Relationship Advice
Is Your Guy Falling Short? One thing you should NEVER do
Notes from the podcast: In relationships, a hard truth remains: no one is perfect. This acknowledgment sets the stage for a phenomenon I’ve come to call the “Near Miss” phenomenon, where apps and social encounters introduce us to potential partners who tick most of the boxes yet seem to fall just short in certain areas.…
Read More#1 Way to Fix Bad Communication With Your Guy
Notes from the podcast: Every relationship, without exception, encounters its fair share of problems, ranging from minor irritations and daily annoyances to major, deep-seated issues. Sometimes, it’s not a specific problem but a lingering sense that things are not clicking as they should. The First Step to Resolution: Communication The root of most relationship problems…
Read More10 Relationship Truths Every Woman NEEDS to Hear
Here are ten relationship truths we believe every woman needs to hear: #1. You’re beautiful, but don’t let people fall in love with you for your looks. Prioritizing superficial qualities leads to superficial relationships. This goes for you, too. Don’t get distracted by physical qualities. Looks are temporary; character is forever. #2. You have to…
Read More4 Traits Linked to Career Success but Relationship Heartbreak
Professional triumph didn’t fall into your lap. It’s the fruit of your perseverance, the relentless hours you invested, and the unyielding persona you’ve honed. Yet, the triumph turns bittersweet as these victories don’t echo in the corridors of your love life. Instead, they reverberate as the silent echoes of solitude. Are you to choose between…
Read More4 Ways to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work
Over the past decade, long-distance relationships have seen a significant surge. With over 3 million couples in the United States currently navigating the challenges of distance, it’s clear that this trend is on the rise. A staggering 10% of all marriages today began as long-distance relationships. Two reasons are driving this shift in dynamics.…
Read More10 Dangerous Relationship Red Flags Most Women Ignore
Today we will explore ten dangerous red flags that many women ignore, despite their potential impact on relationships. #1. He Goes Overboard with the Compliments: While compliments are pleasant, you must be cautious when someone showers you with excessive praise too early in a relationship. These compliments may lack sincerity and might be a tactic…
Read MoreIs He Relationship Material? 3 Simple Questions to Ask Your Guy
When trying to find the right partner, it can be challenging to determine if someone is truly relationship material. However, three simple questions can provide valuable insights into a person’s intentions, emotional availability, and compatibility. Forget about trying to read signs or bombarding them with countless inquiries. Instead, focus on open communication and asking the…
Read MoreWhy ‘The Notebook’ Sets You Up for Relationship Failure
When it comes to romantic movies, “The Notebook” is often hailed as a classic. It has captivated the hearts of audiences worldwide with its tale of passionate love and undying devotion. However, beneath the surface of this seemingly heartwarming story lies a dangerous set of relationship myths and toxic behaviors. This blog post will explore…
Read MoreThe Power in Leaning Back and Letting a Man Lead (4 Ways to Do It)
Are you a powerful, go-getting woman who dominates in the boardroom? If so, you might find that your strong masculine energy, which serves you well in your professional life, doesn’t always translate to success in the dating world. Unconsciously, you may be repelling masculine men and attracting more submissive, beta partners. Let’s explore the importance…
Read More13 Signs It’s Time To Walk Away From A Relationship That No Longer Serves You
How do you know when it’s time to walk away from a relationship versus when it’s time to stick it out and put in the extra work? You may have heard that all relationships require work and will experience challenges, and that’s true. But what’s the line between a healthy amount of work and a…
Read More7 Dangerous Signs of Gaslighting in a Relationship (#3 KILLS Your Confidence)
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that involves manipulating someone’s perception of reality. It is a dangerous technique that can undermine a person’s self-confidence and sanity, and is often used by people in romantic relationships to exert control and power over their partner. In this blog post, we will discuss the signs of gaslighting…
Read MoreThe Feminine Charm Code: 7 Proven Ways to Be a Magnetic First Date
Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can’t seem to make a connection with someone new? It’s a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a charming first date, and have men…
Read More6 Signs It’s Time To Break Up (It’s OVER!)
