Find Him With the Little Love Steps

Follow our step by step methodology to build confidence, attract high value men, and build a relationship that lasts.

We’re told from a young age to “wait for love to find you.” But what happens if it doesn’t? We believe in taking action and have developed the 7 Little Love Steps™ to help you attract the relationship you desire.

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We find love intentionally

Hoping for Love (old)

The average woman waits for a man to come into her life with very little thought about how attraction works. Then she loses confidence if she’s unsuccessful in love, thinking that there’s something wrong with her.


Love Strategies (new)

We’ve developed a proven methodology that puts the woman in control of her love life. We provide a path of actionable steps to attract a high-quality relationship that lasts for the rest of her life.

The Little Love Steps™


Our step-by-step program will show you how to find, attract, and keep the relationship of your dreams. It’s not a fairytale. It's a proven coaching program for women.


Build your sexy confidence

In this first step, your goal is to tap into your feminine energy and recognize your value. The most attractive quality in a woman is when she deeply loves herself and knows how to position herself as a high-value woman.


Create your love vision

Next, it’s time to deeply reflect on the man and the relationship that’s compatible with your future. You’ll discover how to choose the right men and how to avoid the wrong relationship.


Start meeting quality men

You’re now ready to get out the door! Become more deliberate about where you’re going to meet men, and how you’re meeting them. Use your newly-learned flirtation skills to attract the high-quality man you defined in your love vision.


Qualify your options

It’s time to start going out with guys and exploring new connections. Don’t forget, you are in the power seat qualifying the man to see if he meets your love vision. Never chase. Remember, you are the prize he’s trying to win over. These men will begin to pursue you for a relationship.


Pace the progression of your connections

By this step, you’re talking to multiple men and exploring your options. This is when you slow things down even further, which naturally makes men pursue you harder. You don’t “play hard to get”, you are actually hard to get because you now have options. This step gives you the time to decide which man is worth exclusivity.


Set boundaries for a committed relationship

Now, you’re ready for an exclusive relationship with a man who meets your love vision. The very first boundary in any relationship is commitment. Learn how to have “the talk” and set the foundation of your new relationship. Without setting clear, healthy boundaries, the relationship is destined to fail.


Align the relationship with a shared life vision

You’re now in a committed relationship and are deeply in love with this man. Now it’s time to start building a shared life vision with your partner. We call this relationship alignment, and it requires ongoing communication skills to make the relationship last.

Comparing our two programs

Not sure where to start on your journey to love? Here’s a little chart that shows you how each program works.


  • Who’s this for?
  • Investment
  • Learn the 9 Emotional Attraction Triggers
  • Community forum to connect with like-minded women
  • Discover the Little Love Steps™ to Finding Love
  • Weekly new lessons with advanced strategies from Adam or Dr. Gary Lewandowski
  • 3x weekly group mastermind sessions with coaches
  • Unlimited support and feedback from coaches in a private section of the forum
  • Extra courses and content to help in all areas of love
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Who is Adam LoDolce?

Adam LoDolce is a world-renowned celebrity love strategist and the founder of Love Strategies™. Over the past ten years, his online courses have helped thousands of women successfully find long-lasting love. He was also the host of "Kate Plus Date" on TLC, helping Kate Gosselin find love. His love strategies are also featured on PBS, Glamour, MTV, Cosmo, Women's Health, and People Magazine for his practical approach to attracting love. He's also lectured at over 300 universities across the country on confidence, dating & relationships.

Tested and proven results

We don’t teach mainstream pop relationship advice. We provide powerful strategies that get real results in your love life: companionship, marriage, and long-lasting love.

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Learn how to find love without the rejection

Learn these powerful love strategies anytime, anywhere in the comfort of your own home.

Online e-learning platform

Watch inspiring and engaging training videos to learn proven strategies for love. Access the information from any mobile or desktop device anywhere in the world, whenever it’s convenient for you.

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Interactive private community

Finding love can get lonely when you don’t have a caring support system. Join an energetic group of thousands of other women who are following the same journey toward life long fulfillment in their love life.

Expert mentorship

Get personalized mentorship from relationship experts who can guide you toward a successful outcome. We provide Q&A calls, recordings, transcripts, and live streaming sessions to provide the ultimate support for your love life.

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Let's create your love strategy

Are you ready to attract long-lasting love? Watch this special training and learn how to attract long-lasting love.