6 Tips to Finding Love After 40 That Actually Work

6 Tips to Finding Love After 40 That Actually Work

Finding love after 40 can be challenging.


Because the dating scene has changed a lot since you were in your twenties.

Every man you meet comes with baggage. Maybe he’s just come out of a messy divorce, or he’s jaded from a past relationship, or he has kids.

You think you’ve met someone great, and you want to keep seeing him, and then BAM. He comes clean.

I’m still married.”

I just went bankrupt.”

My ex-wife and I are great friends, and we like to hang out at the weekends and barbeque.

And you’re left thinking WTF?!

All of a sudden, dating isn’t fun and carefree like it used to be. And frankly, it can be a little intimidating for us all.

So, what do you do if you’re looking for real, lasting love after 40?

Yes, the dating scene is different now because you’re in a different stage of your life. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be just as thrilling as it used to be.

There will always be men carrying a bit of baggage with them, and you’ve likely got your own too. But the secret to finding love after 40 is how you approach dating.

Because no matter how old you are, you deserve love, and it’s out there waiting for you to receive it.

What has been your number one challenge in finding love after 40? Have you tried any of these six tips in the video, and how did they work for you?

Drop me a comment below!

Your Coach,

P.S. If you’re serious about finding love after 40, check out my Little Love Steps Program. Learn more here.

6 Tips to Finding Love After 40 That Actually Work

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Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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1 month ago

I found this video to be extremely informative. I am a Widow in my early sixties and entering back into the dating world after 24 years of marriage. Like you said things have changed drastically. Any help is greatly appreciated.
Thanks for all the great information.

1 month ago

Hi Adam! I love that you’re covering this topic! I’m 54, never married, was in 2 long term relationships, no kids. I’ve decided that dating a man with daughters, especially if under the age of 26, is a deal breaker. I’ve been in 2 like this , & the relationship was so dependent needy sexual btwn father & daughter , I couldn’t stay. Also, divisive- the kid was the chip btwn him and the ex. A nightmare for any new woman trying to form a long term relationship with him.

1 month ago

Adam you nailed it yet again. Another great list. I was totally doing #1 almost like a drill sergeant or interviewing for a job. I was too analytical and I didn’t realize what a turn off it was until I met someone like me lol. Women sometimes are more verbal so we use words to get to know a man while men sometimes just use body language. Now I have learned to just enjoy the moment and at least I am working on that. I still do ask some questions as I would like to get a feel for someone.… Read more »

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