5 Reasons Why Dating Is Harder for Smart People

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Are you smart, or do you just THINK you’re smart?

Well, if you’re struggling with these five dating challenges, then chances are… you’re a genius.

5 Reasons Why Dating Is Harder for Smart People… watch it now!

If you’re like yogi and are smarter than the average bear, dating is going to be much more difficult for you.

In my latest video I break down 5 reason why this is the case.

#1 and #4 on the list are worth watching right now, and are likely the biggest reasons most intelligent women can identify with.

Hurry up and watch so you can join the conversation happening in the comments below.

Your Coach,

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Summary –

Ernest Hemingway said:

“An intelligent man is sometimes forced to be drunk to spend time with his fools.”

To quote myself, Adam LoDolce said:

“An intelligent woman is sometimes forced to be drunk to sleep with a fool.”

If you’re smart, dating might even be harder for you than for others.

Here are five reasons why:

Reason #1: You Tend to Over-Analyze Everything

Every other problem you have in life, you’ll be able to think through.

Not so with dating.

When it comes to love, it’s definitely not that cut and dry.

It’s not a formula.

If you find that you are constantly over analyzing every single thing in dating and relationships…

It might be time to just learn how to go with the flow just a little bit more.

Reason #2: Everyone Expects You to Have the Perfect Partner

If you’re an overachiever in every area of your life, you can work through anything and make it happen, except for finding a suitable partner.

You might work hard to be a doctor or a lawyer, successful business woman, but you know what?

That doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re going to have success in your love life.

Have patience and understand that you can be happy now being single and anyone who puts pressure on you to find love is an energy vampire.

They don’t understand that you’d rather be single and happy than married and miserable.

Reason #3: The Men You Meet are Usually Less Intelligent Than You

Let’s say you’re in the top 30th percentile of IQ.

A lot of men will really annoy you.

They will not understand you and they will easily get intimidated by you.

Finding love and happiness is important and maybe you won’t end up with someone as smart as you…

… but you’ll find someone who’s just really compatible with you.

Maybe they are the fun to your serious.

Maybe they are the relaxed to your stress.

Maybe they are the simplicity to your complexity.

Finding love doesn’t mean finding another you. It means finding someone who completes you.

Reason #4: You May Have Less Experience With Love

Smart people tend to have spent more time on their achievements than on relationships when they were younger.

Let’s get real here.

It’s pretty rare to be the valedictorian who’s also the prom queen.

Now, when you were younger, you might have spent all of your time going to college, going to grad school, getting your first job, finding a really high paying career.

Other people may have spent time really working on their social skills and building relationships with people.

Now is the time to really make this a priority in your life and put as much energy into learning your social skills, learning how to flirt, learning how to date and getting that experience as you would in other areas of your life.

Reason #5: You Feel Entitled to a Perfect Love Story

Yes, you may have the perfect job, but you might not find the perfect relationship.

Why, because perfection doesn’t exist in relationships.

You will find a relationship that is great, that is healthy, that’s going to make you so happy in life but, no relationship is perfect.

No man is perfect.

Although you might be a perfectionist in other areas of your life, it’s really time to open up and be able to explore other opportunities with people.

Don’t be so quick judge when you meet people for the first time.

Realize that the men that you meet may not be as smart as you but they may have other attributes that are really, really important and great.

Loosen up your criteria a little bit and explore other opportunities.

Explore other people.

Don’t forget to have a little bit of fun. That’s what this is all about.

Final Thoughts:

In what ways do you find dating difficult? Leave comment below.

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5 years ago

This is the best video you have EVER produced! Thanks Adam!

5 years ago

Thank you for this article it is very helpful!

5 years ago

Thanks Adam! Helpful! May I add number 6? Most men want to feel that they are at least at your level of ‘worth’ (in their individual perception) or preferably ‘above’ your worth. It makes them feel they deserve you, can handle you and are better than you. This makes them feel safe. If they feel that (in their perception) you are out of their league, they don’t feel safe and run away. The higher the level of woman they fall for, the higher they think of themselves. Risk alert: narcissists think very highly of themselves. Being in the top 2%… Read more »

5 years ago
Reply to  Caroline

This makes so much sense, Thanks Adam and Caroline for your reply. I always atract narcissists or men ghost me after they get to know me, a few say I am smart girl but don’t take things further…… Why didn’t I figure it out with my intelligence 😉

5 years ago
Reply to  Caroline

Small addition: I think that men want to feel better, higher, stronger than you because they feel they should be able to provide and protect. If they perceive you as bigger, stronger, higher, they feel unable to protect you and provide for you.

5 years ago

Yep! Smart girls aren’t as attractive to men as women who are more down to earth and worry more about how they look then how much they know or earn. I knew such a gal many years ago who, as far as I know, never married, but was a very good professor with a masters, CPA, and a law degree. She intimidated weak men who might have been her peers academically, but couldn’t handle an intelligent woman. Was she lonely? Yes, but she chose her life’s pathway and made the best of her talents and abilities.

5 years ago

thank you Adam it really sounds great in my life,thank you for the advise.

5 years ago

This is baloney. I’m smart, sexy, and emotionally aware. My intelligence is attractive. I do not over analyze things. I am free-spirited. I am not inexperienced. Please removed this dumb video.

Camilla E.
5 years ago

Hi Adam I am one of the women you are talking about. With an IQ of 148, duing a master degree in engineering, Ambassador/president for a subdepartment in an international student organization and soccer coach/player. And I just want to add: women in this position DONT have trouble attracting men of all kind. Actually the opposite. I am still single because of one reason: I chose it. I am the one not jumping into a relationship anymore and I am definitely not inexperienced. I need the butterflies in my stomach first. Anyway, well educated men with high IQ and different… Read more »

2 years ago

This was helpful

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