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The “Magic” Phrases That Will Transform Your Relationship
Have you ever said something with the best intentions, only for it to land completely wrong? Or maybe you’ve been in a heated argument and wished you could hit a mute button and rewind? You’re not alone. While we’ve all been told it’s not what you say but how you say it, the actual words…
Read MoreIf He Does These 5 Weird Things… He’s Into You
Ever catch yourself overanalyzing a guy’s behavior and wondering if you are reading it all wrong? You are not alone. When a man is truly into a woman, he can act a little… unusual. The mixed signals can kick your brain into overdrive and leave you feeling confused. The truth is, attraction often shows up…
Read MoreThe “Mankeeping” Myth: Why Ditching the Blame Game Will Improve Your Love Life
The internet loves a catchy new term, especially when it sparks a heated debate. Lately, “mankeeping” has been making waves, portrayed by outlets like the New York Post as the “emotional labor sucking the life out of straight women.” It sounds awful, right? The exhausting, unpaid gig of managing men’s moods, stress, and social lives…
Read MoreFlirting Over 40: A 10 Minute Masterclass in Confidence and Connection
Are you ready? Set a timer for 10 minutes, because we’re about to demystify the art of flirting for women over 40. This isn’t about throwing yourself at guys or resorting to cutesy, giggly behaviors. We’re leaving the Cosmo-style tips about lipstick shades behind. This is about a high-character, dignified approach to making a genuine…
Read More6 Myths That Silently Sabotage Your Dating Life (And Push Men Away)
In this video, I pull back the curtain on the six most damaging dating myths that silently sabotage women’s chances of attracting lasting, high-quality love. After working with successful women for over 15 years, I have seen the same patterns of belief repeat themselves—stories that feel like truth, but actually block connection and intimacy. These…
Read MoreBreaking the Cycle: How to Attract a Partner Based on Your Worth, Not Your Wounds
Last time, we explored how past emotional wounds can unconsciously guide your choice in partners, often leading to painful and repetitive relationship patterns. We know this was a huge eye-opener for many of you. Understanding those wounds is a crucial first step—it’s the diagnosis you need before you can find a cure. But our goal…
Read MoreWhat Men Find Deeply Beautiful in a Woman (It’s Not What You Think)
Let’s be honest — most dating advice for women boils down to “just lean into your feminine.” But what does that actually mean? If you’re a successful single woman, you’ve probably had one of three reactions to that advice: “What the hell does that mean?” “I’m not pretending to be some girly girl.” “Sounds great……
Read MoreAre Your Wounds Secretly Picking Your Partners?
We often talk about “baggage” in relationships, but let’s be honest, that metaphor falls a little flat. Baggage can be forgotten, left behind. Wounds, on the other hand? They stick with you. Even after they heal, the scars remain, subtly shaping how you see yourself and connect with others. But what does it truly mean…
Read More5 Magnetic Phrases That Spark Chemistry on a First Date
When it comes to first dates, most women put nearly all their energy into appearance — the outfit, the makeup, the hair. And while presentation matters, it’s not what actually creates lasting attraction. Because men don’t fall for the way you look. They fall for the way you make them feel. And that feeling? It…
Read More15 Simple Dating “Rules” to Make Dating Easier
Do you like rules? Most of us would probably say no. The word itself conjures images of restrictive, joy-killing mandates. But here’s the kicker: are you a rule-follower? Deep down, most of us are, whether we admit it or not. We stand in lines, raise our hands to speak, stay quiet in libraries, and patiently…
Read More7 Brutal Truths I Wish Women Knew About Dating Men
Do you like hearing the brutal truth? Probably not. Most of us would rather avoid it. But here’s the catch: the truth has a funny way of setting us free. And when it comes to dating—especially if you’re a high-achieving, successful woman looking for love—the truth might sting for a moment, but it can save…
Read MoreRethink Your Type: Why You Might Be Missing Out By Dismissing Younger Guys
It’s easy to fall into the trap of self-rejection when it comes to dating. We can invent a laundry list of reasons why someone wouldn’t be interested, sometimes even before we give them a chance. We might rule out entire demographics based on arbitrary criteria like height, fitness level, religious beliefs, or perceived seriousness. It…
Read MoreHow to Design an Online Dating Profile That Will Find You Love After 40
Let’s be real: dating today feels different. Maybe you’ve been out of the game for a while, or perhaps you’ve been actively avoiding the whole online dating scene. If so, you’re not alone! Online Dating Phobia (or hesitancy) is incredibly common, and we see it in our clients all the time. The truth is, no…
Read MoreMoney, Men, and Meaning: Rethinking Romance After You’ve Built Your Own Life
What’s the hardest thing to talk about in a relationship? You might assume it’s something intimate like sex, or perhaps navigating tricky family dynamics. But in our experience with clients, those issues often feel far more comfortable than diving into the topic of money. Talking about money, whether in big or small ways, often triggers…
Read MoreUnlock Your Attraction Archetype: What It Says About You and How You Date
Are you endlessly curious about dating dynamics, relationship psychology, or simply love learning about yourself? If so, you’re in the right place. We’ve all scrolled through those online quizzes that promise to reveal something profound about our personalities. But what if there was a quiz that was not only accurate but genuinely helpful for your…
Read MoreDating Over 40 Feels Impossible? Not With These 5 Shifts
“I wish I would have learned this sooner.” It’s one of THE MOST COMMON things we hear from clients. Week after week, we’re told this after they finally unlock dating wisdom and effective strategies. But why this consistent refrain? Why the tinge of regret mixed with newfound hope? Because let’s face it: dating is tough.…
Read MoreMaster the Difficult Dating Conversations: Money, Sex, and the Future Without Blowing it Up
Remember dating in your twenties? It was carefree and easy. You focused on potential and dreams, fun with very few problems. Life hadn’t really gotten in the way yet. But in midlife, that’s rarely true. Kids, parents, exes, jobs, retirement plans, travel, health – the list of “it” that complicates things goes on and on.…
Read MoreStop Wasting Time: 7 Smart Strategies to Date More Efficiently
Dating can feel like a full-time job. You don’t want to be alone, but you also don’t feel like you have extra time in your life to patrol the apps, deal with terrible texters, and manage all the meet-ups. Ideally, you want to have this whole “finding love” thing sorted out yesterday, or even months…
Read More5 Ways to Make a Man Emotionally Addicted to You
You don’t need to play hard to get, look like a supermodel, or send flirty texts on command. If you want to make a man emotionally addicted to you—so he wants to pursue you, prioritize you, and invest in your connection—it starts with something much deeper. Let’s be honest: Love is addictive. But emotional addiction…
Read MoreHow to Date a Guy That’s Not Your Type
You’ve been dating the same type of guy for what feels like forever. So, how’s that working out for you? As we often say, “If what you’re doing worked, it would have worked by now.” A part of you might cling to the idea that “the heart wants what the heart wants,” or “I know…
Read More4 Destructive Beliefs That Keep Women Over 40 Single for Life
We all have beliefs about love: what it should feel like, when it should happen, and who it should happen with. But what if some of those beliefs—especially the ones that feel the most “true”—are quietly sabotaging your chances at finding real, lasting love? For women over 40, this becomes even more critical. You’ve lived.…
Read MoreAre You a Delusional Dater? How Men and Women Get It Wrong
Do you ever find yourself scrolling through endless online content related to your job? Or maybe, like us, you get sucked into the fascinating (and sometimes frustrating) world of relationship advice and dating debacles? We recently stumbled upon a video of a guy absolutely fuming about a bad date, concluding that “women are delusional.” His…
Read MoreGive Me 7 Minutes, and I’ll Make You Dangerously Attractive to Men
These 5 traits don’t involve makeup, filters, or playing hard to get… You’ve been sold a lie. Somewhere along the way, society convinced you that being attractive to men meant being younger, thinner, sexier, or somehow… less you. But here’s the truth: Attraction isn’t about your makeup or your age. It’s about your energy. And…
Read MoreRethinking Attachment: A Smarter Approach to Love
What’s your attachment style? That question has become as common as “What’s your love language?” And that’s good news! People are increasingly recognizing the vital role attachment plays in our relationships. The bad news? Many are misinterpreting and misapplying it. Today, we’re going to set the record straight. We’ll give you a more complete understanding…
Read More5 Ways to Get More Affection From Men
Let’s be honest—when you’re not feeling the affection you crave in a relationship, it’s easy to assume it’s because the guy is emotionally unavailable or just “not affectionate by nature.” But what if there were specific things you could do to naturally inspire more affection, without chasing it? Good news: You don’t need to beg,…
Read MoreWhy Modern Dating Feels Off in Your 40’s and Beyond
Most people, if given the choice, would absolutely prefer real-life, organic, or “IRL” dating to endless swiping. Imagine it: a charming stranger approaches, sparks fly across a crowded room, and romance effortlessly ensues. Yet, here’s the hidden twist: all that time spent swiping, clicking, typing, and tapping on dating apps can actually ruin how you…
Read MoreWhat Men Secretly Fear About Dating Older Women (And How to Turn It Into Your Superpower)
Think men avoid dating older women because of age? Think again. It’s not your laugh lines, career success, or how long you’ve been single. The truth is: men fear something deeper. And once you understand what’s really going on in their heads, you’ll be in a powerful position to attract high-quality, age-appropriate men—without pretending to…
Read MoreWhat Does Healthy Masculinity Look Like?
It often feels like the modern dating landscape is a minefield, doesn’t it? You’re ready to meet someone genuine, to build a meaningful connection, but instead, you’re met with a revolving door of confusing behaviors. Ghosting, breadcrumbing, love-bombing, a blatant disregard for boundaries, and the exhausting burden of carrying all the emotional labor – planning…
Read MoreIs It Love… or Just Lust? How to Tell the Difference
It’s easy to get swept off your feet when sparks are flying. The chemistry. The charm. The way he looks at you like you’re the only woman in the room. But before you start planning your wedding hashtag, we need to have a little chat. Because there’s a difference between a man who sees a…
Read More7 Ways You’re Making Your Dating Life Miserable (Without Knowing It)
Remember that time we talked about all the ways you were totally sabotaging your dating life without even realizing it? Yeah, you guys LOVED that one. So, naturally, we’re back at it. Consider this your not-so-friendly guide on how to absolutely tank your chances at finding a meaningful connection. Buckle up, buttercup, because we’re about…
Read MoreIf a Man Ignores You, Here’s What He’s Really Thinking
Let’s be real: few dating experiences are more maddening than being ignored. One day, everything’s flowing. The next? Radio silence. And while your first instinct might be to wonder what you did wrong—or worse, try harder to win him back—it’s time to hit pause. Because silence speaks volumes. Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster…
Read MoreThat “Hey” Text: Decoding the Return of the Zombie Ex
Your phone buzzes. A simple text. A familiar name. Suddenly, the progress you’ve made, the peace you’ve found, feels…shaky. He’s back. The dreaded “zombie ex” has risen from the relationship graveyard, and you’re caught in a whirlwind of conflicting emotions. Part of you recoils, remembering the reasons it ended. Another part, however small, might be…
Read More5 Ways to Tell If He’s Worth Your Time (in 10 Minutes or Less)
Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love. And if you’ve been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you’re probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it. The truth? It is, but only if you’re…
Read MoreHow to Attract a High-Character Man (It’s NOT What You Think)
What if your greatest strength wasn’t within you, but around you? Finding an amazing, high-character man isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about changing who you’re surrounded by. In today’s world, where dating can feel isolating and stressful, we’re exploring the untapped potential of community. It’s the secret weapon that makes finding love less…
Read MoreMen CHOOSE Women Based on These 5 Emotions
You might be wondering… Do men even feel emotions? The answer is yes—but if a man isn’t emotionally ready for love, he’ll come off distant, robotic, even detached. That’s because men don’t choose lifelong partners with logic. They choose based on emotion. When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your…
Read More7 Seemingly Sweet Behaviors That Scream Toxic
Everyone loves a good love story. You meet a guy who is cool, charismatic, and undeniably romantic. Sparks fly, good morning and good night texts flood your phone, and compliments, surprises, and gifts seem to flow endlessly. He’s kind, attentive, thoughtful, and emotionally available – what could possibly go wrong? When you help as many…
Read More7 Mindviruses That Sabotage Your Love Life
Ever catch yourself wondering, “Maybe I’m just destined to be the quirky cat lady down the street”? Or find your group chats turning into daily roast sessions about how awful men are? If so, you’re not alone—and no, you’re not broken. But you might be under the influence of something sneakier than you think: a…
Read MoreRed Flags & Romance: Navigating Politics While Dating
We’ve all heard the unspoken rules: avoid talking about politics, religion, and maybe the sensitive topics of hair loss or weight. But today, we’re boldly going where polite conversation often fears to tread: politics in dating. Specifically, how do you navigate the potentially choppy waters of dating someone with different political views? Should you even…
Read MoreWhat Mature Men Find Irresistible in a Woman (5 Key Things)
Today’s a big day for me—I turn 40. And with a little more gray and a lot more perspective, I wanted to share something that feels especially meaningful: What do mature men actually find irresistible in a woman? Because after nearly two decades of coaching, growing, and yes—aging—I’ve learned a few things about attraction that…
Read MoreCaptivate Him: 7 Body Language Secrets That Draw Men In
Ever wonder why some women seem to effortlessly attract attention? It’s not magic, it’s science. 55% of our communication is nonverbal, and mastering your body language can be your secret weapon. Forget shouting your interest across the room – let your presence do the talking. Today, we’re diving into 7 research-backed body language techniques that…
Read MoreHe Sounds Honest, But Is He? 5 Sneaky Ways Guys Secretly Bend the Truth While Dating
You meet someone new, and a spark ignites. You really, really want this to be the real deal. He answers your questions directly, seems open, even vulnerable. So why does that nagging feeling in the back of your mind persist? Is it just paranoia, or is something truly off? Here’s the truth, and trust us,…
Read MoreBreaking Free From the Bad Boy Habit
That magnetic pull. The thrill of the chase. The undeniable “spark” you feel with that guy. He’s exciting, a little dangerous, maybe even emotionally unavailable… and somehow, that just makes him seem… hot. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Many of us have been caught in the intoxicating web of the “bad boy.” They’re fun, they’re…
Read MoreThe Secret to Loneliness: 8 Ways to Sabotage Your Dating Life
Dating can feel like an uphill battle, a confusing maze of mixed signals and fleeting connections. But have you ever stopped to consider if you’re inadvertently making it harder on yourself? For many, the path to finding love is unnecessarily fraught with frustration, heartbreak, and years spent feeling alone. The painful truth? Often, we unknowingly…
Read MoreStop Guessing, Start Knowing: 5 Must-Ask Questions to Get to Know Your Guy—FAST!