One thing is for sure: breakups are the worst. But sometimes you’ll find yourself in a relationship and wonder, “why the heck are we still together?!” Maybe he sucks. Perhaps the two of you are great alone, but together you suck. But what do you do if you’re on the fence about it? How can…
Read MoreThe 10 Challenges Every Relationship Must Face
Everyone wants romantic relationships to be simple. They’re not. Instead, relationships are complicated, tricky, and confusing. It’s enough to leave you feeling indecisive and unsure. And yet, we’ve all seen happy couples who have been together forever. What’s their secret? Those “super couples” don’t avoid complications. They have struggles, just like the rest of us.…
Read MoreHolding on Too Long? A Story about Cars and Love
Over the summer, I was in Boston and out to dinner with a colleague who specializes in relationships. We’ll call him Adam because, well, his name is Adam LoDolce. When two relationship experts go out to dinner and strike up a conversation with the waitress, you’d assume the topic du jour would be love, dating,…
Read More7 Subtle Signs that Your Relationship Is In Trouble
You never saw it coming. Just like that. Your relationship is a mess, or worse, it’s completely over. Everything seemed to be going well, then suddenly, it wasn’t. No one likes to be blindsided. While it may seem like the end came out of nowhere, the truth is there are always signs. You just missed…
Read MoreHow to Use Passion to Find (and Keep) Long-Lasting Love
Early in a relationship, the mere thought of your partner brings a smile to your face and a flutter to your stomach. You feel downright giddy. That’s passionate love. It feels AMAZING. But it’s more than that. Passionate love motivates us to spend every possible moment together and move the relationship forward. It’s all so…
Read More5 Ways to Improve Communication in A Relationship
We’ve all heard of communication and how it’s essential to any healthy, successful relationship. But what exactly is communication, and why do we need it? Communication = two people exchanging ideas, including their feelings, wants, and needs. It’s about opening up about important things and receiving that information from your partner. Without open communication, problems…
Read More3 Simple Strategies To Fix Any Struggling Relationship
Everyone wants the best relationship possible. Yet, no relationship is perfect. We all have room for improvement. But how? What should couples do? You could read the scientific literature or try to sort through a bunch of questionable advice on the Internet. It’s overwhelming, which just begs you to do nothing and simply hope for…
Read MoreHow to Attract Men Who Aren’t Intimidated by Your Success
Strong relationships require a strong foundation. To build that base, each partner must embrace who they are and continually strive to grow. In other words: Improve yourself to improve your relationships. Simple. Smart. Intuitive. But we all know that in real life, relationships are rarely that simple. I recently tweeted (actually a retweet from someone…
Read More5 Simple Tests that Prove He’s “the One”
Have you ever wished there was an easy way of knowing if the man you’re dating is the right one for you? Life would be much simpler if you could send him off with a list of questions and then have a computer program tell you yay or neigh. Unfortunately, real life isn’t that simple,…
Read MoreWhat Is An Exclusive Relationship Really? 14 Signs You’re In One
What does it mean to be exclusive in a relationship, and how do you know you’re in one? As a dating coach, I work with many women who often tell me they assume they’re in an exclusive relationship with a guy, only to find out a few weeks or months later that he is still…
Read MoreWhat Is Micro-Cheating? Here Are 16 Signs It’s Happening
If your partner sleeps with someone else behind your back, I think we can all agree that qualifies as cheating. Just try and worm your way out of that one, buddy. But what about flirting with a colleague at work, frequently posting fire emojis on someone’s Instagram photos, or texting your ex? Welcome to micro-cheating.…
Read MoreRelationship Compatibility: 16 Signs The Connection Will Last
Ever rocked up to a first date and thought, “geez, I hope we’re not compatible”? Said no one in the history of dating. Relationship compatibility is what we’re ALL searching for, right? You want to want to rip each other’s clothes off and then be able to nerd out on a Star Wars marathon the…
Read MoreOnce A Cheater Always A Cheater? 11 Things To Know If This is True
We’ve all encountered the saying, “once a cheater, always a cheater.” But the question is, is there any truth to it? Maybe you’ve had personal experience with men who have repeatedly cheated in the past, or perhaps you’ve forgiven someone for cheating after they promised it wouldn’t happen again, and they stuck to their word.…
Read MoreWhen Should You Let Go of Him? WATCH THIS
Have you ever stayed in a toxic or unsatisfying relationship for way longer than you should have? There are so many reasons why people stay even when they KNOW they should leave: It’s comfortable It’s familiar The relationship makes sense on paper You don’t want the past x years to have been a total waste…
Read More6 Different Types Of Romantic Relationships: Which One Are You In?
Do you know the different types of romantic relationships that exist? Whether you’re in a relationship right now or not, having a solid understanding of relationship types will help you avoid the wrong ones and attract the right ones. There’s just one problem: every relationship is slightly different. On top of that, we all have…
Read More18 Relationship Goals Every Couple Needs For Long-Term Love
The term “relationship goals” is a popular hashtag thrown around on social media to accompany staged and filtered couple photos, but what exactly are relationship goals, and why should you have them? Healthy, successful relationships are built on two individuals coming together and being intentional about their shared goals and actions, today and in the…
Read More7 Things All Men Do When They Fall In Love (#5 is SHOCKING)
He loves me. He loves me not. He loves me. He loves me not. He loves me. So… he loves me, right? Maybe you’ve been dating a man for a while, and you can feel yourself falling for him. But the burning question on your mind is, “is he falling for me too?” While men…
Read MoreNEVER Marry a Man Who Has These 7 Habits
Marriage can be a beautiful thing. But anyone who is in a long-lasting, committed, loving marriage will also tell you that marriage is hard work. Couples in those relationships devote their time and energy to making it work, and they’re both all-in on their marriage. This brings me on to the flip side: marriage can…
Read More3 Ways to Know If You Should Move in With Your Boyfriend
I have many women in our community asking for advice on how to know when you’re ready to move in with someone. This is a GREAT question because it’s a BIG step in any relationship, and in my experience, it’s often make or break. Move in too early, and your relationship won’t be solid enough…
Read MoreDating vs. Relationship: 13 Differences And What The Title Really Means
What’s the real difference when it comes to dating vs. being in a relationship? How do you know if you’re casually seeing someone or if you’re exclusive? If you found your way to this article, you’re probably feeling a little confused and looking for clarity on your situation. And I get it. Nobody wants to…
Read More5 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Love You [Walk Away]
Are you in a relationship and struggling to figure out if this guy really loves you? When you’re crazy in love with someone, it can be tricky to see your relationship clearly. It’s like you’re walking around with blinders on. But there’s a reason you’re here. Something feels off. You’re not totally convinced he’s fully…
Read More3 Types of Relationships Every Woman Experiences (Avoid 2 of Them!)
