Katie's Story:

For the past 10 years, dating has been “life-sucking” for Katie.

Dating wasn’t fun; in fact, it was more of a job interview trying to find the right life partner.

Everyone kept telling Katie she was the whole package: smart, educated, friendly, kind, financially independent…

So why was it that she was always the one chasing men?

Last year, she turned 40, and she was ready to make a significant change and commit to finding the right relationship.

And that’s when she joined us in the Love Accelerator program.

For the first time in her life, she was ready to get out there and date intentionally.

Her mindset shifted. She went from seeing dating as a goal to something she wanted to do for fun.

She said, “I just wanna go have fun, and men wanna have fun too.”

Like I always tell women, men never go out thinking, “I want to find me a wifey tonight.” They want to have a good time. And if they have a good time with you, they will start to associate those positive feelings with you.

So, Katie started incorporating her favorite hobbies—like mountain biking—with meeting men. And that was the moment dating became fun.

She talked to a lot of guys and eventually met one named Chris.

But the truth was, there was no real spark when they first met.

She wasn’t super excited.

She didn’t get a message from the Universe telling her this was “the one.”

But they stuck with it.

They kept seeing each other.

And over time, their connection grew.

She noticed that he was the guy who kept showing up.

He was always reassuring and supporting her.

He kept in contact with her every day.

Eventually, he told her he didn’t want to date anyone else, and she told him she didn’t want to either.

Here’s part of what we helped Katie with:

Little Love Step #3: Start meeting quality men helped Katie be more deliberate about where and how she was meeting men, which helped her attract a like-minded man who met her love vision.

Having always been the one chasing men, Little Love Step #4: Qualify your options was a powerful lesson for Katie. She started to reclaim her power. Instead of chasing guys, she was now in the driver’s seat, deciding whether they met her love vision. This led to Chris pursuing her for a relationship, not the other way around.