The early stages of dating can feel like navigating a minefield of uncertainty. Is he genuinely interested? Are your values aligned? Will this connection lead anywhere meaningful? Many find themselves trapped in cycles of guesswork, hoping their date will spontaneously reveal their true self. But relying on chance can lead to wasted time and emotional…
Read MoreAre You a Walking Red Flag? 7 Habits That Might Be Sabotaging Your Love Life
Tired of blaming your dating woes on everyone else? It’s time for some tough love. While we’re quick to spot red flags in others, what if you’re the one waving them? Don’t worry, these aren’t permanent flaws – they’re fixable habits that, once addressed, can dramatically improve your dating life. Let’s dive into 7 “walking…
Read MoreSimple Tests That Reveal Hidden Clues to Your Date’s Character
Ever wonder if someone’s a good person deep down? When you go to the store, do you return your shopping cart? Do you re-rack your weights at the gym? Simple things, right? There’s no law forcing you, but they reveal a lot about someone’s moral character. And it got us thinking: how can we use…
Read MoreYou Can Have It All: Career Success and a Thriving Love Life
You’ve been told a lie: “You can’t have it all – career success and relationship success.” This pervasive myth whispers that you must choose one over the other. It’s wrong. You absolutely can have both, and we’re here to show you how. You’re successful. You’ve worked hard, put in the hours, and dedicated yourself to…
Read MoreStop Boring First Dates: How to Build Deeper Emotional Connections with Simple Questions
Dating conversations can be rough. Awkward silences, surface-level small talk, one-word answers…we’ve all been there. It’s like a painful, rehearsed script, and it’s no wonder so many people dread first dates. But what if you could ditch the awkwardness and create genuine, meaningful connections instead? This isn’t just another list of generic questions; it’s a…
Read MoreStruggling to Get Dates? 3 Simple Strategies That Actually Work
Every week, we hear from hundreds of single women frustrated with the dating scene. Some are starting over, some have been trying for months, and many just don’t know where to begin. Dating is a skill, and like any skill, it can be learned and improved. We’ve helped thousands of women sharpen their dating skills,…
Read MoreDating After 40: The 5 S’s for Finding Love and Thriving
Many women over 40 find themselves discouraged by the dating scene. But what if you could find a fulfilling, lasting relationship and thrive while doing it? This post outlines the 5 S’s of successful dating after 40, drawn from the expertise of Gary, a dating coach who helps established women navigate love in a new…
Read More6 Signs He’s Playing Games – And What To Do About It
Guys can be confusing. One minute you’re on cloud nine, the next you’re left wondering if he’s even interested. This emotional rollercoaster is often the result of “dating games” – manipulative tactics designed to keep you hooked and on your toes. While not all men play games, understanding these common behaviors can help you navigate…
Read More7 Irresistible Qualities That Drive Classy Guys Wild
The Secret to Attracting a Man of Character Forget the outdated myths—looks, easy sex, and constant validation aren’t what truly win over a high-quality man. These superficial qualities only go so far. To truly captivate a classy guy, you need to cultivate a deeper level of attraction. Here are the 7 qualities that will make…
Read MoreThis is Your Brain on Love: The Science Behind Your Dating Style
We all crave connection, but what kind of connection are you really after? A fiery spark that ignites quickly, or a slow burn that keeps you warm for the long haul? The truth is, most of us want a bit of both. But understanding your own priorities can be a game-changer in your dating life.…
Read MoreThe Truth About Dating Divorced Men: Do’s, Don’ts, and Dealbreakers
“I don’t date divorced guys.” We’ve all heard it. It seems like a smart move, right? Avoiding potential drama and baggage. But hold on, let’s dive a little deeper. It’s true dating a divorced man can come with its unique set of challenges. But it can also lead to a meaningful connection with a great…
Read MoreThe REAL Reasons Why Successful Women Struggle to Find Love in 2025
Ever felt like you had to choose between success and love? It’s a frustrating dilemma that many successful women face. The truth is, you can have both, but you might be making some common mistakes that are sabotaging your love life. Mistake #1: Neglecting Your Dating Life You’re a busy woman, we get it. But…
Read MoreBeyond Physical Beauty: What Makes A Woman Magnetic
You’ve probably heard it before: beauty is only skin deep. While physical attractiveness can certainly draw attention, it’s the inner qualities that truly captivate and keep a man’s interest. So, what makes a woman magnetic? 5 Traits That Make a Woman Magnetic A Unique Perspective: Being comfortable with your quirks and sharing your unique perspective…
Read MoreYou’re Going to Have the BEST Relationship: 4 Dating Principles for Love
Tired of dating drama and dead-end relationships? You’re not alone. But the good news is, you can transform your dating life and find a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship using the B.E.S.T. approach: B – Don’t Fill in the Blanks We all have a vision of our ideal partner. It’s tempting to project our hopes and dreams…
Read More5 Easy Ways to Make Dating Fun Again
Remember when dating was an exciting adventure? You met new people, tried new things, and felt a spark of excitement with every potential match. But somewhere along the way, dating can lose its luster and become a frustrating, even disheartening experience. Don’t worry, it’s not just you. Many people find themselves feeling overwhelmed, disappointed, or…
Read MoreBeyond the Surface: Captivating Men Emotionally
Guys only care about looks.” This common misconception couldn’t be further from the truth. While physical attraction plays a role, it’s far from the only factor that draws men in. To truly captivate a man, you need to ignite an emotional connection. The Power of Emotional Captivation Physical attraction is fleeting. It’s the emotional connection…
Read More7 Unintentional Ways You Might Be Pushing Men Away
Are you finding it difficult to maintain romantic connections? You might be unknowingly sabotaging your relationships. While you may be trying your best to impress and attract, certain behaviors can inadvertently push men away. Here are seven common mistakes women make that can drive men away: 1. The Soulmate Search While it’s admirable to seek…
Read MoreDating in Your 40’s and Beyond for Successful Single Women
NOTES: Dating in Your 40s and Beyond: A Guide for Successful Single Women Is the dating pool in your 40s feeling more like a murky pond than a sparkling lake? You’re not alone. Many successful women find themselves navigating a new landscape of love and relationships as they enter this phase of life. But fear…
Read MoreFirst Date Fumbling? 4 Tips for Better Conversations
Notes: First Date Fumbling? 4 Tips for Better Conversations First dates can be nerve-wracking, especially when you’re trying to make a good impression. But don’t worry, you don’t have to be a natural-born conversationalist to have a successful first date. Here are four tips to help you navigate those awkward silences and keep the conversation…
Read More10 Harsh Truths about Dating Men You Wish You Knew Sooner
Notes: 10 Harsh Truths About Dating You Wish You Knew Sooner Do you have someone in your life who’s willing to tell you how it is? Typically the role of a best friend (or spouse), everyone needs a reality check from time to time. While this “tough love” may sting a little, it ultimately…
Read MoreAge-Defying Dating: Learn to Attract Love Later in Life
NOTES: It’s time to defy the odds and embrace the beauty of love at any age. In this blog post, we’ll explore the concept of “Age-Defying Dating” and share practical tips to help you attract love later in life. The Myth of Aging Out One of the biggest misconceptions about dating later in life is…
Read MoreHow to Fix Your “Broken Picker”: A Guide to Finding the Right Partner
Are you tired of the same old dating cycle? Do you find yourself constantly attracted to the wrong kind of guy? If so, you might be feeling like your “picker” is broken. But fear not, there’s a solution! In this blog post, we’ll explore what it means to have a “bad picker,” why it might…
Read MoreIs He the One? 10 Signs Your Guy is Securely Attached
Wouldn’t it be great if we could ask potential partners the most important questions upfront? Like, “Are you emotionally stable and ready for a healthy relationship?” Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. But fear not, there are subtle signs that can reveal a guy’s attachment style. In this blog post, we’ll explore 10 key indicators of…
Read MoreThe 5 THINGS about Modern Dating that EVERYONE Gets Wrong
Notes: Modern Dating: 5 Common Misconceptions Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the ever-changing landscape of modern dating? It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of apps, algorithms, and endless options. But before you throw in the towel, let’s debunk some common misconceptions about dating in the digital age. Misconception 1: The Technology…
Read MoreStop Chasing, Start Attracting: A Guide to Finding Love
Ever noticed how the men you want seem to be completely oblivious to you, while the ones you’re not interested in are falling over themselves to be with you? This frustrating phenomenon is often a result of chasing. In today’s podcast, we’re diving deep into the art of stopping the chase and starting to attract.…
Read MoreAvoid These 5 Mistakes and He’ll Be Putty in Your Hands
Ever wondered why certain women seem to effortlessly attract the attention of men while others struggle? It’s not always about looks or personality. Sometimes, it’s about avoiding common mistakes that can turn off potential suitors. Here are 5 common pitfalls to steer clear of: 1. Playing Hard to Get It’s a classic dating strategy, but…
Read MoreEmbracing Love After Divorce: 5 Secrets to Dating Success
Divorce doesn’t have to be the end of your love story. In fact, it might just be the beginning of an exciting new chapter in your life. If you’re ready to dive back into the dating pool but feeling intimidated by how much has changed, don’t worry – we’ve got you covered. Here are five…
Read More5 Signs He’s Deeply Invested, But Needs Time Before Marriage
Even when a guy is deeply invested, the idea of marriage might not be on his radar immediately. Before you drop an ultimatum or give up on the relationship, let’s look for these 5 signs that show he’s truly committed, even if he’s not ready to walk down the aisle just yet. He Uses “We”…
Read MoreYou’re Not a Rehabilitation Center for Broken Men
Have you ever found yourself drawn to a man who seemed like a fixer-upper? Someone with potential, but a few rough edges that you thought you could smooth out? It’s a common scenario, and it’s often driven by a desire to help and a belief that you can make a difference. But is it really…
Read More6 Unusual Things Men Do When They Fall in Love
Did you know that men typically fall in love faster than women? It’s true! But as those feelings of love start to blossom, some rather unusual behavior begins to appear. As an executive love coach who has worked with tens of thousands of clients, I’ve seen it all. Today, I’m going to share the 6…
Read MoreNavigating the Dating Scene After Divorce: 5 Common Pitfalls to Avoid
Divorce is a life-altering experience that can leave you feeling angry, exhausted, frustrated, and confused. As you begin to heal, it’s natural to want to fill the void left by your marriage. While getting back into the dating scene is a positive step forward, there are certain approaches you’ll want to avoid. Here are five…
Read More7 Personality Traits That Attract High-Value Partners
Have you ever wondered what makes some people effortlessly attract amazing partners? As an executive love coach who has helped over 10,000 women worldwide find love, I’ve noticed some common themes among our most successful clients. These aren’t about changing who you are, but rather developing traits that foster healthy, fulfilling relationships. Let’s dive into…
Read More4 Ways to Get Over a Breakup & Find Closure
Let’s be honest, breakups suck. They’re one of life’s most painful experiences, but they also remind us that we’re capable of love and connection. And that’s something to be celebrated. In this post, I’m going to share four exercises that can help you give yourself the gift of closure and move on from a difficult…
Read More7 Simple Tips for Online Dating in Your 50’s and Beyond
Notes Summary: Are you feeling apprehensive about diving into the world of online dating later in life? You’re not alone. The dating landscape has changed dramatically in recent years, and online dating can seem particularly daunting if you haven’t been in the game for a while. But don’t worry – with the right approach, you…
Read MoreWhat To Do When Dating Feels Impossible: 4 Questions to Get Unstuck
Note Summary: Breaking Free from Dating Disillusionment: 4 Questions to Transform Your Love Life Are you feeling stuck in your dating journey, convinced that there are no good partners out there? You’re not alone. Many of us have uttered phrases like, “Men are 100% the problem,” or “Online dating doesn’t work.” While these sentiments feel…
Read More6 Ways to Radiate the Inner Beauty Men Find Massively Attractive
NOTES: Cultivating Inner Beauty to Attract Lasting Love Forget the endless quest for the perfect physique. Society tells us men are only interested in outer beauty here is a truth that will surprise you: Inner beauty is the key to attracting high-quality men for lasting relationships. Why Inner Beauty Matters More Men might be initially…
Read MoreHow to Be the Perfect First Date: 20 Easy Ways to Avoid Disaster
Notes Summary: The Art of the Perfect First Date: A Comprehensive Guide First dates can be a whirlwind of emotions – exciting yet terrifying, especially if you’re rusty in the dating game. With 84% of people reporting a disastrous first date experience (according to a New York Post poll), it’s clear that many of us…
Read MoreDoes He Deserve You? 5 Signs He’s Your Emotional Equal
Have you ever gone on a date that left you feeling utterly disappointed? Maybe his online profile looked promising, but in person, he turned out to be… less than ideal. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with someone who has unique quirks or interests, if you’re part of the love strategies community, you’re likely seeking someone…
Read More5 Ways to Attract High-Status Men Who Are Your Equal
Notes from the podcast 5 Ways to Attract High-Status Men Who Are Your Equal Are you tired of being the only one who cares and makes an effort in your relationships? Are you done with one-sided relationships that feel more like a bad group project than a partnership? Starting today, no more being the relationship…
Read MoreWhen Should I Expect Him To Say “I Love You”?
Notes from the podcast: Navigating the “I Love You” Milestone in Relationships Today, we’re addressing one of the biggest milestones in any new relationship and one of our clients’ most common concerns: “He hasn’t said ‘I love you’.” There’s a lot wrapped up in those three little words. When a client asks why their partner…
Read More8 Ways the Right Husband Gives You a Strategic Life Advantage [The Relationship Edge]
.Notes from the podcast: The Key to a Fulfilling Life: Prioritizing Your Relationship As a woman juggling the demands of family, career, love, and self, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Who doesn’t want to have it all? The real challenge lies in prioritizing these aspects of life. With careers often demanding most of our time…
Read More6 Qualities that Men Look for in a Wife
Notes from the podcast 6 Qualities that Men Look for in a Wife In our latest podcast, we tackled a potentially touchy topic: what makes someone “wife material.” Now, before you react with outrage or curiosity, let’s delve into what we mean. It’s really about what it takes to be a lifelong partner (for men…
Read More#1 Bizarre Way to Charm a Man (Try it on your next Date)
NOTES The Quirkiness Advantage: Embracing Your Authentic Self in Dating In the world of dating, we’re often advised to present our most polished selves. But what if embracing our quirks is the key to making a lasting impression? Recent trends in dating psychology suggest that authenticity, including our unique idiosyncrasies, can be surprisingly attractive. The…
Read More7 Secret Signs He’s Extremely Attracted to You
Notes from the podcast: 7 Secret Signs He’s Extremely Attracted to You You’ve been spending time with this guy, and you can’t help but wonder if he’s into you or just being friendly. While some signs of attraction are obvious, like flirting or asking you out, there are subtle cues that could reveal his true…
Read More5 Ways Men Change When They Fall in Love
Notes from the Video: Have you ever wondered what goes on in a man’s mind when he transitions from casual dating to true love? In today’s video, I reveal the 5 key shifts that indicate a man is falling for you. 1. Listening: This goes beyond simply hearing your words. A man falling for you…
Read MoreIs He Wrong For You? The ONLY Break Up Text You’ll Ever Need
Notes from the podcast: The Reality of Dating Success in dating often hinges on meeting a lot of people. However, the harsh truth is that most people won’t be the right match for you. This reality makes it crucial to develop a skill many of us dread: ending relationships. In the dating world, we call…
Read More10 Unusual Signs You May Be Dating a Narcissist
Being in love with a narcissist can be emotionally draining. They can be manipulative and leave you feeling worthless. Today’s video explores ten unusual signs you may be dating a narcissist, someone who may not be as easy to spot as the stereotypical self-centered braggart. They Play the Blame Game: Victim and Hero -A narcissist…
Read MoreDoes He REALLY Want a Relationship or Is He Lying? 6 Ways To Decipher His True Intentions
Notes from the podcast: When diving into the world of online dating, you might be overwhelmed by the mixed signals men send. But recent research has unearthed a subtle yet powerful indicator of a man’s relationship intent: his profile picture. Specifically, men who include photos with dependents, like dogs, are more likely to seek long-term…
Read More7 Classy Ways to Capture a Guy’s Attention
Notes from the podcast: Suppose you’re someone who prefers the guy to do all the pursuing. In that case, you might find yourself only attracting those who are overly confident or even narcissistic—traits that don’t necessarily equate to a quality partner. While it’s essential not to come across as desperate or too eager, finding a…
Read More8 Easy Ways to Meet Your Future Husband At the Gym
Notes from the Video: If you’re a single woman who loves to stay fit, you might be wondering, “Where is my future hunky husband?” Well, my beautiful buff ladies, he’s probably pumping iron at the gym. Here are 8 easy ways to meet men while working out. How to P.R.O.W.L. M.E.N. at the gym (had…
Read More4 Dangerous Risks of Pursuing POWERFUL Men For Relationships
Notes from the podcast: When we think of power couples, names like Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, Beyoncé, and Jay-Z, Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively, Michelle, and Barack Obama, and Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, come to mind. These duos exemplify what many aspire to achieve in their relationships: a partnership that seems to elevate…
Read More6 Signs He’s a Loser (DUMP HIM)
Summary of the video Today, I’m introducing you to L.O.S.E.R. Larry and showing you how to spot him, saving you years of heartbreak. L – Lazy Does he spend all day playing video games, or does he get off the couch and make something of himself? O – Obfuscates His True Intentions To obfuscate is…
Read More10 Irresistible Texts That Captivate His Interest
Notes from the Podcast: Mastering the Art of Flirting via Text: 10 Go-To Texts for Dating Success The Digital Dating Dilemma In today’s dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we’ve covered in previous podcasts, “Love Texting” is a skill anyone can learn and perfect. We’re here to solve all…
Read MoreThe Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence
Notes from the podcast: When you’re single, striking up conversations with people you find attractive can seem daunting. You might wish these individuals to walk over and start an engaging chat simply, but it’s rarely that straightforward. Common Struggles Many of us feel inherently awkward in social interactions, particularly when it comes to flirting. You…
Read More3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away
Summary of the Podcast: You’ve been dating for a few months, and everything is GREAT. The start was amazing, and things have only gotten better. You’ve had the Define The Relationship (DTR) talk and are officially exclusive. You’ve made it to exactly where you want to be. But wait… Not so fast. Things have changed. The initial…
Read More7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater Needs
Notes from the podcast: The path to acquiring dating skills can often be a slow and painful process filled with missteps, and lessons learned the hard way. But what if you could accelerate this process? We’ve distilled the essence of successful dating into seven key psychological skills to save you time and unnecessary heartache. Mastering these will make your…
Read MoreIs He The One? The Secret to Using Your Intuition
Notes From The Podcast: Not sure if he’s right for you? In today’s podcast, we provide a step-by-step system for harnessing your natural intuition and weeding out the wrong men so you can finally open your heart to the right guy. Intuition, by its very nature, is the ability to understand something instinctively without needing conscious reasoning. It’s…
Read More5 Powerful Compliments That Capture Men’s Attention
Notes from the Podcast: When capturing a man’s attention, the usual compliments like “You’re so handsome” or “You’re funny” often fall flat. They’re overly familiar and can feel insincere because they could be said to just about anyone. To truly stand out and make an impact, it’s crucial to delve deeper. Here’s a guide to giving compliments that not…
Read More10 Reasons Why Men Love Older Women
Notes from the podcast The idea that men prefer younger women is a stereotype that’s increasingly being challenged today. Statistics show that age-hypogamous relationships, which involve a woman who is older, are on the rise. In fact, 34% of women aged 40-60 have dated a younger man and a significant majority report high satisfaction levels in these relationships. Unpacking…
Read More3 Signs You’re Wasting Time with the Wrong Man
Notes from the podcast: Time is our most precious asset, and in matters of the heart, it’s often hard to tell when we’re investing it wisely. You’re not alone if you’ve ever felt like you were wasting time in a relationship. A staggering 56 percent of women struggle to find someone who meets their expectations,…
Read MoreWhy Dating Success is NOT All About Good Looks
Notes from the podcast: Consider the commonly held belief: “Dating success is all about being good-looking.” At first glance, this seems straightforward, but the reality is far more nuanced. Let’s unravel this statement by examining four key reasons why it’s overly simplistic and often misleading. #1. Needles and Haystacks An abundance of interest, such as…
Read MoreDating after 50: 7 Steps to Find Your Forever Man
Notes from the podcast: Dating after 50 can feel daunting, especially when society bombards us with messages that youth is the zenith of desirability. But finding your forever man at this stage in life is not just a possibility; it’s a journey that can be embarked upon with dignity, wisdom and a bit of strategic…
Read MoreDecoding Love: How To Make Modern Dating Feel Less Complicated
Notes from the podcast: Acknowledging the Struggle Yes, dating feels like navigating a labyrinth without a map. Whether you’re reentering the dating scene after some time or feel like a novice in the era of texting and online dating, the challenges are all too real. From the overwhelming presence of seemingly inadequate partners to the…
Read MoreThe Real Reasons Why You’re Still Single
Notes from the podcast: Are you navigating the single life, feeling increasingly frustrated and hopeless? You’ve tried everything, yet nothing seems to change your status. The sense of running out of options, fearing a future of eternal singleness, looms large. But what if the issues you believe are holding you back are actually leading you…
Read MoreIs Your Guy Falling Short? One thing you should NEVER do
Notes from the podcast: In relationships, a hard truth remains: no one is perfect. This acknowledgment sets the stage for a phenomenon I’ve come to call the “Near Miss” phenomenon, where apps and social encounters introduce us to potential partners who tick most of the boxes yet seem to fall just short in certain areas.…
Read MoreWhy You Should Give (the RIGHT) Guys a Second Chance When Dating
Notes from the podcast: In the ever-evolving world of dating, finding the perfect match can feel like navigating through a maze with no apparent exit. It’s easy to find reasons to dismiss potential partners at the slightest hint of a red flag. After all, the dating pool is filled with individuals who, for various reasons,…
Read MoreDo You REALLY Know What You Want in a Partner?
