How to Approach a Guy You Like (And How NOT to)
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Why won’t two chickens ever meet? Because they’re chicken.
Your friend: “You can’t just walk up and talk to that guy.”
You: “Why not?”
Your friend: “Because guys like the chase.”
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You: “Ah, dang it. You’re right. Hopefully, he’ll come by.”
So, you wait and wait. Finally, he looks over, looks away, and then leaves with his buddies. Opportunity lost. In reality, he probably chickened out of approaching you…If only you were well versed in the art of breaking the ice, maybe you two could already be vacationing together in the Caribbean (or at least talking, right?).
Instead, you’re stuck watching my video blogs.
Now, imagine the endless possibilities if you were capable of approaching a guy you were interested in without him actually knowing he was being approached?
Watch this video to learn how.
So, now that you realize that approaching a man is all about creatively providing him with an “opportunity” to continue the conversation, I ask that you actually put your new knowledge into action.
Challenge yourself. The next time you see a guy you like, cleverly throw out one of the conversation starters from this video (or use your own).
Have you ever approached a guy before? Or, have you seen one of your friends do it? If so, let me know in the comments section, as I’d love to hear how it went.
Best Wishes,
I once approached a guy that I thought was cute and it we had an amazing conversation! We didn’t end up going on a date, but I definitely didn’t regret it!
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very helpful. Im usually too afraid to talk to a cute guy unless he talks to me for meny reasons. Im afraid Ill say too much or the wrong thing n drive him away. Possibly hes taken. Turns me down. Could b a player, cheater, one night stand type of guy. Could b nuts or abusive. But u dont know if u dont try n clearly now I know the nice, sweet guys wont come to me.