How Do You Know You Love Him: 21 Signs You Have Fallen For Him

how do you know you love him

So you’ve been seeing this guy for a few weeks or months, and you’ve got one word on your mind: LOVE. But…how do you know you love him? Is it just infatuation? Lust? Hormones? Or is this actually turning into something real?

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How do you know you love him? Pay attention to the signs.

You find yourself singing Whitney Houston’s old gem, How Will I Know, in the shower:

There’s a boy I know, he’s the one I dream of 
Looks into my eyes, takes me to the clouds above 
Ooh I lose control, can’t seem to get enough
When I wake from dreaming, tell me is it really love

Okay, that’s super cheesy, but my point is: the question “how do I know if I love him?” is eating at your brain. So allow me to help you get to the bottom of this all-important mystery.

How do you know you love him? The following are signs you’re in love with him, so if any (or all) are true, then you probably do!

1. You Talk About The Future With Him

Next Halloween, we should do a couple’s costume.

Hey, do you wanna take a three-week road trip in the spring?

Our kids would be so damn cute!

Topics like these come up with your boyfriend fairly regularly, and he doesn’t run screaming. Neither do you. Huh.

The thought of a future with this guy is something you’re starting to take for granted as a given, which is a pretty good sign you’re in love with him or are falling in love with him.

2. Everything Reminds You of Him


You’re eating a peanut butter sandwich: This sandwich reminds me of Tommy. He eats peanut butter.

You put on your favorite green shirt: I wore this three days after my first date with Tommy.

You go out for tacos every Tuesday: Tacos start with the letter T! Just like Tommy!

These examples are a bit ridiculous, but they illustrate a point: if you have Tommy (or whatever your guy’s name is) on the brain 24/7, there’s a good chance you’re in love.

And this isn’t just me saying that when things remind you of him, it means you love him: Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University and a leading expert on the biological basis of love, found that people in love focused on trivial events and objects that reminded them about the objects of their affection. Likely, she surmised, this was due to elevated levels of central dopamine and a spike in central norepinephrine.

So if every little thing makes you think of your sweetie…yea, it could be love.

3. You Find Yourself Always Talking About Him

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Ask your girlfriends how much you talk about your guy.

You’re kinda disgusted with yourself. You’ve become that girl. The girl (woman, really) who talks incessantly about her man.

Tommy and I were at IKEA the other day…

Tommy loved that recipe. I made it for him this weekend.

I’ll ask Tommy what he thinks about that.

Thing is…you can’t help yourself! It seems like his name falls out of your mouth without you even meaning it to. You try to curb mentions of him to keep your friends from murdering you…but it’s a challenge. How do you know you love him? Ask your friends how many times you’ve said his name in the last hour!

4. You Re-Read His Text Messages & Scroll Through His Photos

It’s the weekend and you’re ready to curl up on the couch for a good read. But instead of picking up that memoir that’s gathering dust on the coffee table…you grab your phone.

You love reading through your past texts with your man. It’s like reading a romance novel. You love scrolling back a mile to when you first started texting to see what the conversation was like way back when. You enjoy seeing when he started sending that kiss-blowing emoji your way.

And while no one else will join you in watching a slideshow of Tommy Pics, you love nothing more than to flick through your photos to gaze adoringly at his face. Here’s Tommy drinking a glass boot of beer. Here’s a selfie of the two of you on the beach at sunset. Here’s Tommy sleeping (er…we might need to have a different conversation if you have one of these!).

And if you wonder why reading these texts and looking at these photos feels so good…science shows that when people look at photos of loved ones, there’s an increase in dopamine (that feel-good drug) in the brain.

So…yea. This is your brain on Tommy.

5. It Never Feels Like You’re Wasting Time With Him

How do you know you love him? Here’s another clue: every moment you spend with your guy feels significant…even if it wouldn’t normally. Maybe in your past life, you wouldn’t have been caught dead staying in on a Friday night and Netflix bingeing with a boyfriend…but now it seems like a fantastic way to cuddle up to the man that you adore.

