5 Phrases You Should NEVER Say to a Guy
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Have you ever had a conversation with a guy that was going great one minute, but deteriorated into a hot mess the next?
Or even worse:
You thought everything was going fantastic, and then — out of nowhere — he just ended it.
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It’s possibly because you said one of these five things:
The occasional slip of the tongue when it comes to saying something “weird” in a relationship is normal.
However, these 5 disaster phrases hit most men right where it hurts…
… and if the relationship is still fresh…
… saying just one of these tiny little phrases can turn him off immediately.
Your Coach,
Adam
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Summary –
1. “Are you just like all the other jerks I’ve dated?”
It’s easy to bring past baggage into a new relationship, but I urge you to clean the slate. Your past doesn’t equal your future, and the next person you meet may be just what you need. It’s important to start over fresh and not let your past baggage cloud your future. I assure you, you will find a better situation.
2. “We don’t hold secrets in this relationship… tell me… what’s your Facebook password?”
In a healthy relationship there won’t be many major secrets, but there should be boundaries. Most things shouldn’t be kept a secret… i.e. who you talked to today or where you’re going. On the other hand, there are other secrets that are perfectly acceptable, such as your phone code or your Facebook password. If you’re constantly asking for those types of things, then you need to work on your trust in the relationship.
3. “Yours is definitely not the biggest I’ve seen”
This phrase makes us feel insecure and we don’t want to imagine you with another man. In general, it’s best to avoid talking about the other men that you’ve slept with in the past.
4. “Are you sure you can lift that?”
Feeling emasculated will lower our testosterone levels and ultimately kill our confidence. That means you will be less attracted to us. Please avoid telling him what he can’t do. Instead, root him on and be his partner… because that’s what it’s all about!
5. “My life is soooo boring”
Sexy Confidence is all about creating a life that any guy would be absolutely drawn to. It means, you step outside of your comfort zone, try new things, and explore new ideas. If you think your life is boring, then it’s time to spice it up. Book a trip to somewhere a little bit crazy, or go to a speaking event and learn something new. However, don’t do it just to get a guy. Create your amazing life so that you can be a better person, and you will attract the right guy.
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Hi Adam I just met a very nice guy we had our first date was very good and he asked me to see me again so we had an second date in that date we talked about religion, politics and sex and I mentioned my 2 English ex boyfriend one at a time lol and he asked me was the sex good I said yes it was very good, after 2days he texted me and said you are lovely woman and very beautiful but I don’t see myself going further , I was hurt but didn’t show I texted him… Read more »
There is nothing wrong in what you said. He asked this question and you honestly answered. Most likely he was very insecure. Just move on. Something is much greater is out there for you!
You’re so awesome ! Thank you.
What is the tittle of your book you wrote for the guys and where do I buy it?
You’re right i would never say or expect to hear that especially the no secrets one with the facebook password thats real insecure it shows that you dont trust your man or woman from watching your videos i have picked up a lot and i still watch them on youtube !!!!
Do women really say things like that to a guy !?
I love the way you talk the way you move and all your groves
you’re a blast and a blessing :*)
Thank you coach..
Thanks for guiding some of us!
For over a year I’ve been seeing an otherwise great but commitment-phobe guy. We get close then he gets scared and bolts. I swear I am never going to see him again but then he somehow finds his way into my life again. I know he is attached to me but seems terrified of love. I now realize I have been guilty of three out of the five statements above (He actually gave me his FB password, I never asked for it and would never use it! I definitely respect his privacy as I would hope he would respect mine.)… Read more »
I met a very nice guy and there is a 12 yrs difference .I’m older then him…hr says he doesn’t have a problem with it.
We went out for 3 months before having sex and have seen each other a few more times. He doesn’t call, just text!
I feel like he doesn’t give me enough of his time. Should I mention this to him.
Hello ,
I’m from morocco ( north africa). Is it possible for me to buy your book ??