4 Things Men Desire But Would NEVER Ask For

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Does it sometimes seem like what men want and what you want is COMPLETELY opposite?

It’s easy to assume that guys just want hookups…

…to jump out of bed and head home right after being intimate…

…and zero commitment.

But I’m here to tell you, you might actually be surprised at the things men desire.

The truth is: men want a lot of the same things you do in terms of a relationship and emotional intimacy. They may not even be aware that they want these things, but trust me: if you’re offering these four things, they’ll be stoked to get them.

For you, understanding things men desire is helpful because, well, you’re not a mind reader!

Leave a comment below and let us know which of these you’ve found men to (surprisingly) like.

Your Coach,

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Adam LoDolce

Love Strategist

My true passion in life is transforming your love life by giving you specific tools and techniques that you can use to attract long lasting love. I got started when...Read Adam's Story

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Cyndy Farnsworth
2 months ago

Finding a relationship is so hard these days, As an older widow women, I know what I am looking for.. How do I get it out there when there is no opportunity to find anyone..dating sites are sososo slow!!! Men dont even want to send you an email back!! How do you manage a 400 mile relationship?

Beth Davis
2 months ago

Communication, communication and communication. As someone who was in the military and stationed far from home, lack of communication ended my marriage. As someone who is currently in a long-distant relationship (and have been for almost a year), what keeps us together is love, trust and communication. The main thing is the communication; without that, it all fails. Hope this helps!

2 months ago


I’m right there with you. I don’t want to chat online I want to meet people in real life! If you find anything lmk.

Rose Marie
2 months ago

Yeah all 4 are pillars of a long term relationship.

2 months ago

Hi Adam, After 1.5 yrs of online dating, I have finally met a great guy and we celebrated our 4 months being together!
We both like all 4 things you described in your video. We both love cuddling and being together as much as we can! He puts equal effort to get together and misses me when we are not together.
We have a great emotional connection and enjoy simple things together! We have a great communication about different topics to understand each other and line up our lives.
Thanks for all the information in your videos and emails.

Gwen Howard
2 months ago

I am in too all four of them

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