signs he doesn't love you

Are you in a relationship and struggling to figure out if this guy really loves you? When you’re crazy in love with someone, it can be tricky to see your relationship clearly. It’s like you’re walking around with blinders on. But there’s a reason you’re here. Something feels off. You’re not totally convinced he’s fully…

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When it comes to knowing whether a guy is falling in love with you or not, you don’t have to be a mind reader. You don’t have to dissect everything he says with your girlfriends (though you enjoy that, don’t you?). You don’t even need a sign from the heavens. There are scientific signs that…

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not ready for a relationship

Things were going really well with this guy and then he dropped a bomb… “Uh, the truth is…I’m not ready for a relationship.” You’d been doodling his name in your notebooks. Telling all your friends about your hot new boyfriend. Picking out curtains for the house you knew you’d move into together. And NOW he…

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when men pull away

The guy you’re talking to normally texts first thing to wish you a good day…but today you haven’t heard from him. Is this you? “OMG he always texts by 10 am! It’s 10:07! He’s clearly found someone he likes better! Why did I waste my time? What did I do wrong? WAAAAH!” It can feel…

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This will make him chase you

Let me guess: you’ve seen other so-called “dating experts” give you advice saying, “this will make him chase you:” Ignore his texts… …post pics with other men on Facebook… …basically don’t give him any of your time. If that’s what you’re hoping to find here, I’m sorry to disappoint you. I don’t believe in manipulating…

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He Hasn’t said "I love you"

Falling in love before you know whether he feels the same is like jumping out of a plane. Do you have a parachute…or will you plummet to the earth? Will he respond that he desperately has fallen head over heels for you…or will you make a fool of yourself by telling him how you feel?…

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now is the best time to find love

In addition to being an economic and financial disaster, this coronavirus has also become an emotional disaster. We aren’t able to connect with the people we care for like we used to. We miss the physical connection. Video doesn’t always cut it. And if you’re single…that might make things worse. You’re lonely…you feel disconnected…and you’re…

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pushing him away

Have you ever been dating a guy and things are going really, really well… But then suddenly your heart is telling you to run? Your head tries to tell you that things are going well, but for whatever reason, you pull into your turtle shell and hide. It’s not rational, and you probably realize this.…

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One minute, a guy is texting you nonstop and trying to spend all his time with you… …then he ghosts you for a week. It’s f#%!ing frustrating, isn’t it? You and your girlfriends have no idea why men get hot and cold, but if you could only crack that code…maybe dating would be more fun.…

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All of the experts tell you to communicate your feelings in a relationship… …but is it possible to over-communicate? I’ve been guilty of this myself. Rocking the boat when the relationship was cruising along just fine. Watch the video below to learn the 3 toxic ways you might be over-communicating in your relationship.  Have…

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Have you ever dated a guy who was a complete waste of time? When the relationship ended, you discovered that he had ZERO interest in a serious relationship, and then you had to start all over again. Never again, my sexy single lady. Here are 5 signs that a guy is serious about a future…

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Do you care too much about what men think about you? I think the image below sums up this week’s video perfectly. Click on it to learn one simple principle to developing your inner confidence around men. Are you ready to stop caring? Then leave a comment below committing yourself to the principles outlined in…

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Are you constantly on his mind? Instead of “bait texting” him to see if he responds… …watch the video below and learn the 4 secret signs he thinks about you more than you know.  Have you ever seen these signs from a guy? Leave a comment below letting me know how it went. Your…

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When you first start dating a guy, you’re probably testing him.  Does he take charge of situations?  Is he a nice guy?  Is he respectful to the waiter? You know…standard things to look out for. And believe it or not, he’s testing you too…except his tests are VERY different than yours.  Fail these “tests,” and…

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jealous boyfriend

Are you in a relationship with a guy who seems to be a possessive boyfriend? Maybe it feels like he’s controlling you… …he freaks out when you spend time with other people (especially men)… …or he starts arguments when things don’t go his way. And worse, your friends and family are starting to notice. They…

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healthy relationship

Have you ever been in a relationship that was so exciting, where you never knew what was going to happen next? One that felt like a roller coaster? That guy was totally unpredictable, wasn’t he? Him: Man, I love you! I just want to be with you forever… You: [totally smitten] I love you too! Him: …But…

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soulmate signs

You’ve been dating this man for a while, and you admit: you’re falling for him. You’re now in Little Love Step #6 and to move this to the next level, But is this infatuation or something more serious? You’re looking for signs that he’s your soulmate to understand if your search for Mr. Right is…

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Whether you’re dating someone new or are in a serious relationship, learning how to appreciate your man will go a long way to building your relationship in a positive way. After all, who doesn’t like feeling appreciated? I can tell you from personal experience: when Jessica shows me that she appreciates me, it makes me…

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how to make him worry about losing you

Do you feel like maybe your guy doesn’t fully appreciate you? Maybe he’s been pulling away lately and you don’t know what to do. So you’re trying to figure out how to make him worry about losing you as a way to get his attention back on you. There’s definitely a right and wrong way…

