Anxious Attachment Style – Here are 3 Strategies to Attracting Healthy Love

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Are you what the world would describe as a needy dater?

You find yourself wanting to control everything.

You struggle to remain calm and confident when you’re apart from a guy you’re dating.

The worst part is that usually, you’ve only gone out with this man a couple of times. You’re not in a relationship, and you’re not exclusive.

He goes out for boys’ night, it’s 1 AM, and you still haven’t had a text back from him, so you blow up his phone 32 times.

The last voicemail you leave sounds something like this: “WTF, Adam, you a**hole, where are you? Who are you with? What are you doing? You’re with that girl Brandy, aren’t you? I knew you were lying to me when you said you were just friends. Why can’t you ever answer your damn phone? I’m blocking your number. We’re done.”

Then you call him again.

I want you to know that even if men have labeled you “crazy” for behaving like this, you are not crazy. You just have what we call an anxious attachment style.

Want to dig deeper into what this is and how not to be so anxious when you’re dating? Check out this video:

In my Love Accelerator Program, I teach single women who are looking for love the Little Love Steps. And these steps will help you work with your anxious attachment style and prevent you from getting hurt again.

You won’t care if he’s out for boys’ night and you haven’t heard from him because he’ll just be one of many guys you’re seeing.

You won’t be blowing up anyone’s phone 32 times again because you literally won’t have time—you’ll be out on too many dates.

You won’t be phased even if you literally pass this guy on the street canoodling with Brandy. You’ll probably be canoodling with some other guy anyway.

Check out my simple strategies to attract healthy love if you have an anxious attachment style.

Editor’s note: Ready to attract love with a proven strategy? Register for this free training to learn how to find him.

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6 months ago

This so so true

6 months ago


6 months ago

Thank you for this post.
The description definitely applies to me and the advice was extremely helpful.

5 months ago

Wow, what a brilliant article! Until I’d read it, I didn’t even realize that I was in a toxic relationship. But life is so short that I don’t even have time for pitying myself. So I googled this thing and found that looks decent in terms of what I should do to attract a girl. Will you agree, people?

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