There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. But that’s easy to forget when you’re single and looking at… …Insta couples kissing in a pile of fall leaves… …your friend showing off her engagement ring on Facebook… …or any other photo that makes you feel like you’re lacking because you’re not in a relationship. I…
Read More7 Scientific Signs A Guy Is Falling In Love With You
When it comes to knowing whether a guy is falling in love with you or not, you don’t have to be a mind reader. You don’t have to dissect everything he says with your girlfriends (though you enjoy that, don’t you?). You don’t even need a sign from the heavens. There are scientific signs that…
Read MoreHow Do I Tell If He Loves Me? 12 Signs He’s Falling Hard
Things are going well in your relationship and you’re starting to be able to envision a future together. You’re still sorting out your feelings about him…but you’re also wondering how he feels about you. How do I tell if he loves me? Is it just puppy love? Does the way he gazes into my eyes…
Read MoreDid He Say “I Love You” Too Soon? Here’s How to Respond
You’ve been dating a great guy for just a few weeks when he gazes into your eyes… …and tells you he loves you. Pump the breaks…WHAT?!! It’s confusing…it’s awkward…and you likely don’t know what to do if a man says I love you too soon. It could be that he’s just totally infatuated with you…
Read MoreHe’s Not Ready for a Relationship? Say THIS
Things were going really well with this guy and then he dropped a bomb… “Uh, the truth is…I’m not ready for a relationship.” You’d been doodling his name in your notebooks. Telling all your friends about your hot new boyfriend. Picking out curtains for the house you knew you’d move into together. And NOW he…
Read More3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away
The guy you’re talking to normally texts first thing to wish you a good day…but today you haven’t heard from him. Is this you? “OMG he always texts by 10 am! It’s 10:07! He’s clearly found someone he likes better! Why did I waste my time? What did I do wrong? WAAAAH!” It can feel…
Read MoreTHIS Will Make Him Chase You (And Worry About Losing You)
Let me guess: you’ve seen other so-called “dating experts” give you advice saying, “this will make him chase you:” Ignore his texts… …post pics with other men on Facebook… …basically don’t give him any of your time. If that’s what you’re hoping to find here, I’m sorry to disappoint you. I don’t believe in manipulating…
Read MoreHow to Make a Man Fall in Love With You (7 “Love Steps” That Work!)
Are you tired of countless dates with guys who only want ONE thing? Are you ready to discover how to make a man fall deeply in love with you? My Little Love Steps are the fastest way to find the right man who will fall head over heels for you. You don’t need to…
Read More5 Reasons Why He Hasn’t Said “I Love You”
Falling in love before you know whether he feels the same is like jumping out of a plane. Do you have a parachute…or will you plummet to the earth? Will he respond that he desperately has fallen head over heels for you…or will you make a fool of yourself by telling him how you feel?…
Read More3 Reasons Why NOW Is the Best Time to Find Love
In addition to being an economic and financial disaster, this coronavirus has also become an emotional disaster. We aren’t able to connect with the people we care for like we used to. We miss the physical connection. Video doesn’t always cut it. And if you’re single…that might make things worse. You’re lonely…you feel disconnected…and you’re…
Read MoreHow to Tell If He Loves You: 12 Surefire Signs He’ll Be Yours Forever
Things have been going really great with the guy you’re dating. He’s made it past all your filters and dealbreakers, and you’re starting to see some real long-term potential with him. Thing is…you are worried this feeling is one-sided. And you don’t want to have your heart broken again after the things you’ve been through…
Read More7 Ways Your Insecurities Are Actually Pushing Him Away
Have you ever been dating a guy and things are going really, really well… But then suddenly your heart is telling you to run? Your head tries to tell you that things are going well, but for whatever reason, you pull into your turtle shell and hide. It’s not rational, and you probably realize this.…
Read More3 Reasons Why Men Get Hot and Cold (+ What to Do Next)
One minute, a guy is texting you nonstop and trying to spend all his time with you… …then he ghosts you for a week. It’s f#%!ing frustrating, isn’t it? You and your girlfriends have no idea why men get hot and cold, but if you could only crack that code…maybe dating would be more fun.…
Read More3 Toxic Ways You Might Be Over-Communicating in Your Relationship
All of the experts tell you to communicate your feelings in a relationship… …but is it possible to over-communicate? I’ve been guilty of this myself. Rocking the boat when the relationship was cruising along just fine. Watch the video below to learn the 3 toxic ways you might be over-communicating in your relationship. Have…
Read More5 Signs a Guy is SERIOUS About a Future With You
Have you ever dated a guy who was a complete waste of time? When the relationship ended, you discovered that he had ZERO interest in a serious relationship, and then you had to start all over again. Never again, my sexy single lady. Here are 5 signs that a guy is serious about a future…
