jessica shows me that she appreciates me, it makes me…

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4 Ways to Make Him Worry About Losing You

how to make him worry about losing you

Do you feel like maybe your guy doesn’t fully appreciate you? Maybe he’s been pulling away lately and you don’t know what to do. So you’re trying to figure out how to make him worry about losing you as a way to get his attention back on you. There’s definitely a right and wrong way…

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What is Gaslighting? 11 Red Flag Signs He’s Manipulating You

what is gaslighting

You keep hearing this term “gaslighting,” and you’re wondering about it. People have even told you that you’re being gaslit. So…what IS gaslighting? In a Nutshell: What is Gaslighting? Essentially, with gaslighting, a person, usually a romantic partner, denies the validity of things you know you’re experiencing. “You’re imagining things. You didn’t see me with…

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16 Subtle Signs He is Talking to Someone Else

signs he's talking to someone else

You’ve been dating a man for a few weeks, and while you think it’s going okay, you find yourself looking for signs he is talking to someone else. You’re afraid to get too emotionally invested in this situation until you’re sure that he’s interested in you and you alone. Maybe you’re paranoid because you’ve been…

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How to Get Him to Commit By Pulling Away (Send Him THIS Text)

get him to commit by pulling away

So you’re dating a man who’s having a little trouble committing to you. It may sound counterintuitive, learning how to get him to commit by pulling away, but you’ll soon see in this video and article that it’s actually a highly-effective strategy for getting the right guy to realize you’re worth working for. In this…

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27 Real Signs of True Love in a Relationship

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After being single for a while, or after being in a relationship that hurt you badly, you’ve opened yourself up to love again. You think you might be in love with your boyfriend, but you’re looking for signs of true love before you say those three magical words. If you’ve been hurt before (and I’m…

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11 Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You (NEXT!)

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If you’re looking up signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you…I’m pretty sure you’ve already identified a few red flags with the guy you’re dating. Am I right? Spend your life chasing men who don’t want a relationship with you… ..and I promise you, you will spend your life as that weird cat lady…

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How to Make a Man Feel Loved: 6 Secret Strategies

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male Whether you’re at the start of a relationship…or are years down the road with this man…either way, you can always use tips on how to make a man feel loved. I mean, we all want to feel loved, right? And yet, sometimes we overlook what’s right in front of us and take that love…

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Why Men Fight Their Feelings and How to Get Him to Open Up

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Since the dawn of time, women have tried to figure out why men fight their feelings. They act one way and say something else entirely. Here’s an example of a classic male internal dialogue: Emotionally Open Him: Oh God! She’s so wonderful. I love being around her… Macho Him: Shut up! Don’t do it! Emotionally…

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3 Proven Tips On How to Get Over a Breakup Fast

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Women around the world are dying to know how to get over a breakup. They desperately want some magic pill or formula that will take them out of the heartache they’re experiencing. They want to forget the man that caused them so much pain. Does that describe you? Are you tired of crying over the end…

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3 Powerful Ways to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

Back in elementary school, when you liked a boy, you could make him miss you by ignoring him…or shoving him in the mud. Yea, that seems counter-intuitive to make a guy like you, but hey, it worked for the second-grade set. Now you need more stealthy and effective ways to make him miss you like…

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What to Do if He’s Ignoring You & Your Texts

what to do if he's ignoring you

Maybe you sent him a text saying “I had fun last night,”… … or you sent a flirty emoji… … or a ridiculous gif… … bit he didn’t respond back. It’s an icy dagger through the heart, causing panic, confusion, and desperation. What should you do in this situation? Do you call him to see…

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Should You Settle for the “Good Enough” Relationship?

