Can You REALLY “Just Be Friends” With a Guy You’ve Dated?

can you just be friends with a guy

Adam LoDolce

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Can you ever just be friends with a guy you’ve dated?

Let’s say you’ve gone out a few times, and the spark isn’t there.

By the way, this is perfectly natural when you’re dating.

But you enjoyed hanging out with this guy, so a part of you may be thinking, why let that go to waste? Or maybe you’re feeling a little guilty about turning him down, and you want to ease the sting with friendship.

Chances are you’ll have seen men and women manage to be just friends on your favorite TV shows and in the movies. But this is real life.

Maybe you even know a couple who used to date and still have a solid friendship.

So, can it really work?

My honest answer is HELL NO. Here’s why.

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You’re probably here because you’re looking for help when it comes to dating, meeting high-quality men, and finding the long-term relationship you desire. Chances are you already have plenty of friends. You’re not looking for another one of those; you’re looking for THE MAN of your DREAMS.

Am I right?

So quit letting yourself get distracted. Focus on what you want, and you’re much more likely to attract it into your life.

Remember, you are always in control of how you choose to use your precious time and energy. So be intentional with it.

Forget friendship. Focus on romance, connection, and love.

I’d love to know what you ladies think. Can men and women be just friends? Has this ever worked for you in the past?

Let me know in the comments below.

Your Coach,

can you just be friends with a guy

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Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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Jennifer Allen
6 months ago

I am friends with this guy that I was his gf. We broke up, didn’t speak for months, then he called me I see him weekly I do stay over and I do feel good about it, I know he is not using me for sex cause we don’t have sex Everytime I see him, but we like each other’s company

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