Read MoreHow to Stop Giving a F#CK About What Men Think
Do you care too much about what men think about you? I think the image below sums up this week’s video perfectly. Click on it to learn one simple principle to developing your inner confidence around men. Are you ready to stop caring? Then leave a comment below committing yourself to the principles outlined in…
Read More4 Secret Signs He Thinks About You More Than You Know
Are you constantly on his mind? Instead of “bait texting” him to see if he responds… …watch the video below and learn the 4 secret signs he thinks about you more than you know. Have you ever seen these signs from a guy? Leave a comment below letting me know how it went. Your…
Read MoreHow Men Test Women (4 Psychological Tricks We Play)
When you first start dating a guy, you’re probably testing him. Does he take charge of situations? Is he a nice guy? Is he respectful to the waiter? You know…standard things to look out for. And believe it or not, he’s testing you too…except his tests are VERY different than yours. Fail these “tests,” and…
Read More9 Things To Look For in a Guy Before It Gets Too Serious
You’re newly single and looking for love, but the dates you’ve gone on have been less than ideal. You thought Joe was going to be your Prince Charming…but he turned out to be a dud. Then Phil, who smooth-talked his way into your heart turned out to only want to get into your bed. You…
Read More7 Signs of a Possessive Boyfriend (And How to Deal With Him)
Are you in a relationship with a guy who seems to be a possessive boyfriend? Maybe it feels like he’s controlling you… …he freaks out when you spend time with other people (especially men)… …or he starts arguments when things don’t go his way. And worse, your friends and family are starting to notice. They…
Read More3 Reasons Why He Won’t Commit (SHOCKING)
4 Signs of a Healthy Relationship (He’s a Keeper)
Have you ever been in a relationship that was so exciting, where you never knew what was going to happen next? One that felt like a roller coaster? That guy was totally unpredictable, wasn’t he? Him: Man, I love you! I just want to be with you forever… You: [totally smitten] I love you too! Him: …But…
Read MoreHow Men Fall In Love With a Women (5 Psychological Steps)
The Curse of The Three-Month Relationship: Why It Never Lasts Longer
Does this ring a bell? You start a new relationship, and at first, it’s looking like everything is going well. It’s like you two were created to be together. It’s magic and sparkles. You can’t get enough of one another. But… Just three short months later, your relationship has turned into something resembling the demonic…
Read More26 Soulmate Signs You’ve Found Your Forever Person
From a young age, we’re conditioned to believe that finding our soulmate is the key to falling in love and living happily ever after (thanks, Disney). But what exactly is a soulmate, and what are some of the signs someone is your soulmate? Is it enough if you love each other and don’t want to…
Read More27 Ways to Appreciate Your Man and Give Him The Love He Needs
Whether you’re dating someone new or are in a serious relationship, learning how to appreciate your man will go a long way to building your relationship in a positive way. After all, who doesn’t like feeling appreciated? I can tell you from personal experience: when Jessica shows me that she appreciates me, it makes me…
Read MoreHow to Tell Him You Love Him (3 Special Ways to Steal His Heart)
There’s that moment when you look deeply into someone’s eyes and know from the bottom of your heart that you truly love that person. That moment might just be…the most terrifying moment you’ll ever experience. Scarier than sky diving…or even spiders. Uck. But figuring out how to tell him you love him is even harder.…
Read MoreUnhappy Relationship? 3 Steps to Consider Before Ending It
Look, you might think breakups are painful, but nothing is as painful as staying in an unhappy relationship. You know what I’m talking about. Maybe you had a relationship in the past (maybe even a marriage) that you felt like you couldn’t get out of for far too long…but then when you finally ended it,…
Read More4 Ways to Make Him Worry About Losing You
Do you feel like maybe your guy doesn’t fully appreciate you? Maybe he’s been pulling away lately and you don’t know what to do. So you’re trying to figure out how to make him worry about losing you as a way to get his attention back on you. There’s definitely a right and wrong way…
Read MoreHow to Have Trust in a Relationship: 3 Signs You Can Open Your Heart To Him
To trust or not to trust in a relationship — that is the question. I’m sure you’ve experienced this: you start liking a man…you get that oxytocin flowing through your veins…you can’t stop thinking about him… but can you really trust this feeling? And can you really trust this guy? If you’re divorced or have…
Read MoreWhat is Gaslighting? 11 Red Flag Signs He’s Manipulating You
You keep hearing this term “gaslighting,” and you’re wondering about it. People have even told you that you’re being gaslit. So…what IS gaslighting? In a Nutshell: What is Gaslighting? Essentially, with gaslighting, a person, usually a romantic partner, denies the validity of things you know you’re experiencing. “You’re imagining things. You didn’t see me with…
