5 Reasons Why You Keep Attracting Toxic Men

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Toxic relationships are incredibly damaging and can cause long-lasting effects on one’s mental and emotional health. However, the truth is that no one ever intentionally sets out to be in a toxic relationship. The beginning of a relationship is always full of excitement and hope, and it’s only when things start to go south that we realize how much of a mind f*ck it really was.

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It’s like the proverbial frog in boiling water – if you throw a frog into boiling water, it will jump out immediately because it feels the heat. But if you gradually increase the temperature, the frog won’t notice the danger until it’s too late. Similarly, toxic relationships can start out very differently from how they end, and we may not realize we’re in one until it’s too late.

So why do we end up in toxic relationships? Here are some reasons why and what you can do to avoid them.

#1. Attachment Styles

Attachment theory is a psychological theory that explains the dynamics of relationships between humans. The most important idea is that young children need to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for normal social and emotional development. The main attachment styles are secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Research shows that non-secure attachment styles are more likely to lead to unhealthy, toxic relationships. Even if you are secure, meeting someone new and exciting can lead to moving too fast, missing red flags, and ending up in a toxic relationship with the wrong person. Regardless of what your attachment style is, you should always look for men with secure attachment styles.

#2. Trust

Trust is an essential element of any healthy relationship. Without trust, it can be difficult to build a strong bond with someone, and toxic behavior like paranoia, jealousy, and controlling behavior can arise. It’s important to have open conversations about boundaries to get on the same page; otherwise, lack of trust can fester and cause the relationship to die. Trust your instincts, as intuition doesn’t lie.

#3. Unhealthy Communication Patterns

Healthy communication is an essential foundation to any relationship, whether it’s a romantic one or a platonic one. Poor communication or a lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and a breakdown of trust in a relationship. You should always be able to communicate clearly and respectfully, even when you’re in conflict.

#4. Insecurities

Insecurities and low self-esteem can lead to toxic behavior as a way of seeking validation and attention. It can also lead to staying in a relationship, missing red flags, or accepting less than you deserve because you don’t realize you’re worthy of more. Improving your confidence can be done with knowledge and a strategy, and seeking out professional help can also be beneficial.

#5. Past Trauma

Past traumas like abuse or neglect, especially in childhood, can affect an individual’s ability to have healthy relationships. The help of therapy and coaching can allow you to face the trauma and heal. Otherwise, you’ll subconsciously be recreating your childhood in your adult relationships.

In conclusion, being in a toxic relationship is never a good thing. However, understanding why we end up in them is the first step in avoiding them altogether. By recognizing attachment styles, building trust, practicing healthy communication, addressing insecurities, and seeking help for past traumas, we can avoid the frog soup relationships and find true happiness and love.

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Doreen
3 months ago

I was enjoying Adam and the video shut down.

J. Jane Baloras
3 months ago

What a. Powerful message, Childhood experiences have a profound effect. I’ve seen it in myself – some of the trauma never leaves. It a matter of how well we can handle them

Maria
3 months ago

Yes, please, explain the attachments styles, how to recognize these 4, how to figure your own style

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Versie Fleck
2 months ago

Well, I’ve never had a relationship like that with any of my carers. They’re poisonous, and I don’t trust guys either, but I can’t even talk to them. Because they don’t come up to me (lmao slope game)

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