3 Reasons Why Men Get Hot and Cold (+ What to Do Next)

One minute, a guy is texting you nonstop and trying to spend all his time with you…

…then he ghosts you for a week.

It’s f#%!ing frustrating, isn’t it? You and your girlfriends have no idea why men get hot and cold, but if you could only crack that code…maybe dating would be more fun.

Am I right?

In this video, I will share insight into men’s moods. Trust me: it’s not you.

So are you now realizing that why men get hot and cold really has nothing to do with you or anything you can change about yourself?

Some dudes are just orbiters, meaning they circle around you but don’t really add value to your life. Others just want validation and pop up when they need a little ego boost. That’s not your job.

Other men are just lonely. That’s far from unusual. In fact, Gen Z has been called the “loneliest generation in America.” Still, I don’t think that’s an excuse for shining attention on you when a guy is lonely and then going AWOL when he’s not.

Other times, it’s just a matter of logistics. He could genuinely be busy. What can you do about it? Nothing.

In general, I say that if a man is going hot and then cold on you…he’s probably not interested. A man who is into you will let you know in no uncertain terms. You won’t have to scratch your head, wondering if he likes you or not.

If a guy is confusing you with this behavior, move on. Get back to living your full life, and you’ll have space for a man who is truly happy to be in your presence.


Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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5 months ago

Again, another amazing video and you are spot on! I’m getting better at spotting the good from the bad thanks to you!

norma dargin
5 months ago

exactly what i say but need your validation, good job Adam

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