Are You Emotionally Unavailable? 2 Subconscious Signs You’re Pushing Men Away

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Finding a lasting and fulfilling relationship can be challenging, particularly if you’ve consistently approached love in the same way. While you may feel you’re offering a lot to your relationships, there’s a chance that you’re emotionally unavailable. Here are the signs.

Sign #1: Misdirected Emotional Investments

Be mindful of where you place your emotional energy. Only spend it on partners aligned with your relationship goals. Pursuing relationships with no future potential can divert you from the path to true partnership. Your focus should be strategic, patient, and disciplined.

Sign #2: Emotional Entanglements

There are traps to watch for:

#1. Lingering feelings for an ex can prevent new connections.
#2. Settling for a partner who’s just “okay” can leave you stuck.

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Don’t settle for less than you deserve. Acknowledge these pitfalls and clear your emotional slate. This makes room for genuine connections.

Mindset Shift: Understand Relationship Opportunity Cost

Think of it like this:

-Investing in one stock means not investing in another.
-Extra hours at work could mean missing a favorite activity.

The same goes for relationships. Time and energy spent on one person could have been directed toward another potential match. Saying yes to unfulfilling relationships might mean saying no to better ones. Letting go of past mediocre connections allows for new, promising opportunities.

To truly open yourself to new love, adopt the “Burn the Boats” strategy. Fully commit to your future goals, leaving no room for the past. This approach ensures you’re available for the relationship you truly deserve.

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9 months ago

I think that sometimes you can look forever for someone if you don’t “settle” for a partner who ticks off the majority (but not all) of the boxes.

9 months ago
Reply to  Marcia

I do understand this as well…

9 months ago

Good teaching. I enjoyed it

9 months ago

I have a great saying, I would rather be left on the shelf than put in the wrong cupboard!

9 months ago

Love you guys. You are spot on!!

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