4 “Desperate Girl” Signals That Turn Guys Off

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Are you giving off desperate girl signals?

While you’re trying to attract a great man, are you, in fact, coming off as a little cray cray?

You may think that you’re showing off how confident and sexy you are…while men are actually turned off by how you’re acting.

I’m going to share four desperate girl signals that immediately turn men off, and you know what? You may not think that you’re doing these things, but watch this whole video, because it’s possible you’re guilty of one of them.

Once you identify any behavior you might not have realized you were doing, you can change it and actually find a better way to attract a man.

So, what do you think? Are you putting too much energy on a guy before you even know he’s into you? Are you texting more than he is, coming off as too aggressive?

Are you trying to get a guy’s attention by posting on social media, showing off how much fun your life is? Or are you guilty of the most common desperate girl signals, oversharing when you’re drunk?

Don’t be embarrassed if you’ve done one—or all—of these desperate girl signals. The key is recognizing your crazy behavior and changing it!

I get that you want to communicate your interest in a man, and that’s all good. But there are more subtle approaches to relaying your interest. Work on those.

Talk to me in the comments below. Which of these desperate girl signals are you guilty of? Don’t be shy!

Your Coach,

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Adam LoDolce

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Jennifer
7 months ago

Haha love it! Thanks Adam for another great video

JOY
7 months ago

THANK YOU, I GET

Ella
7 months ago

Nice on learned a lot

Andrea
7 months ago

I think I text him too much

NENE ThabadOne
7 months ago
Reply to  Andrea

Yes lady me too……

Vivian
7 months ago
Reply to  Andrea

This has been my biggest weakness

andi
7 months ago
Reply to  Andrea

I’m guilty of this…..now that i’m more conscious of it ….i’ll tone it down!

Amy
7 months ago

Haha. Thanks!! Guilty drunk girl here! ‍♀️

Jennifer
7 months ago
Reply to  Amy

Haha we’ve all done it

Cindy Smallwood
7 months ago

Good video

Olabisi
7 months ago

I love this video I think I text him too much

LaDonna
7 months ago

Double whammy…text and the drinking thing but after it happened twice, I toned back on the drinking. I had two weeks of “let loose” and #4 happened.

Donna
7 months ago

I’ve just done the double texting!!!!!!

Gargi
7 months ago

Multiple text

Vivian
7 months ago
Reply to  Gargi

You got me

NENE ThabadOne
7 months ago

Im definitely guilty of the double texting

Doreen
7 months ago

Haaaa i like these video yes i did post pictures of my self on social media. Thanks Adam!

Mimon Annie
7 months ago

It

Mimon Annie
7 months ago

I think I am guilty of double texting

Brooklynn
7 months ago

How do I break up with my boyfriend who is to Sensitive

Antonia Babin
7 months ago

Yeah I have texted alot more than he does for sure. Well if less is more cool. Must mean I need a hobby.

Andrea
7 months ago

Just the double texting sometimes. I’m too old for these games .

Jasna Dzombic
7 months ago

I have dated a great guy for about two month. In the begining he was madly in love but after i done all of those four signals during our time at some point he broke up, saying it’s a bit too much and he is not ready for the relationship..
Jasna

7 months ago

I love that these videos are short. I can pay attention.

I have double texted probably the most of these. It is embarrassing that I have done a lot of what you’re talking about. My first time reading or watching you.. I was shakin a bit, what an idiot I have been. What assholes men can be.

Vivian
7 months ago

Oh my! Am so guilty of quadraple texting and using social media to get his attention. I have to change this like yesterday

Mary Collazo
7 months ago

Thanks Adam always great

Ana
7 months ago

Double texting has been my biggest mistake… I will be more aware of not doing this again… Thanks Adam for this great advice I needed this!

Lynne Warner
7 months ago

Good golly miss Molly! It’s drunk over sharing Bingo
But honestly some dudes don’t have a real combination. I had a guy ask me tonight “why haven’t I reached out?” In my mind last we conversed it was almost a month ago and I had sent 3 texts in a row. Feeling remorse I didn’t reach out again and neither did he so I deleted his number. It works…But tonight that same guy said he likes when I woman contacts him…Ummm wtf. The emails and videos have given me a sense of empowerment. Thank you Adam

Julie DiMenichi
7 months ago

I’m guilty of double, triple texting

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