He Has a Girlfriend But Is Still Pursuing Me? HELP!

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It’s damn hard to find a great guy these days. Am I right?

But what happens when you meet a guy who seems perfect for you, only…he has a girlfriend?

And he’s still pursuing you.

WTF?! What do you do?

This video was inspired by a member of our community who was being pursued by a man with a girlfriend. Add to that the fact that she was divorced with kids.

If this situation has happened to you, you know that it can be tempting on one level because here’s a guy who is interested in you and you in him. That’s not all that easy to find.

But think about what future you might have with this man. Whether you would ever be able to trust him. I’m betting not.

In this video, I help you pick apart this situation so you make the right decision for you long-term.

Have you ever been chased by a man who had a girlfriend? What did you do?

Your Coach,

P.S. If you’re struggling with decisions like this on your path to love, I’d like to offer you my free training to discover the 7 Little Love Steps as a tool to help you. Get instant access.


Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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1 month ago

Hey Adam, would love for you to do a video on what is respect to a man? and how to give him the respect he actually needs/wants? What sort of gestures to achieve it. I read online it says talking to him in a proper and not nasty tone, appreciate his efforts and don’t belittle him etc, but i feel there is more to respect for man than those simple gestures or am i wrong? 

1 month ago

Adam, love your straight-shooting BADASS long-term advice: parse Emotions vs. Logic (awaken Critical Thinking skills) thru Self-Reflective Future-Simulation Questions — that cut across various case studies vis-a-vis similar TomFoolery.

1 month ago

Adam, you nailed it. Long story short, judge me if you will, I had an affair with a man who had a wife … even though for a long term I thought he was the love of my life, I never let myself think he was going to leave his wife … I never wanted him to leave his wife – because I knew how WE met and I knew id never be able to trust him – absence of trust is a horrible horrible feeling and eats you up – why would I do that to myself?

1 month ago
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PS Why do so many men (ok and women, but I don’t know about so many women) think it’s ok to have an affair ? to not honour the promise you made at your wedding?

Patricia Gray
1 month ago

My advice is to run from this guy. He probably has several girlfriends & will always be on the look for a new woman to add to his collection. He has been doing this for many years & views woman as replaceable objects. Smart phones make it so easy for him to connect to someone on FB, dating sites, IG anytime or anywhere. One guy I went out with told me that FB was the biggest dating site. I checked out his FB page & he had hundreds of female friends….He was trying to date….about twenty of them….all the while… Read more »

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