Read More16 Subtle Signs He is Talking to Someone Else
You’ve been dating a man for a few weeks, and while you think it’s going okay, you find yourself looking for signs he is talking to someone else. You’re afraid to get too emotionally invested in this situation until you’re sure that he’s interested in you and you alone. Maybe you’re paranoid because you’ve been…
Read MoreWhat is a Commitment? 14 Signs You’re in a Loving Committed Relationship
This took you by surprise. One day you go out with just another guy…then a few weeks later, things seem to be getting serious. But is it a committed relationship? What IS a commitment at this point in your life? At one point, you knew what commitment looked like, but now that your dating this…
Read MoreHow to Get Him to Commit By Pulling Away (Send Him THIS Text)
So you’re dating a man who’s having a little trouble committing to you. It may sound counterintuitive, learning how to get him to commit by pulling away, but you’ll soon see in this video and article that it’s actually a highly-effective strategy for getting the right guy to realize you’re worth working for. In this…
Read More27 Real Signs of True Love in a Relationship
After being single for a while, or after being in a relationship that hurt you badly, you’ve opened yourself up to love again. You think you might be in love with your boyfriend, but you’re looking for signs of true love before you say those three magical words. If you’ve been hurt before (and I’m…
Read More11 Major Reasons Why Relationships Fail & How to Avoid it in the Future
Looking back at your past relationships, you can’t help but feel dejected. For one reason or another, they all ended, and not always on a good note. You’re trying to understand why relationships fail so you can break the pattern. First, let me just say: it’s not your fault. I know you might be hard…
Read MoreThe #1 Relationship Mistake That Can Ruin EVERYTHING Before It Even Starts
While there are several relationship mistakes people often make, there is ONE that nearly all people make every single day. It erodes our relationships on a much deeper level than we ever could imagine. In this video and article, I talk about what that monster of all relationship mistakes is, as well as how you…
Read MoreThe Fear of Love: 16 Big Reasons Why He’s Afraid Of The “L” Word
You’re ready to give your all to the man you’re seeing, but he’s exhibiting a fear of love that you simply don’t understand. You have no trouble opening yourself up to him and giving him your love. Why can’t he reciprocate? Are you wasting your time? 16 Causes for His Fear of Love The fact…
Read MoreRelationship Standards: How to Set Them to Attract the Right Man
If you want to lower your relationship standards when you go out and meet men, try this. Rip 10 shots of Fireball in under 2 minutes. Then you won’t feel feelings anymore. Trust me. Your standards will vanish into the air like an eagle flying through the night! On the other hand…if you do want to…
Read More17 Biggest Turn Offs for Guys That Can End a Relationship Before It Begins
There’s nothing worse than when everything seems like it’s going well with a new guy, and then suddenly, out of nowhere, you can tell that he’s turned off by something you’ve done. And yet…turn offs for guys are still a mystery to you. Maybe you were texting a man you met on Bumble and he…
Read MoreWhat is Emotional Abuse? Here’s One Test That You’re in an Abusive Relationship
What is emotional abuse? Well, there’s an old saying we tell children: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. So…what have we been teaching kids? That it’s okay to call each other names? That we can always rise above it? Sorry to say, but this is crap, and we should…
Read More11 Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You (NEXT!)
If you’re looking up signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you…I’m pretty sure you’ve already identified a few red flags with the guy you’re dating. Am I right? Spend your life chasing men who don’t want a relationship with you… ..and I promise you, you will spend your life as that weird cat lady…
Read MoreHow to Make a Man Feel Loved: 6 Secret Strategies
male Whether you’re at the start of a relationship…or are years down the road with this man…either way, you can always use tips on how to make a man feel loved. I mean, we all want to feel loved, right? And yet, sometimes we overlook what’s right in front of us and take that love…
Read MoreHow To Move On When You Still Love Him: 15 Ways Move Forward With Your Life
After a big heartbreak, you’re struggling with how to move on when you still have strong feelings. From where you stand, it seems plain impossible that you’d ever be able to get over him. Whether he ended it because he wasn’t ready to commit… You broke up with him because you caught him cheating… Or…
Read More9 Tips on How To Be Irresistible to Men – Men Will Go Crazy
A woman who successfully learns how to be irresistible to men is one who is incredibly attractive and too tempting to resist. Men flock around her like kids around a birthday cake. It may not be rational…they just want her. If you’ve never had a man look at you like a mouthwatering cake he can’t wait…
Read MoreHow to Text a Guy to Keep Him Interested (Steal These 17+ Examples!)