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You’re not in your 20s anymore. You’ve had relationships that never quite lived up to the high standards you had in your head, and more and more, you find yourself alone. But being alone is hard. And being part of a couple is easy…usually. Studies back this up: being in a relationship makes people happier than…

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9 Red Flags That He’s Fallen Out of Love with You

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You’ve been with this guy for months or even years. In the beginning, he bent over backward to please you. Lately though, it feels like there’s a big disconnect between you. Is it just temporary, or should you be concerned that he’s fallen out of love with you? The sad fact is: people change. Feelings…

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13 Signs Your New Relationship Will End in Heartbreak

13 Signs Your New Relationship Will End in Heartbreak

Imagine if you had the ability to predict, with near 100% certainty, if your new relationship would end in heartbreak. Do you think you’d make the mistake of wasting weeks (possibly even months or years) of your time dating a guy who will eventually end up being “Mr. Wrong”? Probably not. Well… These 13 warning…

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3 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate And Finding True Love

3 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate And Finding True Love

My secret guilty pleasure… Relaxing with a tub of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream and watching back to back romantic comedies on Netflix. There, I said it. And I know I’m not alone. The only problem with Hollywood movies is that they ruin your expectations. I mean… When was the last time you actually experienced…

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DO NOT Marry a Guy Who Has these 5 Habits

DO NOT Marry a Guy Who Has these 5 Habits

Marriage. Statistically, it’s a coin flip at best and a crapshoot at worst. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t find everlasting love. And it doesn’t mean you can’t find it with a quality guy who treats you like the amazing woman you are. If getting married is something you deeply desire for your future, then…

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Why You Might Always End Up in Unhealthy Relationships

Why You Might Always End Up in Unhealthy Relationships

If you find that you’re constantly landing yourself in the middle of unhealthy relationships, there is a MASSIVE reason why. Even though this character trait is something that everyone admires in another person… … it’s murdering your chances of finding and developing the kind of healthy relationship you’ve been secretly craving. Discover what I’m talking…

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5 Ways You’re Preventing Yourself from Finding Love

5 Ways You're Preventing Yourself from Finding Love

I’ve been doing this for a long time, and have had countless conversations with people who are in all phases of life; men, women, single, married, divorced, and everything in between. These interactions have led to many insights, some of which include varying degrees of self-sabotage. Many of us have been jaded along the way,…

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Why Men Don’t Want to Marry You (REAL TALK)

Why Men Don’t Want to Marry You (REAL TALK)

Do you feel like you’re “Always the bridesmaid, but never the bride?” You’re not alone. It seems as though people are less and less willing to get married – or take much longer to do so. But the real question is, why? Is it that men don’t want to get married in general, or is…

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How to Let Go of Someone You Love

How to Let Go of Someone You Love

We’ve all been there… Watching TBS on a Saturday Night, while Facebook stalking an Ex during whatever Sandra Bullock movie has been playing on repeat for the past 8 hours. It doesn’t get any easier when you see pictures of him with someone new. And he’s happy. More happy than you are right now. Here’s…

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5 Phrases You Should NEVER Say to a Guy

5 Phrases You Should NEVER Say to a Guy

Have you ever had a conversation with a guy that was going great one minute, but deteriorated into a hot mess the next? Or even worse: You thought everything was going fantastic, and then — out of nowhere — he just ended it. It’s possibly because you said one of these five things: The occasional…

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How to Keep a Man from Cheating

How to Keep a Man from Cheating

You’ve hooked yourself a great man and the relationship is blossoming… but fears from your past relationships can sneak up on you. Maybe you were cheated on, or lied to in a former relationship that broke apart. “Will it happen again?” you may worry… Let me put your mind at ease, by teaching you the specifics…

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3 Phrases to Make ANY Man Feel Crazy In Love With You

3 Phrases to Make ANY Man Feel Crazy In Love With You

Have you ever said something to a man that just seemed to “trigger” a strong, loving emotional response? Maybe it was unintentional, or maybe you were using some of the scripts from my various premium programs. Regardless, words can be an incredibly powerful way to build a connection with any man. And in this week’s…

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3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men

3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men

Needy men are like vampires—and not the sexy kind. Here’s why: Guys like this will suck every ounce of energy out of you, because they depend on you for everything. -They depend on you for constant approval… -They depend on you for “ego-stroking” reassurance… -They even depend on you to make all the decisions in…