Even watching him fix his car or play rugby with the boys feels like a good investment of your time. Never a dull moment and all of that.

6. You’re Constantly Curious About Him

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Being in love means constantly being curious about your man.

While you went through all the what do you do/tell me about your family/what are your pet peeves conversations early on in dating this guy, you’re still surprised to keep finding out little nuggets about him.

To me, this is the good stuff: all those thousands of little data points that help you really get to know someone you care about.

You find out he’s allergic to clams. That he makes a whimpering sound when he’s having a nightmare. That he’s oddly afraid of cats. That his dream career would be a sushi chef. None of these are very important in the grander scheme of things, but you find them fascinating, and they draw you closer to him.

7. You’re Comfortable With Making Little Sacrifices For Him

If your friends had told you a year ago that you would be waking up at 5 am every Saturday to go for a three-mile hike, you would have said they were insane. Yet here you are, training for a 5K with good ole Tommy.

Or maybe you quit drinking because he can’t drink. Eat vegan because he’s vegan. Whatever the sacrifice you’re making, you’re happy to do it…because you probably love him.

You’re happy to make these little compromises (and he does the same for you) because you know that they’re part of what makes for a happy relationship.

Just a note here: small sacrifices like the examples I gave above are fine, but know where to draw the line. If he’s asking something of you that makes you truly uncomfortable, like lying for him, know that this isn’t love.

No man who loves you would ask you to compromise your integrity for him.

8. You Feel Safe When You’re Around Him

When a man is open and communicative, when he’s loyal and supportive, a woman feels emotionally safe with him. You may have been scarred in the past in a long relationship or even a marriage, so trust and feeling secure are even more important to you now.

Ask yourself: does he make you feel safe, both physically and emotionally? Do you feel like he is your protector, both of your physical wellbeing and your heart? Would he do anything to keep you safe? If so, congrats. You’ve got a good guy on your hands.

9. You Notice Things That You Know He’d Love

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When you’re out shopping, do you see and buy things your boyfriend would like?

While you’re at the grocery store, you see the new Peeps Oreos and pick up a pack because your boyfriend loves all things Peep-related. Later that night, you tell him about a concert you saw an ad for online; it’s his favorite band.

It’s like you’re tuned into things that you know he’d appreciate, and it feels kinda awesome.

Again, it’s often not the enormous things that give signs you’re falling in love; it can be the smallest details like these.

10. You Lose Track of Time

One minute it’s Friday evening and you’re headed over to his house to spend the weekend together. You blink, and it’s already Sunday night. Where did time go??

Time flies when you’re in love. It can feel like there’s never enough time to soak up all of his energy, and you’re left wanting more. If only you could clone yourself so that you could both go to work and handle other aspects of your life…and spend 24/7 with him!

11. You Have More Energy

Since you started spending time with this man, you’ve felt powerful and full of energy…like you could conquer any challenge…climb any mountain.

It’s been good for other aspects of your life. Maybe you’re killing it at work, and your boss has given you a pat on the back for all your hard work. You’re working out more, and are in the best shape of your life.

The movie Conspiracy Theory might seem a strange place to find inspiration here, but read this quote:

Love gives you wings. It makes you fly. I don’t even call it love. I call it Geronimo. When you’re in love, you’ll jump right from the top of the Empire State and you won’t care, screaming “Geronimo” the whole way down. I love her so bad, I just… whoa, she wrecks me. I’d die for her.

You don’t really have this invincible I-can-do-anything feeling when you’re just in like. There’s something magical that happens when you start to fall in love that just amplifies everything you do. You are more confident. Heck, you might even be smarter. There should be a scientific study on the IQ of people in love!

12. The World Seems Brighter

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Being in love makes everything more vivid.

It’s like you upgraded from a 1950s tv to the latest and greatest 4HD tv. Everything is just…tuned up. You notice everything. The birds tweeting in the morning. The vivid colors of a sunrise. Science shows that your senses are amplified when you’re in love, so if everything’s in Technicolor lately, this is another of the signs you’re in love with him. Enjoy it!

