6 Red Flags That He’s a Player [AVOID THESE MEN]

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I’m willing to bet you’ve met a player or two in your time.

Maybe he strung you along, making you feel like he wanted more than just sex…but then ghosted when you got serious.

Maybe he made you feel like you were the only woman for him…but then you found out he was seeing—and sleeping with—multiple other women.

Whatever he did to prove he’s a player, you want to learn from that so you don’t fall victim to another one.

Dating a player is an utter waste of your time. But until you can identify red flags that he’s a player, you may end up dating a guy you don’t realize is just out to break your heart.

It’s not always obvious that he’s a player. The guy might be ultra smooth…but then again, he might come off as a geeky, awkward guy and still be a player.

Pay attention to the warning signs in this video, but also trust your gut. If you feel like a man is a player, you’re probably right. Move on. You’ll never change his mind.

Your Coach,




P.S. Little Love Step #4 in the Love Accelerator is all about qualifying your dating options. This is going to be key in determining whether a man is interested in playing you…or if he’s a real option for love. Discover the 7 little love steps here.

PS. If you’re ready to start attracting men on a deep emotional level, then join me on this free webinar to discover the 3 steps to building emotional attraction – Register here to get started (it’s 100% free).


Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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9 months ago

Great job on “The Player”! Here is one 99% of women need help on:
-Who pays on a date?
-Who pays and On What in a marriage?
-Money rules for women in a marriage?
-How many months should you date before you expect marriage proposal?

9 months ago

Just found out I’m also a player

6 months ago

Really helpfull and quite fantastic! Good work on this article. It’s worth reading.

Shane Beatty
6 months ago

I just want with a player just want to sleep with me.

3 months ago

What if he’s interested in getting to know you but owns his own company with aggressive deadlines and has his child on the weekend? If he’s genuinely busy but you really hit it off during Covid down time? How would you approach that?

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