The Only Relationship Standard You Should Have
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Let’s face it—we all like to imagine we will stumble upon the perfect person.
We select the ideal salary, appearance, intellect, personality and habits of this fictional character and then store that image in the back of our minds while dating. As harmless as this may seem, it can actually wreck your love life.
I’m all for having dating standards, but a standard should be set to ensure happiness, not prevent being open to happiness from the start. Healthy relationships aren’t built upon a man’s height or wallet size, but rather the size of his heart.
Today I dive into the only real dating standard that should exist while you’re trying to meet new people and have the love life you seek. There’s definitely a right and wrong way to restrict your options in dating.
What standards have you learned to be most important in your dating experiences? What kind of situations taught you to feel the way you do?
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I would be thrilled to read your thoughts and experiences in the comments below, as we all of have such unique reasons for establishing standards.
Your Coach,
Adam
Well he makes me feel like a decent woman with serenity in her mind 🙂
Hey Adam.
I watched the video, I totally agree. I do have a question for you though. How important do you think sexual compatibility is in a relationship? Do you think its a standard to be held? Do you feel it is a deal breaker?
If the sex is bad I think it’s a deal breaker. The question is if there is any chance to improve?
I have the same question as Debbie as I often find guys who I feel good being around, but seldomly are sexually attracted to them. So should I sacrifice sexual chemistry to get a relationship?
Hi Christine,
You shouldn’t have to! You can meet men who you’re attracted to and feel great around, it’s just a little more difficult to find. Don’t settle. It’s out there for you 🙂
To finding love,
Sally Kathryn
Dear Adam, I love all of your advice, you give me confidence . You are spot on in everything you say.i am addicted to all of your advice . Thank you so much xx from Karen
I think this is spot on – I had some stupid rules about minimum income and only dating entrepreneurs and met and fell in love with an amazing man who has a way under my minimum income rule with a “regular” job. He makes me feel a million dollars though and I guess I realise now that my old values were definitely slightly “off” to say the least. The other interesting experience of mine was that when we first met I thought we’d never date long term as he was a deep thinker and much more quiet than me –… Read more »
I have had notion all my life of mostly 50 % of what you have said about dating males. I believe to have a healthy concept of my self as an overcomer/triunfant woman. I always choosed wrong so I awaited to be chosen and it was much worst. I believe at this point, I must continues single! Have been so for 9 years.
What matter is that he has a good hart,thanks to adam his exellent advize,we should talk to a man his hart,i captured my man his hart in a blink of an eye,all the rest doesent matter,a good hart and love of lasting kind,that’s what is important to me
He treats me with care and compassion…wants us to be long term but I can’t get past that he has females he talks to on messenger. I feel slighted and he doesn’t understand. Puts me in a negative mood and I’ve put walls back up. I don’t know how to get past this!!