If you’re looking for how to know you love him, just pay attention to the world around you and see if it seems more amplified than normal.

13. You Even Love His Faults

He chews with his mouth open. He farts in his sleep. He leaves his underwear in the middle of the floor. Any little quirk that drove you insane with past boyfriends is somehow…cute with this guy.

What gives? Have you lowered your standards??

No, my dear. This is one of the signs you’re in love with him.

You’ve realized on some level that these flaws are so unimportant in the grand scheme of things. That if he treats you well, it doesn’t matter that he leaves the toilet seat up. And accepting your partner’s flaws is an excellent sign of a long and happy relationship together.

14. You Can Talk to Him About ANYTHING

Not that you have many secrets…but there are a few things that you’ve never talked to anyone about. Maybe you were too embarrassed or didn’t have anyone you felt comfortable with sharing these things. But this guy? He’s different. You can tell him absolutely anything. No judgment. Nothing but support.

You’ve opened up to him in a way that frankly surprises you a little, and it feels pretty good.

Stop for a moment and realize how lucky you are to have found someone who you can trust enough to share your deepest, darkest secrets and thoughts with. Not everyone gets that.  How do you know you love him? You hold nothing back.

15. You Can’t Concentrate on Anything

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A woman in love can’t focus on anything but the object of her affections.

You’re not hungry. You can’t focus at work. When your friends talk to you, you can’t for the life of you focus on what they’re saying. You’ve been bitten by the lovebug, and one of the side effects is the inability to concentrate on anything…other than his handsome face.

It doesn’t matter if you’re 16 or 60. This is a common sign you’re in love with him.

Just remember though: if you put all your attention on him, it may overwhelm him. Likely he was initially attracted to you because of your well-rounded interests and general kick-assedness. Don’t give it all up to focus on the male. Keep on doing all the important things in your life. This lack of focus will eventually lessen.

16. You Relive Your Highlights Reel

As you fall asleep at night, you play a movie in your head. Tonight’s showing might be that romantic walk on the beach you had last weekend…

Or the mind-blowing sex you had last night…

Or the first time you kissed.

Netflix has nothing on the movies in your head. A woman in love often treasures the memories of her man — especially early in the relationship. Just don’t put so much attention on the past that you’re not fully present because there’s a lot of magic that happens in the moment when you fall in love.

17. You Share His Emotions

When he comes home from work, exuberant after an amazing win, you’re filled with delight. When he’s depressed that his dog died, you’re sad too. It seems like whatever he’s feeling, you feel. Could it be love?

When we care deeply about someone, we celebrate their wins and share their losses. It’s part of being a couple. So yes, if you feel like there’s a string tied from his heart to yours, then it very likely is one of the signs you’re falling in love…or are already there.

18. You Think About Introducing Him To Your Family

woman and family

You’re ready for him to meet those that are important to you.

If you’ve been divorced and have kids, you probably decided early on that you wouldn’t introduce any man to your kids until you were in love. And now…you’re starting to think it’s time to make the introduction.

If that’s not the case, it might be your parents that you’re eager to introduce to your boyfriend.

Either way, it’s a big step, since presumably, your family will assume things are serious if they get to meet this guy. They’re right!

19. You Want to Let Him Into Your World

It’s been so long since someone really “saw” you, meaning they were invested in really knowing all of you, the good and the bad. You want to show this guy the books you read. Let him listen to the nerdy Lawrence Welk music you love. See you in your furry teddy bear pjs.

When you first start dating, you tend to put your best foot forward and sometimes cover up the flaws. But you’re so secure with your boyfriend that you want him to see it all. Because to know all of you is to love you…or at least you hope.

20. You’re Not Worried About Scaring Him Off

In the past, you’ve tiptoed around men you dated. Maybe you didn’t give them your full sassy personality right away because it’s been known to scare men off.