Notes from the podcast: Everyone has an ideal partner checklist that might include attributes like “6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack abs.” Yet, posing the question, “What do you want in a partner?” uncovers a fundamental challenge in dating that many fail to answer correctly, if at all. It’s common to assert confidently, “I KNOW…
Read More7 Ways to Know if a Guy REALLY Likes You (or is just breadcrumbing)
Notes from the podcast: A peculiar trend has emerged in the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, leaving many to wonder, “What in the world are guys doing?” The scenario is all too familiar: you’re texting a guy, the conversation is flirty, sparks are seemingly flying, and then suddenly, it all fizzles out to nothing. You…
Read MoreFrom Sorrow to Strength: 4 Empowering Strategies to Heal a Broken Heart
Notes from the podcast: Endings are hard. The conclusion of a relationship, whether it fizzles out or comes to a sudden halt, brings a wave of emotions that can leave us feeling lost, lonely, and engulfed in pain. The ache of loss can feel unbearable, prompting a desperate search for a way to make it…
Read MoreHe’s Not as Great as You Think: Stop F.I.B.ing to Yourself
Notes from the Podcast The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks. This clever acronym reveals a troubling behavior pattern where, without concrete information about someone, we optimistically fill in the gaps…
Read More7 Secrets to Attracting Love as a Successful Woman
Notes from the podcast: As successful women, the approach to finding love is nuanced, requiring a blend of self-awareness, Patience, and strategic action. Today, we delve into the unconventional yet profoundly effective secrets to attracting love that resonates with the essence of a successful woman. #1. Embrace Your Standards: The Magic of Not Being Liked…
Read MoreHow to Be a Kickass “Wingwoman” (Share This with Your FRIENDS)
Notes from the podcast: Having a wing woman can be an invaluable asset in the dynamic world of dating and social interactions. Here’s how to be a fantastic wingwoman (share this with your fellow wingwomen!) #1. Highlight Non-Physical Traits The essence of a great wingwoman lies in emphasizing your friend’s non-physical attributes. Planning ahead is…
Read More8 Signs You Have an Anxious Attachment Style
Notes from the podcast: The longing for a companion, a partner to share life’s journey with, is a universal desire. The allure of romance and destiny can be captivating, consuming your every thought. Yet, in this quest for love, do you find yourself going a bit overboard, perhaps scaring potential partners away? Have your relationships…
Read More#1 Way to Fix Bad Communication With Your Guy
Notes from the podcast: Every relationship, without exception, encounters its fair share of problems, ranging from minor irritations and daily annoyances to major, deep-seated issues. Sometimes, it’s not a specific problem but a lingering sense that things are not clicking as they should. The First Step to Resolution: Communication The root of most relationship problems…
Read MoreHow to Date Someone Out of Your League
Notes from the Podcast: When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we’re seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is…
Read More#1 Text to Reignite a Spark with a Guy
Notes from the Video One of our clients came to us needing clarification about how to re-engage with this man she liked. She pondered various approaches: asking him out directly, sending a letter, or having a friend intervene. My advice? Send a straightforward, thoughtful text. For example, share a link or a GIF about a…
Read More3 Transformative Steps for Getting Over Your Ex
Notes from the Podcast: Breaking up can feel like an end to your world as you know it. Everything around you – from the music you hear to the shows you watch – reminds you of your ex. It’s a challenge even to recognize who you are without them. But what if there’s a better…
Read MoreDo Men Pull Away If You Move TOO Slow?
Notes from the Video Recently, a client shared her dating dilemma, which perfectly illustrates a common challenge in modern dating. My client, a woman in her mid-to-late 40s, has been following the “Little Love Steps” and she’s currently in Little Love Step #5, having gone on four dates with a man over five weeks. He’s…
Read More8 Body Language Secrets That Turn Men on (Based on Science)
Notes from today’s podcast: In an age where online dating dominates, there’s an undeniable charm in meeting someone face-to-face. Have you ever felt invisible in social settings, wondering why guys don’t approach you? It’s not about being unattractive or unappealing; sometimes, it’s just about being out of practice in the subtle art of non-verbal communication.…
Read More10 Signs He’s a Boy and Not a MAN
Notes from today’s podcast: Introduction: One of the most common challenges clients often voice is finding “good” men. However, the real question isn’t necessarily “Where are they?” but rather “How do we identify the ‘right’ guy?” In this blog post, we’ll help you recognize the qualities that make a man worthy of your time and…
Read More6 Feminine Traits Men Find Incredibly Attractive
Notes from today’s video: There are certain undeniable qualities that make a woman irresistibly attractive to men. If you develop these traits, you’ll have men clamoring for your affection and attention. In this blog post, we’ll explore the six feminine traits that have a profound impact on how men perceive and desire women. #1. Confidence:…
Read MoreWhat Men REALLY Want in a Woman: 4 Traits NOBODY Talks About
Note from today’s podcast In today’s podcast, we’re going beyond the usual clichés and explore four key traits that men genuinely desire but are often overlooked. These traits aren’t just about attracting men; they are qualities that anyone can cultivate for their own personal growth and happiness. Realistic Relationship: Contrary to the common misconception that…
Read More6 Psychological Biases That Are Keeping You Single
Notes from the podcast: We all like to think that we see the world clearly and objectively, but the truth is, as physicist Richard Feynman once said, “You must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool.” This applies not only to our understanding of the world but also to our approach…
Read More9 Things Men Say When They’re Playing You
Notes from the video: Dating can be a tricky game, and sometimes, it’s not easy to spot the players among the genuine individuals looking for love and commitment. When a man is playing you, he’s intentionally giving you a false sense of his intentions to fulfill his own needs while disregarding yours. Most often, these…
Read MoreHe’s Pulling Away Because of “Bad Logistics”?
Angela from Michigan recently brought us an intriguing question about the complex world of dating. After being single for two and a half years, Angela ventured into the world of dating apps. Within six weeks, she went on 14 first dates and a few second dates, but most were disappointing. However, one date stood out.…
Read MoreIs Social Media Toxic for Your Dating Life?
In today’s insightful podcast, Adam and Gary dive deep into an intriguing question posed by Ranana from Indianapolis: “Can social media be toxic for your love life?” Let’s delve into the complexities of this topic. The Juicy Details: A Personal Journey Ranana shares her personal story, marking her return to dating after a heartbreak and…
Read MoreHow Many Right Swipes Lead to Love?
Summary of Today’s Video: Today, we delve into an intriguing question posed by Jean from Oregon. As someone who’s hit the restart button on their dating life, Jean seeks to understand the dynamics of online dating and the elusive formula for finding love. Let’s dive into this relatable journey and offer some practical advice. Jean’s…
Read MoreHow to Stay in Your Feminine Without Mothering Him?
Summary of Today’s Video: In today’s video, we delve into an intriguing and somewhat uncomfortable question about maintaining feminine energy in a relationship without crossing into mothering territory. This complex issue, presented through a real-life scenario involving a ‘gnarly bump,’ opens up a broader discussion on the dynamics of care and support in romantic relationships.…
Read More6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive
Notes from the Podcast: #1. Vibe: Positivity vs. Negativity A woman’s vibe is immediately noticeable. Does she bring light or darkness into a room? A positive, upbeat, and fun demeanor is attractive, characterized by an optimistic outlook, spontaneity, and a grateful attitude. Conversely, negativity, constant complaining, and pessimism can be off-putting. #2. Ownership: Self-Assuredness and…
Read More7 Ways to Stay Single Forever
Notes from the Video Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with a friend about their love life and thought, “Wow, if things don’t change, they might stay single forever”? We’ve all been there, and sometimes, it’s easier to look at a problem from a different angle. So, let’s explore this with a twist:…
Read MoreWhy Your Relationships Only Last 3 Months: The Friendship Phenomenon
Notes from the podcast: Have you ever been caught in the whirlwind of a new relationship where everything seemed perfect, only to watch it crumble before your eyes? After the arduous journey of navigating dating apps, enduring lackluster conversations, and dodging inappropriate advances, finding someone who seems like ‘the one’ feels like a breath of…
Read More7 Weird Things Most Women Don’t Know About Men
Notes from this week’s video: #1. The Quest for Connection, Not “Love”: While the search for a genuine connection is universal, men often approach dating with different expectations. They may not prioritize finding “love” in the storybook sense, but that doesn’t negate their capacity for deep feelings. #2. The Romantic Idealism of Men: Contrary to…
Read MoreSick of Guys Ghosting? Here are 3 Reasons Why It Keeps Happening
Notes from the podcast: “Ghosting”. The term itself carries an eerie feeling of being left in the dark, unsure of what went wrong. It’s the dating equivalent of a hit-and-run, leaving you with questions and confusion. Client Story: Meet Joan (name changed for privacy). For seven exhilarating months, she was dating Dave (name kept because,…
Read More4 Empowering Ways to Deal with Anxiety While Dating
Notes from this week’s video: Of all the human emotions, anxiety can be the most debilitating. As the Swedish proverb wisely says, “Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow.” And when you’re dating, it often seems like anxiety has the power to turn a small text message into a cataclysmic blowout fight that…
Read More7 Things Affluent Men Deeply Desire in a Woman
Notes from this week’s Podcast: Do affluent men desire the same qualities in a woman as everyone else? Well, yes and no. While some desires are universal, the nuances matter. Affluent men, particularly self-made men, tend to have unique desires shaped by their competitive nature, dominance, and selectivity. In this blog post, we will delve…
Read More4 Reasons to Move Slow While Dating
Have you ever noticed that it’s easy to take things slow when you’re dating until you meet someone you like? Suddenly, all your caution flies out the window, and you’re ready to elope in Vegas. But before you rush into anything, there are a few compelling reasons why you should consider pacing the progression of…
Read MoreThe Attraction Myth That’s Ruining Your Relationships
Notes From the Podcast: We’ve all heard the age-old adage that “opposites attract.” It’s a romantic notion that has been perpetuated in countless rom-coms and Hallmark movies. The story goes like this: a white-collar, work-obsessed city dweller meets a down-to-earth, rough-around-the-edges person from a small town. At first glance, they seem entirely wrong for each…
Read More10 Relationship Truths Every Woman NEEDS to Hear
Here are ten relationship truths we believe every woman needs to hear: #1. You’re beautiful, but don’t let people fall in love with you for your looks. Prioritizing superficial qualities leads to superficial relationships. This goes for you, too. Don’t get distracted by physical qualities. Looks are temporary; character is forever. #2. You have to…
Read More3 Subtle Ways to Turn a Man On Fast
Did you ever hear that turning a man on is as simple as flipping a switch? I hate to break it to you, but there’s more to the art of attraction than just visual queues. Here are three ways to turn him on fast, without even looking at you. #1. Lingering Touches You know those…
Read More4 Traits Linked to Career Success but Relationship Heartbreak
Professional triumph didn’t fall into your lap. It’s the fruit of your perseverance, the relentless hours you invested, and the unyielding persona you’ve honed. Yet, the triumph turns bittersweet as these victories don’t echo in the corridors of your love life. Instead, they reverberate as the silent echoes of solitude. Are you to choose between…
Read More5 Steps to Heal After a Break Up
Breakups have evolved in the digital age, making it more challenging than ever before. With social media and texting, reminders of an ex can be constant, intensifying the pain of separation. As a relationship evolves as a couple, your lives and identities become increasingly intertwined. Shared activities, friends, family, and even finances shape your identities…
Read More#1 Way to Make a Guy Like You INSTANTLY
Meeting someone for the first time, whether it’s a romantic date, a casual encounter, or even a job interview, we all have a similar underlying desire: we want to make a good impression. While many of us agonize over finding the perfect words to say, there’s a subtler, more powerful strategy to employ: the magic…
Read More4 Ways to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work
Over the past decade, long-distance relationships have seen a significant surge. With over 3 million couples in the United States currently navigating the challenges of distance, it’s clear that this trend is on the rise. A staggering 10% of all marriages today began as long-distance relationships. Two reasons are driving this shift in dynamics.…
Read MoreAre You Sabotaging Your Search for Love? 3 Things that Secretly Hold You Back
In the quest for love, we often have a mental checklist of qualities we desire in a partner. However, could it be that these very qualities are hindering our chances of finding true and lasting love? Let’s delve into the three secret qualities many women seek in a partner that might be sabotaging their love…
Read MoreMen Love These 5 Texts From Women
There is absolutely no greater joy for a man when we receive a flirtatious text from a woman that we’re into. While we don’t recommend texting as a platform for serious conversations, texting (when used strategically) is an incredible tool for building desire and a connection Today, I want to share with you five text…
Read MoreHow to Believe in Love Again: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy
Dating can be tough, especially if you’re new to the game or returning after a hiatus. It often feels intimidating and overwhelming, with too many rules, apps, scammers, and a barrage of information to process. This can make you hesitant to dive in, leaving you feeling lost and resistant to the idea of dating altogether.…
Read More13 Dating Rules that Simplify Your Love Life
In the complex world of dating and relationships, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and lost at times. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of 13 dating rules that can simplify your love life and help you navigate the often confusing waters of dating and relationships. Whether you’re new to dating or a seasoned pro, these…
Read More5 Biggest Mistakes Successful Women Make When Looking for Love
Successful women often encounter unique challenges in the quest for love: they have achieved greatness in their careers, but finding a meaningful romantic connection can be elusive. Here are the 5 Biggest Mistakes Successful Women Make When Searching for Love #1. One-itis One of the most common mistakes successful women make when seeking love is…
Read MoreThe #1 Way to Find the “Perfect Man”
As a single woman looking for love, your attention often becomes fixated on finding the elusive “perfect man”. Questions about his identity, his whereabouts, and why he hasn’t appeared on your dating app or at your local gym become the focal point. This is an experience widely shared among single women, yet it’s often cloaked…
Read MoreHow to Turn On a Guy INSTANTLY (with Your Eyes)
“The eyes reveal what the tongue could never express.” In the world of attraction, understanding how to captivate someone’s attention is an art. While physical appearance is just one aspect of the equation, it’s a piece that registers almost instantly in our brains. Think about it – you gather information about someone’s looks before you…
Read MoreAre Men Really Turned Off By Successful Women? The Harsh Truth
Are Men Really Turned Off By Successful Women? The Harsh Truth Have you ever found yourself wondering why your professional success doesn’t seem to translate into success in your relationships? You’re excelling in your career, managing a company or a household with finesse, and yet, when it comes to dating and relationships, things just aren’t…
Read More#1 Strategy to Attract More Authentic Men (Hint: It’s NOT What You Think)
Are you tired of playing the dating numbers game, sifting through tons of guys who don’t seem right for you? Do you long to find someone who truly appreciates and understands your passions and quirks? If so, it’s time to shift your mindset and adopt a slightly different dating strategy that prioritizes quality over quantity.…
Read MoreAre You Emotionally Unavailable? 2 Subconscious Signs You’re Pushing Men Away
Finding a lasting and fulfilling relationship can be challenging, particularly if you’ve consistently approached love in the same way. While you may feel you’re offering a lot to your relationships, there’s a chance that you’re emotionally unavailable. Here are the signs. Sign #1: Misdirected Emotional Investments Be mindful of where you place your emotional energy.…
Read More5 Powerful Strategies for Finding Love Over 50
Finding love is a beautiful journey that transcends age. Contrary to popular belief, seeking love after 50 is not a daunting task but an exciting opportunity to embrace life’s experiences and explore meaningful connections. Here we explore five powerful strategies to help individuals over 50 discover love and companionship, fostering a sense of fulfillment and…
Read More6 Ways to Attract Affluent Men
Are you a successful woman who’s tired of meeting men who struggle to make ends meet? Do you desire to attract a high-value man of affluence, someone who understands your ambition and matches your drive for success? If so, we must step up our game and start appealing to high-value men with a strategy. Get…
Read More10 Dangerous Relationship Red Flags Most Women Ignore
Today we will explore ten dangerous red flags that many women ignore, despite their potential impact on relationships. #1. He Goes Overboard with the Compliments: While compliments are pleasant, you must be cautious when someone showers you with excessive praise too early in a relationship. These compliments may lack sincerity and might be a tactic…
Read MoreIs He Relationship Material? 3 Simple Questions to Ask Your Guy
When trying to find the right partner, it can be challenging to determine if someone is truly relationship material. However, three simple questions can provide valuable insights into a person’s intentions, emotional availability, and compatibility. Forget about trying to read signs or bombarding them with countless inquiries. Instead, focus on open communication and asking the…
Read More9 Things Men Say When They’re Emotionally Attached
In this article, we’ll dive into the nine things that men say when they’re starting to build that deep emotional attachment. Understanding these signs can help you recognize when a man is interested in something more meaningful. #1. “When can I see you again?”: An emotionally attached man will eagerly make plans and schedule future dates.…
Read More5 Weird Habits Men Find Disgusting
When it comes to relationships, both men and women have their fair share of habits that can be off-putting. In this article, we will turn the tables and discuss some of the weirder habits or traits that turn men off. While being true to yourself is essential, being aware of these habits can help create…
Read MoreWhy ‘The Notebook’ Sets You Up for Relationship Failure
When it comes to romantic movies, “The Notebook” is often hailed as a classic. It has captivated the hearts of audiences worldwide with its tale of passionate love and undying devotion. However, beneath the surface of this seemingly heartwarming story lies a dangerous set of relationship myths and toxic behaviors. This blog post will explore…
Read MoreThe Power in Leaning Back and Letting a Man Lead (4 Ways to Do It)
Are you a powerful, go-getting woman who dominates in the boardroom? If so, you might find that your strong masculine energy, which serves you well in your professional life, doesn’t always translate to success in the dating world. Unconsciously, you may be repelling masculine men and attracting more submissive, beta partners. Let’s explore the importance…
Read MoreHe’s Pulling Away…Now What?
Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs that can leave us feeling uncertain and anxious. One common concern that arises is when your partner starts to pull away. In this blog post, we’ll explore the various reasons why this might happen and discuss strategies to navigate this challenging situation. Timing Is Everything:…
Read More6 Ways to Make a Man Addicted To You
When we hear the word “addiction,” negative connotations often come to mind, such as smartphones, food, or unhealthy substances. However, there are aspects of life that can be positively addictive, including meditation, running, and even love. When a connection is healthy, it can be incredibly addictive in a beautiful way. Building an Irresistible Love Connection:…
Read More8 Steps to Getting Over Your Ex And Living Your Life Again
If you’re wondering how to deal with a breakup, I want you to know you are not alone, and we’ve all been there. But rather than trying to win your ex back, I want you to focus on winning yourself back today. Here’s how to get over your ex and live your magnificent life again.…
Read More7 Signs He’s Micro Cheating (Hint: It’s Still CHEATING)
When we think of cheating, we often picture someone having sex with another person behind their partner’s back. However, the concept of infidelity is more nuanced than that, and micro-cheating is an example of this. Micro-cheating is the term used to describe the small things people say and do when their partner isn’t around that…
Read More5 Reasons Why You Keep Attracting Toxic Men
Toxic relationships are incredibly damaging and can cause long-lasting effects on one’s mental and emotional health. However, the truth is that no one ever intentionally sets out to be in a toxic relationship. The beginning of a relationship is always full of excitement and hope, and it’s only when things start to go south that…
Read MoreHow To Set Healthy Boundaries In A Relationship (6 Steps)
You’ve probably heard of these things called boundaries, but do you know how to set boundaries in dating and relationships? Setting healthy boundaries and sticking to them won’t be the answer to all your relationship challenges. But they can help you build self-esteem and reduce the chances of you getting hurt and dating people who…
Read More7 Dangerous Signs of Gaslighting in a Relationship (#3 KILLS Your Confidence)
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that involves manipulating someone’s perception of reality. It is a dangerous technique that can undermine a person’s self-confidence and sanity, and is often used by people in romantic relationships to exert control and power over their partner. In this blog post, we will discuss the signs of gaslighting…
Read More7 Things To Consider Before Dating A Friend + Why You Should
Dating a friend you’ve known for years can go one of two ways. Best case scenario, you end up like Monica & Chandler and live happily ever after. Worst case scenario, it doesn’t work out, you struggle to get your friendship back, and you’re left wondering why you ever thought it was a good idea…
Read More7 Things to NEVER Say to a Guy You Love
Have you ever said something to a guy you wish you could take back? Usually, this happens when you’re STD. Nope, that doesn’t stand for what you think it does. S = starving. T = tired. D = drunk. And when we’re all three of these things, we become total monsters! Here are seven things…
Read MoreThe 10 Challenges Every Relationship Must Face
Everyone wants romantic relationships to be simple. They’re not. Instead, relationships are complicated, tricky, and confusing. It’s enough to leave you feeling indecisive and unsure. And yet, we’ve all seen happy couples who have been together forever. What’s their secret? Those “super couples” don’t avoid complications. They have struggles, just like the rest of us.…
Read MoreHolding on Too Long? A Story about Cars and Love
Over the summer, I was in Boston and out to dinner with a colleague who specializes in relationships. We’ll call him Adam because, well, his name is Adam LoDolce. When two relationship experts go out to dinner and strike up a conversation with the waitress, you’d assume the topic du jour would be love, dating,…
Read More7 Subtle Signs that Your Relationship Is In Trouble
You never saw it coming. Just like that. Your relationship is a mess, or worse, it’s completely over. Everything seemed to be going well, then suddenly, it wasn’t. No one likes to be blindsided. While it may seem like the end came out of nowhere, the truth is there are always signs. You just missed…
Read MoreHow to Use Passion to Find (and Keep) Long-Lasting Love
Early in a relationship, the mere thought of your partner brings a smile to your face and a flutter to your stomach. You feel downright giddy. That’s passionate love. It feels AMAZING. But it’s more than that. Passionate love motivates us to spend every possible moment together and move the relationship forward. It’s all so…
Read More3 Simple Strategies To Fix Any Struggling Relationship
Everyone wants the best relationship possible. Yet, no relationship is perfect. We all have room for improvement. But how? What should couples do? You could read the scientific literature or try to sort through a bunch of questionable advice on the Internet. It’s overwhelming, which just begs you to do nothing and simply hope for…
Read MoreHow to Attract Men Who Aren’t Intimidated by Your Success
Strong relationships require a strong foundation. To build that base, each partner must embrace who they are and continually strive to grow. In other words: Improve yourself to improve your relationships. Simple. Smart. Intuitive. But we all know that in real life, relationships are rarely that simple. I recently tweeted (actually a retweet from someone…
Read MoreDating an Alpha Male? 6 Things You Need To Know
Most women have found themselves attracted to an alpha male at some point. Sometimes, you won’t even know why. There’s just something about this man that pulls you in. He’s the guy who everyone is gravitating toward at a party (girls and guys). He’s the one who always knows exactly what to say and is…
Read MoreTired Of Being Single? 14 Steps To Take Today
Are you tired of being single and ready to find the man and relationship of your dreams? It’s not that there’s anything wrong with being single. Being single is fun, exciting, and often much easier than being in a relationship. It’s no surprise that the US Census Bureau reported that in 2016, over 50% of…
Read More3 Subtle Ways to Touch a Guy and Drive Him Crazy
If you’ve watched any of my videos, you’ll know how important it is to use touch to show a guy you like him and build your connection. But how do you strike the right balance between “I just want to be friends” and “Let’s do it on this table right here, right now”? The key…
Read MoreHe’s Moving Slow? 5 Weird Signs He Still Likes You
Have you ever dated a guy who is moving at the pace of a baby snail and wondered whether he’s even into you? “If he likes me, why would he move so darn slow?!” Don’t drop him like a hot potato just yet. He might still like you. And in this video, I’ll share five…
Read More17 Signs He Only Sees You As A Friend – NEXT!
Do you have a guy friend you’re starting to like romantically? Your heart does a somersault when he texts. You’ve already imagined what your wedding day would look like. And anytime he mentions another woman, you roll your eyes. In your head, you think you might make an awesome couple, but you’re not quite sure…
Read More7 Reasons Why You’re Still Single
Are you a single woman who is looking for love? Your siblings, friends, and colleagues continue to find their perfect partners, get married and live happily ever after, but for some reason, it’s not happening for you. Sound familiar? You really want to meet the right man, but it seems like Cupid isn’t on your…
Read MoreThe #1 Thing to Look for in a Husband
I speak a lot about qualities and traits women should look for in the men they’re dating. At the very minimum, he should be kind, financially stable, and ready and able to commit. He should have his own place and not live in his parent’s basement. And he definitely shouldn’t be married already or on…
Read MoreHow to Be a High-Value Woman Men Deeply Desire
I’m always telling women to be high-value when they’re dating so that they attract a high-value man. But what does it even mean to be high-value? Is it about how much money you’ve got in the bank? How far up the career ladder you are? How attractive you are? How many matches you got on…
Read More7 Things Men Look for Before Marrying a Woman
Have you ever wondered what makes a man think a woman is “marriage material?” What has to happen for that switch to flip inside a man’s brain where he finally realizes, “yes, this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, no ifs, buts, or maybes.” Are men looking for…
Read MoreDoes He Like Me More Than A Friend? 27 Signs He Does
Most girls have at least one male friend in their life who they’ve known for some time, and at some point, it crosses their mind, “does he like me more than a friend?” Is he pining for you like a lost Labrador puppy, or are you firmly in the friendzone? Maybe you’re recent office buddies…
Read More5 Types of Men You Should NEVER Trust
When you’re meeting and dating new guys, it can be tricky to know who you can trust. He might say and do all the right things and meet your love vision (Little Love Step #2), but what if it’s just a well-rehearsed front? What if he doesn’t really like reading feminist literature or crocheting ponchos…
Read More25 Undeniable Signs He Has Strong Feelings For You
What are the signs he has strong feelings for you? Whether he’s a friend or someone you’ve been dating for a while, it can be challenging to gauge where his head and heart are. Men can be difficult to read (if you don’t know what to look for), and there’s a good chance he’s sending…
Read More#1 Thing Men Look For in a Wife
What is the number one thing men are looking for in a long-term partner? What makes a man decide he wants a woman to be his wife, his ride or die, his better half? Is it the perfect bod? A domestic Goddess? Sex on tap? No, no, and no. While us guys have a reputation…
Read More3 Places You Should NEVER Go on a First Date
There’s so much to think about when you’re out there meeting new guys and dating. What should I say to him so that I sound like the perfect combination of funny and sexy? What should I wear so that I look attractive but don’t subliminally signal that he’s gonna get some tonight? What is my…
Read MoreWhat Falling In Love Feels Like (16 Signs It’s Happening)
Maybe you’ve been in love before, and perhaps you haven’t. But have you ever wondered what falling in love feels like? What if all the times you think you’ve been in love, weren’t love at all, and were no more than infatuation? What if you’ve fallen in love with a guy, perhaps a best friend,…
Read MoreHow to End A Long Term Relationship (The Right Way)
If you’re here wondering how to end a long-term relationship, then chances are your love life no longer aligns with the woman you are today. But ending a relationship that has spanned years or decades—and potentially involves a mortgage, wedding vows, and kids—is not a decision you can make lightly. But although ending a long-term…
Read More6 Different Types Of Romantic Relationships: Which One Are You In?
Do you know the different types of romantic relationships that exist? Whether you’re in a relationship right now or not, having a solid understanding of relationship types will help you avoid the wrong ones and attract the right ones. There’s just one problem: every relationship is slightly different. On top of that, we all have…
Read MoreWhat Does It Mean To Love Someone? Here Are 16 Signs It’s Real
Examples of “love” are thrown in our faces every day in the way of love songs, TV shows, meet-cute movies, and romance novels. Love is probably the most universal human experience of all time. But what does it really mean to love someone? If you’ve ever been in love yourself, you’ll know it’s worlds apart…
Read More56 Deep Questions to Ask a Guy to Build Attraction
Ever wondered what deep questions to ask a guy to build attraction between the two of you? Physical attraction is one thing, but how do you take things to the next level and build that all-important emotional connection? Because it doesn’t just happen by magic. Usually, one partner takes the lead in triggering emotional connection.…
Read MoreHow Long Does It Take to Fall In Love? Everything You Need To Know
How long does it take to fall in love? When you meet someone new you’re crazy about, it’s easy to think you’re in love. The butterflies are fluttering in your stomach, you think about them 24/7, and you’re besotted by this person. But how do you know it’s love and not just lust or infatuation?…
Read More5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in a Woman
Have you ever wondered what men find beautiful in a woman that isn’t rooted in appearance? We all know the power of putting a great outfit on, getting a new hairstyle, or putting makeup on. And sure, these things can make you appear more physically attractive to men. But beauty really is more than skin…
Read MoreHow to Find True Love in 7 Simple Steps
Most of us have no trouble finding someone to date or be in a relationship with, but how to find true love is a different story. What do I mean when I say true love? I mean the one. True love is about finding your soul mate. The man you want to live your life…
Read MoreHow to Spice Up Your Relationship: 17 Fun Things to Do Tonight
Are you wondering how to spice up your relationship and reignite the flame in the bedroom? If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, it’s normal for your sex life to feel a little stale and monotonous. You’re way past the honeymoon phase and have probably slipped into a comfortable routine. Don’t worry; we’ve…
Read MoreWill I Ever Find Love? Yes. Here Are 15 Ways to Make it Happen
Have you found yourself asking the question, will I ever find love? It seems to be the only thing anyone thinks about. As soon as we’re old enough to know about relationships, there’s significant pressure to find an amazing one and ditch our single status. Our family, friends, and society expect it from us. And…
Read More5 Texts That Turns Guys Off (Never Send These)
Maybe you’ve had a bad experience with texting guys in the past. Have you hit him up only to be met with stone-cold silence? Did you think you were friendly, funny, or flirty, only to never hear from him again? This can make you feel insecure, powerless and put you off the whole dating thing altogether. Don’t…
Read More6 Tips to Finding Love After 40 That Actually Work
Finding love after 40 can be challenging. Why? Because the dating scene has changed a lot since you were in your twenties. Every man you meet comes with baggage. Maybe he’s just come out of a messy divorce, or he’s jaded from a past relationship, or he has kids. You think you’ve met someone great, and you…
Read More6 Secrets Guys Wish You Knew About Love
Women and men think differently when it comes to just about everything. Dating, relationships, and love are no exception. Have you ever dated a guy who you couldn’t understand? You’re talking to him about something important, and it feels like he’s miles away in a world of his own and not even listening. You want to spend more…
Read MoreIf a Man Really Loves You, He Will Do These 22 Things
,Your boyfriend SAYS he loves you, but sometimes you’re not sure. Either that’s because he’s so different from the men you’ve been with in past relationships…or you’ve never been in love before. So, how do you KNOW if a guy really loves you? If a Man Really Loves You, He Will… Sure, every guy is…
Read More3 Types of Relationships Every Woman Experiences (Avoid 2 of Them!)
There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. But that’s easy to forget when you’re single and looking at… …Insta couples kissing in a pile of fall leaves… …your friend showing off her engagement ring on Facebook… …or any other photo that makes you feel like you’re lacking because you’re not in a relationship. I…
Read More3 Short Texts That INSTANTLY Get His Attention
When you text a guy, do you find yourself writing a novel? And then…wonder why he doesn’t respond? Men are intimidated by a wall of text. There are better ways to get his attention. In this situation, short texts beat long ones. In this video, I’ll show you three simple and short texts you can…
Read MoreWhy Men Ignore Women They Like: 2 Weird Psychological Phenomenons
Dating at any age can feel a lot like junior high. You can be into a guy who you’re fairly certain is also into you…and yet he ignores you just like Billy did in 8th grade. You want to understand why men ignore women they like, because, frankly, it’s pretty #%!* frustrating! Unfortunately, ignoring females…
Read MoreWhat Does FWB REALLY Mean? 7 Hidden Definitions
If you’re not looking for a relationship right now (or are tired of going out with guys who don’t want one), you might be considering a FWB situation. A…whaaaa? If you haven’t heard this term, let me illuminate you: FWB = Friend With Benefits Basically, this is a guy you hook up with, where there…
Read More7 Scientific Signs A Guy Is Falling In Love With You
When it comes to knowing whether a guy is falling in love with you or not, you don’t have to be a mind reader. You don’t have to dissect everything he says with your girlfriends (though you enjoy that, don’t you?). You don’t even need a sign from the heavens. There are scientific signs that…
Read More10 Weird Signs Your Ex is Pretending to Be Over You
Heather broke up with Jon recently, and while she’s nursing her own wounds and trying to move on, she also wants to know that he’s doing ok. He’s posting a ton of photos on Insta (unusual for him) that show how fabulous his life is, and that makes her happy, mostly. Her friends tell you…
Read More7 Subtle Female Behaviors Men Find Annoying [HUGE TURN OFFS]
You probably think about all the things that get on your nerves about men. They burp in inappropriate places (is there an APPROPRIATE place??)… …they leave their underwear on the floor… …they sometimes act clueless as to how you’re feeling. But…let me ask you…have you ever considered the female behaviors that annoy men? How YOU…
Read More5 Weird Signs He’s NOT Into You
You scratch your head when it comes to how guys act sometimes. You THINK the guy you’re dating is into you…but he acts odd often, and you want to know why. Is he too shy to reveal his true feelings? Does he not know how to handle such a fabulous woman? I can’t vouch for…
Read More4 Things Men Desire But Would NEVER Ask For
Does it sometimes seem like what men want and what you want is COMPLETELY opposite? It’s easy to assume that guys just want hookups… …to jump out of bed and head home right after being intimate… …and zero commitment. But I’m here to tell you, you might actually be surprised at the things men desire.…
Read MoreHow Do I Tell If He Loves Me? 12 Signs He’s Falling Hard
Things are going well in your relationship and you’re starting to be able to envision a future together. You’re still sorting out your feelings about him…but you’re also wondering how he feels about you. How do I tell if he loves me? Is it just puppy love? Does the way he gazes into my eyes…
Read MoreFrom Sexy Confidence to Love Strategies
After eight years as a dating coach for women under the name “Sexy Confidence”, we’ve decided to make a big change. As of today, we are now operating under the name Love Strategies! Here’s why I decided to make the switch: Moving forward, we’re now offering to core programs: The Love Strategies Lab (previously named…
Read MoreDid He Say “I Love You” Too Soon? Here’s How to Respond
You’ve been dating a great guy for just a few weeks when he gazes into your eyes… …and tells you he loves you. Pump the breaks…WHAT?!! It’s confusing…it’s awkward…and you likely don’t know what to do if a man says I love you too soon. It could be that he’s just totally infatuated with you…
Read MoreTHIS Mindset Will Attract the Man You Desire
When it comes to trying to attract the man you desire, do you find yourself chasing emotionally unavailable guys? You probably don’t do this on purpose, but look back at the last few guys you went out with. I’ll wait. Yeah. You see a pattern, don’t you? Maybe he was slow to respond to your…
Read More5 Things That Wildly Turn a Man On [#2 Will Surprise Him]
You might assume that to turn a man on, you should… …wear a low-cut shirt and short, short skirt… …toss your hair sexily… …pretty much act like a porn star. Actually, that’s not the case. There are ways you can drive him wild that have nothing to do with how you dress or what you…
Read MoreHe Has a Girlfriend But Is Still Pursuing Me? HELP!
It’s damn hard to find a great guy these days. Am I right? But what happens when you meet a guy who seems perfect for you, only…he has a girlfriend? And he’s still pursuing you. WTF?! What do you do? This video was inspired by a member of our community who was being pursued by…
Read MoreHow to Be His #1 Priority, Not an Option
If you’re dating a guy, do you truly feel like a priority to him? Or do you feel like an option? If he’s got a free night, does he call you, eager to spend time with you… …or does he veg out on the couch, bingeing Netflix? If he’s hanging out with friends, does he…
Read More6 Red Flags That He’s a Player [AVOID THESE MEN]
I’m willing to bet you’ve met a player or two in your time. Maybe he strung you along, making you feel like he wanted more than just sex…but then ghosted when you got serious. Maybe he made you feel like you were the only woman for him…but then you found out he was seeing—and sleeping…
Read More5 Texting Signs He’s NOT That Into You
Ah, the good old days. When a man would hitch up his wagon, drive hours to spend just a few minutes with a special lady, likely in the company of her entire family, and then ask for her hand in marriage. Now you’re left with one dude after another who bulk swipes right on all…
Read More7 Red Flags When Dating a Divorced Man
The idea of dating a man who’s been married, who has his own baggage, might be a turnoff to you. Is he over his ex? Did he cheat on her? What about his kids? Do they interfere with his ability to date? Before you write these guys off, I want you to keep yourself open.…
Read MoreHe’s Not Ready for a Relationship? Say THIS
Things were going really well with this guy and then he dropped a bomb… “Uh, the truth is…I’m not ready for a relationship.” You’d been doodling his name in your notebooks. Telling all your friends about your hot new boyfriend. Picking out curtains for the house you knew you’d move into together. And NOW he…
Read MoreWhat to Do When a “Ghoster” Comes Back [Do These 5 Things]
Things were great for a few weeks or months with this guy. Then out of nowhere…POOF! He disappeared. You were pissed off and hurt. But you got over it and moved on. Then…BAM! He’s back. He’s begging for a second chance, and you’re just not sure what to do. This, sadly, is a much common…
Read More3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away
The guy you’re talking to normally texts first thing to wish you a good day…but today you haven’t heard from him. Is this you? “OMG he always texts by 10 am! It’s 10:07! He’s clearly found someone he likes better! Why did I waste my time? What did I do wrong? WAAAAH!” It can feel…
Read More7 Mind Games Emotionally Insecure Men Play on Women
Are you sick and tired of men playing mind games with you? Maybe you see your guy has a text from a woman and you ask who it is…and he goes off, saying you’re accusing him of cheating (when you weren’t) and demands you apologize for not trusting him. Maybe a guy strings you along…
Read MoreTHIS Will Make Him Chase You (And Worry About Losing You)
Let me guess: you’ve seen other so-called “dating experts” give you advice saying, “this will make him chase you:” Ignore his texts… …post pics with other men on Facebook… …basically don’t give him any of your time. If that’s what you’re hoping to find here, I’m sorry to disappoint you. I don’t believe in manipulating…
Read MoreHow to Make a Man Fall in Love With You (7 “Love Steps” That Work!)
Are you tired of countless dates with guys who only want ONE thing? Are you ready to discover how to make a man fall deeply in love with you? My Little Love Steps are the fastest way to find the right man who will fall head over heels for you. You don’t need to…
Read More5 Reasons Why He Hasn’t Said “I Love You”
Falling in love before you know whether he feels the same is like jumping out of a plane. Do you have a parachute…or will you plummet to the earth? Will he respond that he desperately has fallen head over heels for you…or will you make a fool of yourself by telling him how you feel?…
Read MoreHow to Turn a Guy Down [The Graceful Exit]
It may be a “champagne problem,” but it’s a legit one: learning how to turn a guy down gracefully and respectfully. I believe in dating karma: the energy you put out there is the energy you’ll receive from others. So…which do you think will boomerang back to you in a positive way? Ghosting him… …or…
Read More13 Phone Sex Tips For Dirty Talking (Examples to Use Tonight)
You feel like you’re not connecting with your guy in the bedroom… There’s not as much sexual tension as there once was. It almost feels like you’ve turned into just friends… That spark is lost in your relationship and you don’t know why… You don’t know how to turn him on anymore and it’s frustrating…
Read More5 Places to Touch or Kiss a Man That Will Drive Him Wild
There’s some power that comes in driving a man wild, isn’t there? Maybe it’s that look in his eyes when you show up wearing stilettos and a short skirt… Or when you do “that thing” in the bedroom… Whatever it is, you like it because his reaction, in turn, turns you on. So it makes…
Read More3 Reasons Why NOW Is the Best Time to Find Love
In addition to being an economic and financial disaster, this coronavirus has also become an emotional disaster. We aren’t able to connect with the people we care for like we used to. We miss the physical connection. Video doesn’t always cut it. And if you’re single…that might make things worse. You’re lonely…you feel disconnected…and you’re…
Read MoreHe’s Losing Interest Due to the Pandemic, What Should I Do?