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what is gaslighting

You keep hearing this term “gaslighting,” and you’re wondering about it. People have even told you that you’re being gaslit. So…what IS gaslighting? In a Nutshell: What is Gaslighting? Essentially, with gaslighting, a person, usually a romantic partner, denies the validity of things you know you’re experiencing. “You’re imagining things. You didn’t see me with…

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signs he's talking to someone else

You’ve been dating a man for a few weeks, and while you think it’s going okay, you find yourself looking for signs he is talking to someone else. You’re afraid to get too emotionally invested in this situation until you’re sure that he’s interested in you and you alone. Maybe you’re paranoid because you’ve been…

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get him to commit by pulling away

So you’re dating a man who’s having a little trouble committing to you. It may sound counterintuitive, learning how to get him to commit by pulling away, but you’ll soon see in this video and article that it’s actually a highly-effective strategy for getting the right guy to realize you’re worth working for. In this…

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signs of true love

After being single for a while, or after being in a relationship that hurt you badly, you’ve opened yourself up to love again. You think you might be in love with your boyfriend, but you’re looking for signs of true love before you say those three magical words. If you’ve been hurt before (and I’m…

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he doesn't want a relationship with you

If you’re looking up signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you…I’m pretty sure you’ve already identified a few red flags with the guy you’re dating. Am I right? Spend your life chasing men who don’t want a relationship with you… ..and I promise you, you will spend your life as that weird cat lady…

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how to make a man feel loved

male Whether you’re at the start of a relationship…or are years down the road with this man…either way, you can always use tips on how to make a man feel loved. I mean, we all want to feel loved, right? And yet, sometimes we overlook what’s right in front of us and take that love…

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emotional man

Since the dawn of time, women have tried to figure out why men fight their feelings. They act one way and say something else entirely. Here’s an example of a classic male internal dialogue: Emotionally Open Him: Oh God! She’s so wonderful. I love being around her… Macho Him: Shut up! Don’t do it! Emotionally…

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how to get over a breakup

Women around the world are dying to know how to get over a breakup. They desperately want some magic pill or formula that will take them out of the heartache they’re experiencing. They want to forget the man that caused them so much pain. Does that describe you? Are you tired of crying over the end…

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Back in elementary school, when you liked a boy, you could make him miss you by ignoring him…or shoving him in the mud. Yea, that seems counter-intuitive to make a guy like you, but hey, it worked for the second-grade set. Now you need more stealthy and effective ways to make him miss you like…

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what to do if he's ignoring you

Maybe you sent him a text saying “I had fun last night,”… … or you sent a flirty emoji… … or a ridiculous gif… … bit he didn’t respond back. It’s an icy dagger through the heart, causing panic, confusion, and desperation. What should you do in this situation? Do you call him to see…

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signs your settling

You’re not in your 20s anymore. You’ve had relationships that never quite lived up to the high standards you had in your head, and more and more, you find yourself alone. But being alone is hard. And being part of a couple is easy…usually. Studies back this up: being in a relationship makes people happier than…

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hes stopped loving you

You’ve been with this guy for months or even years. In the beginning, he bent over backward to please you. Lately though, it feels like there’s a big disconnect between you. Is it just temporary, or should you be concerned that he’s fallen out of love with you? The sad fact is: people change. Feelings…

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13 Signs Your New Relationship Will End in Heartbreak

Imagine if you had the ability to predict, with near 100% certainty, if your new relationship would end in heartbreak. Do you think you’d make the mistake of wasting weeks (possibly even months or years) of your time dating a guy who will eventually end up being “Mr. Wrong”? Probably not. Well… These 13 warning…

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3 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate And Finding True Love

My secret guilty pleasure… Relaxing with a tub of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream and watching back to back romantic comedies on Netflix. There, I said it. And I know I’m not alone. The only problem with Hollywood movies is that they ruin your expectations. I mean… When was the last time you actually experienced…

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DO NOT Marry a Guy Who Has these 5 Habits

Marriage. Statistically, it’s a coin flip at best and a crapshoot at worst. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t find everlasting love. And it doesn’t mean you can’t find it with a quality guy who treats you like the amazing woman you are. If getting married is something you deeply desire for your future, then…

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Why You Might Always End Up in Unhealthy Relationships

If you find that you’re constantly landing yourself in the middle of unhealthy relationships, there is a MASSIVE reason why. Even though this character trait is something that everyone admires in another person… … it’s murdering your chances of finding and developing the kind of healthy relationship you’ve been secretly craving. Discover what I’m talking…

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5 Ways You're Preventing Yourself from Finding Love

I’ve been doing this for a long time, and have had countless conversations with people who are in all phases of life; men, women, single, married, divorced, and everything in between. These interactions have led to many insights, some of which include varying degrees of self-sabotage. Many of us have been jaded along the way,…

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Why Men Don’t Want to Marry You (REAL TALK)

