The RIGHT Way to Touch a Guy to Show Interest in Him

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Adam LoDolce

This article was written by a professional love strategist. If you want to learn the 7 Little Love Steps, click here.

Quick, take out the binoculars!

Look right over there…

… it’s John.

Tall, beautiful eyes, tan, walking around in that perfectly tailored navy suit…

… every ladies dream…

… I can see why you’re so into him.

But does he know?

Of course not, we’re hiding over here in the bushes watching him through binoculars!

If you want a chance with him, you need to show some interest.

Today, I’m going to tell you how.

In this video I show you how to use touch to let him know you’re interested (and more)

Only 7% of communication is verbal.

Learning the right way to touch a guy gives you access to a whole new language for attraction.

Your Coach,


P.S. In the initial phase of a relationship, women have been taught from a young age to use their sex appeal to attract a man.

But if you want to attract the right guy, and keep him around for the long term, you need to know how to emotionally attract him.

That’s exactly what I teach in Emotional Attraction Formula, a program for going beyond superficial attraction, and deep into the type of attraction that hooks him where it matters – his heart and his mind.

The RIGHT Way to Touch a Guy to Show Interest in Him

One of the most typical questions I get from women is, “How do I show interest in a guy?

I always come back to this one point.

It’s all about the touch and breaking the touch barrier.

Getting comfortable with touching someone that you’re attracted to and don’t know that well can scary…

… so I’m going to walk you through a few different parts of talking to guys…

… where you can touch them (and where men like to be touched), and exactly what the touch is communicating.

5 Places to Touch A Man To Show Interest In Him

#1: Touching a man’s arms and the shoulders

By touching a guy on the arms and shoulders, you’re communicating, “Yes, I’m considering whether or not I like you.”

I once met a woman at a networking event who left her hand on my arm for just one second longer than most people would which communicated…

”Yes, I’m interested in seeing where this goes. This is not just like a friendship type conversation, or even a business conversation. This could be something more.”

The lightest touch on the shoulder can mean that to a guy.

#2: Lightly brushing a man’s hand

When your hands start touching, it’s a strong indicator that “I’m no longer considering whether or not I like you. I actually am very interested in you.”

#3: Touching a man’s hair and neck

By touching someone’s hair or neck, you’re communicating that you trust them, and you’re seeing whether or not they trust you.

It’s a very intimate and vulnerable place to touch.

If he’s comfortable with you touching his face or his neck, and vice versa, then suddenly you are opening the whole relationship up to a new level of intimacy.

A lot of times, that’s the place where a man will touch you right before he kisses you.

It’s one of the signs he’s interested.

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That’s the type of advice that I would give a man back when I was coaching men is…

”Look. If you want to kiss a woman, and it’s looking like the stars are aligning and it’s about to happen, you can lightly touch her neck and if she’s comfortable with that, she’s almost always going to be comfortable kissing you.”

#4: Touching a man’s thigh

This is basically the “I’m thinking about having sex with you” touch.

It goes without saying that if you’re touching a man’s inner thigh, you’re communicating that you’re interested in a little bit more.

#5: The only other place you can touch a man to indicate interest

You get the idea.

Have you tried these out? What have you found? Leave a comment below.

how to touch a man

PS. If you’re ready to start making men pursue you for love, then join me on this free webinar to discover the 3 steps to building emotional attraction – Register here to get started (it’s 100% free).


Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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3 years ago

You are great Adam – and your helper Steve did a great job today too!! You had me smiling and chuckling at work & had people wondering what I was snickering at!!!

3 years ago
Reply to  -Lori

Dear Adam, 1) not weird; 2) effective. Thanks! You and Steve did a great job.

3 years ago
Reply to  -Lori

Love the video — what video of your great advice do I NOT LOVE???? : ) Entertaining, informative and most of all very enlightening. It’s amazing that something so simple is so complex.

Thank you! Adam : )

3 years ago

Hi Adam A year after 25yrs married and kicking out my cheating ex I decided it was time to date. I have had nightmare dates, online dating experiences and then I found your site. Have been seeing a guy for 3 months and he disappeared so I tried your space text and backed off. Nearly 2 weeks later I get home to 2 huge bunches of flowers with the ‘the world feels better when I’m with you’ & ‘thinking of you just because of the way you make me feel’, plus there was a time to meet at our first… Read more »

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