Are you endlessly curious about dating dynamics, relationship psychology, or simply love learning about yourself? If so, you’re in the right place. We’ve all scrolled through those online quizzes that promise to reveal something profound about our personalities. But what if there was a quiz that was not only accurate but genuinely helpful for your love life?

We leveraged an incredible, unfair advantage to create just that: data from over 46,000 women just like you. We understand the frustration of wondering, “Is it me? Why do I keep attracting the same kind of drama or feeling stuck?” The truth is, you’re not alone. Everyone has a type – and we’re not talking about your usual preference in partners. The first step to breaking old patterns is always better information.

What Exactly is an Attraction Archetype?

An Attraction Archetype reveals your unique relationship patterns. It uncovers the types of partners you’re consistently drawn to, the kind of energy you naturally attract, and the common challenges you face in love. Understanding your archetype empowers you to:

• Break free from repeating patterns.

• Leverage your natural strengths.

• Attract the fulfilling, lasting relationship you truly desire.

The Process: Data-Driven Insights

To develop this understanding, we dove deep into a dataset of over 46,000 client experiences from the past decade. This anonymous data included detailed descriptions of their situations, fears, and challenges. Using a method called content analysis, we sifted through this seemingly messy information to identify consistent patterns, extract core themes, and match them with specific outcomes and growth opportunities.

This extensive analysis allowed us to create a proprietary assessment tool — something truly unique. Once you know your archetype, we can:

• Predict your specific challenges.

• Identify your key growth opportunities.

• Pinpoint your Key to Lasting Love.

• Help create a personalized plan for your dating journey.

While we can’t go through the entire personalized assessment here, you can take it yourself at AttractionType.com. Even we (Gary and Adam, your hosts) took the assessment, and it was incredibly insightful! Gary is a Nurturer (recovering romantic), and Adam is also a Nurturer. You might be wondering, what are these types? Prepare to be amazed by how accurately they describe you.

The Quiz: Your First Step Towards Transformation

Understanding your archetype is a powerful first step because it provides crucial awareness. However, information alone isn’t enough for transformation. If it were, everyone would have perfect health, dream jobs, and robust investment portfolios! Be careful not to let information gathering become a smart person’s preferred method of procrastination. True success comes from a bias toward action.

When we work with clients, we follow a clear process:

1. Identify their archetype using our assessment.

2. Outline key challenges, growth opportunities, and keys to lasting love specific to their type.

3. Build a customized action plan with clear, actionable steps, so they never feel lost.

The Four Attraction Archetypes

While it can feel like your dating challenges are endless, we’ve distilled them down to four core archetypes, each with unique strengths and paths to fulfilling love:

• The Nurturer (37%): A deeply caring, selfless partner who thrives on making others happy. Nurturers often struggle with boundaries and can lose themselves in relationships, attracting partners who take more than they give.1 Their path to lasting love involves prioritizing self-worth, setting clear limits, and choosing love that reciprocates.

• The Visionary (5%): Strong, independent, and rare, this driven woman values freedom and success but secretly longs for deep connection. Visionaries can be misunderstood or intimidating and often build walls to protect themselves. They need a partner who respects their power and offers emotional safety without attempting to control them.

• The Romantic (19%): Soulful, passionate, and emotionally rich, Romantics seek deep, lasting love. They tend to idealize partners and fall for fantasy over reality, which can lead to heartbreak. Their key to lasting love lies in developing discernment, seeking steady love, and finding someone who truly matches their emotional depth and sincerity.

• The Phoenix (39%): Resilient and wise from past pain, the Phoenix is protective of her heart but ready to love again. She often carries wounds that make trusting difficult and can over-read potential threats. The Phoenix needs healing love – a partner who is safe, present, and capable of meeting her strength with profound depth and care.

Which archetype resonates most with you? Understanding your unique pattern is the first step toward a more fulfilling and intentional dating journey.