7 Sexy Things Women Do That Turn Guys On

7 Sexy Things Women Do That Turn Guys On

Adam LoDolce

This article was written by a professional love strategist. If you want to learn the 7 Little Love Steps, click here.

Let me level with you for a second, because this really needs to be said:

You’ve got way more power than you may realize.

What am I talking about?

All it takes are a few of the right sexy triggers and ANY man will be lit up like a Christmas tree– dopamine surging, hormones blazing and everything going wild inside of him…

Do this right and he’ll be focusing everything he’s got on you (and only you) like a heat seeking missile.

Want to know how to do this?

Then check out today’s video and discover the 7 sexy things women do that turn guys on (a few of them are guaranteed to surprise you!)

You may not fully grasp the depth of your sexy powers yet…

… but deep down you’re holding the formula for creating irresistible desire with men.

Put these seven proven tips to work for you and he’ll be eating out of the palm of your hand!

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If you have any secret turn on strategies that work for you please let us know what they are in the comments below.

Your Coach,

PS: There’s ONE thing that men find irresistibly sexy over all else. If you have this “x-factor” then you can basically take your pick among the highest quality bachelors out there. Want to learn the foolproof way to get it? Click here to learn more


1. Matching Lingerie

Let’s get something straight here… Men will love any woman in underwear. Period.
It shows us enough to get us excited but it doesn’t show too much to kill the mystery. It’s just awesome!

But if you know how to match that lingerie and show you put in some effort, then boom! You’ll be turning him on like Donkey Kong.

2. Put him in protector mode.

Chalk it up to a man’s ego or evolutionary biology, but a guy’s instinct is to want to protect a woman.

If you hear a noise in the middle of the night, it’s ok to give him a nudge and have him go check to see if there’s anyone there. If you want him to walk you home because it’s a little late at night, have him walk you home. Tell him you feel safe in his arms.

These are the types of things that really appeal to a man’s masculinity. He’s going to be very attracted, and it’s going to get him in the mood for a little bit of fun later.

3. Playing with your hair.

Back when I used to coach men on how to approach and flirt with you, I would always explain that if a woman is playing with her hair when she’s talking to you, it is a very strong indicator of interest.

As a woman you might not necessarily be aware of this. If you even lightly play with your hair when you’re talking to a guy, it’s not only flirtatious but gives the hint you’re interested.

4. Playful Teasing

There’s a difference between playful flirtatious teasing and just being straight up mean. Flirting is fun and sexy banter. You’re not out to actually hurt someone’s feelings, just playfully tease.

Poke fun a little bit and have a good time with it, but maintain a smile and keep it light.

5. Make him feel desired.

I dare you to text your guy right now. “I wish I could tell you how badly I want you, but I’m trying to be a good girl.”

Bam! He’s going to look at that text and be so excited and turned on. Not only does he feel desired, but there’s also a hint of a challenge. Throw him that text and you are going to get him burning for you.

6. Self-Confidence.

Confident people want to mate with other well put together people. Being with a woman who doesn’t feel whole, who doesn’t feel like she has her whole life together, who’s not excited to be who she is, is going to be less attractive than a woman who has really worked on herself, who’s really put in the effort to be an incredible person, and who is truly a turn on for men!

7. Women who think they’re sexy.

You don’t need to flaunt your shit everywhere you go, but you do need to feel sexy.

I don’t care what you look like, you are sexy to someone! I remember before I started Sexy Confidence, I used to coach men on how to meet women. We would ask them intake questions like, “What type of woman are you attracted to?” I’ll tell you what; it was mind blowing the different types of responses I would get.

So the point here is that it doesn’t matter who you are, what size you are, or what you look like. There is a guy, or a whole group of guys, who find you incredibly sexy. It’s great to own that characteristic and feel sexy every single day.

You are a sexy beast! Don’t be afraid to unleash it.

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7 Sexy Things Women Do That Turn Guys On

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Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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5 years ago


5 years ago

Hi Adam,
I loved the video, short and sweet. Did not do the texting but my own version. Mini

5 years ago

Super helpful, thanks!
I have to say, the “playful teasing” thing is impossible for me. I keep reading in different places that it’s a turn on and here it is again…UGH… I feel like it’s mean! I cannot find it inside myself to pull it off! Does that make sense? Help, how can I get this concept??

5 years ago

It depends if I feel sparks upon meeting him. It’s really a soul attraction. Though generally what turns me on is a guy who knows how to have a deep and meaningful conversation, maturity, intelligence, kindness, sweetness, passion, romance and thoughtfullness. I like a confident guy who knows what type of girl he wants and goes for it! 😉

Madonna R
5 years ago

Hi Adam,
I texted him verbatim even though I thought that I would never say that phrase like that, and BOOM!!!… He called me right away! We had a playful phone conversation and I ended it quickly on a high note!
Thank you,


4 years ago

Hey.. I am 31 and just got in a relationship with a 25 year old.. I am a single mum of 3 and my family is really dysfunctional after my divorce with my ex who hates me and refuses to cooperate with me.. I have like 8 kilos to loose and struggling with that ..my hair is seriously thinning and i just feel like i look old and unhealthy..i never finished my studies and my guy is an engineer and i am messy..unorganised..blah blah…he says he loves me …is really romantic and a great support and encourages me to believe… Read more »

4 years ago

I just net this guy, he is very interested in me. I Live 7HRS away..It’s Horrible! He calls and text and we banter and have great conversation. .I’m going to stay with him over the holiday..I’m in my 50s and ready for a change. .can you move tooo fast or if you feel chimistry..is it OK to go with your gut?

4 years ago

Bullshit! I could walk in a room naked and they wouldn’t be interested. I tried all this crap and it doesn’t work. If they aren’t interested they aren’t interested no matter what you do!

11 months ago

Mmm Johan Wait till i get over there

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