These are strange times we live in right now, aren’t they? Especially when it comes to dating. Maybe you have joined the ranks of the people who are flocking to online dating right now. We’re seeing unprecedented numbers of people who still want to make a connection…even if they can’t meet in person for the…
Read More4 Ways to Socialize During this Pandemic
Human beings are social creatures. We crave connection with others. Right now, that’s not really possible. We can’t hug a friend, have dinner with a family member, or even have a first kiss. Social isolation has serious negative impacts on our health: researchers have found that a lack of social connection heightens health risks as much…
Read More3 Simple Texts to Make Him Miss You [Guaranteed Response]
The first date went well and you’re eager to let him know you’re into him. Before you bombard him with texts and kissy emojis, let me just tell you one thing: if you want to make him crave you, you’ve got to create some space in the relationship. To that end, we’ll discuss three texts…
Read MoreHe Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You? Here are 10 Shocking Reasons Why
Have you ever started seeing a guy and felt like he didn’t want to sleep with you? Maybe you worried it was because… …he didn’t find you attractive… …or you were doing something wrong… And it probably killed your confidence. Normally, you feel like you’re a pretty confident lady, but guys like that…well…many women would…
Read More3 Ways to Make Him Addicted to You
Did you know that when you fall in love, your brain feels exactly like it does when it’s hooked on drugs? It’s a pretty intense feeling. Even better? Having a man feel that way about you. What if there were ways to make him addicted to you so that he’d have that high whenever he’s…
Read MoreHow to Tell If He Loves You: 12 Surefire Signs He’ll Be Yours Forever
Things have been going really great with the guy you’re dating. He’s made it past all your filters and dealbreakers, and you’re starting to see some real long-term potential with him. Thing is…you are worried this feeling is one-sided. And you don’t want to have your heart broken again after the things you’ve been through…
Read More7 Ways Your Insecurities Are Actually Pushing Him Away
Have you ever been dating a guy and things are going really, really well… But then suddenly your heart is telling you to run? Your head tries to tell you that things are going well, but for whatever reason, you pull into your turtle shell and hide. It’s not rational, and you probably realize this.…
Read More7 Signs He Doesn’t Want to Be Your Boyfriend (Time to Say “NEXT!”)
All you want is to find a guy who you can settle down with. One you can call your boyfriend. And yet, when you go out with a man, he… …seem allergic to the word “relationship…” …ghosts after you sleep with him… …and otherwise exhibits signs he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend. The problem…
Read More5 Coronavirus Dating Safety Tips [MUST WATCH]
Times are strange right now. You can’t sneeze in public without people wiping you down with Clorox wipes. So what does this do to your dating life? How are you impacted? Should you even go on dates right now? You’ve got questions about coronavirus safety dating tips…and I’ve got answers. Let’s stay safe right now,…
Read MoreIf He Doesn’t Want a Relationship, Don’t Give Him Benefits
Are you still hooking up with a guy that you really like, even though he’s made it clear he doesn’t want a relationship? I need to tell you something that you probably don’t want to hear about the guy you’re dating: If he doesn’t want a relationship, you won’t convince him otherwise. Consider what you’re…
Read More3 Weird Traits That Will Make Him Pursue You
If you’re trying to get a man’s attention and failing to succeed, then it’s possible that you need a new strategy. In fact, you’ll probably be shocked at the top traits that will make him pursue you. They’re not what you’d expect. You wearing low-cut clothing is not on the list. Nor is telling him…
Read More8 Sweet Things to Say to Your Boyfriend to Show You Care
After the experiences you’ve had in dating, you’ve walled yourself up in a protective shell before this guy came along. You haven’t found being vulnerable to be easy. But this guy has proven that he can be trusted, and you’re ready to break down that shell…but how? Start by coming up with sweet things to…
Read More3 Toxic Ways You Might Be Over-Communicating in Your Relationship
All of the experts tell you to communicate your feelings in a relationship… …but is it possible to over-communicate? I’ve been guilty of this myself. Rocking the boat when the relationship was cruising along just fine. Watch the video below to learn the 3 toxic ways you might be over-communicating in your relationship. Have…
Read MoreHow Does a Man Act When He’s Falling in Love? 8 Signs To Look For
Have you been dating a guy for the past few months but you’re not sure if he’s falling in love with you? Are you worried that you’ll fall for him and he’ll move on? It’s understandable that you would want to know whether he’s also falling for you so that you can invest your emotional…
Read More5 Signs a Guy is SERIOUS About a Future With You
Have you ever dated a guy who was a complete waste of time? When the relationship ended, you discovered that he had ZERO interest in a serious relationship, and then you had to start all over again. Never again, my sexy single lady. Here are 5 signs that a guy is serious about a future…
Read More3 Playful Flirting Tips That Make Men Pursue You (Try These TONIGHT)
Have you ever been so insanely attracted to a guy, that you froze up and couldn’t speak? In this week’s video, I’m giving you three playful flirting tips that you can use tonight. No more awkward moments… …just fun, playful banter that will make him addicted to you. Have you ever tried any of…
Read MoreHow to Stop Giving a F#CK About What Men Think
Do you care too much about what men think about you? I think the image below sums up this week’s video perfectly. Click on it to learn one simple principle to developing your inner confidence around men. Are you ready to stop caring? Then leave a comment below committing yourself to the principles outlined in…
Read More10 Secret Signs Your Guy Friend Is Falling For You
You have a male friend who you really value in your life. But lately…things feel…different. You’re wondering if he might have feelings for you. If he does, you’re not sure how you should handle it. Would he be the perfect partner…or would it be a disaster? These signs your guy friend is falling for you…
Read More4 Secret Signs He Thinks About You More Than You Know
Are you constantly on his mind? Instead of “bait texting” him to see if he responds… …watch the video below and learn the 4 secret signs he thinks about you more than you know. Have you ever seen these signs from a guy? Leave a comment below letting me know how it went. Your…
Read MoreHe Pulled Away After You Slept Together? Do These 6 Things
You’re freaking out. You had sex with the guy you’ve been dating…but he pulled away after you slept together. You thought things were good, but was he just looking for a hookup?! You’re wondering if you read his signs all wrong…and whether you can even read men at all! Before you start spiraling, keep reading.…
Read MoreHow Men Test Women (4 Psychological Tricks We Play)
When you first start dating a guy, you’re probably testing him. Does he take charge of situations? Is he a nice guy? Is he respectful to the waiter? You know…standard things to look out for. And believe it or not, he’s testing you too…except his tests are VERY different than yours. Fail these “tests,” and…
Read MoreHow to Ask a Guy if He Likes You (Without Looking Needy): 7 Steps to Follow
Have you ever really liked a guy at work or at school, and you didn’t know how he felt about you? You’re wondering how to ask a guy if he likes you, but you’re worried you’ll look needy. You feel like a teenager again, trying to figure out if he likes you without looking like…
Read More9 Things To Look For in a Guy Before It Gets Too Serious
You’re newly single and looking for love, but the dates you’ve gone on have been less than ideal. You thought Joe was going to be your Prince Charming…but he turned out to be a dud. Then Phil, who smooth-talked his way into your heart turned out to only want to get into your bed. You…
Read MoreStop Doing These 3 Things If You Want to Find Love in 2020
Happy New Year you sexy single ladies! I wanted to kick off the new decade with a video outlining the three things that are stopping you from finding love. Eliminate these three things from your life, and I guarantee that this is YOUR year for love. Are you committed to finding love in 2020?…
Read More5 Ways to Make Him Miss You (He’ll Beg For Your Attention)
In this brand new video, I teach you five simple ways to make a man miss you, and in turn, he’ll be begging to get you back in his life. Have you tried any of these techniques to make a man miss you? Leave a comment below letting me know how it goes. Your…
Read More14 Types of Kisses Guys Like (He’ll Be Asking For More)
Have you ever kissed a guy and it didn’t really “click?” You both have intense mutual attraction…but you’re not sure if you’re giving him the types of kisses guys like. You don’t want to lose a great guy to bad kissing. Believe it or not, a bad kiss can turn a guy off forever. You…
Read More5 Holiday Dating Survival Tips (That Actually Work)
In this video, I discuss five holiday dating survival tips that actually work. You’ll learn: How to stand out in a crowd of singles at any holiday event. Tips for holiday party conversation starters. How to stay positive when you’re single during the holidays. Watch this video to get out there, be social, and find…
Read More7 Signs of a Possessive Boyfriend (And How to Deal With Him)
Are you in a relationship with a guy who seems to be a possessive boyfriend? Maybe it feels like he’s controlling you… …he freaks out when you spend time with other people (especially men)… …or he starts arguments when things don’t go his way. And worse, your friends and family are starting to notice. They…
Read More2 Simple Phrases That Make Him Want to Commit to You
In this special video, I give you two confident female mindsets (with example phrases) of what to say to make a man want to commit to you. Have you ever said either of these two phrases to a guy? Leave a comment below. Your Love Coach, PS. Want to learn how to raise your value…
Read More5 Places to Touch A Man (Send Shivers Down His Spine)
Finding Love After 50: 7 Proven Steps To Attracting Your Soulmate
You’re no rookie when it comes to relationships. Maybe you’ve been married and divorced (possibly several times). Perhaps you’ve been in years-long relationships. Whatever you’ve been through, for better or worse, you now find yourself trying to find love after 50. I’m not going to lie: falling in love later in life looks a lot…
Read More3 Ways to Make Guys Chase You (#2 Makes NO Sense)
3 Reasons Why He Won’t Commit (SHOCKING)
7 Mindblowing Reasons Why You Should Be Dating Your Best Friend
Do you find that your relationships fizzle out once the 3-month mark hits? You chase relationships with guys you have NOTHING in common with. It’s keeping you single and stopping you from settling down in a relationship. What’s the problem? What gives? In fact, you might be overlooking an all-too-obvious resource: your male best friend.…
Read More5 Signs He Likes You (But Doesn’t Want Something Serious)
4 Signs of a Healthy Relationship (He’s a Keeper)
Have you ever been in a relationship that was so exciting, where you never knew what was going to happen next? One that felt like a roller coaster? That guy was totally unpredictable, wasn’t he? Him: Man, I love you! I just want to be with you forever… You: [totally smitten] I love you too! Him: …But…
Read MoreHow Men Fall In Love With a Women (5 Psychological Steps)
12 Online Dating Scams You Need to Know About
You want to try online dating, but the horror stories you’ve heard have you scared sh#%less. Is every man on these apps insane? Are they all out to take your money? How can you actually find love if there are so many online dating scams out there? The Truth About Online Dating Scams While there…
Read MoreMindful Dating: 12 Ways to Find Your Soulmate With Intention
There’s a difference between mindless and mindful dating. Mindless dating is easy. It happens when you’re not being intentional about your dating life. With mindless dating, you find yourself swiping Tinder profiles for an hour during your lunch break. You go out with men who keep staring down your shirt rather than paying attention to what you’re saying.…
Read MoreHow to Find a Husband in 3 Simple Steps Without Looking Desperate
Whether you’ve already been married once (or more) to the wrong husband or whether you are still looking to find a husband for the first time, I’m here to help. But first… There’s a quote from Jim Rohn that I love: “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” This…
Read MoreHow to Find a Long Term Relationship (1 Simple Principle)
Do you sometimes feel like a frog hopping from lily pad to lily pad (consider those pads to be short-term relationships)…but find that every “lily pad” you jump to sinks like a rock? I hear you. If the perfect guy, who you told all of your friends was The One, ended up ghosting you on…
Read More26 Soulmate Signs You’ve Found Your Forever Person
From a young age, we’re conditioned to believe that finding our soulmate is the key to falling in love and living happily ever after (thanks, Disney). But what exactly is a soulmate, and what are some of the signs someone is your soulmate? Is it enough if you love each other and don’t want to…
Read MoreDating a Divorced Man? Here are 10 Things You Should Know
If you’re in your 40s or older, there’s a pretty good chance you’re going to end up dating a divorced man at some point. This is definitely a horse of a different color from the single young guys you may have dated in the past. So, I wanted to provide you with a video and…
Read More5 Games Men Play on Women (REAL TALK)
Before we get into talking about the games men play, allow me to present a couple of metaphors. There’s this really fun board game that Jessica and I like to play. It’s called Pandemic. It’s fun because we work together trying to save the world from a plague. The best part? We are in it…
Read MoreMixed Signals From a Guy? Here Are 3 Ways to Get Clarity
There’s this new phenomenon that’s happening right now in the world of dating. It happens when a guy texts you and works hard to win you over… …then when he finally gets you to respond positively, he doesn’t actually do anything about it. He doesn’t ask you out. He doesn’t want to see you. He…
Read MoreHow To Start A Conversation With A Guy (Over Text & IRL)
Maybe there’s a gorgeous man you keep bumping into in real life, or you just signed up to a new dating app, and you’re ready to kick-start your love life again. There’s only one snag. You have no idea how to start a natural, engaging conversation with a guy. Don’t worry; you’re not alone. This…
Read More7 Types of Love You’ll Experience Before You Meet “The One”
You might assume that if you fall in love, it’s with “The One”. But by this point in your life, you’ve probably loved a few men…and none of them has worked out. You remember feeling like you loved them…were you wrong? Not at all. There are actually different types of love and each is good…
Read MoreWhat Guys Like: 9 Phrases that Will Drive Him Wild
If it’s been a while since you last dated, you might feel like a fish out of water trying to figure out what guys like. What worked when you were 20 doesn’t feel right anymore, nor are you willing to pretend to be a dumb blonde so a man will like you. So…what DO guys…
Read More15 Good Morning Texts for Him to Make Him Want You
As you get into the routine of texting a man you’re interested in, you’ll start to notice certain patterns. There are texts in the morning…maybe during your lunch break…and then before you go to bed. Getting into a routine with texting is a good thing! But you don’t want him to always be the one…
Read More8 Online Dating Profile Examples to Attract Men
So you’ve bitten the bullet and created an online dating account…but now you have no clue what to write or what kind of pictures to post! You’re looking for online dating profile examples to attract men to inspire you, and you’ve come to the right place! Online Dating Profile Examples to Get You Started Look,…
Read More9 Scientifically Proven Ways to Make Him Addicted to You
So you’ve just started dating a man who you think has real potential. Now you want to make him addicted to you so he’s just as excited about a future together as you are. But…how in the heck do you do that? How to Make Him Addicted to You This guy likes you…but you want…
Read MoreDating a Younger Man? Here are 13 Things You Should Know
Dating a younger man? It can be fun, especially if you’re 40 or older and figuring out what you want in terms of dating and relationships. But realize: dating a younger man is definitely different from dating a man your age or even older. There will be things you like (his energy) and things that…
Read MoreCan Friends With Benefits Fall In Love? 3 Ways to Make it Happen
CAN friends with benefits fall in love? I’ve been asked that by so many of my female coaching clients, so I wanted to address the topic here. But first, let’s define friends with benefits: two single people that have sex with one another, with no strings attached. Also known as FWB. Or as Urban Dictionary…
Read More22 Second Date Rules to Guarantee You Get a Third
Congrats! You’ve made it to that second date. Now’s a great opportunity to really get to know this guy and see if there’s long-term potential. But you’re still in murky waters. Going out twice with a man doesn’t necessarily guarantee that you’ll end up in a relationship…or even that you’ll go on a third date.…
Read MoreHow Men Think: One Simple Rule to Understanding Them
Imagine, being able to crawl deep into the male mind to instantly understand how men think without them knowing it. [SHUDDER] IF that were possible, you’d probably need to go take a shower immediately! Of course you can’t know exactly what and how men think, but it is still very useful to get a general…
Read MoreWhat to Wear on a First Date: How to Feel Confident No Matter What Type of Date You’re On
If it’s been a while since you last dated, you may be clueless as to what to wear on a first date. You don’t want to look “easy”, so short skirts and tight tops are out…aren’t they? And you don’t feel like you need to cover up head to toe like a nun… Where’s the…
Read MoreHow to Know When to Break Up: 20 Signs That It’s The End
It’s sad but true: sometimes even a long-term relationship comes to an end. The key is figuring out how to know when to break up. If there’s one thing we all have in common, it’s that we’ve all been through a breakup. Whether you were the one to do the breaking or you got your…
Read MoreWhy Do Guys Ghost? 5 Reasons That Will Save You Heartache
Why do guys ghost? Honestly, I don’t get it. I’m sure you’ve experienced ghosting while talking to a guy: Things are going well. You’re texting or talking on the phone regularly. He’s even starting to be a little vulnerable with you. You’re starting to feel like this might actually turn into a relationship. Then suddenly,…
Read MoreWhat Does Clingy Mean? 16 Signs You’re Being Clingy
You’ve been told in the past that you’re a clingy girlfriend. But what does being clingy really mean? You might just feel like you’re showing how much you care for a man…so why does he take it as you being clingy? And how can you keep from turning off your next boyfriend? 16 Signs to…
Read MoreWhat Men Really Want in Bed: 6 Things Men Secretly Want You to Do
Ah yes, the bedroom, where you really learn the inner depths of how kinky and weird a person really is…as well as what men really want in bed. Regardless of whether the dude you’re dating is into his red room of pain… …or he’d rather softly caress you in a bed covered in rose petals……
Read More26 Dating Statistics That Will Help You Find Love This Year
Although it seems easier than ever before to join a dating site and have dates lined up every night of the week, anyone who has ever been single and looking for love knows that modern dating isn’t quite that simple. But have you ever wondered what the actual stats are on how many people find…
Read MoreUnhappy Relationship? 3 Steps to Consider Before Ending It
Look, you might think breakups are painful, but nothing is as painful as staying in an unhappy relationship. You know what I’m talking about. Maybe you had a relationship in the past (maybe even a marriage) that you felt like you couldn’t get out of for far too long…but then when you finally ended it,…
Read MoreDating After Divorce: 10-Step Survival Guide to Getting Back Out There
Dating after divorce can seem scary. Not only are you worried about being hurt again, but you’ve also got to navigate completely new worlds (online dating) and communication styles (texting). You may feel completely out of practice, especially if you haven’t dated since you were in your 20s. And yet, as scary as dating after…
Read More4 Ways to Make Him Worry About Losing You
Do you feel like maybe your guy doesn’t fully appreciate you? Maybe he’s been pulling away lately and you don’t know what to do. So you’re trying to figure out how to make him worry about losing you as a way to get his attention back on you. There’s definitely a right and wrong way…
Read More5 Signs He’s The One You Should Stay With Forever
So you’re online dating, trying to find the absolutely perfect man, and you’re looking for signs he’s the one. You’re seeking the guy who has every single thing that you want on that long list you know you’ve got. He’s got to have the looks… …the job… …the personality…everything you’re looking for. So you’re trying to…
Read MoreHow to Make a Guy Laugh: 8 Foolproof Ways (With Examples)
Forget the old adage about the way to a man’s heart being through his stomach. Figuring out how to make a guy laugh is definitely going to be the most direct path to his heart. But don’t just take my word for it: researchers have been studying the connection between humor and attraction for years,…
Read More23 Secret Signs He Wants You To Be His Girlfriend (Do THIS to Make it Happen Sooner)
You’re really digging this guy, and you’re desperate for signs that he wants you to be his girlfriend. He seems into you…but is there anything you can do to speed up the process to commitment? I’ll just say this: if you two are meant to be, you will be. But some men move a little…
Read MoreIs Online Dating Safe? 14 Tips For Safely Finding Love Online
If you’re new to dating again after a divorce or breakup, your friends are probably pushing you to go online to find a man. But you wonder: is online dating safe? Is it something you should explore…or stay away from? Maybe you’ve heard horror hookup stories about Tinder… Or about a friend of a friend…
Read MoreHow to Have Trust in a Relationship: 3 Signs You Can Open Your Heart To Him
To trust or not to trust in a relationship — that is the question. I’m sure you’ve experienced this: you start liking a man…you get that oxytocin flowing through your veins…you can’t stop thinking about him… but can you really trust this feeling? And can you really trust this guy? If you’re divorced or have…