So you want to know how to text a guy to keep him interested? Gone are the days when you would only talk on the phone to a guy you were dating. Now, texting has become the norm both when getting to know someone new as well as once that relationship develops. This is both a…
Read MoreHow To Stop Being Jealous: 5 Great Tips To Save Your Relationship
You want to know how to stop being jealous. You want to get rid of that horrible feeling you get when you’re wondering… “Am I crazy, or is there something wrong here? Is my man interested in her??” Before you’re too hard on yourself, let me just say: jealousy is a completely normal feeling. But…
Read MoreHow To Choose Between Two Men: 9 Questions to Ask Yourself
Hey, it’s a tough problem, figuring out how to choose between two men! Some women don’t even have one man to “choose,” so consider yourself lucky that you have options. The conundrum that dating presents is that you may talk or go out with several men at the same time. The idea is that you…
Read MoreGiving Up On Love: 9 Proven Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Do It
UGGG! You’re sick to death of dead-end dating and have decided that you’re giving up on love altogether. Before you do, Sexy Confident lady, do me a favor and read this article first. I understand your frustration. The older you are, the harder it can seem to find a man worthy of your amazing self.…
Read MoreIs He Cheating on You? Top Signs He Is + What You Can do About it!
You can’t put your finger on it…but something’s just not right in your relationship. Maybe he’s out late without explanation. Texting you less. Acting suspicious. Is he cheating on you? While I don’t want to be an alarmist, I’ve found that if your gut tells you something, it’s often true. Still, you want to be…
Read MoreWhy Men Fight Their Feelings and How to Get Him to Open Up
Since the dawn of time, women have tried to figure out why men fight their feelings. They act one way and say something else entirely. Here’s an example of a classic male internal dialogue: Emotionally Open Him: Oh God! She’s so wonderful. I love being around her… Macho Him: Shut up! Don’t do it! Emotionally…
Read More9 Signs You’re Dating a Married Man and What You Should Do About It
This guy seems too good to be true. Dream dates, breakfast in bed, romantic gazes…he’s giving you the full Prince Charming treatment. But the fact that you’re researching “signs you’re dating a married man” tells me that you have some serious concerns about his availability as a partner. As well you should. It’s shocking and…
Read More3 Proven Tips On How to Get Over a Breakup Fast
Women around the world are dying to know how to get over a breakup. They desperately want some magic pill or formula that will take them out of the heartache they’re experiencing. They want to forget the man that caused them so much pain. Does that describe you? Are you tired of crying over the end…
Read More3 Powerful Ways to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
Back in elementary school, when you liked a boy, you could make him miss you by ignoring him…or shoving him in the mud. Yea, that seems counter-intuitive to make a guy like you, but hey, it worked for the second-grade set. Now you need more stealthy and effective ways to make him miss you like…
Read More3 Signs You’re Dating a Toxic Person (And How to Deal With It!)
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship before? It’s a crazy question because you’d think that if you’re in one, you’d know to get out. But love does crazy things… … and sometimes we get hooked before we realize who we are dating… … or what the relationship is becoming. That’s when the heartbreak…
Read MoreWhat to Do if He’s Ignoring You & Your Texts
Maybe you sent him a text saying “I had fun last night,”… … or you sent a flirty emoji… … or a ridiculous gif… … bit he didn’t respond back. It’s an icy dagger through the heart, causing panic, confusion, and desperation. What should you do in this situation? Do you call him to see…
Read MoreHow to Compliment a Guy and Make His Heart Melt (11 Examples You Can Use!)
Before we get into the subject of how to compliment a guy…let me ask you a question… … the last time someone complimented you — on your outfit, or maybe on something you did — did you like that person more…or less? You instinctively felt like you liked them more, right? It’s a natural human response.…
Read MoreReady for Mr. Right? Make Your Dream Guy List to Attract Him
You’ve struggled for months or even years to find a quality man deserving of your time and love…and yet, you’ve come up empty. Darren was sweet, shared your love of beer, but wasn’t ready for a relationship. Chad was “hot as hell” but such a jerk. Clearly, you need a new approach to finding love.…
Read MoreShould You Settle for the “Good Enough” Relationship?
