9 Relationship Fears All Men Have (The REAL Reasons Men Fear Commitment)

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9 Relationship Fears all men have - ThumbRelationships are both wonderful and terrifying at the same time.

You’ve finally met someone that you can’t stop thinking about and want nothing more than to just sit at home, snuggle up and tell each other, “you’re awesome.”

But alongside the joy of a new relationship comes  an enormous amount of fear for a lot of folks.

So in this video I outline the 9 biggest relationship fears all men have. And this isn’t just based on my own experience (yes I have certainly experienced all of these fears at one point or another), but also based on conversations I’ve had with hundreds of men as they pursue new relationships.

Watch the video below.

Have you experienced any of these fears yourself? How have you dealt with them? Do you think these fears are logical or are they irrational? Please comment below.

Your Coach,



Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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5 years ago

I’ve definitely had the fear of vulnerability – it can be scary opening up.

5 years ago
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Adam, I don’t think he is coming back. He’s had a new girlfriend since March and I think I’m just out of luck. I’m on disability and don’t have much money to afford being and more relationship material. I don’t know what to do. i really loved him. Still do. Hopefully another guy will come around. Thanks for hearing me out.

5 years ago

Great video!! Really opened my eyes!

5 years ago

Adam, Another great video. I am in a relationship I am not quiet sure about right now. I am the one scared to be heartbroken because my life has been full of heart break. He wants to provide for me but I have told him not until we are ‘together’ for real. He said he admires that. Neither of us are afraid of change. I am just hesitant as I have expressed communication (even minimal) is important to me. I do spice up the love life and actually have a home based business that addresses just that. I would put… Read more »

Gi Gi
5 years ago

I had all these fears and experienced some of them from guys before. Now I think I should be fine 🙂

5 years ago

LOVE this one…that is so super helpful in understanding men…helps a lot of things make perfect sense now. Thank you!

5 years ago

I was dating a guy who definitely had the fear of a terrible past relationship and is still dealing with that heartache. Also wants to better provide for himself and relationship. So he decided to end it with me. We still talk regularly. It seems like most men in my age range are dealing with all 9 of those fears at the same time. It makes dating frustratingly difficult.

[…] might avoid intimacy because it makes you vulnerable. Maybe people say you’re afraid of commitment. You might prioritize everything else — friends, work, school, travel — above having a romantic […]

[…] might avoid intimacy because it makes you vulnerable. Maybe people say you’re afraid of commitment. You might prioritize everything else — friends, work, school, travel — above having a romantic […]

Jenine David
1 year ago

When you say “click here” to download on your little pop-up icons that appear on your video screen. You do mean click on the actual icon visible on the video screen and it should direct you to the download?

If so, then that doesn’t work. Otherwise, I am not understanding where to press these downloadable items .

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