Why You Attract All the WRONG Men
Do you feel like you’re attracting all the wrong men into your life?
If so, you’re not alone.
This is a super common complaint I hear among women today.
If you want to know what you can do about it so you can start attracting the RIGHT men, check out the video below:
In this video, I explain exactly why this has been happening to you and why you actually have more choice in the matter than you think you do. Do you attract the wrong men or do you choose the wrong men? Answer in the comments below.
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I hear this complaint all the time.
“Adam, I just seem to attract only the wrong men in my life.”
You don’t attract the wrong men. You choose the wrong men.
Who you date is always a choice, and if you’re always attracting the wrong guys, it’s time to take some personal responsibility.
Saying that you attract all the wrong men is the same as saying that you only attract unhealthy foods.
The reason you seem to get caught up with unhealthy relationships is probably the same reason you might get caught up eating unhealthy foods.
You allow short-term gratification to outweigh long-term needs.
That guy you meet who might be edgy, exciting, and slightly erratic will definitely be fun at first and might give you that short-term excitement you really want… but in the long term, you’ll be dating the wrong guy.
And because you’re short sighted, you always allow yourself to be blinded by all the red flags that existed in the first place. Whereas, that guy who might be a little bit more reserved, maybe even a little shy at the party (but seems to show genuine interest in getting to know you and potentially wanting a future with you) might not elicit that strong emotional excitement at first. But as you get to know him, he’ll make you feel great and help you become a better person.
Things like being caring, supportive, and honest are not necessarily the most exciting and attractive attributes in the world, but they do lead to long-term happiness.
So please stop blaming the interstellar universe for attracting and dating the wrong men. It’s no one’s fault except your own. Change the criteria of what type of men you’re accepting in your life, the type of men that are acceptable to you, and be disciplined enough to stick to it.
Choose to attract the right guy and stop dating the wrong men.
If all of your dating decisions are based on impulse, you’ll always end up attracting the wrong men.
Remember, you always have the power to choose who you’re with and the type of relationship it becomes.
So let me ask you, what kind of guys do you attract? Do you attract the wrong men or do you choose the wrong men? I want to hear from you in the comments below.
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