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3 Reasons Why Most Relationships Fail

3 Reasons Why Most Relationships Fail

If you’re like 97% of people out there, then the vast majority of your romantic relationships will fail miserably. You’ll date wayyyyy more guys than you’ll marry (let’s hope). In this week’s video, I have a special cameo from a woman who has literally witnessed thousands of relationships fail. She’s not only incredibly experienced in…

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Top 9 Dating and Relationship Advice Blogs for Women

The world of love is a scary one. Whether you’re looking for it or broken by it, we all need some advice and guidance once in awhile. Unfortunately, our friends aren’t always enough. They’re about as clueless as you and sometimes, it doesn’t hurt to look elsewhere. Love is a game and there’s rules and…

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17 Reasons Why He Might Have Pulled Away

Dating is stressful. To many women, it’s a lot like a roller coaster. One day he likes you, the next he’s refusing to answer your texts. One minute you’re having a great time, the next you’re stressing about if he’ll call you tomorrow. Women try and smooth out the bumpy ride by coming up with their…

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Why Good Women Stay in Bad Relationships

Why Good Women Stay in Bad Relationships

It’s a sad truism in life: bad things happen to good people. But when it comes to relationships, it’s important to remember that you ALWAYS have a choice to stay or leave. So in this week’s video I uncover five core reasons why a good woman might stay in a bad relationship.

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The Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in You

The Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in you

Have you ever met a guy and it seems to be going REALLY well, but then suddenly he loses interest? Or maybe you’ve made it passed the honey moon phase, and suddenly you feel him slipping away… If you’ve ever struggled with keeping a man interested, then this week’s video is perfect for you. In…

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Why Modern Dating is Better Than Old School Courtship

Why Modern Dating is Better Than Old School Courtship

There are “dating experts” all across the world claiming that present day dating is much worse than it used to be– I disagree. While some aspects of current technology and behavior can inhibit dating success, I believe we have come remarkably far from where we were in old fashion dating.  Society has changed the way we view intimacy, gender…

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The Only Relationship Standard You Should Have

The Only Relationship Standard You Should Have

Let’s face it—we all like to imagine we will stumble upon the perfect person. We select the ideal salary, appearance, intellect, personality and habits of this fictional character and then store that image in the back of our minds while dating. As harmless as this may seem, it can actually wreck your love life. I’m…

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The Best Friend You Want to F#%K

Everyone and their mother (literally) thinks they know the formula for the “perfect relationship”. Or worse, they know what’s the “perfect relationship” for YOU. If you google “What is the perfect relationship”, you get over 55 Million responses. How is anyone supposed to figure out who is the perfect match for them? Well in this…

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Why You Have To Love Yourself Before Anyone Else Can

Learning to love is like learning to walk. You start out bewildered and curious. You watch the people around you moving about in such a magical way, and you want to do the same. You start to model your movements after theirs, but you always begin with a crawl. Crawling means holding your own body…

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17 Ways a Woman’s Mind Can Be Sexier than Her Appearance

Smoking hot intellect.      She not only has opinions, but voices them confidently and openly.      She’s quick. Her humor is witty and keeps the people around her laughing and on their toes.      She remembers what others tell her and genuinely listens.      She has a taste for the more complex aspects of our culture. She can enjoy…

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5 Reasons Why Men Marry Certain Women and Not Others

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Marriage. It feels like an ancient tradition these days. But not this year…at least for me. I was in the wedding party for my two best friend’s weddings this year and it completely consumed my summer (in the best way possible). And the best part of weddings? Bachelor parties. Now as you might imagine on…

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10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You

Signs He's Falling In Love With You

Imagine this scenario. You start dating a guy casually and things are moving along “as usual”. You “hang out” every week or so, and you’re still trying to figure out whether or not it’s going somewhere. But after a few months, he starts to do some really CRAZY things. He’s erratic, he’s clingy, and he won’t…

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