10 Irresistible Texts That Captivate His Interest

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Mastering the Art of Flirting via Text: 10 Go-To Texts for Dating Success

The Digital Dating Dilemma

In today’s dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we’ve covered in previous podcasts, “Love Texting” is a skill anyone can learn and perfect.

We’re here to solve all that uncertainty with ten go-to texts that will make texting so much easier. But first, let’s discuss a general strategy.

General Strategy for Texting

Don’t just send canned texts to guys. Authenticity and intentionality are key. These texts are not magical strings of words; they need to reflect your personality. Avoid mundane, superficial texts. Instead, generate meaningful conversations and learn how he thinks and interacts. Remember, if you wouldn’t say it in person, don’t text it.

Top 10 Texts You MUST Have in Your Dating Toolbox

#1. “Saw this, and it reminded me of you…”

– Use novelty and visuals. Take a picture of something from your day and use it to reach out. Incorporate visuals or GIFs purposefully.

#2. “I’d love to get your thoughts on something…”

– Make him the helpful hero. This requires a response, gauges interest, and reveals how he thinks.

#3. “Today’s Confession: ______” / “Weird Observation: ______ ” / “Fun Fact: ______” / “Ever Wonder?”

– Use novelty and interest to start conversations. These texts are not typical and provide something intriguing to discuss.

#4. “Know what I find fascinating about you?”

– Every guy will answer this text. It creates mystery, intrigue, and offers a compliment, keeping him hooked.

#5. “You’re going to have to do better than that.”

– A playful challenge. This sets the expectation for tonight’s date, creating a balance of power and showing you as an equal.

#6. “I know I’m a catch, what’s not clear yet is, are you?”

– This text combines confidence with a challenge. Highlight something great about yourself and pose a playful question.

#7. The Pushback: “Nope…too soon for all that. If you’re lucky, maybe we get to that  _____ ….”

– Fill in the blank with a time timetable. Set boundaries with a playful tone. Use an emoji (like a winky face) to soften the message.

#8. “Life is all about choices, and going out with you was a good one. Can’t wait to see what you plan next.”

– An after-date text that’s atypical. Show appreciation for something specific about the date and express anticipation for the future.

#9. “Are you always like this? You’re such a nerd/dork.”

– Use playful teasing to create familiarity. Compliment his personality in a fun way.

#10. “I bet no one has ever told you this, but…”

– Offer a unique perspective. Find something noteworthy or interesting from his profile or pictures and compliment it. This shows you see something special in him.

Texts NOT to Send

– Avoid anything sexual. His mind is likely already there, so don’t encourage it. Remember, we’re focusing on genuine connection and interest.

By following these strategies and using these go-to texts, you can navigate the digital dating world with confidence and authenticity. Happy texting!