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#1 Bizarre Way to Charm a Man (Try it on your next Date)

NOTES The Quirkiness Advantage: Embracing Your Authentic Self in Dating In the world of dating, we’re often advised to present our most polished selves. But what if embracing our quirks is the key to making a lasting impression? Recent trends in dating psychology suggest that authenticity, including our unique idiosyncrasies, can be surprisingly attractive. The…

7 Classy Ways to Capture a Guy’s Attention

By Adam LoDolce

Notes from the podcast: Suppose you’re someone who prefers the guy to do all the pursuing. In that case, you might find yourself only attracting those who are overly confident or even narcissistic—traits that don’t necessarily equate to a quality partner. While it’s essential not to come across as desperate or too eager, finding a…

#1 Text to Reignite a Spark with a Guy

By Adam LoDolce

Notes from the Video One of our clients came to us needing clarification about how to re-engage with this man she liked. She pondered various approaches: asking him out directly, sending a letter, or having a friend intervene. My advice? Send a straightforward, thoughtful text. For example, share a link or a GIF about a…

The RIGHT Way to Smile at a Guy to Get His Attention

By Adam LoDolce

So, I’ll admit that I creep onto a lot of other dating coaches’ websites because I like to know what the heck they’re advising their clients to do. Not too surprisingly, I either love their ideas, or I hate them. But, there’s one piece of advice that I both love and hate simultaneously, and it…