But just like you’ve embraced his quirks, you know you can trust him to be okay with yours. You’re not worried about scaring him off. You’re confident that this one is here to stay, and that feels pretty damn amazing.

21. He is Your Go-To Person

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He’s the one you know you can rely on.

When you’re filling out paperwork at the doctor’s office and it asks for an emergency contact, your boyfriend is the first person that comes to mind.

When your car breaks down, you’re late for work, and you spill coffee all over you…he’s the one you call crying.

If there is an emergency or you just feel vulnerable, this man is the first person you turn to for support. And that’s how it should be when you’re in love.

Conclusion: How Do You Know You Love Him? You Just Do.

Be honest: you didn’t really need me to answer the question how do you know you love him. You already knew you did, but you wanted evidence.

Now you have it. And now that you’re ready to admit that you love this guy, consider your next step.

Obviously, you’d like him to love you back, but until you’re sure that he does, you may be nervous about having more feelings for him than he does you.

I know you want to shout I love you from the rooftops, but I encourage you to take your time. Get used to the idea of being in love, either for the first time or again, and let those feelings settle. Right now everything is like you’re on steroids. Intense. But as time passes, you and your heart will calm down a little.

But then…how do you know he loves you?

Give him time to catch up. If it’s meant to be, he will. Let him be the one to come to you and profess his love. From there, life gets even more interesting!

So tell me in the comments below: how do you know you love him? What signs are telling you that you’ve fallen in love?

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Sheena
2 years ago

I really like this guy he’s a singer in a band that’s local I can’t stop thinking about him I care about him alot I want him to want me he’s fit and IAM Not fit at all I want to be and he’s seeing someone I really don’t know what to do I know that I want to kiss him so bad I dream of him alot what’s up with me

You_gee
5 months ago
Reply to  Sheena

You are actually obessed with him, but chi_lax, if u guys are really meant to be lovers, he would surely come for u. Just keeping crushing but don’t make it obvious

Patti
2 years ago

Really? Because more than half of those things you gurus are always telling women are things we SHOULDN’T do. Like making sacrifices for him, thinking about him all the time blah blah blah. When are you guys going to start telling men to stop being assholes, to step up and follow thru with actions, not just say things because they sound good in the moment? When are you going to tell them that they need to grow up and start playing games? I am sick of all this double standard crap of telling women all the things we do wrong,… Read more »

Patti
2 years ago
Reply to  Patti

*stop playing games

Biscuit
1 year ago
Reply to  Patti

This isn’t demanding that we do these thing. This is saying that these are mostly the unintended things we do when we’re in love.

N.B.
1 year ago
Reply to  Patti

I agree with you on the double standard issue. Plus, the information they give is all from lust not love.

Violetta
3 months ago
Reply to  N.B.

What sites are you even looking at that say these things? If it’s such a problem, stop going to the sites. And they?! Who is they?! That’s so vague. You see, it’s your type of petty people that are the reason guys call us snobs. Woman up. If the website isnt cool or seems offensive, stop complaining and leave

Random Idaho Girl
1 year ago
Reply to  Patti

Maybe you should shut up. Not every guy is bad. You just chose the wrong ones. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be. The right one will eventually come along and snag your heart. You’ll regret your words once it happens.

Natalie
1 year ago
Reply to  Patti

Damn who hurt you?

1 year ago
Reply to  Natalie

A guy

1 year ago
Reply to  Natalie

the guy i love

Maureen
1 year ago
Reply to  Patti

Amen sissta!

