1 Major Turn OFF the Morning After You Hook Up
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Have you ever slept with a guy only to never hear from him again?
Well in this week’s video, I’ll explain how ONE little thing you do the next morning can turn him off for good.
It may seem little to you, but I promise – it can have HUGE ramifications.
Watch this week’s newest video.
Have you ever made this mistake with a guy? Were you able to recover? I’d love to hear from you in the comments.
Your coach,
Adam
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1 Major Turn OFF the Morning After You Hook Up
I’m going to be talking about the one thing that will turn off a lot of guys the morning after you hook up.
So imagine this scenario: you finally started hooking up with this dude, sex is great, you’re starting to think that this guy is the one that you really want to start investing your time and emotion into.
And by investing your time in him, you want to be around him because he’s a pretty cool guy, right?
But after you hook up with him, it’s really easy to fall into a really scary trap that will turn him off immediately.
Hey, so I’m gonna be going to the gym pretty soon, so…
That’s ok, I’ll have lunch ready when you get back. Come on… Let’s just hang out all day. I don’t wanna go home, I’ll just do your laundry. You’re gonna hook up with me and not wanna spend time with me?
If you just started dating a guy and you just hooked up for the first time, leave the next morning. Go home.
Don’t be a lingerer.
There’s actually a really interesting study conducted by the University of Michigan where they looked at 5 post-sex behaviors. First was intimate talking, next was kissing, next was cuddling (caressing and touching each other), the fourth was professing love for each other, and the final one was talking about the relationship.
And can you guess which gender liked these more?
Yup, you guessed it. Women.
Now, that’s not to say that men won’t be more comfortable doing those types of things when you’re further along in a relationship, but right after you start dating or having sex with someone, don’t be the lingerer.
Make him miss you a little bit. Make him work hard to have you around. Don’t make him work hard to make you go away. If he wants you to stay all day, that next morning he will say that straight up.
He will let you know and he will make it really, really well known to you that he wants you to stay. Otherwise, definitely leave and make him miss you a little bit.
Now, naturally this is all assuming you actually want to see the guy again. So I guess if it’s just a legit one-night stand, then go ahead and cuddle the shit out of him.
But barring that situation, please don’t be the lingerer.
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Hi Adam, thanks for your awesome videos. I bought your ebook too and the videos are really helpful. I have been a single mum for a year now, and although I have no one in mind yet, I like to be prepared if I do meet someone worthwhile. I have learned so much! About this video: What about if it is in your own house? I will need to be fairly certain of a guy to start with anyway. He should be comfortable knowing that my child is there, and that we need breakfast early to go to school. Thanks… Read more »
I have actually had this happen on the one and only one night stand I’ve ever had. It was my house, and the guy wouldn’t leave ALL DAY!! He kept hinting that he was hungry and I kept suggesting he leave to go get something to eat and didn’t offer to cook. I went hungry all day because I didn’t want to encourage him to stay. Finally, at 6:00 PM, I told him to go in no uncertain terms. I hope I’ve never been the “lingerer” to someone else. Man, what an awful impression that makes.
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