3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men
Needy men are like vampires—and not the sexy kind.
Guys like this will suck every ounce of energy out of you, because they depend on you for everything.
-They depend on you for constant approval…
-They depend on you for “ego-stroking” reassurance…
-They even depend on you to make all the decisions in your relationship!
Ugh… this sounds like the opposite of what women ACTUALLY want, doesn’t it?
Well if you’ve been attracting energy vampires (AKA needy men) then you should know that there’s a reason why.
I explain exactly what’s going on in today’s video: “3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men.”
If you’ve been dealing with needy men and finding yourself carrying someone else’s emotional baggage then it’s time to nip that right in the bud.
Watch today’s video to learn why needy men have been robbing you of your mojo and what you can do about it.
So let me ask you, do you find that you only attract weak men? Leave a comment below.
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A weak man is someone who always depends on other people in his life. He can’t do anything on his own. His own self-worth is dictated by other people.
It is characteristic of a needy man to not make any decisions for himself. He’ll always complain about what other people aren’t doing for him.
He might know what’s right and what’s wrong, but he’ll still always end up choosing the wrong because he’s a weak person.
A quick side note, the same definition, of course, applies to being a weak woman.
Obviously in a healthy relationship, there’s a balance of both partners being strong and weak at certain times.
If you’re constantly finding yourself only attracting and dating weak, needy men, it’s time to look at a few possible reasons why.
1. You love taking care of weak and needy men.
If you’re finding that you’re always cleaning up their mess and sometimes enjoy cleaning up their mess… you’re always going to attract the types of guys who need their messes cleaned up.
2. You don’t leave room in the relationship for a strong man.
If you’re the type of person who needs to dictate every single thing that happens in the relationship, and you’re a total control freak, then you know what? The only guy who’s going to be in a relationship with you is going to be a weak and emotionally needy man.
Like I said, a great relationship has a balance of both strengths and weaknesses at certain times. Sometimes you just need to leave room for a guy who has some strength.
3. You don’t hold true to your standards.
Look, if you’ve got your shit together, keep at it until you meet someone who matches you and your level of dating.
If you’re really up there and have a lot of great things going for you, it may take a little while to find that great person who also matches your strength.
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