Read MoreHow to Keep a Man Interested: 3 Ways to Keep Him Pursuing You
If you’re struggling to figure out how to keep a man interested, you can probably relate to this frustrating scenario: you’ve been dating someone for a few months and you’re really into him. You even start to let your guard down and even tell your parents or your friends about this man and how great…
Read MoreWhat is Gaslighting? 11 Red Flag Signs He’s Manipulating You
You keep hearing this term “gaslighting,” and you’re wondering about it. People have even told you that you’re being gaslit. So…what IS gaslighting? In a Nutshell: What is Gaslighting? Essentially, with gaslighting, a person, usually a romantic partner, denies the validity of things you know you’re experiencing. “You’re imagining things. You didn’t see me with…
Read More16 Subtle Signs He is Talking to Someone Else
You’ve been dating a man for a few weeks, and while you think it’s going okay, you find yourself looking for signs he is talking to someone else. You’re afraid to get too emotionally invested in this situation until you’re sure that he’s interested in you and you alone. Maybe you’re paranoid because you’ve been…
Read MoreWhat is a Commitment? 14 Signs You’re in a Loving Committed Relationship
This took you by surprise. One day you go out with just another guy…then a few weeks later, things seem to be getting serious. But is it a committed relationship? What IS a commitment at this point in your life? At one point, you knew what commitment looked like, but now that your dating this…
Read MoreShould I Text Him First? 4 Rules of When to Text Him and When to Wait
So you’re asking yourself about the new guy you just met: should I text him first? Or should I let him come to me? According to a new survey by a well-known dating app, one out of three successful heterosexual relationships were started by the woman messaging first. But that data doesn’t clarify the answer.…
Read MoreWhy Can’t You Find Love? 12 Reasons Why Love Hasn’t Found You Yet
“Adam, I’m so frustrated. I simply can’t find love. I’ve tried! I give up.” I hear this from Sexy Confidence members all the time. I know it’s maddening, especially if you spent years in a relationship with the wrong guy. You want to finally know what it is to be in love…so why haven’t you…
Read More5 Benefits of Being Single Even If You’re Feeling Lonely
We all know that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, particularly if you happen to be single. You imagine that if you had a boyfriend, you’d be happier, feel settled and more content, whatever. Still, you have to admit: there actually are some great benefits of being single! I…
Read More9 Signs He’s a Player And Has Bad Intentions With You
If you’re looking up “signs he’s a player,” I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess that you’re dating a guy who seems to be playing with your mind just a little bit. A man who won’t commit, no matter how amazing you are. A man who sees you as part of…
Read MoreHow to Get Him to Commit By Pulling Away (Send Him THIS Text)
So you’re dating a man who’s having a little trouble committing to you. It may sound counterintuitive, learning how to get him to commit by pulling away, but you’ll soon see in this video and article that it’s actually a highly-effective strategy for getting the right guy to realize you’re worth working for. In this…
Read More17 Simple Ways to Learn to Love Yourself
After going through some unbelievable ups and downs and maybe even serious heartbreak in your life, you might be struggling to learn how to love yourself. You know that you need to have compassion and patience for yourself, but either your own personality or the way men have treated you in the past has seriously…
Read More27 Real Signs of True Love in a Relationship
After being single for a while, or after being in a relationship that hurt you badly, you’ve opened yourself up to love again. You think you might be in love with your boyfriend, but you’re looking for signs of true love before you say those three magical words. If you’ve been hurt before (and I’m…
Read MoreWhy Do Men Cheat? 14 Reasons You Need To Know to Avoid Heartbreak
If I had a dollar for every time a coaching client asked me, “Adam, why do men cheat?”, I’d sadly be worth millions by now! If you’ve been cheated on once — or God forbid, multiple times — you might be feeling like all men cheat, and might be scratching your head as to…
Read More11 Major Reasons Why Relationships Fail & How to Avoid it in the Future
Looking back at your past relationships, you can’t help but feel dejected. For one reason or another, they all ended, and not always on a good note. You’re trying to understand why relationships fail so you can break the pattern. First, let me just say: it’s not your fault. I know you might be hard…
Read MoreThe #1 Relationship Mistake That Can Ruin EVERYTHING Before It Even Starts
While there are several relationship mistakes people often make, there is ONE that nearly all people make every single day. It erodes our relationships on a much deeper level than we ever could imagine. In this video and article, I talk about what that monster of all relationship mistakes is, as well as how you…
Read MoreHow to Handle Commitment-Phobic Men (3 Simple Tips!)
I hear this a lot from the Sexy Confidence community: so many women feel like they’re surrounded by commitment-phobic men and that they keep attracting them. This tends to be their #1 frustration with the 21st-century dating scene. So why do so many men seem to fear commitment? Is it you? Are you doing something…
Read More5 Hottest Texts to Send a Guy (Guaranteed to Make His Heart Melt)
Now, I need to get real with you for a minute: the guy you’re “talking to” and texting is likely texting three or four other women right now. In this video and article about the five hottest texts to send a guy, I’m going to show you how to make him reduce that list to one: you!…
Read MoreThe Fear of Love: 16 Big Reasons Why He’s Afraid Of The “L” Word
You’re ready to give your all to the man you’re seeing, but he’s exhibiting a fear of love that you simply don’t understand. You have no trouble opening yourself up to him and giving him your love. Why can’t he reciprocate? Are you wasting your time? 16 Causes for His Fear of Love The fact…
Read More8 Simple Tricks to Get a Guy’s Attention (Proven to Work)
When you’re trying to get a guy’s attention because you’re attracted to him…it’s frustrating, isn’t it? When you don’t want it, all the creepy guys out there seem to give you their attention… When you do want it from a guy you actually like, it almost feels like you’re invisible to him. Are you nodding…
Read MoreHow To Tell A Guy You Like Him (Without Actually Telling Him)
Is there a man you’re attracted to in your life, but you’re not sure how to tell the guy you like him? Maybe you and he have a friendship that spans years or even decades. Maybe he’s the guy who just moved into your apartment block. Or maybe it’s someone you recently matched with on…
Read MoreRelationship Standards: How to Set Them to Attract the Right Man
If you want to lower your relationship standards when you go out and meet men, try this. Rip 10 shots of Fireball in under 2 minutes. Then you won’t feel feelings anymore. Trust me. Your standards will vanish into the air like an eagle flying through the night! On the other hand…if you do want to…
Read MoreHow to Tell if a Guy is Serious About You (12 Foolproof Signs)
So you’ve been dating this man for a while, and things are progressing. Still, you’re wondering how to tell if a guy is serious about you so you don’t waste your precious time if he’s not. Short of actually asking him, how can you know if a guy is serious about you? What should you…
Read More7 Signs He’s Secretly Attracted to You (#3 Makes NO Sense)
If you’re overthinking it, looking for signs he’s secretly attracted to you, let me tell you something that might surprise you: Men are usually an open book when it comes to showing their attraction to women. If we want a woman, we’re not very good at hiding it. You, on the other hand, are completely…
Read MoreHow to Be a High Value Woman (7 Principles to Help You Raise Your Value)
If you’re trying to learn how to be a high-value woman, I’m going to bet that one or more men have made you feel less than that. Am I right? All women are created equal… But from a romantic perspective, not all women are equal in a man’s eyes. (Hey, I didn’t write the rules.…
Read MoreHow to Approach a Guy: 16 Sneaky Tips to Help You Start the Conversation
Gone are the days when you had to wait for a guy to approach you. You’re an empowered woman…you just need to know how to approach a guy and you’ll do it. Maybe you didn’t make the first move when you were last single, but you’re ready to try something new at this point in…
Read More13 Signs of a Bad Relationship and How to Leave One Fast!
If you’ve ever experienced signs of a bad relationship, I think you’ll agree: the stress you felt impacted every area of your life. Work seems tougher because you were just a little off, thinking about the big argument you got in last night… Your social life suffered because no one wanted to hang out with your…
Read MoreYour Survival Guide to Your First Date After Divorce
Dear Adam: The trauma and stress of my divorce are behind me, and I’m finally ready to get back out there. But now I’m petrified at the prospect of having my first date after divorce. Help! I hear this so often from women who were married for years — even decades. It’s scary to make…
Read MoreHow to Play Hard to Get (Without Playing Any Games)
You’re really into a guy but you’re not sure how to get his attention. You like the idea of learning how to play hard to get…but you’re not into games (good news: neither is the Sexy Confidence community!). Is there a way to do it without acting like a teenager? Learning “how to play hard…
Read More17 Biggest Turn Offs for Guys That Can End a Relationship Before It Begins
There’s nothing worse than when everything seems like it’s going well with a new guy, and then suddenly, out of nowhere, you can tell that he’s turned off by something you’ve done. And yet…turn offs for guys are still a mystery to you. Maybe you were texting a man you met on Bumble and he…
Read MoreWhat is Emotional Abuse? Here’s One Test That You’re in an Abusive Relationship
What is emotional abuse? Well, there’s an old saying we tell children: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. So…what have we been teaching kids? That it’s okay to call each other names? That we can always rise above it? Sorry to say, but this is crap, and we should…
Read MoreHow to Get a Guy to Talk to You (10 Sneaky Tips and Tricks)
So you’re at a bar or a party and just like in a movie, you lock eyes with a guy across the room. If this were a movie, he would glide over and introduce himself. Alas, it is not. So, now you’re left trying to figure out how to get a guy to talk to…
Read MoreHow To Get Your Man Back: 13 Expert Tips To Get Him Back Fast
Something you never thought would happen has happened: you lost a great guy…and now you’re trying to figure out how to get your man back. Maybe you ended things with him and realize now that you made a big mistake… Or he ended things and you want him to realize that he made a big…
Read More11 Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You (NEXT!)
If you’re looking up signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you…I’m pretty sure you’ve already identified a few red flags with the guy you’re dating. Am I right? Spend your life chasing men who don’t want a relationship with you… ..and I promise you, you will spend your life as that weird cat lady…
Read MoreWhat to Talk About With a Guy: 18 Things That Keep Him Interested
So it’s been a while since you had to figure out what to talk about with a guy. Maybe until recently, you were married and your discussions in your relationship centered around finances and the fact that he never took the garbage out. But now you’re dating again, and you’re like a deer in headlights…
Read MoreHow to Make a Man Feel Loved: 6 Secret Strategies
male Whether you’re at the start of a relationship…or are years down the road with this man…either way, you can always use tips on how to make a man feel loved. I mean, we all want to feel loved, right? And yet, sometimes we overlook what’s right in front of us and take that love…
Read More7 Tips on How to Communicate Effectively in a Relationship
It’s not every couple who knows how to communicate effectively in a relationship. Does this sound familiar? You: “We need to talk.” Him: “What the #%^& did I do this time?” You: “You never listen!” If this is a typical communication session in your relationship, then this video and article are perfect for you because I’m going…
Read More40 and Single? Here’s 10 Tips to Finding Love After 40
Now that you’re 40 and single, things look a lot different than they did when you were in your 20s and single. You’ve been hurt in relationships…and might even be divorced. You might have young kids…or be an empty nester. Whatever your specific situation, you might think that, at this age, there’s no one out there…
Read More7 (Sexy) Erogenous Zones for Men (Touch Him HERE)
Yes, of course, you’re thinking, “Adam, isn’t there just one erogenous zone for men? Why bother with 6 others?” While I’m tempted to change the title of this video and article to “1 erogenous place where guys like to be touched,” I know this video would only be 10 seconds long and you wouldn’t even need…
Read MoreHow Old Is Too Old To Date? 7 Reasons Why You Are Not Too Old to Get Back Out There
You’re not 20 anymore. Maybe not even 30 or 40. So you’re wondering: how old is too old to date? Maybe you’ve dated half the eligible men in your city (or it feels that way), been married and divorced two times, have three kids with two fathers, and you’re way past your mid-life crisis. You’re…
Read MoreHow To Move On When You Still Love Him: 15 Ways Move Forward With Your Life
After a big heartbreak, you’re struggling with how to move on when you still have strong feelings. From where you stand, it seems plain impossible that you’d ever be able to get over him. Whether he ended it because he wasn’t ready to commit… You broke up with him because you caught him cheating… Or…
Read MoreHow to Meet Men: 7 Powerful Tips to Meeting Men in the Real World
Figuring out how to meet men is the top frustration I hear about from single women I coach. When you’re in college, it’s easy to meet people. In class. At parties. Everywhere. But something happens as you get older. It gets harder and harder to meet men. Either they’re already paired up or you simply…
Read MoreHow To Make a Man Fall in Love With You: 17 Tips He Won’t Resist
If you’re searching for how to make a man fall in love with you, I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess that you might be on your way to falling in love with him. Am I right? You’re falling fast for this guy, and you can only hope that he feels the…
Read More9 Tips on How To Be Irresistible to Men – Men Will Go Crazy
A woman who successfully learns how to be irresistible to men is one who is incredibly attractive and too tempting to resist. Men flock around her like kids around a birthday cake. It may not be rational…they just want her. If you’ve never had a man look at you like a mouthwatering cake he can’t wait…
Read MoreHow to Text a Guy to Keep Him Interested (Steal These 17+ Examples!)
So you want to know how to text a guy to keep him interested? Gone are the days when you would only talk on the phone to a guy you were dating. Now, texting has become the norm both when getting to know someone new as well as once that relationship develops. This is both a…
Read MoreToxic Relationships: 27 Signs You Might Be In a Bad Relationship
Being in a toxic relationship is like smoking cigarettes. Sure, it might give you a quick head rush and make you feel good while you’re smoking, but all the while, it’s killing you on the inside. It can be hard to see that you’re in a toxic relationship, but if you’re reading this article, I’d…
Read More13 Phenomenal Tips On Finding Your Soulmate For Smart Women
If you’re like women in every country, at every age, you have spent at least part of your life dedicated to finding your soulmate. And maybe so far, you’ve only kissed frogs and are still looking for Prince Charming. Maybe you’re even giving up hope that you’ll ever find him, or that soulmates even exist.…
Read MoreLust vs. Love: 7 Proven Signs What You Feel Is Just Lust And Not Love
Lust vs. love: the eternal battle. For eons, homo sapiens have existed on Earth. And for eons, homo sapiens have mistaken lust for love. Cavelady Clara thought she loved Caveman Carl. After all, he brought dinosaur meat home and gave her some beautiful unibrow Cavebabies. But after a few years, she realized those were the…
Read MoreHow To Stop Being Jealous: 5 Great Tips To Save Your Relationship
You want to know how to stop being jealous. You want to get rid of that horrible feeling you get when you’re wondering… “Am I crazy, or is there something wrong here? Is my man interested in her??” Before you’re too hard on yourself, let me just say: jealousy is a completely normal feeling. But…
Read MoreHow to Seduce Men With Body Language: 12 Perfect Seduction Tips
Women the world ’round have long yearned to know how to seduce men with body language. If you’re like them, you want one man in particular to know that you lust after him…but maybe don’t have the courage to say so out loud. So you let your body do the talking. There are tons of ways…
Read MoreNo Contact Rule: 9 HUGE Benefits of Going Silent After a Breakup
You hear about this no contact rule thing…your friends say is a great idea for you right now since the guy you were dating just ended things…but you’re not sure. You’d rather… Pick up that phone and text him that you miss him… Go on Facebook to see what he’s doing and who he’s hanging…
Read MoreTurn Ons for Guys: 24 Things That Will Make Him Go Crazy
Once you find a man that you’re into and you start getting physical, you start looking for turn ons for guys in an effort to keep things nice and steamy in your relationship. I’m sure you don’t need a ton of help in this department, but in the event that you need a little inspiration,…
Read MoreHow To Meet Single Men: 20 Best Places to Find Your Prince Charming
One of the most frustrating things for my female clients, especially those over 40, is knowing how to meet single men. When you’re in college, you meet guys every day, in class or at parties. But when you’re older and you focus your life on raising kids or on your career — and if your…
Read MoreHow to Attract Men: 11 Scientific Proven Ways to Attract Him
I get it: you’re frustrated because, while you really want to know how to attract men, the truth is that you do attract them…only they’re the guys you don’t want. The Creepy Camerons… The Needy Nicks… The Lame Lewises… You get the point. You probably have no problem attracting certain types of guys…but you’re here because…
Read MoreHow To Choose Between Two Men: 9 Questions to Ask Yourself
Hey, it’s a tough problem, figuring out how to choose between two men! Some women don’t even have one man to “choose,” so consider yourself lucky that you have options. The conundrum that dating presents is that you may talk or go out with several men at the same time. The idea is that you…
Read More11 Signs He Just Wants Sex: How to Tell He Isn’t In It For Love
You’re starting to feel invested in this guy…and yet you find yourself looking for signs he just wants sex. You want to know now before you’re in too deep if there’s no possibility of a relationship. The last thing you want is to fall for a man who has one thing on his mind. Am…
Read MoreGiving Up On Love: 9 Proven Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Do It
UGGG! You’re sick to death of dead-end dating and have decided that you’re giving up on love altogether. Before you do, Sexy Confident lady, do me a favor and read this article first. I understand your frustration. The older you are, the harder it can seem to find a man worthy of your amazing self.…
Read MoreDating an Older Man: Pros, Cons, + Advice For The Modern Woman
I know a lot of women who prefer dating an older man. Remember when you were a teen and your mom said that girls were two years more mature than guys the same age? Whether you believed it then or not, dating in your 40s or older reveals that dating an older man can have…
Read MoreHow to Ask a Guy Out: Best 7 Ways To Get Him To Go Out With You
Ask a guy for tips on how to ask a guy out, and he might give the following advice: Step 1: Walk up to the guy. Step 2: Say, would you like to go out with me? But it can’t be that easy…can it? The older you get the harder it becomes to figure out how to ask a guy…
Read MoreHow to Get Over the Love of Your Life: 14 Ways to Get Over Him
He broke your heart, and now you’re struggling to know how to get over the love of your life. Everything seems dull and gray. Though it’s been weeks (or even months), you can’t pull yourself out of this funk. You can’t focus. You can’t eat. You can’t sleep. While you know that being with your…
Read MoreHow to Seduce a Man: 10 Proven Ways To Make Him Want You Bad
Can your eyes send seduction signals to a man, telling him that you want him? Absolutely. If you want to know how to seduce a man, read on and watch the video below because I’m about to give you some valuable tips you’ll want to use immediately on that guy you’ve got the hots for.…
Read More20 Signs a Man Is Attracted To You Sexually: He Really Wants You
So you’ve met a man you are drawn to, but you’re not sure how he feels about you. You’re looking for signs a man is attracted to you sexually to figure out if this guy has the hots for you. Let me just save you the trouble: he does! No, seriously, I understand that you want…
Read MoreHow to Make Your Ex Chase You (Reverse the Power Dynamic)
So you want your ex back…or at least to make him want you, so now you’re asking your friends for advice on how to make your ex chase you. You’re sure that, if you “play hard to get”, he’ll come running back and beg you to take him back. I’ll be honest: this may or…
Read MoreHow to Be a Good Girlfriend: What Does It Mean and How to Do It Right
So now that you’re in a happy relationship, you want to know how to be a good girlfriend to keep your man happy. Take it from me: it doesn’t take much to do just that, but I wanted to compile a list of ways to be a good girlfriend to help you out. What Does…
Read MoreDefinition of Love: Discover The 3 Types + What Love Really Is
If you had asked me ten years ago, I couldn’t have told you what the definition of love was. I never really understood love until I personally experienced it. Maybe you’re the same. Maybe you’ve been in long-term relationships — even married and now divorced — and still aren’t sure how to define love. Maybe…
Read More15 Signs He’s Using You and What You Can do About it
While you like the guy you’re dating, you find yourself looking for signs he’s using you. Something just feels…off, and the last thing you want to do is be played. Well, I’m here to point you in the right direction. If any of the following signs he’s using you ring true, you need to exit stage…
Read MoreKiss on a First Date? Should You or Shouldn’t You?
