7 Signs You’re Dating the Wrong Guy

7 Signs You're dating the wrong guy

You’re friends say, “I’m not so sure about your boyfriend, you could do a lot better.”

You’re mom says, “Trust me, run as fast as you can in the other direction and don’t look back!”

But you think to yourself, “I’m just not sure…he seems OK to me.”

Well today’s video is all about looking for the signs that he’s not the right guy for you (or that he IS the right guy for you). I have a feeling you’re going to like this one.

Watch 7 signs you’re dating the wrong guy

Are you dating the wrong guy or the right guy? Let me know in the comments below.

Your coach,



Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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5 years ago

You’re totally right. These are incredibly important standards to hold!

3 years ago
Reply to  Jessica

Have been dating this guy for just a month and he tells me he loves me.. I went to visit for 9 days. .we had a great time, so much in common. .hes 54 I’m 58. Both have been hurt before and ready to have a loving relationship. .he wants me to come live with him..what do I do? We are not getting any younger.. Cee

5 years ago

YES – there are a lot of crappy people out there AND there are a lot of great people out there! Just need to weed through the bad ones to find the good ones.,

Another great video Adam!

5 years ago

You are so right on all of these points! I just needed to hear it from YOU!
Thanks for the great video…

5 years ago

I agree with this video. Had I listened to my gut I wouldn’t have been financially raped and abused by a sociopath.

5 years ago

Your common sense approach is spot on!! Thank you for all you do Adam!

5 years ago

I want dating the guy but I know he right guy friend for me as friend that about it.

5 years ago

Yep. You nailed it. Thanks for helping me clarify what I didn’t want to face.

5 years ago

You just opened my eyes! You are so right! Why am I still telling myself that this guy is a good boyfriend for me? That’s crazy! Thanks Adam!

5 years ago

This video help to confirm to me that I did the right thing. I followed my gut feeling and did the hard thing and broke up with a guy after 8 months of being in a relationship. 🙂 thanks Adam, for the sound advice!

5 years ago

All I got to say is that I’m thankful that I ended my 5 month realtionships now before it got any worse. I’m not even in my mid 20’s dating a guy nine years older than me who acted like 12 year old so thank God for showing my the way and for trusing my gut 🙂

5 years ago

I have been dating a guy for three months now, and I have had some doubts about whether he was right for me. Well the last couple of days I have not seen him due to my busy schedule, and I have been happier than lately. Thank you for this video and confirming what I was thinking… It is just hard to admit.

5 years ago

Love it Adam!! Trust your instincts!

5 years ago

I really enjoy your tips on video.

5 years ago

Gut feeling! 🙂

5 years ago

Just ended a relationship with a guy who checked almost all of my boxes and who I mostly loved spending time with but every now and then poked at my sensitive spots in a way that really annoyed the hell out of me. Also, judging by the sex we’d had, my gut was telling me that in the long-term we wouldn’t be well matched in that area and it would be an ongoing bone (no pun intended, lol) of contention. It was hard because he was my dream guy in so many other ways but I believe I can find… Read more »

4 years ago

I’m 57, dated a man 6 months after my husband past away.We have do much in common..decided to stay just friends..until 9 a year and half later he says I’m the one he would settle down with and started this relationship back up again. Things were great! Then out of the blue he said I’m not ready settle down..said He loves me in more ways then one .. I said I love you and can’t imagine not having you in my life now! He said the feeling had to be mutual!! WHAT?? So Confused! Now we don’t see each other..he… Read more »

4 years ago

God I hate it when you are right! Lol… Just kidding. Yup, spot on Adam.

3 years ago

Can NOT be said any better! Thank you Adam. A lot of people were telling me the same things I just didn’t want to hear. Now after a lot of bad things happened I am finally free and very happy the relationship is over. I wish I have listened to unbiased people and my intuition before. Adam you are doing a great job with your videos and blogs. Thank you!

Trena Robinson
2 years ago

A great video just the answers I needed I’m dating the wrong guy thanks Adam

2 years ago

Completely validates my divorce, thank you!

2 years ago

So my boyfriend of 2.5 years and I got into a huge fight, to the point of a breakup. Unfortunately, I just moved in with him 3 months ago and dont have family near me and I have a large dog, so I’m still in the house. I have been packing my stuff and purchased a house. However, in the mean time I have no where else to go so I’m staying with him until my house closes. The problem is we are both incredibly emotional people and when we do fight or argue they are always big. Usually, we… Read more »

2 years ago

thank you. Hes been weird yo me lately. I’m watching this laying on the couch…I cant sleep next to him anymore. I’ve been with this dude for 2.3 years. I had a gut feeling 6 months into it that something was off. I was right. but I stayed..and things r NOT good. I’m just trying to work on moving out of his place…yes he asked me to move in with him early in the relationship…red flag. it’s hard but pray for me guys.

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1 year ago

thank you so much I have been pleasing people but not myself.

[…] If you spent years in a relationship with a man who ended up not being The One, it’s understandable that you don’t want to waste any more time being single or dating the wrong guys. […]

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