3 Reasons Why Most Relationships Fail
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If you’re like 97% of people out there, then the vast majority of your romantic relationships will fail miserably.
You’ll date wayyyyy more guys than you’ll marry (let’s hope).
In this week’s video, I have a special cameo from a woman who has literally witnessed thousands of relationships fail.
She’s not only incredibly experienced in understanding failed relationships, but she also gave birth to me.
Watch “3 Reasons Why Most Relationships Fail”
Have you ever had a relationship fail due to one of these three reasons? Please leave a comment 🙂
Speak to you next week.
Your coach,
Adam
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Summary –
1. Incivility
As a relationship progresses, people tend to just get really comfortable with one another, almost too comfortable. It’s really easy to become unnecessarily mean to your partner.
Some people just take one another for granted after years go by in a relationship. Instead of being nice and polite to their partner, some people just become mean about even the smallest things — eventually leading to a failed relationship.
2. You constantly seek the chase
A secure and healthy relationship is by nature a little bit boring because the chase is just gone.
Don’t allow yourself to get sucked into thinking that the thrill of something new is better. It’s not always the case.
If you’re bored in a relationship, it might just be because your life is boring. Chase excitement in your life, not always just in your love life.
Love is supposed to feel warm and safe. Without that, the relationship is likely to fail.
3. Alcohol abuse
Sadly, one of the biggest reasons for the end of a marriage or a failed relationship is alcohol abuse.
It causes you to make bad decisions and say things that you might not always mean.
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So there you have it, your three reasons why most relationships fail.
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Incivility – yes. It was at the end of a second long term relationship, every disgusting little habit he had got under my skin at that point! Alcoholism – yes. In both long my long term relationships, this was a deal breaker at the end. Constantly seeking the chase – yes, on my part! why were they so “into me” yet once they had me, didn’t bother after that? Now after the second failed long term relationship, I realize that having a full life outside of a committed relationship is SO important. And I see how important I want it… Read more »
Hello Adam, Thank you for sharing your mom, yes I get complacent in all of my relationships. I was married for almost 18 yrs, I had an affair dated the guy for almost 5 he broke it off he didn’t want to commit and after that guy I dated for a giy for almost two yrs I moved out because he was kind of mean but I was complacent in all of them. I am working on myself right now learni g and pealing back mire layers of myself, I want to be in a good healthy relationship. Thanks again… Read more »
My relationship fail miserable
Hi Adam.
My last long term relationship failed because he acted mean to me and was insensitive to some of my needs. I would overreact and would argue with him. We fought more then not. Although I loved him, I felt drained after being with him for an extended amount of time.
Adam, Thanks for all of your videos!
Boz for sure
Love all your videos you save me can you make one why men have like no joke 6 girlfriends why do they have so many and why do woman deal with it
Love your mum!
… Always listen to mummies! 🙂
Yes, thank you for all your videos. 🙂
Im at the end of a current relationship that Im choosing to leave. My boyfriend seems to lie often to a lot of family and friends and even random people and he cant keep up with his stories, as time went on he got to comfortable around me and really revealed this side with no intentions of facing that side of himself, even when I was open to exploring it! As he got comfortable he lost confidence in our relationship and in himself, and as much as I feel I have done everything he has requested to “fix” myself, he… Read more »
Thanks Mom! <3
(and Adam)
My relationship failed because he constantly tested me, you know, saying and doing stuff for the sake of ‘checking’ how I respond, perhaps because he thought I was like his ex (and if so, I should have been alarmed that he was not ready for a relationship yet).
Can Mama LoDolce be a regular guest?! 🙂