5 Situations When You Should NEVER Text a Guy
Lasting Love is the result of a powerful strategy. Ready to get started? Click here to learn the strategy (it's free)
Hey you!
Put the phone down where I can see it.
Don’t. Type. Another. Word.
Ok…
… now slowly pick the phone up…
… delete every word of that text…
Editor’s note: Ready to attract love with a proven strategy? Watch this free video to learn the 7 powerful steps
… and put the phone away.
I just helped you avert a texting crisis.
Now, make sure you can avert the rest on your own by checking out my latest video…
… 5 situations when you should NEVER text a guy.
It’s not always easy to know when it’s the right time to text a guy…
… but there are certain times when it’s definitely NOT the right time.
Watch this video to find out about these 5 situations.
Save yourself the embarrassment, agony, and time.
Your life will be better after this video.
Your Coach,
Adam
P.S. If you want to learn exactly WHAT to text him in the RIGHT situation, then you have to download these 100+ love texts. They’re guaranteed to blow his mind.
Summary –
1. You Need to Have a Serious Emotional Conversation
I get it, real deal conversations are scary and they are especially scary when you have to do it in real life… but you have to do it. You have to push for those moments where you’re a little bit nervous, and rather than taking the “easy way out” and talking about your feelings and your emotions by text, you have to do that in person. Because so much of communication is lost when it’s over text.
So much of what you’re saying is through your body language, and it’s really how you say it. You can show that you’re really listening to them rather than the fact that it takes you seven seconds to respond, right? Wait and talk in real life, don’t take the easy road out.
2. When You’re Really, Really Drunk
Back when I was single, drunk texting was actually one of my favorite past times. “Hey baby, why don’t you just come over and I’ll caress you until the break of dawn?” But then I’d wake up the next morning and read the texts that I sent that night and it just says, “Want to get nasty?” … Not hot, didn’t work.
Now obviously, if you’re in a committed relationship or you’re together, you’re going to drunk text… that’s natural. But if you’re single and you’re drinking, use that time to go out and meet new people while you’re out, rather than texting with some dude from Bumble or Tinder that you messaged earlier that day. The only caveat is if you’re just trying to meet up and all you’re doing is texting logistics, but beyond that, avoid the drunk texting – it only ends with sadness and awkward morning reading.
3. When You Have Nothing that You Want to Say and You’re Only Looking for Validation
Guys have Spidey senses about when a woman texts us only looking for attention. If there’s literally no purpose to your text and you’re always initiating these kinds of purposeless texts, then you may want to go back out there and get a life in the real world.
4. When You’re in a Fight
As the internet age has progressed, I’ve noticed one thing about human nature: we’re way meaner by text than we’d ever be in real life. Now if you’re in a fight with someone and he keeps texting you, just answer with: “Look, how about we grab a cup of coffee later and just work this out?” What you’re doing is transitioning the fight from text to real life. It sounds really simple and it is, but a lot of us are guilty of just laying into someone and diving into the fight even further. The best thing to do is nip it in the bud, go meet that person in real life and work it out in real life.
5. You’ve Already Texted Him Today and He Hasn’t Responded Yet
Do you want to know the easiest way to turn a guy off even if he’s hundreds of miles away from you? Texting him multiple times during the day. Sometimes guys are just really busy and if someone hasn’t responded yet, there is a reason.
If it’s gone multiple days and they still haven’t responded yet, unless you’re worried that something might seriously have happened to them, there’s no reason to do anything except maybe call if you’re actually concerned. Don’t do the multiple texting, okay? He’s seen your text. He’s read it. He knows that it exists in the world, he just hasn’t had a chance to respond. Please don’t be the double-texter.
[Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://lovetexting.com/]
Thank you
Lol true thanks
I have been guilty of most of these myself . What I did to change it was to learn more to like myself and that did the trick. I must admit I slip up from time to time , the more I respect and care for myself the behavior drifts away….. thanks again and I LOVE watching your tips every Thursday!
Thank you ! Great advise ! You’re SO awesome
iI am new to texting . so i do not do it often. my Bf texts me i will respond to it but i rather talk face to face. call me old fashioned. but i need the connection to see his face. to know if i can read him right Maybe it is because the phone can hide stuff too. but. i need to see him in the eye to know . he is not lying t o me. so i do not text every day or-every week . most of the time it is to say pleasant things or… Read more »
Additionally, if a guy is brave enough to text something inappropriate, I just don’t respond.
Thanks for all the tips. I really enjoy your videos:)
Stephanie
Word
My bad I’ve done 4 of 5 texts!
Thank you! I am off the ledge now
Hey Adam .. I totally enjoy all your sexy confidence advice and video clips.
And yes… I am guilty of all five of these texting nightmares. I’m in a long distance relationship and always feel like I’m not as much as a priority to him because I’m not there in person. I love attention. And love getting and having his attention. Sometimes I do crazy things …
Thank you for being there for me.
Denise
It is all correct. But not everyone can do it. For many it is easier to be said then done.
To follow this rules it takes brain, self-control, emotional stability… But being in all these difficult situation imply people don’t have control over emotions at the moment, and don’t realize then can harm relationship. And not everyone is able to think at the moment about tactic of behavior. Sure, then comes rethinking and regret.
Every. Single. Situation. And you are absolutely right….never text. Not only in those situations, but in many others. Honestly, unless the gal and the guy are dating exclusively, then I strongly believe a woman should never text a guy unless it’s in response to a text he sent her. It’s all about the chase. As soon as a woman looks like she’s making it too easy, a guy will bolt. I’m 48 years old. 9 years experience with men ranging 10 years older than me to men 12 years younger than me….they are all the same. Some actually use not… Read more »
I’ve done repeated text, I’m a communicator, if your interested in someone, reply! It’s funny , my issue is they text off the hook , then I meet them, and they stop! Now honestly…I am a high class good looking, fit woman, so no excuses there, I finance self…so why? Why do guys grab your attention, then just go away? Discouraged
Being in a long distance relationship, we end up solving most everything by text. But, unlike many couples, we’ve also been friends since we were 12 and figured out how to navigate our problems a long time ago. But I have to admit something: when I was still on the circuit, I decided to intentionally drunk text the guys that showed interest in me at least once in the relationship. Now, hear out my logic as I’m known for being a poised class act. The first time I did it, it was an accident and actually got me out of… Read more »
Holy crap…
Ive been the multiple texter.. and i Dont Think this boy is ever gonna talk to me again.. ive even drunktexted him… soooo both has happend with the same boy.. he was amazing and i was so in Love with him..