Why the Men You Want, Don’t Want You

Why the men you want don't want you

Have you ever noticed that the guys you REALLY want, don’t want you?

And then the guys you DON’T want, are drooling over you?

It might just be one of the most frustrating phenomenons in the dating process, so I thought I’d make a quick video to explain it.

Watch Why the Men You Want, Don’t Want You

Has this happened to you? I’d love to hear about it below in the comments section.

I’ll speak to you soon.

Your Coach,

Also, if you’d like to join me on a brand new webinar to learn “why men flake, avoid commitment and consistently ghost until they meet a woman who’s following these 7 simple steps”, then register here (it’s 100% free).


Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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5 years ago

Why can’t a average person like me.. Date someone like Shawn Mendes.. He’s such a cutie.. I’ve never been into older men.. But this video is so me, all the guys I really liked doesn’t like me.. All the ones I don’t like ahhhhh!! I can’t get rid of them what do you do when u like someone..

5 years ago

Adam I think you’re amazing & your point about someone being out of another’s leak may be valid in some cases but the point I think that needs to be driven home is what common interests do you really have with that person by nature of their lifestyle? their career choice? where they live? how much they travel? ps-I think you’re out of Taylor’s leauge & not vice versa;)

5 years ago

you are awesome, all of your advise seems very accurate..and common sense, being in it we don’t always see it..so thank you for being there for women as an ally and a coach .

5 years ago

You are right Adam. Awesome video. I think I needed this one.

4 years ago

I like this video. But when you say out of your league that’s a huge spectrum. So, are you saying a average looking girl should not socialize with a good looking man? Or if a woman is of average income, a wealthy or not so wealthy man is a bad choice to? Or if a woman is older, should she not date younger men? Women in my age group are about as socially $%&#@ as a group can be. I have asked you this question several times, I would be interested to hear your reply. What do you say for… Read more »

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3 years ago

I tried that be busy and let them make the first move thing you said and now I’m in friend zone.. what’s my next move?? That didn’t work

2 years ago

Very helpful. Thanks for sharing.

joanna Washington
1 year ago

Video was very informative, it’s only one guy that I can’t get to commit.. all the other guys I wanted I got and I’ve always dumped them when I was done but this one guy I caNt seem to get 100% , but years ago I turned this guy down then 7 years later I found him attractive and hooked him and we dated for 6 months then boom we parted ways he parted ways. Now he’s back and giving me a few mixed signals what do I do!!!!!!!!

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