How to Become the Beautiful Woman Men Desire

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We are a society obsessed with skin care, anti-aging and makeup products.

But the question is… does that stuff actually make you more beautiful to men?

I say NO… but with a strong caveat.

Watch this week’s video to learn more.

Are you hot or beautiful? Watch the video and then leave a comment below with your answer.

Your coach,
Adam

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Camille
8 years ago

Sorry but men don’t care about inner beauty they want hotness and sex.. I’m tired.. Truly good woman has no value in this ugly society..
My beauty easy my heart with so much pain I’ve been threw bcuz of men it hasn’t changed still kind, caring, and loyal.. I’m beautiful inside and out..
I’ve never met a man that I like that is worth having me.. Never.

Danyle
8 years ago
Reply to  Camille

Sorry I disagree .. Looks will fade .. substance is forever .

Dani
8 years ago
Reply to  Camille

Well Camille, you might be right. Most of the men are REALLY superficial. But it slightly varies with different culture/country. Though, the good men are out there as well. Don’t give up. Don’t lower your moral standards. Try to look if your own superficial standards aren’t too high (I used to make this mistake) cheers!

Ari
8 years ago
Reply to  Camille

Camille,
Ur dead on. This society is very toxic and males view females only as convenient play things. If u have any standards, ull be alone. If u want a man, then lose all of ur standards and also sleep with everyone. Smh. Pray to god is all u can do

donna
8 years ago
Reply to  Camille

I attract all kinds of men..Surprisingly these men are mostly under thirty years of age..they love to just talk to me..i feel my open heart, compassion, and friendliness invites them..they find me fascinating..i dont have to talk dirty either..they say i am beautiful for my age….i am 54 yrs old

Danyle
8 years ago

I disagree Camille . Sorry . Looks will fade but substance is forever .

Danyle
8 years ago

I disagree Camille . Sorry . Looks will fade but substance is forever .

Laura
8 years ago

hey Adam,
I haven’t watched in a while, but I just wanted to say that I’m digging the new approach to your videos. You seem relaxed & authentic, and it really resonates. And I love the idea of asking women to say one thing that we find beautiful about ourselves, so here goes: I think the way I support the people I love is beautiful. Thanks for this video & the challenge!

Masha
8 years ago

I’m faithful and also, hot and beautiful.

France
8 years ago

Thanks Adam. So true and at 50 I still hot and am DEFINITELY more beautiful than I was at a younger age as my life experience has brought me increased compassion and empathy and an honest confidence which men love. I now dating an amazing man 🙂

Diane
8 years ago

Camille–your response makes me so sad. I have lived many decades and I do understand how hurt you feel from many disappointments with choosing wrong men for you. I have lived them. But there is one sure way to never ever be with that man you desire. That is to give up. To be so hurt you become bitter. To withdraw from living life according to the beautiful woman you say you are. The world needs true beauty. Live your beauty with or without a man and one day your “never” may become “not yet”. Adam: great video hits the… Read more »

GEORGIANA
8 years ago

My laughter and care especially for children is what makes me beautiful. I feel even more beautiful when I am in love and I love that about me.

8 years ago

I think that it is important to know how to communicate that beauty you’re talking about so that men can see that.
So beauty, as you defined it, in my case would be the ability to stay calm when trouble comes, being able to rationalise and not to fly off the handle, oh, and not to raise my voice when I want to say what I mean.
But the thing that I find the most beautiful in a person is passion – for a hobby, a job, or life in general.

Candy
8 years ago

Thanks for the video…I just realised: I am not beautiful. I have such low self-esteem, constantly worrying about what I look like and how rubbish I am as a person and I do try to be there for everyone. I’m simply not good enough. So thanks for the enlightenment. Beautiful women are confident have great self-esteem and such. I may be intellectual and read a lot and I try so hard to be loveable. But I always feel I’ve missed the boat somehow…….

Michele
8 years ago

I do believe that beauty is on the inside, but you also have to take care of the outside. That doesn’t mean go over board. I have always been a bigger woman, but have never had a problem with finding men to date. I think that has to with a few things. I’m intelligent, fun and easy going plus I take care of myself. Being bigger doesn’t mean you have to be sloppy with your clothes, hair or makeup.

Nidhi
8 years ago

I am beautiful

US
8 years ago

I truly feel compassion towards people I love( who not necessarily behave the way I want ) and people I have difficultly loving.( ppl who illtrested me or where disrespectful)

Danika
8 years ago

A truly good woman has even more value in this ugly society……..camille don’t give up. Keep radiating your inner beauty, there is a huge universal thing happening and its called timing. Not only that keep positive, for a positive mind will bring you a man that your heart desires. Write a list of things you desire in a man, fold it, put it away & forget about it. Write down any of those negative feelings you just described (tired, men just want hotness and sex etc) and burn it……. Trust me……..this works! Focus on what you want, always. See the… Read more »

Nat
8 years ago

Thanks Adam for another positive video! We hear this. Yes, most women are more attractive w/ less makeup and less bling! Radiate value, because you are value! Women are more attractive when they feel safe. It feels like many males don’t honor “beauty”. I know you can’t fix the society. But…where to live where men respect beauty? Ex. Walking can be a battlefield. We’re cat called or have ugly words hurled at us waiting for a bus. We can be dressed classy, or even modestly, and it still happens. While onlooking males just smile. Sometimes I think women wear makeup… Read more »

Jwalane
8 years ago

I’m Beautiful Thanks My Coach

Yetti
8 years ago

I find my Patience beautiful about myself.
🙂

Marianne
8 years ago

Girls! Let’s not give up! Let’s keep on making efforts to become each day more beautiful, interesting, loving and compassionate friends, sisters, daughters, girlfriends, wives, mothers, etc.
Also, we have to build our strength and intelligence to confront society’s mandates over what women should be and look like with good argumentations! We are not objects to be looked at! We are much more than just a body, and I believe that worthwhile men can appreciate that.

8 years ago

hi, you are right adam, even with my bf mark, i am slowly loosing the weight [maybe?] at 54 with menopause, but my bf taught me to have both, hot n beauty, i love him lots, i tricycle once a day or 4 times a week since its cold here in southern calif. thanks. it takes diet n exercise also even with menopause…… love linda

8 years ago

Hi, after reading this amazing paragraph i am also glad to share my experience here with friends.

This site was… how do I say it? Relevant!! Finally I’ve found something which helped
me. Many thanks!

Alejandra
8 years ago

Well for me my beauty would be just being myself . A lot of my friends say that i’m pretty cool to hang with. Some say that I’m like a cartoon saying funny things and also having a lot of different expressions. And some how i’m still single but I just try not to think about it much and just enjoy what I have right now. Mr. Right will come…. but some how I seem to attract men who are already married or in a relationship. And well for my moral standers I don’t like to medal in relationship it’s… Read more »

Rose
6 years ago

Im so beautiful hot and sexy at my age

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