Romance is Now Officially DEAD! Here’s the Proof…
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Dating has certainly changed over the past 20 years, nonetheless the past 70 years.
For example, I remember the very first time I asked a girl out. I had to go to the yellow pages, look up her number, dial it on a land line, speak to her father to get her on the phone, and then finally ask her out. This was back in 7th grade and I was terrified.
Now people text and tinder.
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I always thought my childhood dating experience was an “ancient dating ritual” until my mother showed me a bunch of letters that my grandpa wrote to my grandma in 1942. Admittedly, I’m not the most “romantic” of all people, but these letters literally brought “fuzzy feeling” tears to my eyes.
After reading them I came to the conclusion that NO ONE in the 21st century could (or would) ever be as romantic as my Grandpa. Watch the video to learn some of the lessons I learned.
Do you think that romance is dead? How can we bring it back? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section.
Your Bud,
Adam
I don’t think romance is dead, though it is much more difficult. I’m actually wondering now what your thoughts are, or if you have any advice for long distance relationships, because mine has recently turned into one. He told me early in the relationship though, that he wanted to run away with me, and proceded to outline in detail a trip around the world together. It was one of the most romantic things I’ve ever heard, and still comes up when one of us is stressed. So no, I don’t think romance is completely dead.
That’s really beautiful, thank you for sharing.
Adam: Yes, you do have alot to learn from your Grandfather. One can still send the romantic card thru snail mail, or still take someone out for a Moonlit walk, or even just sit and “Talk” for hours getting to know each other. God’s laws were written for a reason. He knows better than us. It has been proven that those who engage in premarital sex before marriage have a higher risk of divorcing than those who wait. There are no winners in divorce except the attorneys. Not including the heartbreak, guilt, financial ruin, and broken families. I had hoped… Read more »
I suppose we’re not on the same page about dating and sex. Just because there’s a lower chance of divorce for those who wait – does not mean waiting is the cause. Causation doesn’t equal correlation. Chances are the people who do wait to have sex before marriage are the same type of people who would never believe in divorce (due to religious reasons). Thank you though for your thoughtful comment.
Romance, it has changed, but is it dead? I think there are too many romantic choices…dating sites, that there are a lot of peeps that are not compatible bumping into each other and then the next thing you know you have a group of people who don’t give a shit and bam, meat market, because meat is as accessible as a McDonald’s hamburger. And about as good. The online dating dance, it’s so boring, same questions, same answers, and most people have the originality of a piece of a toast. What are you looking for, what do you do for… Read more »
Thanks Stina for your well thought out comment.
Great video! We miss patience and somehow scared to be open nowadays ..
Romance is not dead at all it can’t be, or else their would be no point it love in the first place. Just like it wouldn’t kill a man to open a door for a women once in a while.
Hi, thank you for sharing this. Actually I have been through all these stages in my love life (I am 50 now) and I have tons and tons of handwritten love letters from guys throughout the past and as much as I like social media, I totally agree with you that a handwritten love letter with romantic words, means so much! But I also like these text messages with the so called ‘dirty talk’. Let’s not over romantisize one above the other. If you are playfull in you love life, you do both. Be creative, surprise your partner and he… Read more »