3 Scientific Reasons Why You Keep Attracting “Jerks”

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“WHY do I keep attracting a**holes?!”

This is a common complaint that I hear from women out there meeting new guys and actively pursuing a romantic connection.

They want the man who ticks all their boxes, they want the relationship, and they want the commitment. And although they don’t have trouble meeting men they’re attracted to and want to build a relationship with, they do have trouble meeting the right men.

Why?

Is your intuition off?

Did something happen in your past that has made you feel like you’re not worthy of a man who treats you well?

Do you have an invisible sign taped to your forehead that says, “if you’re a jerk, I wanna talk to you“?

Well, here are 3 scientific reasons why you might keep on attracting jerks (P.S. it’s not your fault).

If you don’t know why you find yourself stuck in this vicious cycle, it makes it almost impossible to hear that jerk-ometer blaring when you’re near this kind of guy.

But once you understand what keeps drawing you back to guys like this, you start to see through the BS. What used to be charming will feel inauthentic. What used to be sexy as hell will feel one-dimensional. The non-stop peacocking will leave you eye-rolling.

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And all those amazing guys who you never used to notice? They’ll start to catch your attention, and that’s a great thing.

So, are you ready to PUT THE JERKS DOWN for good and open your mind and heart to a kind, caring man who would never dream of mistreating you?

Your Coach,

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2 years ago

You always have the best information! I can relate to almost all of it! Thank you! I enjoy reading & listening to you!!

2 years ago

To find the right man to love Be with for as long as we live.

Tiffany Wilkosz
2 years ago

What about if you’re always finding unavailable men?

Ellen
2 years ago

Yes, I’m guilty I allow these type of guys in my life. I never had my dad’s guidance or instruction. He was too much into his homosexuality.

Honey Jackson
2 years ago

I thought this was very funny, especially comparing men to apes! Very much “on target”, Adam! You give out good info, appreciate listening to you and you remind me of the type of men friends I have that I’d consider good mate material, but it never worked out! C’est la vie! I swill always keep an open mind and an open heart because there are still many, many great guys out in the world. It’s just,where to look?! It’s that proverbial “needle in a haystack”and I’m not a huge fan of “hay”! LOL! And what is your romantic love life… Read more »

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