You’re not in your 20s anymore. You’ve had relationships that never quite lived up to the high standards you had in your head, and more and more, you find yourself alone. But being alone is hard. And being part of a couple is easy…usually. Studies back this up: being in a relationship makes people happier than…
Read More9 Red Flags That He’s Fallen Out of Love with You
You’ve been with this guy for months or even years. In the beginning, he bent over backward to please you. Lately though, it feels like there’s a big disconnect between you. Is it just temporary, or should you be concerned that he’s fallen out of love with you? The sad fact is: people change. Feelings…
Read MoreHow to Respond to a Guy Who Flakes and Then Shows Up Again
Here’s the situation: you had a great first date. He seemed interested. But then he never followed up. Maybe you were even brave enough to reach out, but got nothing in response. What do you do when a guy flakes for seemingly no reason? The Pitfalls of Texts in Dating While it can be easy…
Read More13 Signs Your New Relationship Will End in Heartbreak
Imagine if you had the ability to predict, with near 100% certainty, if your new relationship would end in heartbreak. Do you think you’d make the mistake of wasting weeks (possibly even months or years) of your time dating a guy who will eventually end up being “Mr. Wrong”? Probably not. Well… These 13 warning…
Read More3 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate And Finding True Love
My secret guilty pleasure… Relaxing with a tub of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream and watching back to back romantic comedies on Netflix. There, I said it. And I know I’m not alone. The only problem with Hollywood movies is that they ruin your expectations. I mean… When was the last time you actually experienced…
Read MoreDO NOT Marry a Guy Who Has these 5 Habits
Marriage. Statistically, it’s a coin flip at best and a crapshoot at worst. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t find everlasting love. And it doesn’t mean you can’t find it with a quality guy who treats you like the amazing woman you are. If getting married is something you deeply desire for your future, then…
Read MoreThe Ultimate “Love Test” | 3 Ways to Know If He’s “The One”
Let me ask you a question: How AMAZING would it be if you and a guy could go on a date… … both of you fill out a questionnaire… … and know instantly whether or not you’re right for each other? Unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way, does it? Well, here’s the good news: In…
Read MoreWhy You Might Always End Up in Unhealthy Relationships
If you find that you’re constantly landing yourself in the middle of unhealthy relationships, there is a MASSIVE reason why. Even though this character trait is something that everyone admires in another person… … it’s murdering your chances of finding and developing the kind of healthy relationship you’ve been secretly craving. Discover what I’m talking…
Read More5 Ways You’re Preventing Yourself from Finding Love
I’ve been doing this for a long time, and have had countless conversations with people who are in all phases of life; men, women, single, married, divorced, and everything in between. These interactions have led to many insights, some of which include varying degrees of self-sabotage. Many of us have been jaded along the way,…
Read MoreWhy Men Don’t Want to Marry You (REAL TALK)
Do you feel like you’re “Always the bridesmaid, but never the bride?” You’re not alone. It seems as though people are less and less willing to get married – or take much longer to do so. But the real question is, why? Is it that men don’t want to get married in general, or is…
Read MoreHow to Let Go of Someone You Love
We’ve all been there… Watching TBS on a Saturday Night, while Facebook stalking an Ex during whatever Sandra Bullock movie has been playing on repeat for the past 8 hours. It doesn’t get any easier when you see pictures of him with someone new. And he’s happy. More happy than you are right now. Here’s…
Read More10 Immature Dating Habits You Need to Lose This Year If You Want to Find Love
If this last year was a total bust when it comes to your dating life, then today’s video might be the most important one you watch. If you’ve ever experienced… Multiple dates ending in total disappointment. Great guys passing you by without so much as a second glance. Promising relationships that quickly fizzled and went…
Read More5 Phrases You Should NEVER Say to a Guy
Have you ever had a conversation with a guy that was going great one minute, but deteriorated into a hot mess the next? Or even worse: You thought everything was going fantastic, and then — out of nowhere — he just ended it. It’s possibly because you said one of these five things: The occasional…
Read MoreHow to Keep a Man from Cheating
You’ve hooked yourself a great man and the relationship is blossoming… but fears from your past relationships can sneak up on you. Maybe you were cheated on, or lied to in a former relationship that broke apart. “Will it happen again?” you may worry… Let me put your mind at ease, by teaching you the specifics…
Read More3 Phrases to Make ANY Man Feel Crazy In Love With You
Have you ever said something to a man that just seemed to “trigger” a strong, loving emotional response? Maybe it was unintentional, or maybe you were using some of the scripts from my various premium programs. Regardless, words can be an incredibly powerful way to build a connection with any man. And in this week’s…
Read More3 Qualities You MUST Have to Keep a Man Interested In the Relationship
You did it! You made it past those oh-so-critical first steps and now you’re in a REAL relationship. Ahhhh… If feels good, right? BUT not so fast! Now that you’ve got the RIGHT man by your side… … the guy who makes you feel COMPLETE… … you need to understand how to KEEP him! If…
Read More3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men
