1 Rare Quality ALL Men Secretly Want In a Woman

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There is a lot of good in the world that’s come from our faster paced society.

Unfortunately, there are always two sides to every coin.

While we’ve been connecting with each other in a lot of ways, we have also been disconnecting. We’ve been losing sight of what really matters.

In this week’s video, I want to talk to you about the ONE simple quality that a lot of people (men AND women) lack these days – but ALL of us want. Check it out below.

So tell me, what is a quality that YOU look for and is hard to find these days? I’d love to hear about it in the comments below.

Thanks so much for watching and for all of your support.

Your Coach,

Summary –

There are a lot of complex conversations I have with the women I work with, and there is a common theme in what they want to know… WHAT DO MEN WANT?

I’m not talking about the basics or tangible things, but ONE quality that is hard to find in today’s society.

I certainly don’t want to generalize everyone, but I think we can all agree there is a severe lack of one quality in today’s society…

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By ‘depth,’ I mean people whose personality is as attractive as their appearance, or even more so. They are looking to have meaningful discussions and don’t get caught up in the glitz and glam of today’s consumption culture.

Depth, class, integrity… whatever you want to call it – Men are searching for women who they can picture as an equal part of their life. Someone who they can share their passions with and really connect with. Someone who they can have meaningful conversations with and never get bored.

This is what’s missing in many people today. Not just in women, but in men as well.

The point is, without depth we are going to continue along the path we are already on – the hookup culture that judges people on looks and the “In a Relationship” status updates on Facebook that don’t really matter.

We need to take the time to BOND with each other and develop ourselves EMOTIONALLY. This is the ONLY way we will be able to truly relate to each other.

When someone asks me what men want in a partner, the first word that comes to mind is: Depth.

Depth is going to allow a connection to form between two people and help them cultivate a strong relationship.

Yes physical attraction is important, but it is not strong enough to bring a couple through hard times. It is not important enough to build a foundation on and make someone want to commit to you.

As a society, we spend too much time emphasizing the importance of improving the body and not enough time improving the MIND.

Needless to say, I’m speaking in generalities here. There are thousands upon thousands of great people in the world whom have the depth others desire. The only problem is it’s hard to find.

To the women who possess this amazing quality – stand up, because men are wanting and looking for you.

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5 years ago

James that is exactly what l would love to find!! The spiritual, emotional deep connection that makes you wake up every day exited to spend time with that soul, your best friend and confident.

5 years ago
Reply to  Karina

I totally agree!

dan ellis
5 years ago

I find too many women are emotionally unstable so getting to know them is almost impossible. This is in the age of 50 through 70’s.

Barbara Ann
5 years ago


5 years ago

I want somebody who will not pretend to be who is not, whose actions will speak louder then words. A true gentleman. Supportive guy. Who will sincere love me. Someone who will be able to show me good example if I trip to. My kind of hero.

5 years ago

*laugh gently* Someone who will at least BE PRESENT in THIS world when he’s having a meal with me, instead of being immersed in the gaming world.

Thank you for your lovely thoughts.This is what exactly what I was looking for.A relationship is never a one way direction.It needs to be equally responded.I find sometimes my soul mate very hard and unpredictable to understand her mind.But not always me,she needs to try to read my thoughts.A man also want to find out something in a woman.Love is a word that comes true in loyalty,honesty and respects between each other with trying to discover each other everyday with different approaches.Just like an adventure.

5 years ago

Women are unpredictable I guess.From those men who are introvert like me often faces problems due to the reason.But to adjust in such case are also possible.Just be loyal and honest to her and achieve her.

Annie Ali
5 years ago

BEAUUUUUTIFUL! This is exactly what I and I am sure many women out there want to hear and are looking for! The society unfortunately has become sooooo fake and lifeless nowadays that people have LOST the indepth meaning of a TRUE healthy relationship People have become shallow and empty! Very superficial and materialistic if you want to put it that way! But by you uploading amazing videos like these your great message is surely to be reached to ALOT of men and women who can fully relate to this! So I would just like to say A BIG THANK YOU… Read more »

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