Zoe
11 months ago
Reply to  Patti

Yooooo who HURT u patti??? U good orrrrr

10 months ago
Reply to  Patti

But there are always the guys that are not bad guys their sweet,kind,loving,and always wanting to know your feelings and care about even the mistakes you cause they love them about you. Maybe you should stop and ask why do you always feel that way? Or always feel anything you do you always end up with jerks see what your doing wrong and fix it because you might surprise yourself love can be in the strange places like at your job you can see him everyday and you will never know it. You also hate him in the beginning and… Read more »

shanu mariam
9 months ago
Reply to  Patti

exactly I agree with you
Men are total assholes
But it is just that some might be unintentional

shanu mariam
9 months ago
Reply to  Patti

I agree with you . men are total assholes
But it is just that some men’s attitude might be unintentional

Violetta
3 months ago
Reply to  Patti

Miss, you cant control if you think about someone too much. I actually believe this site, and I’ve been in love with my guy for 6 months and were happy together. And I do all these things. Plus the sacrifices are never big. You HAVE to make sacrifices in ANY relationship. Sorry, but you do. And if men arent following through with things or are a**holes to you, they’re ni good for you. And this page isnt made for changing men. To be honest, you cant change a person. You can only change yourself. And no one is telling us… Read more »

Violetta
3 months ago
Reply to  Violetta

None of this is even offensive. Like the Random Idaho Girl said, you’ll regret those words when yourself falls in love

Dilara
2 years ago

I was so shocked when I read the name Tommy because my boyfriends name is Tommy haha

Dani
1 year ago

He has gray hair, 6’5, blue eyes, lean figure and I could melt in his arms. He’s smart and intriguing, leads awesome conversations. He’s interesting, successful, unique, and totally capable of loving someone more than they would ever need to be loved,

1 year ago
Reply to  Dani

Dani, I know exactly how you feel. My guy also has gray hair, tall , but he has green eyes. I love him so much. He makes me feel safe. He always makes me smile.

Tina
10 months ago
Reply to  Dani

Yeah, and, now, I want to love him, too. lol

Nurhafizah Ahmad
1 year ago

I even shock that you used the name of Tommy as an example, the one that I love, secretly!

שיר
1 year ago

SAME!!! I passed out. Lol

1 year ago

Hi There
Whenever he stays around you, it gives you a sense of protection & security.

Random Idaho Girl
1 year ago

He makes me feel like no one can hurt me. I feel so confident around him, and I can’t help but to love everything about him. When I’m upset all I need to do is talk to him. He makes me happier. I feel like my missing half is with me when we are together. I feel like there’s no battle I can’t win. He’s my north star in the night sky. I always feel at home when I’m with him. I look at him and I see a future, with children. There’s just something about him that drives me… Read more »

Violetta R. Phoenix
3 months ago

My love is my childhood best friend. Hes taller than me, but he doesnt brag about it constantly, he has handsome eyes, his smile makes my day, and he loves me so much that I feel like a child with a crush at night when I dream about him. He loves me. And hes always honest to me. We both have a love for dogs. We have a basis of what we want our future to be. A few kids, a dog, ect. Also, to whoever says that it may seen too good to be true, me and him have… Read more »

Violetta R. Phoenix
3 months ago

So I know what you mean

Jenna
1 year ago

Most of that stuff defines lust, not love. When you can love someone without having to input “I” or “me” into your reasons, then its love. Dont love someone because of how they make you feel, feelings fade. Love someone because of who they are, because they are your equal regardless of your differences. Just my 2 cents.

Grace
1 year ago
Reply to  Jenna

well fuck ur 2 cents bitch!

10 months ago
Reply to  Grace

Grace you shouldn’t be so mean

Katie
5 months ago
Reply to  Grace

you could try being nice… just a thought

KD
1 year ago

There was this senior who i liked and i was a freshman. He had a gf that i knew because she lived by me. I get jealous all the time when i see them together. I always wonder why. I can talk to him about anything, tell him my deepest thoughts…even if it’s sex related, I always trust him, I always dream about him and me marrying..our future…sex life and how i would do it with him. I always talk about him all the time and i can’t stay mad at him….i always wanted to be with him but our… Read more »

Isabelle
1 year ago

Ok so this is going to sound completely weird and crazy but i’m in love with a dead person specifically 60s batman actor Adam west. I know your probably like what the heck is she talking about but it’s true. Since the summer of 2017 actually. Such a charming man who is sadly not alive anymore but was so batty * pun intended* so yeah sorta crazy but there are more crazy out there I’m sure. There is a point to this story though that is if you love someone don’t wait tell them . Peace

