Does He Deserve You? 5 Signs He’s Your Emotional Equal

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Have you ever gone on a date that left you feeling utterly disappointed? Maybe his online profile looked promising, but in person, he turned out to be… less than ideal. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with someone who has unique quirks or interests, if you’re part of the love strategies community, you’re likely seeking someone who’s done the inner work – someone who’s on your level emotionally.

Marrying someone who’s not your emotional equal is like working at McDonald’s when you have a Ph.D. Sure, you can do it, but you’ll be bored out of your mind and exhausted from flipping emotional burgers every day just to make it work. Trying to change a low-value guy into your emotional equal is like turning a fast-food patty into filet mignon – it’s simply not going to happen.

So, what should we look for in an emotional equal? Let’s break it down with the help of our imaginary friend, Chris Pratt (or at least, his cardboard cutout):

1. Empathy (E)

Empathy is the ability to sense your emotions and imagine what others might be thinking or feeling. While women tend to be slightly more empathetic than men (about 11% according to a UK study), the gap isn’t as wide as you might think.

When you’re with your emotional equal, you’ll feel in tune with one another because you’re both sensing when something is off. On the flip side, being with someone who has a low EQ can leave you feeling constantly unheard and misunderstood.

2. Quality (Q)

An emotional equal strives for excellence and integrity in all aspects of life. This doesn’t mean he has to be a snob or only enjoy luxury experiences. What matters is that whatever he does, he does it well and puts his heart and soul into it. This approach to life is often a good indicator of how he’ll show up in your relationship.

3. Unity (U)

A healthy relationship is a partnership that extends beyond just chemistry and sex. It’s about commitment, mutual respect, and understanding. Your emotional equal will share your values and vision for life. He’ll be your ride-or-die partner, offering a level of trust and security you won’t find elsewhere.

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4. Ambitious (A)

Your emotional equal should be pursuing goals with determination and passion, just like you do. If you have aspirations and he doesn’t, you risk outgrowing him over time. Look for someone who isn’t content with the status quo, who has a vision for his future and your future together. His ambition should be fueled by passion for you and for life itself.

5. Leader (L)

While emotional equality is crucial in a relationship, your emotional equal as a man will take the lead early on in the dating process. He’ll plan ahead for dates, want to move things forward, and fight for you if necessary. This doesn’t mean dominating the relationship, but rather showing initiative and commitment.

Remember, finding your emotional E.Q.U.A.L. isn’t about perfection – it’s about finding someone who matches your level of emotional intelligence, ambition, and commitment to personal growth.

Are you looking to attract your emotional equal? What other qualities do you think are essential in a partner?

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1 month ago

This was excellent advice!

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I wish I would of come across this years ago and it definitely would have provided me insight about a shell. No intuition when something was off, happy with the bare minimum and had no logical or realistic goals. I wore out being the fixer, the backbone, the intellect one.

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Last edited 1 month ago by gratorama
1 month ago

In every area of life, an emotional equal aspires to be the best version of themselves. This in no way implies that he must be a snob or limit himself to high-class activities. What really counts is that he gives his all to whatever he does.

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