Needy men are like vampires—and not the sexy kind. Here’s why: Guys like this will suck every ounce of energy out of you, because they depend on you for everything. -They depend on you for constant approval… -They depend on you for “ego-stroking” reassurance… -They even depend on you to make all the decisions in…
Read More3 Reasons Why Most Relationships Fail
If you’re like 97% of people out there, then the vast majority of your romantic relationships will fail miserably. You’ll date wayyyyy more guys than you’ll marry (let’s hope). In this week’s video, I have a special cameo from a woman who has literally witnessed thousands of relationships fail. She’s not only incredibly experienced in…
Read MoreDo Long Distance Relationships Work? 4 Questions to Ask Yourself
Have you ever been in a long distance relationship and wondered if it’s even possible to make it work? As part of my Unity membership relaunch this week, I’m answering some of the most commonly asked questions. Here’s today’s question: Adam, I’m in a long distance relationship and I really love him, but he lives…
Read MoreTop 9 Dating and Relationship Advice Blogs for Women
The world of love is a scary one. Whether you’re looking for it or broken by it, we all need some advice and guidance once in awhile. Unfortunately, our friends aren’t always enough. They’re about as clueless as you and sometimes, it doesn’t hurt to look elsewhere. Love is a game and there’s rules and…
Read More17 Reasons Why He Might Have Pulled Away
Dating is stressful. To many women, it’s a lot like a roller coaster. One day he likes you, the next he’s refusing to answer your texts. One minute you’re having a great time, the next you’re stressing about if he’ll call you tomorrow. Women try and smooth out the bumpy ride by coming up with their…
Read MoreWhy Good Women Stay in Bad Relationships
It’s a sad truism in life: bad things happen to good people. But when it comes to relationships, it’s important to remember that you ALWAYS have a choice to stay or leave. So in this week’s video I uncover five core reasons why a good woman might stay in a bad relationship.
Read MoreThe Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in You
Have you ever met a guy and it seems to be going REALLY well, but then suddenly he loses interest? Or maybe you’ve made it passed the honey moon phase, and suddenly you feel him slipping away… If you’ve ever struggled with keeping a man interested, then this week’s video is perfect for you. In…
Read MoreWhy Modern Dating is Better Than Old School Courtship
There are “dating experts” all across the world claiming that present day dating is much worse than it used to be– I disagree. While some aspects of current technology and behavior can inhibit dating success, I believe we have come remarkably far from where we were in old fashion dating. Society has changed the way we view intimacy, gender…
Read MoreThe Only Relationship Standard You Should Have
Let’s face it—we all like to imagine we will stumble upon the perfect person. We select the ideal salary, appearance, intellect, personality and habits of this fictional character and then store that image in the back of our minds while dating. As harmless as this may seem, it can actually wreck your love life. I’m…
Read MoreThe Best Friend You Want to F#%K
Everyone and their mother (literally) thinks they know the formula for the “perfect relationship”. Or worse, they know what’s the “perfect relationship” for YOU. If you google “What is the perfect relationship”, you get over 55 Million responses. How is anyone supposed to figure out who is the perfect match for them? Well in this…
Read MoreWhy You Have To Love Yourself Before Anyone Else Can
Learning to love is like learning to walk. You start out bewildered and curious. You watch the people around you moving about in such a magical way, and you want to do the same. You start to model your movements after theirs, but you always begin with a crawl. Crawling means holding your own body…
Read More17 Ways a Woman’s Mind Can Be Sexier than Her Appearance
Smoking hot intellect. She not only has opinions, but voices them confidently and openly. She’s quick. Her humor is witty and keeps the people around her laughing and on their toes. She remembers what others tell her and genuinely listens. She has a taste for the more complex aspects of our culture. She can enjoy…
Read MoreHow to Be Vulnerable Without Risking Rejection
No one likes being vulnerable. It’s awkward. It’s uncomfortable. And it’s really ‘effing scary. But in order to connect with a man on a deep, emotional level, you’ve got to reveal a few things about yourself that might not be “pretty”.
Read More5 Reasons Why Men Marry Certain Women and Not Others
Marriage. It feels like an ancient tradition these days. But not this year…at least for me. I was in the wedding party for my two best friend’s weddings this year and it completely consumed my summer (in the best way possible). And the best part of weddings? Bachelor parties. Now as you might imagine on…
Read More10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You
Imagine this scenario. You start dating a guy casually and things are moving along “as usual”. You “hang out” every week or so, and you’re still trying to figure out whether or not it’s going somewhere. But after a few months, he starts to do some really CRAZY things. He’s erratic, he’s clingy, and he won’t…
Read More9 Relationship Fears All Men Have (The REAL Reasons Men Fear Commitment)
Relationships are both wonderful and terrifying at the same time. You’ve finally met someone that you can’t stop thinking about and want nothing more than to just sit at home, snuggle up and tell each other, “you’re awesome.” But alongside the joy of a new relationship comes an enormous amount of fear for a lot of folks. So…
Read More7 Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship -All Women MUST WATCH
My first few months working with women as a dating coach were truly eye opening. Men can inflict major damage on women in ways I never knew possible. As a man who would NEVER dream of hitting a woman, I truly didn’t understand how violent other men can be to a woman. And with the release of Ray…
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