3 Signs He Wants a Serious Relationship With You
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Dating has changed a whole lot over the past 100 years.
In decades past if a man was pursuing you it was meant he was courting you for marriage.
Dating in the 21st century just isn’t that simple… and it can be down right messy.
Is he relationship focused or just sex focused?
In this video discover the 3 signs he wants a serious relationship with you.
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You can use these signs to decipher the intentions of any man.
… and save yourself the uncomfortable moment when you have “the talk.”
So tell me, have you ever dated a guy who wasn’t interested in a relationship but you kept seeing him?
Your Coach,
Adam
Summary –
1. He wants to get to know you as a person, not just your body.
So you are seeing this guy you have amazing sexual chemistry with. You start seeing each other, but time passes and he still doesn’t know what makes you tick. He doesn’t show any interest in finding out what your hobbies are, what your goals are, or the intricacies of your life.
Great chemistry can lead you to justify staying with this man, but the reality is he just doesn’t care to learn more about you. I know it’s a harsh reality, but it’s important to decipher his intentions. You want a guy who is interested in getting to know you as a person, rather than just in the bedroom.
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2. He uses the “R” word… Relationship
Years ago when I was single and not looking for a serious relationship, I would avoid the “R” word at all possible costs. When men are in their single guy stage, they are going to avoid any chance of having “the talk” and or using the “R” word. On the other hand, when a man is open and looking for a serious relationship they will talk about having a relationship in a positive way.
3. He stops trying to live the single guy lifestyle and is willing to grow up.
If during the week he’s willing to spend time with you, but on the weekends he’s going out and getting wasted with his single buddies… then he’s not ready for anything serious. A guy who really wants a serious relationship is willing to commit his life to that woman. He’s not teetering on the edge of being a single guy, but willing to put the single lifestyle aside and invest his weekdays and weekends spending time with you.
They’re all like that, aren’t they????? The real question is, where are the great guys???? Every schmuck out there seems to be like this with me. None of them are anyone I’d be in a relationship with. I’m a great woman. I have a job, am a musician with a recording act, have amazing hobbies, my own place, a vehicle…..so where are the guys with the same????? I’m not settling for crap, however, that’s all there seems to be out there. I can’t believe women settle for these guys. Come on Adam, where’s the answer???? Are there any decent guys… Read more »
I get your frustration but consider that you might be a Frog Farmer., a woman who turns Princes into
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I totally agree with you on all points. Women have amazing intuition, if they would just use it. The key here is to MAKE THE GUY WAIT to get intimate…it weeds out the fuckboys VERY FAST! #BoyBye!
Great video!
Adam,I’ve followed your programs for almost a year now,which really helped since I had been out of the dating for over 10yrs (am now 46)I went on a lot of dates and I mean alot of dates.I struck a few times and the better I got at dating,I came to understand what I wanted and needed.I met a guy online in between dating and we became friends.I wasn’t initially attracted to him plus he’s 12 years younger.I finally moved him from friend status and this guy is doing everything that you discuss throughout your programs:quality time,consistency,wanting to get to know… Read more »
I find the opposite of Donna Lynn… I find great guys and they’re into me, but not enough to want a relationship. They all just want to hook up. You can only hear that you’re pretty so many times…how can I get them to pay attention to what I’m thinking and feeling? I’m more than just my looks.
You nailed my 4 month … dare I say ” relationship”. Great sexual chemistry. I finally realized I was nothing other than an option to him. He would text sweet nothings every day. Make me think we were in a real relationship but one day I woke up and realized he honestly didn’t know anything about me. He never tried to get to know the real me. So as difficult as it was I finally had to let go so I could be open enough to find someone who truly wanted to be a part of my life. Yes he… Read more »
Been there and you seem to find all the ones that want to use you not just for sex but whatever else they can get out of you and yes I got the last one in a bar with another woman when he was to come to dinner at his time not mine time passed drove to his house and not there drove to the bar there he was with another woman yes he was very surprised to see me and yes I dumped him right then and there I’m tired of these men who think that they’re all that… Read more »
the videos are really helpful and informative. especially to give my newly divorced friend some advice. she has been married to a doctor for 32 years.and he cheated on her with a lab tech. as soon as she found out she kicked him to the curb and now he’s alone. she got married at 18. my story is vastly different. i got married at 20 was married for 10 years to the guy who gave me all the love in my life forever because of my kids and grandkids. i have been divorced for 24 years. so my friend and… Read more »
Hi Adam! Yes I am in a “no expectations” relationship as he calls it which I love that he is so up front about we he wants it is refreshing. Because as of right now I am in the process of a divorce after 18 years of marriage. My world unraveled faster than a could comprehend what was going on. So I thought great “casual” that’s what I want & need at the moment not to get emotionally attached..But I finding him contacting me more than I anticipated. I don’t want to get attached in any form however, I do… Read more »
I have a friend that I have been friends with for 15 years. Unfortunately, I had sex with him after I lost my job. He mentioned having sex with me again and enjoys jilling me off (so long as we don’t have sex I’m good with it because honestly the sex was terrible). People think that he and I are married when we go out and I would much rather not. We’re in two different worlds but beyond that I have decided to go back to EHarmony because I can’t really find any quality guys. I don’t have the money… Read more »
The guy whom I HAD been talking to for the last ONE YEAR “over the flippin net” is a TOTAL “confused” git!!! I am a very very straight-forward person and I expect the TRUTH from the other end too! But this guy whom I have asked MANY TIMES IF he really wants this “relationship” he keeps on replying YES I DO…..then ends it off with a BIG BUT and says I am confused as !@$$! I mean WTH quit “Leading me on” or STRINGING me along and yet STILL chatting and flirting with OTHER GIRLS…..thats just NOT ON! I can… Read more »
My bf of two years showed all these signs. About a month ago he sent me a message and told me that he didn’t want to be with me anymore. He said he could go into detail why, but didn’t really want to. He said he didn’t want to tell me in person, because he didn’t want to see me hurting. It detroyed me. I’m getting a little self confidence back, but it was hard. He was the only the 2nd guy I ever loved. I’m in my 40s, so it’s been a long hard road for me. I’m still… Read more »
The older they get the less HIDING they do. I’m a 42 yr. old divorced single mom and dating now is a scary waste of time. Men say what they want but don’t take interest in what is important to me. So I had to learn to walk away at the first sign of a SEX only guy. It’s not easy to date as a single mom because men automatically put me in the ‘desperate ‘ category!! Am I? No. I take care of myself, my kids and am not asking for anything. It just really sucks to date at… Read more »