Tooti Von Rimple
10 months ago
Reply to  Isabelle

You are 100% correct. It sounds completely weird and crazy. Adam West died in the summer of 2017, right near the beginning of it. So, if you were his nurse or something like that, and, that’s when you spent time with him and got to know him, then, I guess what you are talking about could be a possibility. But, dead people do not exist, except in memory. There are no ghosts. Perhaps you are being stalked by a demon who is pretending to be Adam West. Perhaps, you need your hormone levels, vitamin and mineral balance, etc. checked as… Read more »

Grace
1 year ago

It’s ok. Let things go, just flow girl. He may or maay not com e to you but, there isnt anything wrong with u.

Oyekanmi oluwadamilola
1 year ago

I really like I have liked him since but m not sure he likes me back he said he loved me just because I told him he hurt my feelings can you imagine that I really want him

JustAGirl
1 year ago

The last time I listened to the advice of an article like this I was rejected. I’m just??? Gonna listen to my heart. If he loves you he’ll give you hints. He’ll essentially let you know verbally, or give you signs that tell you now is good to speak up.

Only YOU can say when you’re in love.

1 year ago

OMG. This article hits on every aspect on how I feel. Even down to the furry PJ’s. And incidentally his name is also Tommy.
Everything here absolutely is true about how I feel about him and do. HELP ME!! Please

שיר
1 year ago
Reply to  Mathuen

yepppp same boat. same name. lmao

confused broken girl...
1 year ago

did love actually come to me? I’m 16 and i know I’m too young but i think i love this guy even tho we just met. btw this story was actually like 3 weeks ago, the beginning of march. I had this one guy as my boyfriend for 4 months and everything was going well until I met this other guy in February, we first became friends and i guess i fell for him too soon and i didn’t wanted to hurt my current boyfriend at that time. then one day he confessed that he liked me because i was… Read more »

Quinnie Pooh
1 year ago

No, you are not a bad person “confused broken girl”. You always have to follow your heart. Your ex would have left you for the person he wanted to be with. You’re young, explore the world and don’t let any man hold you back.

Charlotte
10 months ago

Yeah, kind of. Not for being young and getting to know someone and trying to figure things out. No. But, the way you handled it with your boyfriend was pretty wrong and it sounds like you kept it wrong even after you and he were no longer together. It doesn’t make you the worst person. But, you wouldn’t have liked it if your roles were reversed, now, would you have? If you have to ask if you are a bad person for what you did, you probably already know that you did the wrong thing. I don’t think you are… Read more »

10 months ago

Your not young my mom got married at 16 and has been married for 32 years so you can love at any age.

1 year ago

Really very interesting article. These signs I can relate to. Thank you

Caroline
1 year ago

So this is an interesting story. About a year ago I became friends with this guy. I didn’t want to like him because he had a complicated relationship with this other girl. Both of our friends tried to convince us we need to date. Instead, I went and dated his best friend, ikr power move. Anyways, Andy (for confidentiality), moved away. I dated my ex for the summer and then broke up with him because I didn’t have feelings. Fast forward two months and I start texting Andy, who lives across the country, again just as friends. The more we… Read more »

Maelanny
1 year ago

Hiii! My name is Maelanny and I’m 20. So, I’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 months now. So far, I really like him. Compared to other guys I have dealt with, there’s just something about this current dude that made me feel so wanted and appreciated in a special way . Him and I talk a lot about the future together and how we someday want to have our own family and be successful. He basically have already met my mom and sis so I love the idea that I’m open to telling my mom when i… Read more »

Quinnie Pooh
1 year ago
Reply to  Maelanny

There is no certain time when you should say it back. It comes naturally. He could literally do anything and the desire to say I love you would overpower you, then you would know. Take your time, guys always rush these things.

