Connie's Story:

Connie had always been a go-getter, a leader, and channeling her masculine energy.

She got married at 22 to her high school sweetheart, but halfway through their 33-year marriage, he dropped a bombshell and told her he was gay.

They decided to stay together for their kids, but along the way, he fell in love with someone else.

So, they divorced, and Connie was single for 10 years, just working hard and raising her kids.

A couple of years ago, she decided to retire, and her friends encouraged her to start dating again.

She wanted to, but in her own words, she “had no experience in it at all” and was “very nervous about it.”

She went on dates and had a few short-term relationships, but everything seemed to fizzle out.

The state of her dating life left her depressed around the holidays, and that’s when she decided to join our Love Accelerator program.

She threw herself headfirst into the 7 Little Love Steps we teach.

Connie said, “looking back, with what I know from the program, I was doing it all wrong… I wasn’t pacing things.”

She had an instant connection with one guy who started texting her.

He was going out of town for three weeks which meant they couldn’t meet for a while.

But they stayed in touch and communicated a lot, and things escalated pretty quickly.

During one of their conversations, they joked about getting married in Vegas, getting divorced a week later, and living happily ever after!

When he got back, Connie mustered the courage to meet him face-to-face (even though she was really nervous).

For their first official date, he arranged flowers and champagne for her, and it started snowing at the end—it was the kind of date you only see in the movies.

Although sparks were flying, he told Connie he wouldn’t kiss her because “you’re a high-value woman, and I’m a gentleman.”

*Swoon* 🥰

On their second date, he asked if he could kiss her (of course, she said yes!).

For their third date, he went all out. He organized a string of romantic surprises, one of which was an elaborate recreation of everything they talked about in their dream Vegas story—there was even a wedding cake!

He told her it was no trouble at all; he loved doing something nice for her and making her laugh.

“I was blown away. It was unbelievable. Two days later, he asked me to be exclusive.”

But Connie didn’t rush to say yes.

Using what she learned in the program, she waited.

She didn’t want to rush into anything like she did in the past.

After turning the tables and planning an elaborate surprise date for him (which he loved), she agreed to be exclusive with him.

They’re loved up, and I can’t get this epic dating story out of my mind.

Here’s part of what we helped Connie with:

Connie has always struggled with her weight, and at 5’11, she often felt too big for guys. But Little Love Step #1: Build your sexy confidence helped Connie embrace her feminine energy and realize that none of that matters. Men will always be attracted to you for who you are; it’s about how you make them feel when you’re together. She said, “I’d never thought about that.”

Little Love Step #4: Qualify your options was the gentle reminder Connie needed not to put all her eggs in one basket. She talked to lots of guys online and didn’t end those connections until she decided she was ready to be exclusive.

Meanwhile, Little Love Step #5: Pace the progression of your connections stopped Connie from rushing into a bad decision. She took her sweet time before agreeing to exclusivity because she recognized that a genuine, high-quality man would not disappear.

She also told us that before every date, she would hop on to the Love Accelerator portal and re-listen to the videos for two hours while getting ready to go out to brush up on her flirting game and get an extra shot of confidence.

“I’d bring cue cards with me on the date and go into the bathroom and read them!”

Even now that she’s in a happy, committed relationship, she’s still following the Little Love Steps—”I can’t just go back to the way I was.”