7 Proven Things Men Want in a Woman

7 Proven Things Men Want in a Woman

Have you ever found yourself asking the question: What do Men want”?

Wouldn’t it be great if a bunch of computer nerds, slamming Red Bull in a room somewhere, just sat down and collected a bunch of scientific data to finally give you the definitive answers to that question?

Well, I’ve got some good news for you…

The awesome people over at Zoosk have actually done this for you.

They did it by extracting the data and crunching the numbers from their 38 million user database.

When you’re analyzing over 3 million messages that are being sent daily, the results end up being pretty eye-opening.

Watch me break down the 7 Proven Things Men Want in a Woman.

Once you know exactly what men are looking for (and what they’re NOT looking for)… the dating game becomes a much easier beast to tame.

And…. even though the results from this data were collected from online dating users — everything is directly applicable to meeting men in the real world.

Honestly, some of the things discovered in this study surprised even me. Like the fact that as a woman, you’re likely to get messaged 39% more when you put one 7 letter word in your profile.

Even if you’re not interested in online dating, you deserve to know what works and what doesn’t.

Join the conversation and tell me what you think of the data in the comments below.

Your friend,

PS: Want to know the EASIEST way to guarantee that he’ll have eyes for you and ONLY you? Click HERE to learn how to “fire” his deepest Emotional Attraction triggers.

Summary –

1. Healthy women

Women with the word “crossfit” in their profile are 39% more likely to get a message than the average profile. It shows that you take care of yourself and have a good work ethic.

2. Women who are attractive, but not too attractive

Studies show that men and women are attracted to those with a similar level of attractiveness. In fact, men are 6% less likely to message those who they see as more attractive than they are.

3. Women who live nearby

Most of the time, men don’t seek out a long distance relationship (although they happen sometimes). If you live more than 30 miles away, you are far less likely to be messaged by an interested man.

4. A younger woman, but not too young

Men are 7% more likely to message women if they are 0-10 years younger. Whereas, they are 74% less likely to message someone more than 10 years younger. We might be physically drawn to younger women, but emotionally and intellectually, we want a mature woman.

5. Non-smokers

Men are 12% less likely to message smokers. So if you smoke and you’re dating, quit… you can do it! Dating is a great time to work on self improvement.

6. A woman who is fun

The top mention in a man’s profile when describing someone they’re looking for is the word “Fun” … need I say more?

7. An honest woman

Lying will get you nowhere, especially in the dating world.

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Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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Antigone A. Freimann
3 years ago

#4 should have been listed as #1.
It is my experience that the one deciding factor for men is a woman’s birthday. You can be 100% perfect for him but if you’re not his age or way, WAY younger… SORRY!!!

terri miller
3 years ago

oh, Adam, I wish you would talk to em! Dating at 60 has been beyond challenging! The LAST thing a man at this age wants is a confident woman! Add smart and sexy and watch them run! I’m not a narcissist, don’t dress like a slut,and I don’t talk about how smart I am. I AM fun, cute, sexy, feminine,funny, confident,strong, and able to hold my own in any setting. I date alot and 99% of the guys want to see me again, but I’m not interested. They are weak ,desperate, and often attracted to my strength. I show vulnerability,… Read more »

3 years ago

Thanks Adam! Great advice, as always. The most surprising thing for me was that men prefer women within their peer group of 10 years. So it’s the same generation. Media stresses for mature women to appear younger, now I know it’s an unnecessary burden. I’m 55, but appear much younger due to good genetics and attitude. The men who ask me out are 15-20 years younger than I am! Not cool. I prefer men my age. My current boyfriend thought I was 10 years younger than himself. Just as your data told us. But surprise, I’m 5 years older! We… Read more »

3 years ago

I’m sorry to say, but two of these directly contradict my current love situation… perhaps even three… I don’t know.. we may be an exceptional case… Number 3 and 4 are direct contradictions, to be completely honest. At least, in my expererience those two things have not mattered to my relationship… and perhaps even made it stronger.. (however , I AM moving!) This is very good information, however, and I truly appreciate it.

3 years ago

Actually non if it surprised me but seriously the wig and the beard was entertaining!

3 years ago

Interesting point to note about what men want is – “attractive but not too attractive” . I think this is really true because men think that many guys would try to lure a really attractive and beautiful women. And many such beautiful women end up with someone for just a night.

3 years ago

I liked what you said at number 2. Women who are attractive, but not too attractive. I think this is very true. I often see very beautiful women who are very unhappy because of their love life. So this must be it.

2 years ago

Just like women, men want a lot of things when they are looking for their mate, but most likely they will give up ideas when they find the right person.

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