Inquiring women around the world want to know: should I kiss on a first date? What will he think of me if I do (or don’t)? Does it set the course for the future of that relationship? I get it. That first date is so critical for determining whether you have chemistry with someone enough to…
Read MoreHow to Be More Confident Around Guys: 14 Proven Tips For Women
I know I talk a lot about the importance of being confident when you’re out there dating, but I realize that not every woman feels confident naturally. That’s why I wanted to give you some tips on how to be more confident around guys to help you step up your dating game. It’s amazing the difference…
Read MoreIs He Cheating on You? Top Signs He Is + What You Can do About it!
You can’t put your finger on it…but something’s just not right in your relationship. Maybe he’s out late without explanation. Texting you less. Acting suspicious. Is he cheating on you? While I don’t want to be an alarmist, I’ve found that if your gut tells you something, it’s often true. Still, you want to be…
Read MoreHow to Be Vulnerable With a Man: Learn How To Open Up to Him
You search and search for Mr. Right…then you finally find him…and you struggle with a new challenge: how to be vulnerable with a man. Whether you haven’t been in a serious relationship before… Or you’ve been terribly hurt in one… Vulnerability does not come easy for most women (or men). But it’s also a key component…
Read MoreHow to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work: 7 Proven Tips
Looking for how to make a long distance relationship work? You’re in the right place. We’re about to do a deep dive into the whole long distance relationship thing, AKA the LDR. You’ve heard the saying: Does absence really make the heart grow fonder? My answer to this thought-provoking question? Yes and no. Long distance…
Read More33 Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy on a Date: The Proven Secrets To a Great Date
Before you meet that next potential suitor, I want you to think about questions to ask a guy on a date. Asking questions is a great way to get to know someone quickly, but asking the wrong questions can make him feel like you’re interrogating him. Instead, I want you to focus on questions like…
Read MoreHow Do You Know You Love Him: 21 Signs You Have Fallen For Him
So you’ve been seeing this guy for a few weeks or months, and you’ve got one word on your mind: LOVE. But…how do you know you love him? Is it just infatuation? Lust? Hormones? Or is this actually turning into something real? You find yourself singing Whitney Houston’s old gem, How Will I Know, in the shower:…
Read MoreHow to Keep a Conversation Going With a Guy: 7 Expert Proven Tips
aSo you finally connect with a cool guy, maybe for the first time in a bar or you’re on your first date from a dating app…and you are like a deer in headlights. You have no idea how to keep a conversation going with a guy…and as a result, you feel like you’re losing the…
Read MoreDoes He Like Me? Here Are 26 Signs He Does
Does he like me? It’s the age-old question that was on your lips as you pondered with your girlfriends at the back of the classroom whether your crush was vibing on you too, and decades later, nothing has changed. Whether you’re in your teens, twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, or beyond, you might still find yourself…
Read More5 Stages Of a Relationship: What Are They & How You Can Pass Them
I bet you’ve noticed that there are five distinct stages of a relationship. Each has its own challenges and rewards. Think back to your last relationship…or even one you’re in now. Didn’t it change from the start, when you didn’t know each other well, but couldn’t keep your hands off of one another, to the end,…
Read MoreWhy Men Fight Their Feelings and How to Get Him to Open Up
Since the dawn of time, women have tried to figure out why men fight their feelings. They act one way and say something else entirely. Here’s an example of a classic male internal dialogue: Emotionally Open Him: Oh God! She’s so wonderful. I love being around her… Macho Him: Shut up! Don’t do it! Emotionally…
Read MoreFunny Questions to Ask a Guy: 22 Questions To Get Him Laughing
If there’s one surefire way to a man’s heart, it’s through laughter. Whether you’re having your very first conversation with a man you find attractive, you’re on a first date, or you’re on a 20th date, it never hurts to have a bank of funny questions to ask a guy. Every Man Likes a Woman…
Read More7 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back (And What to Do About It)
If your ex-boyfriend has been sniffing around, and you think he’s exhibiting some signs your ex wants you back, he very well may be. In this article and video, I’ll help you decipher a few key actions that should tell you that maybe, just maybe, there’s a reunion in your future…if you want it. Breakups…
Read MoreHow to Make Your Ex-Boyfriend Miss You With These 5 Powerful Tips
When you read a headline that reads how to make your ex-boyfriend miss you, what immediately comes to mind? Jealousy? Manipulation? Secret spells to bring him back? (I’ll tell you a story about secret spells at the end of this video.) Sure, a lot of sites and books give you this crappy advice to make…
Read More3 Simple Texts to Send Your Ex-Boyfriend to Make Him Want You
When you’re thinking about texts to send your ex-boyfriend, you want to avoid the mistakes that most people make. Most people end up freaking out their exes simply because their hearts haven’t healed and they’re allowing emotion to get in the way. We want to avoid that, don’t we? It’s my goal in this video…
Read MoreHow to Talk to Men: Discover The Secrets to A Successful Conversation
The vast majority of my clients are looking for tips on how to talk to men. It’s understandable: talking comes perfectly natural to many women…but sometimes you meet a man that you’re attracted to… Then suddenly, all of your smooth, sexy, confident ways go right out the window and you’re left with nothing to say.…
Read MoreBody Language of Men: Discover The 6 Signs That He Is Into You
When it comes to the body language of men, are you fluent or struggling with basic comprehension? You’re far from alone if you have trouble reading a man, but the truth is: The body language of men is really not that complicated. But if you’re like most women, you completely overthink the signs a man…
Read MoreWhat Does it Mean When a Guy Ignores You (+ What You Should DO)
Things have been good with the guy you’re dating. You’ve got chemistry. Conversations flow. Then one day, he doesn’t text you for 24 hours. WTF? What does it mean when a guy ignores you like that? Did you misread the signs? Was he not really into you? Feeling ignored has always sucked throughout human history.…
Read MoreHow to Get Him Back: Follow These 6 Steps To Win Him Over Again
A few weeks, months, or years ago, you started dating a great guy, but since then, things have crumbled and you’re no longer together. Problem is: you’re thinking about him nonstop, and you’re racking your brain trying to figure out how to get him back. Maybe he ended things because he wasn’t ready to commit…
Read MoreHow To Kiss a Guy: Become A Kissing Goddess With These 7 Tips
Whether you’ve kissed one guy or 100, I think it never hurts to have a refresher on how to kiss a guy. That’s why I created this very silly video. About three months ago, I released a video with Steve, illustrating exactly how you sexy single ladies should touch a man. Now that video has since…
Read MoreHow to Get a Boyfriend: 10 Proven Tips To Get The Guy You Want
If there’s one topic I get asked about the most it’s how to get a boyfriend. I understand. When you’re single and looking for a quality partner, it can be frustrating when you don’t find someone right away. And the more you want it, the more desperate you can get in wanting a boyfriend. The more…
Read MoreWhat To Do On a First Date: Follow This Proven Guide to Success
Unsure of what to do on a first date? There is nothing like the thought of going on a first date to get your heart pounding in your chest. Even the very thought of it makes your palms sweaty and your throat close up. First dates can be stressful and scary if you don’t know…
Read MoreHow to Feel Sexy: 10 Ways to Feel Hot, Attractive & Sexy Every Day
Do you want to know the secret of how to feel sexy? Of course, you do! Who doesn’t want to feel sexy? I’m talking how to feel sexier all the time. There’s no rule on where and when you can feel sexy, and that’s the best part, some of the most attractive people out there…
Read More9 Online Dating Tips For Women: Tips & Tricks to Make Guys Interested in You
Websites and apps. Who’d have thought in this day and age that these would be the tools to help you meet a man? I’m constantly getting asked for online dating tips for women, so clearly it’s become such a popular channel…and yet women don’t really know how to own it. Online dating is different from what happens…
Read MoreSingle on Valentine’s Day: 4 Ways to Treat Yo’self Like You Love Yo’self
Men suck. Being single on Valentine’s Day sucks. It’s just a holiday invented by greeting card companies. Suck suck suck. Yea. I get it. Having a holiday that’s all about love, sweet love when you’re far from being in it can be super irritating. It feels like the world has exploded with roses and heart-shaped…
Read MoreHow to Be Wife Material: 7 Ways To Make Him See That You Are The One!
You’ve been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things are progressing nicely. You’ve both admitted you love each other, and you’re both committed to the relationship. Now, your mission is to make sure he sees you as wife material. The question is…how do you do that? Short of oohing and aahing over rings…
Read More9 Signs You’re Dating a Married Man and What You Should Do About It
This guy seems too good to be true. Dream dates, breakfast in bed, romantic gazes…he’s giving you the full Prince Charming treatment. But the fact that you’re researching “signs you’re dating a married man” tells me that you have some serious concerns about his availability as a partner. As well you should. It’s shocking and…
Read More7 Signs He Will Never Commit To You No Matter How Badly You Want It
Try as you might, you just can’t get the guy you’re seeing to take things to the next level. Now you’re looking for signs he will never commit so you can figure out if you need to bail on this guy or if there’s actually still hope. Whether you’ve already invested just a few dates…
Read MoreHow To Start Dating Again: 5 Powerful Tips To Get You Back Out There
You’ve been out of the game so long, you’re not even sure where to begin. Whether you’ve been married and then divorced or simply were in a long-term relationship that recently ended, it’s understandable that you’d be apprehensive about how to start dating again. After all, the dating landscape has changed. Significantly. Where in your 20s,…
Read MoreHe Loves Me But Won’t Commit: What To Do If This Happens To You
Vanessa: How are things going with Steve? You: Oh, I don’t know. He says he loves me…but won’t commit. I don’t know what to do! Does this sound like a conversation you’ve had with a friend recently about the man in your life? You believe that he loves you, that he’s serious about moving forward with you,…
Read MoreEmotionally Unavailable Men: 8 Signs (And How To Handle One)
If you look back at the last few relationships you’ve been in, you can see a pattern: you seem to always be attracted to emotionally unavailable men. Despite your best efforts to get them to open up, you always end up hurt and frustrated that they never reciprocate the affection or love you feel for…
Read MoreHow to Make Him Want You: Use These 5 Words to Make Him Fall In Love
If you’re looking for tips on how to make him want you, you’re in the right place. Welcome. You’ve been seeing this guy a few weeks or months, and you’re starting to feel all gushy and vulnerable around him. Congratulations, lady. You are in love. The problem is: you’re not sure if he’s in love…
Read MoreHow Attractive Are You? What You Need to Know About Attractiveness
How attractive am I to others? Am I attractive at all? In some ways, it seems like society is putting more focus than ever on visual appeal for both men and women. We use dating apps to quickly assess whether we find someone cute, and if we don’t, we can just swipe left and remove…
Read MoreFirst Date Tips For Women: THIS Will Guarantee a Second Date!
One of the things I get asked about the most in my work is for first date tips for women. I’ve met women who are getting back to dating after a divorce, and who are understandably nervous about going on first dates (especially if it’s been decades since they last did). I’ve also met women who date…
Read MoreTHIS Will Make You the Most Attractive Woman He’s Ever Met
If you’re trying to get a man’s attention, what does it take to be the most attractive woman he’s ever met? Body like Beyoncé? Bootie like J. Lo? Wrong. So wrong. Here’s a clue: it’s not about the physical. In this video, I share four little tidbits that can make you the most attractive woman…
Read More3 Proven Tips On How to Get Over a Breakup Fast
Women around the world are dying to know how to get over a breakup. They desperately want some magic pill or formula that will take them out of the heartache they’re experiencing. They want to forget the man that caused them so much pain. Does that describe you? Are you tired of crying over the end…
Read More7 MAJOR Dating Mistakes Even Smart Women Make
Bob Ross, the beloved painter, liked to say, “There’s no such thing as mistakes, just happy little accidents.” Generally, I think this is great life advice (from a true legend). But sometimes avoiding mistakes is the difference between happiness and heartbreak! Today I want to help you avoid those mistakes that lead to heartbreak. They’re…
Read MoreHow To Tell If a Guy Likes You: 11 Proven Signs He Is Into You!
If you want to know how to tell if a guy likes you, allow me to give you a little advice: you’re probably overthinking it. You’re looking for grand gestures. You want him to show up at your door with a dozen red roses. You want him to call you his girlfriend after just one…
Read MoreWhy Men Disappear When It Gets Serious
You meet a guy who seems perfect. Things are chugging right along and then one day, out of the blue… BAM. He’s gone. Either he ghosts or tells you he isn’t looking for a serious relationship. You’re left heartbroken and confused. Why did he date you if he was just going to dump you? The…
Read MoreSexy Texts For Him: 9 Ways To Make Him Go Crazy Over You
Struggling to come up with sexy texts for him? I get it. Texting someone you’re into isn’t easy, especially if the last time you dated…texting as a form of communication didn’t exist. Maybe you just got back into the dating game after divorce, and you’re trying to understand the social rules of texting a man. Maybe…
Read MoreImportant Dating Advice for Women After Divorce
Life has taken an interesting turn, hasn’t it? One minute you’re married…the next you’re Googling dating advice for women after divorce. Whatever happened that led you down this path, it’s okay. Whatever pain you’ve been through, you’re now doing well enough emotionally to think about opening up the door again to love. But even if you’ve…
Read MoreHow to Turn a Guy On: 7 Weird Things to Get a Man Hooked on You
As a dating coach for women, I (not surprisingly) get asked all the time about how to turn a guy on. Women I meet ask me to give them insider tips on how to attract a man initially, as well as how to turn a guy on in the bedroom. While there are some obvious ways…
Read MoreHow To Flirt With A Guy (And Actually Have Fun)
If you’re a single woman looking to meet an amazing man, you might find yourself wondering how the hell you’re meant to flirt with a guy. I mean, we’ve all seen how it happens in the movies, right? Guy meets girl. Sparks fly. They both know exactly what to say and when to say it.…
Read MoreModern Dating Advice 101: A Guide to 21st Century Dating For Women
I get it, you want dating advice. Dating in this day and age is crazy frustrating. You spend so much time trying to meet men… And then filter out the duds… And it seems like you’re always left empty-handed. But don’t despair, Sexy Confident Lady. I’ve created a guide to help you navigate dating in…
Read MoreSTOP OVER-ANALYZING MEN
Ok class, raise your hand if you’ve ever been confused by a guy before. Now, look around. What do you see? Everyone’s hands are up. You’ve all been confused by guys actions before. Heck, I’ve been confused by guys actions before. The question is, what do you do when that confusion strikes? If you’re like…
Read More3 Powerful Ways to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
Back in elementary school, when you liked a boy, you could make him miss you by ignoring him…or shoving him in the mud. Yea, that seems counter-intuitive to make a guy like you, but hey, it worked for the second-grade set. Now you need more stealthy and effective ways to make him miss you like…
Read MoreMen vs. Women: Why Your Boyfriend Is NOT Your Girlfriend
Rom Com movies have done you a disservice, they don’t tell you the true difference between men and women. Everything you’ve ever learned from fairy tales about love and romance is completely wrong. Do I have your attention? While you may be trying to turn your current boyfriend or your future boyfriend into Prince Charming,…
Read More3 Signs You’re Dating a Toxic Person (And How to Deal With It!)
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship before? It’s a crazy question because you’d think that if you’re in one, you’d know to get out. But love does crazy things… … and sometimes we get hooked before we realize who we are dating… … or what the relationship is becoming. That’s when the heartbreak…
Read MoreWhat’s Your Attachment Style (+ How It Affects Finding The One)?
Have you ever wondered why you act the way you do in a relationship, and where that behavior comes from? That jealous monster that pops up when your significant other is late after work doesn’t come out of thin air, nor does your Bambi-like trust of everyone you date. It’s a scientific fact: your past…
Read MoreWhat to Do if He’s Ignoring You & Your Texts
Maybe you sent him a text saying “I had fun last night,”… … or you sent a flirty emoji… … or a ridiculous gif… … bit he didn’t respond back. It’s an icy dagger through the heart, causing panic, confusion, and desperation. What should you do in this situation? Do you call him to see…
Read MoreCan You Change a Man In a Relationship? Discover The Answer Today!
Ah, the age-old question: can you change a man? Ladies have been asking this question since the dawn of, well, man. Without an answer to said question, they’ve taken to simply complaining about the problem: Cavelady: Ugggg. I can’t stand the way Smert chews with his mouth open. Southern Belle in 1800s: I do…
Read More3 Reasons Why Men Avoid Commitment in the 21st Century
Does it feel like guys in the 21st century avoid commitment more than ever before? If so, then this video will open your eyes to WHY this is happening and what you can do about it… Now that you know why men avoid commitment, let me show you how to find commitment in the 21st…
Read MoreHow to Find the Man You’re Looking for on Dating Apps
Your friends convinced you to hop on Match. Or eHarmony. Bumble. OKCupid. But you’re overwhelmed at the idea of finding just one amazing guy with all the cruddy ones that are out there. Using a dating app or website can be frustrating, I know. They’re filled with clueless guys. Guys who will offend you. Guys…
Read MoreHow to Compliment a Guy and Make His Heart Melt (11 Examples You Can Use!)