Do you feel like you’re “Always the bridesmaid, but never the bride?” You’re not alone. It seems as though people are less and less willing to get married – or take much longer to do so. But the real question is, why? Is it that men don’t want to get married in general, or is…

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How to Let Go of Someone You Love

We’ve all been there… Watching TBS on a Saturday Night, while Facebook stalking an Ex during whatever Sandra Bullock movie has been playing on repeat for the past 8 hours. It doesn’t get any easier when you see pictures of him with someone new. And he’s happy. More happy than you are right now. Here’s…

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5 Phrases You Should NEVER Say to a Guy

Have you ever had a conversation with a guy that was going great one minute, but deteriorated into a hot mess the next? Or even worse: You thought everything was going fantastic, and then — out of nowhere — he just ended it. It’s possibly because you said one of these five things: The occasional…

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How to Keep a Man from Cheating

You’ve hooked yourself a great man and the relationship is blossoming… but fears from your past relationships can sneak up on you. Maybe you were cheated on, or lied to in a former relationship that broke apart. “Will it happen again?” you may worry… Let me put your mind at ease, by teaching you the specifics…

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3 Phrases to Make ANY Man Feel Crazy In Love With You

Have you ever said something to a man that just seemed to “trigger” a strong, loving emotional response? Maybe it was unintentional, or maybe you were using some of the scripts from my various premium programs. Regardless, words can be an incredibly powerful way to build a connection with any man. And in this week’s…

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3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men

Needy men are like vampires—and not the sexy kind. Here’s why: Guys like this will suck every ounce of energy out of you, because they depend on you for everything. -They depend on you for constant approval… -They depend on you for “ego-stroking” reassurance… -They even depend on you to make all the decisions in…

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3 Reasons Why Most Relationships Fail

If you’re like 97% of people out there, then the vast majority of your romantic relationships will fail miserably. You’ll date wayyyyy more guys than you’ll marry (let’s hope). In this week’s video, I have a special cameo from a woman who has literally witnessed thousands of relationships fail. She’s not only incredibly experienced in…

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The world of love is a scary one. Whether you’re looking for it or broken by it, we all need some advice and guidance once in awhile. Unfortunately, our friends aren’t always enough. They’re about as clueless as you and sometimes, it doesn’t hurt to look elsewhere. Love is a game and there’s rules and…

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Dating is stressful. To many women, it’s a lot like a roller coaster. One day he likes you, the next he’s refusing to answer your texts. One minute you’re having a great time, the next you’re stressing about if he’ll call you tomorrow. Women try and smooth out the bumpy ride by coming up with their…

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Why Good Women Stay in Bad Relationships

It’s a sad truism in life: bad things happen to good people. But when it comes to relationships, it’s important to remember that you ALWAYS have a choice to stay or leave. So in this week’s video I uncover five core reasons why a good woman might stay in a bad relationship.

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The Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in you

Have you ever met a guy and it seems to be going REALLY well, but then suddenly he loses interest? Or maybe you’ve made it passed the honey moon phase, and suddenly you feel him slipping away… If you’ve ever struggled with keeping a man interested, then this week’s video is perfect for you. In…

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Why Modern Dating is Better Than Old School Courtship

There are “dating experts” all across the world claiming that present day dating is much worse than it used to be– I disagree. While some aspects of current technology and behavior can inhibit dating success, I believe we have come remarkably far from where we were in old fashion dating.  Society has changed the way we view intimacy, gender…

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The Only Relationship Standard You Should Have

Let’s face it—we all like to imagine we will stumble upon the perfect person. We select the ideal salary, appearance, intellect, personality and habits of this fictional character and then store that image in the back of our minds while dating. As harmless as this may seem, it can actually wreck your love life. I’m…

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Everyone and their mother (literally) thinks they know the formula for the “perfect relationship”. Or worse, they know what’s the “perfect relationship” for YOU. If you google “What is the perfect relationship”, you get over 55 Million responses. How is anyone supposed to figure out who is the perfect match for them? Well in this…

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Learning to love is like learning to walk. You start out bewildered and curious. You watch the people around you moving about in such a magical way, and you want to do the same. You start to model your movements after theirs, but you always begin with a crawl. Crawling means holding your own body…

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Smoking hot intellect.      She not only has opinions, but voices them confidently and openly.      She’s quick. Her humor is witty and keeps the people around her laughing and on their toes.      She remembers what others tell her and genuinely listens.      She has a taste for the more complex aspects of our culture. She can enjoy…

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Why Men Marry Certain Women and Not Others - Featured

Marriage. It feels like an ancient tradition these days. But not this year…at least for me. I was in the wedding party for my two best friend’s weddings this year and it completely consumed my summer (in the best way possible). And the best part of weddings? Bachelor parties. Now as you might imagine on…

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Signs He's Falling In Love With You

Imagine this scenario. You start dating a guy casually and things are moving along “as usual”. You “hang out” every week or so, and you’re still trying to figure out whether or not it’s going somewhere. But after a few months, he starts to do some really CRAZY things. He’s erratic, he’s clingy, and he won’t…

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