Arletta Sloan
10 months ago
Reply to  Maelanny

Yes. When you feel like you know him well enough and that you need him. Not just like him, find him hot, enjoy his company, laugh at his jokes. When he makes you want to be a better person, at least in small ways. When you are not comparing him to others. When he is wanted and appreciated in a special way, not just for what he makes you feel like. When you respect him. When you want to change something about him, not because of a defect in him, but, to draw him closer to you. And, to let… Read more »

Mariah Allen
1 year ago

I think I love this boy named Nas. I have known him for almost 5 years. We’ve been talking for about 2 weeks now. But I always had a crush on him. I even fell in love with him. And I think I still am. I hope he feels the same way too. 🙂

Jenna Bo Benna
1 year ago

Roughly 45 minutes after I read this and identified with all of it, we had a small fight. Afterward, he told me he loved me for the first time. Don’t ever give up!!

11 months ago

Even tho i read the article but still im confused if i love him or not ..he is a lot younger than me im 26 and he is 20 ..6 years of age gap …I can feel he is really in love with me but im hesitating ..am i doing the right thing ?!?Should i be with him?

10 months ago
Reply to  Aida

No your fine with age in love it doesn’t matter the age just matters the love shared between each other

Susan
6 months ago
Reply to  Aida

I know what you’re talking about. He’s 5 years younger than and in love with me. But I’m not sure I feel it the same. I really like him so much, love doing things together, I think about him all the time and so on. But I’m also confused if it’s really love what I feel…

Francesca Bouivere
10 months ago

Good gracious! Admittedly, I skimmed over some of this. Mostly, because, I recognized within me some of the things metioned, so quickly, I didn’t need to read it all. But, even so, I read enough to know that it is not all about lust or all about telling women how wrong they are, or, telling men to run a game on the women. So, I don’t know what some people are talking about, at all. I mean, I do know what they are talking about, in the sense that I have certainly heard of double-standards, game playing, men who want… Read more »

Gigi calui
10 months ago

I dont love him but he loves me I guess. I fucking hate libras:( The second I even think about falling in love, Hes going to do something hurtful to keep my feelings in check

mary chinwe
9 months ago

I fought so hard not to fall in love with this guy,I tried all I could but ended up falling deeply for him but I am not sure of his feelings for me.I feel I am not his type of guy because we’ve dated for four months before seeing each other.I can’t do anything without thinking about him and I can’t wait for him to tell me he loves ,I guess that will be the happiest day of my life.I love you to the moon and back my Cuddle Bear.

akiva
8 months ago

i sorta came to this page knowing the answer, but after suffering my family’s reactions to him, they go so quiet, i’ve told them i love him, they were a bit cold about it, made me need confirmation. I know how i feel about him. I loved his voice and his music 20 years ago but had crushes on other people, (i was 18, he was about 40), i was 18 when i first saw his face, all i had was a cassette with his facial profile and never really saw how beautiful he was), i get a constant feeling… Read more »

Janet
6 months ago

He loves me and I really really like him too, but although most of the things here (17/21) are true for me I don’t feel I really love him… :/

Nick's
5 months ago

I am really in love with this guy we met back in 2013 when I was in form 2. It was q boarding school and he liked me. We used to meet at odd hours and make some stupid gay love. After school we parted ways n I continued with my normal straight life. Now during this outbreak of Corona virus I happened to go to upcountry and his home isn’t that much far. I wouldn’t think twice to spend the little cash I have with him. i really don’t know if he feels the same for me but i… Read more »

Amanda
3 months ago

theres this guy and i keep pushing him away but somehow we keep running back to eachother and theres something there but we cant find it

orah
1 month ago

there is this guy who was my classmate in high school his name is sam, after high school we met and we kind of hung out then we lost contact. few years later i got admission into the university and we met again but this time we bonded he shared everything about his life, his business and family i also shared mine and we sometimes lost track of time i can say that i was into him then i have never been in a relationship and i was and still scared of that. so i didn’t know that he liked… Read more »

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