5 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Love You [Walk Away]

signs he doesn't love you

Adam LoDolce

This article was written by a professional love strategist. If you want to learn the 7 Little Love Steps, click here.

Are you in a relationship and struggling to figure out if this guy really loves you?

When you’re crazy in love with someone, it can be tricky to see your relationship clearly.

It’s like you’re walking around with blinders on.

But there’s a reason you’re here.

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Something feels off. You’re not totally convinced he’s fully invested in you or your relationship.

And you deserve to know where you stand.

It’s not fair to live your life in limbo, bouncing back and forth from “he loves me” to “he doesn’t care.”

I’m gonna be honest. There are some obvious signs that make it clear he doesn’t love you.

But you have to be ready to hear them, take them on board, and be confident enough in your value to walk away.

Here’s where it gets tricky, though.

He might be saying all the right things he knows you want to hear.

But words are easy and cheap.

What do his actions tell you?

How does he make you feel?

These are the important questions to ask yourself if you want to know how a guy truly feels about you.

If it’s clear he has lost interest and doesn’t love you, then it’s time to say it with me, ladies:


You’re better than a guy who’s half-assing it.

You deserve real, committed love.

And if you’re ready, I’d love to help you find it.

If you’re still unsure if his love is real, drop me a comment below and tell me what’s going on.

I’ll break it down for you and help you figure out what’s going on.

The only catch is, I will always be 100% honest. So be prepared for the truth.

Your Coach,


signs he doesn't love you

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Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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7 months ago

Hey Adam! Thanks for this video (and for all of your videos and advice)! I’m in a weird situation. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. I actually broke up with him after 3 weeks, but then he begged me to come back. Things after that went well, then he actually stayed by my side when I almost died and nearly lost my leg two years ago. I stayed with family the first few months after that, but then he had me stay with him to be able to help me with my recovery. Everyone commented on… Read more »

MaryG Martin
7 months ago

Words are loving to disrespectful. 
Actions are he always plans for our frequent trips.
My feelings I love him but I am never sure where I stand. We have been together for two and a half years. 
We both agreed early on that neither one of us want to marry  again. I just wanted more than dates but not marriage.

7 months ago

Yes I know when they have lost interest but my problem is when I tell them I don bt to see them or heat from them they keep coming back

6 months ago

He was talking with some other girls online and once told me that he had feeling for other women. But now he is back with me just because of our baby and he told me that he want to fix our relationship but look like he definitely not want to.. almost every time when he is not sleeping he look on the phone, playing game or i dont know.. and when i want him next to me his eye go down hill right way.

6 months ago

Hi Adam, your web site is full of such good information. I’ve been involved with a man my age (we are both 51 and divorced). I’ve had a considerable amount of therapy to overcome codependency and abuse issues. I knew a new relationship would trigger some issues for me, but mostly I’ve been really pleased that I’ve set healthy boundaries and spoken up when there has been any issue at all. My boyfriend and I temporarily cohabitated during pandemic lockdown, and he looked after me when I had knee surgery. Everything was…amazing. We got along so well it was surprising… Read more »

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