Lindsay's Story:

She was in a relationship for 14 years and married for 10.

Admittedly, there were red flags from the very beginning. But she knew it was getting bad when friends and family were pulling away, not inviting them to parties, and people would express concern to her that she “wasn’t being herself.”

Over the years, she recognized that he was not only verbally abusive, but he was not open to changing his behavior.

She felt stuck.

He wouldn’t go to counseling, so she made the courageous decision to leave the marriage. Then she finds herself thrust into today’s chaotic dating scene.

At first, she LOVED the freedom to be single, meet new people, and have a little bit of fun.

But after a little while, she was feeling lonely and even considered going back to her emotionally abusive husband.

This is the moment when she found me helping Kate Gosselin find love on TLC’s show “Kate Plus Date”.

She learned the steps, discovered a strategy for her love life, and everything changed.

She became intentional with where she invested her time and energy and stayed away from emotionally unavailable men who only wanted casual relationships…

Within a few short months, she used our principles to attract an incredibly romantic man who cares for her deeply.

On New Years’ eve, he hosted her family at his ranch in the mountains, set off fireworks, and ran up to her to tell her, “I just love you so much.”

It was a fairytale moment.

It all stemmed from her learning our framework and her subsequent realization that she is a high-value woman who deserves a great relationship.

In her own words, “If I can leave a bad relationship after 14 years, and now attract true love, anybody can do it. I’m now on the other side knowing that there’s a good man out there who treats me with respect.”

Here’s part of what we helped Lindsay with:

Initially, Lindsay was casually dating around, meeting men without much clarity on what she wanted in a man and a relationship.

Once she learned the Little Love Steps, she knew what to look for, and more importantly, which toxic, emotionally unavailable men to avoid.

Most importantly, she internalized Little Love Step #5: Pace the Progression of Your Connections and learned to SLOW things down, even when they are going well in the relationship.

This, in turn, made her new guy pursue her even harder.

Now she’s in a deeply fulfilling relationship that’s leading toward marriage.