Before we get into the subject of how to compliment a guy…let me ask you a question… … the last time someone complimented you — on your outfit, or maybe on something you did — did you like that person more…or less? You instinctively felt like you liked them more, right? It’s a natural human response.…
Read MoreReady for Mr. Right? Make Your Dream Guy List to Attract Him
You’ve struggled for months or even years to find a quality man deserving of your time and love…and yet, you’ve come up empty. Darren was sweet, shared your love of beer, but wasn’t ready for a relationship. Chad was “hot as hell” but such a jerk. Clearly, you need a new approach to finding love.…
Read MoreShould You Settle for the “Good Enough” Relationship?
You’re not in your 20s anymore. You’ve had relationships that never quite lived up to the high standards you had in your head, and more and more, you find yourself alone. But being alone is hard. And being part of a couple is easy…usually. Studies back this up: being in a relationship makes people happier than…
Read MoreThe RIGHT Way to Touch a Guy to Show Interest in Him
Quick, take out the binoculars! Look right over there… … it’s John. Tall, beautiful eyes, tan, walking around in that perfectly tailored navy suit… … every ladies dream… … I can see why you’re so into him. But does he know? Of course not, we’re hiding over here in the bushes watching him through binoculars!…
Read More8 Types of Guys You’ll Meet Online (and How to Filter Through the Duds)
When you spend time on dating apps and sites, you start to notice some patterns in terms of the types of guys you’ll meet online. Some, you give two thumbs up, like the Active Outdoor Guy, but others, like the following, you can just swipe right on. 1. The Workout-Obsessed His profile says his likes…
Read More9 Red Flags That He’s Fallen Out of Love with You
You’ve been with this guy for months or even years. In the beginning, he bent over backward to please you. Lately though, it feels like there’s a big disconnect between you. Is it just temporary, or should you be concerned that he’s fallen out of love with you? The sad fact is: people change. Feelings…
Read More5 Relationship Lessons We Should’ve Been Taught in School: REAL Dating Advice for Women
How much of what you learned in school do you use on a day-to-day basis? Not much, right? Sometimes it feels like they deliberately teach you things you’ll never use… … and avoid teaching you the skills that you NEED to live a happy and fulfilling life… … like how to meet an amazing partner…
Read MoreIs He Your Boyfriend? 9 Signs He’s Committed to You
“So whaddya think? Is Jason my boyfriend?” It feels like every conversation you have over brunch with your girlfriends is obsessing — er, assessing — your relationship status. If only you had a crystal ball. Women want labels. Labels make them feel secure. If he’s your boyfriend, it means your affection for him is reciprocated. It…
Read MoreHe Loves Me. He Loves Me Not. 9 Signs He’s in Love With You
So you’ve been dating your guy for a few weeks or months, and you’re feeling pretty good about things. You know he’s into you…and yet, you find yourself up at night wondering: Is he in love with you? It’s a scary thing to start to fall for someone and be unclear on whether the feeling…
Read MoreHe Doesn’t “Know What He Wants?” Learn How To Respond To This
It’s not easy to have “the conversation.” You know the one I’m talking about… You: What ARE we? Him: Uh…gotta go. Maybe it takes you weeks to work up the courage to have the conversation, and you’ve listed out your talking points… … or maybe it spontaneously bursts out at what seems like the worst…
Read MoreWhy You Should Never Date a Dad from Your Kid’s School
You’re a busy single mom. You don’t have time to meet unattached men, nor do you know where to find them. So the schoolyard seems like a viable dating pool. Right? Wrong. Look, I know dating in your 40s or later may seem tougher than it was in your 20s (it doesn’t need to be!),…
Read MoreHow to Respond to a Guy Who Flakes and Then Shows Up Again
Here’s the situation: you had a great first date. He seemed interested. But then he never followed up. Maybe you were even brave enough to reach out, but got nothing in response. What do you do when a guy flakes for seemingly no reason? The Pitfalls of Texts in Dating While it can be easy…
Read MoreHow To Tell If a Guy is Flirting With You and Not Just Being “Nice”
Quick quiz: pick the answer below that definitely illustrates how to tell if a guy is flirting with you: A guy tells you he thinks you’re funny. A guy tells you he likes your eyes. A guy speaks to you with a calm, quiet confidence. All of these can feel like flirting, but only one…
Read MoreWhy Dating in Your 40s is Better Than Dating in Your 20s
So you find yourself single in your 40s. This fact might scare the crap out of you if you haven’t dated since your 20s. You might moan that you aren’t as thin, young, or hip as you were back then, but I’m here to tell you that there are plenty of reasons you’re better…
Read MoreHow to Tell if He’s Into You After Just One Date
So you went on one date and think it went well, but you aren’t sure. After all, you could have one great date and that guy calls, but you could have another great date with a different guy and… Crickets. I know. Guys can seem cryptic. But in fact, we’re really simple creatures if you…
Read More5 Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist
The line between narcissism and confidence is often a thin one. On the outside, they can look the same… … especially when you’re just getting to know a guy. And this is a problem… … because if you’re dating a narcissist, you’re in for a rollercoaster of emotions… … that rarely ends in happily ever…
Read MoreOnline dating is a waste of time (if you don’t understand this…)
There are plenty of dating sites, apps, and events that promise you an opportunity to meet the man of your dreams. They promise a sea of potential dates and algorithms that will find you a man who is a “perfect match.” And you know what… … they might be right! They might be able to…
Read More3 Ways to Make a Man Sexually Addicted to You (Guaranteed to Please Him in Bed)
You don’t need a “red room of pain” from 50 Shades of Grey… And you don’t need to take advanced yoga classes so that you can contort your body into a dozen absurd positions… All it takes are a few simple things to make any man sexually addicted to you. Seriously… Follow these three easy…
Read MoreThe #1 Reason Why Men Stop Pursuing You
It’s not your sense of humor… It’s not your physical appearance… And it’s not your sense of style… In fact, the number one reason men stop pursuing women… might actually shock you. The worst part is that you might think doing THIS is actually helping you win him over… It’s not. If you want to…
Read MoreHow to Scientifically Trigger His Emotional Desire For You Using THIS Technique
Your worst enemy when it comes to creating white hot attraction with a man might be gut level impulse. If you routinely trust your first “feeling” when you start dating a new guy… you could be making a critical mistake. Here’s a simple technique you should be doing instead. Now… Don’t get me wrong. Trusting…
Read More13 Signs Your New Relationship Will End in Heartbreak
Imagine if you had the ability to predict, with near 100% certainty, if your new relationship would end in heartbreak. Do you think you’d make the mistake of wasting weeks (possibly even months or years) of your time dating a guy who will eventually end up being “Mr. Wrong”? Probably not. Well… These 13 warning…
Read MoreWhat Men Find Sexy In a Woman (Attraction Secrets For Women)
Airbrushed centerfolds are nice to look at when you’re a 16 year old BOY… But, believe it or not, High-Quality MEN are looking for a special woman who has something else entirely. Here’s what Men REALLY find sexy in a Woman: Forget about the garbage you read on the magazine rack as you stand in…
Read MoreHow to Get an Amazing Boyfriend Without Playing Games
Most people treat dating like a game of chess. Sacrificing… Retreating… Trying desperately to back the other person into a corner and “win.” But not you. You’re more evolved than that. You’re sexy confident. So discover how to get that AMAZING boyfriend without playing games. It’s time to put the chess board away and start…
Read More3 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate And Finding True Love
My secret guilty pleasure… Relaxing with a tub of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream and watching back to back romantic comedies on Netflix. There, I said it. And I know I’m not alone. The only problem with Hollywood movies is that they ruin your expectations. I mean… When was the last time you actually experienced…
Read MoreDO NOT Marry a Guy Who Has these 5 Habits
Marriage. Statistically, it’s a coin flip at best and a crapshoot at worst. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t find everlasting love. And it doesn’t mean you can’t find it with a quality guy who treats you like the amazing woman you are. If getting married is something you deeply desire for your future, then…
Read MoreThe REAL Reasons Why Men Flake (Text Him THIS to Win Back Control)
You’re excited… You’ve been texting back and forth with him all week… You know exactly what you’re going to wear and your confidence is high… Then… He cancels. There are two reasons why men bail on you. The reason he tells you, and the REAL reason. Here are the three biggest reasons why men flake:…
Read MoreThe Ultimate “Love Test” | 3 Ways to Know If He’s “The One”
Let me ask you a question: How AMAZING would it be if you and a guy could go on a date… … both of you fill out a questionnaire… … and know instantly whether or not you’re right for each other? Unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way, does it? Well, here’s the good news: In…
Read More5 Situations When You Should NEVER Text a Guy
Hey you! Put the phone down where I can see it. Don’t. Type. Another. Word. Ok… … now slowly pick the phone up… … delete every word of that text… … and put the phone away. I just helped you avert a texting crisis. Now, make sure you can avert the rest on your own…
Read More3 Signs He Wants to Marry You; Find Out If He May Be The One
Searching for signs he wants to marry you? Try this: You: First comes love, then comes marr… Him: Crickets. [Because he’s zoomed outta there.] So many women want to know if a guy is serious about committing for the long haul, but they don’t know how to bring it up. That’s because they know it’s…
Read MoreWhy Men Pull Away, What It Means, & What To Do When It Happens
It’s a hot topic of discussion with your girlfriends: why men pull away. It can be incredibly confusing, you and your girls agree. Maybe you’re currently dealing with this situation. Things were going great for a while. You were sure that he was into you. You went on dates. Maybe you even got busy in…
Read More5 Scientific Things Guys Find Unattractive (MAJOR Turn Offs!)
Maybe guys fall for you because you keep them laughing every second of your date… … or they get lost in your eyes… … or they love the way you touch them. The reasons guys find you attractive will vary from guy to guy. But the reasons they find you unattractive? Well, science has a…
Read More15 Signs He’s Just NOT Into You and What You Should Do (Move On!)
So you got here by searching “signs he’s not into you.” And yet, you’re in denial about why you’re here. Allow me to illustrate a point in written song: My mind is telling me no, but my boddddyyy is telling me yesss!! Ok, I’ll never sing to you through writing again… … unless it helps…
Read More5 Biggest Turn Ons For Men In the Bedroom
Put down the whipped cream… … return the ice cubes to the freezer… … and stop freaking out about that thing you’re thinking of doing with his toe. Cosmopolitan has convinced women everywhere that they need to bring something into the bedroom if they want to turn their man on. Nothing could be further from…
Read MoreHe Acted Like He Was Interested. Now He Disappeared. Find Out Why.
He acted like he was interested. You were sure he was. You went on one, two, or maybe even four dates and things seemed to be going really well… You’ve been sharing appetizers and bar hopping across town… Maybe you even have an inside joke or a special song… He’s been texting every day… But…
Read MoreFlirty Texts For Him: 4 Secrets That Will Make Him Addicted to You
Does the thought of sending flirty texts for him make you break out in a cold sweat? Is there a little voice in your head that says your attempt to be cute and sexy will totally bomb and you’ll never hear from him again? Would you rather become a nun than have to send a…
Read More7 Facts You Didn’t Know About Men (#5 is SHOCKING)
Sigmund Freud once claimed the only question he couldn’t answer was: “What do women want?” Poor Siggy probably didn’t understand that members of the female sex are equally mystified by their male counterparts. The more you know and understand about the male experience… … the easier it will be for you to find, attract, and…
Read More5 Reasons Why Dating Is Harder for Smart People
Are you smart, or do you just THINK you’re smart? Well, if you’re struggling with these five dating challenges, then chances are… you’re a genius. 5 Reasons Why Dating Is Harder for Smart People… watch it now! If you’re like yogi and are smarter than the average bear, dating is going to be much more…
Read MoreWhy You Might Always End Up in Unhealthy Relationships
If you find that you’re constantly landing yourself in the middle of unhealthy relationships, there is a MASSIVE reason why. Even though this character trait is something that everyone admires in another person… … it’s murdering your chances of finding and developing the kind of healthy relationship you’ve been secretly craving. Discover what I’m talking…
Read More4 Flirty First Messages To Send On Bumble
Swipe left, swipe right, swipe left, swipe right. It can get a little tedious and time consuming. And… It sucks big time when the matches fade away like a train in the distance. That’s why I put together this short video to help you with one of the hottest new dating apps… Bumble! Sending just…
Read More5 Ways You’re Preventing Yourself from Finding Love
I’ve been doing this for a long time, and have had countless conversations with people who are in all phases of life; men, women, single, married, divorced, and everything in between. These interactions have led to many insights, some of which include varying degrees of self-sabotage. Many of us have been jaded along the way,…
Read MoreHow to Make a Man Deeply Desire You
Do you know the secret to making a man deeply desire you? If not, you need to check out my latest video right here: Inside this short video I break down exactly how to avoid landing yourself in the dreaded ‘friend zone.’ I also reveal what you need to do in order to make him…
Read MoreIs THIS Why The Modern Man Won’t Commit?
As you can imagine, I get a lot of questions these days – a lot – about the reasons why the modern man just doesn’t seem to want to commit. It seems as though we’re losing the value of commitment in all areas of life. Unfortunately, this same struggle is affecting our relationships as well.…
Read MoreTHIS is the Meaning of Life
Have you ever sat back and just pondered… what’s the meaning of all this? Well, that’s exactly what I did yesterday – so I thought I’d share it in this week’s video. THIS is the Meaning of Life: Do you agree? Is THIS the meaning of life? Your Coach, Adam Summary – Over the past…
Read MoreWhy Men Don’t Want to Marry You (REAL TALK)
Do you feel like you’re “Always the bridesmaid, but never the bride?” You’re not alone. It seems as though people are less and less willing to get married – or take much longer to do so. But the real question is, why? Is it that men don’t want to get married in general, or is…
Read More3 Reasons to Talk About Donald Trump on a First Date
If you take a stroll through the relationship section of your local bookstore and randomly pull a book from the shelf… Or if you search google for a few helpful hints on what to talk about on a first date… You’ll undoubtedly find some variation of the following advice: “Never talk about politics or religion…
Read More1 Rare Quality ALL Men Secretly Want In a Woman
There is a lot of good in the world that’s come from our faster paced society. Unfortunately, there are always two sides to every coin. While we’ve been connecting with each other in a lot of ways, we have also been disconnecting. We’ve been losing sight of what really matters. In this week’s video, I…
Read More3 Dating Mistakes ALL Women Make on the Show “The Bachelor”
I cannot believe I’m admitting this to the 182,612 female Sexy Confidence fans, but… I admit it… I watch The Bachelor. And yes, I like it a lot (guilty pleasure). Beyond being ridiculously entertaining TV, there are a few critical dating lessons to be learned from this season. And as you might expect, you’ll learn…
Read MoreHow to Overcome Social Anxiety in 3 Simple Steps
Do various social situations make you want to crawl into a corner and pray that nobody starts talking to you? Meeting new people can be a daunting task if you suffer from social anxiety. In fact, 15 Million people in the US suffer from social anxiety. So if you’re one of them… You’re not alone!…
Read More7 Reasons Good Men DON’T Cheat
We are going to break an old stereotype this week and talk about men cheating in relationships – hear me out, though… We are going to talk about why GOOD MEN will NEVER cheat on you. There is a lot of talk that floats around social media about how ‘ALL men’ cheat, but I want you…
Read MoreEmotional Attachment: 5 Reasons Why You Fall Too Soon
Delia, I love Mike! He’s the best thing to ever happen to me. Um…Janice, can I just point out that you’ve only been dating a week? If you can relate to Janice’s jumping into a new relationship with both feet quickly… If you feel like every guy you date just might be “the one” after…
Read MoreHow to (Actually) Love Yourself And Be Happy
The University of London just completed a study that shows the key to happiness is getting naked around other people. Of all the scientific studies and peer reviewed research I have read on the subject of being happy, this has to be the LEAST practical. Especially if you’re single! Imagine the look on the arresting…
Read More3 Signs He Wants a Serious Relationship With You
Dating has changed a whole lot over the past 100 years. In decades past if a man was pursuing you it was meant he was courting you for marriage. Dating in the 21st century just isn’t that simple… and it can be down right messy. Is he relationship focused or just sex focused? In this…
Read More5 Things Men Think About Women (But Won’t Say)
In a desperate effort to understand what men think about women, you might fantasize about swinging a hammer at a man’s head, cracking it open, and watching in awe as his innermost thoughts spill onto the floor. [Please don’t do this. There are better ways.] It can be extremely frustrating not knowing what men think…
Read MoreHow to Let Go of Someone You Love
We’ve all been there… Watching TBS on a Saturday Night, while Facebook stalking an Ex during whatever Sandra Bullock movie has been playing on repeat for the past 8 hours. It doesn’t get any easier when you see pictures of him with someone new. And he’s happy. More happy than you are right now. Here’s…
Read More10 Immature Dating Habits You Need to Lose This Year If You Want to Find Love
If this last year was a total bust when it comes to your dating life, then today’s video might be the most important one you watch. If you’ve ever experienced… Multiple dates ending in total disappointment. Great guys passing you by without so much as a second glance. Promising relationships that quickly fizzled and went…
Read More5 Things Women Do That Guys HATE
On the outside he might seem calm and collected. But on the inside he’s a ticking time bomb. You may even think everything is going smoothly… … until he ends it. And it’s all because you might be doing one or more of these five things: If you’re constantly noticing guys you date slowly pull…
Read MoreHow to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Without Losing Your Dignity
Admit it. You miss him and you want him back. There’s just one problem: You’ve been so lovesick that it looks like you’ve been shot out of a cannon… … directly into a brick wall. Your mood is in the dumps, you look like a hot mess, and you don’t have the first idea how…
Read More5 Phrases You Should NEVER Say to a Guy
Have you ever had a conversation with a guy that was going great one minute, but deteriorated into a hot mess the next? Or even worse: You thought everything was going fantastic, and then — out of nowhere — he just ended it. It’s possibly because you said one of these five things: The occasional…
Read More5 Things You Can’t Change in Any Man
Many of the biggest frustrations you will ever experience in a relationship come from trying to change certain things about the man you’re with. I’m not talking about little things like forgetting to put the toilet seat down either… Some things you just have to accept. And if you can’t accept them… … it maybe…
Read MoreHow to Attract Men By Actually Being a Good Person
There are a few titles in the relationship section of my local bookstore that I’d like to soak in gasoline and burn. The advice in these books range from being mildly manipulative (by telling men “little white lies” to get them chasing you)… to being downright bitchy as a way to generate attraction. Sure, these…
Read MoreMy Vision for Sexy Confidence
This week’s video is a very special one as it marks a HUGE turning point for me (and the team) here at Sexy Confidence. In this quick video I explain the future of Sexy Confidence and how it might effect you moving forward. Don’t worry – it’s all good stuff, but I’d love to get…
Read MoreHow to Keep a Man from Cheating
You’ve hooked yourself a great man and the relationship is blossoming… but fears from your past relationships can sneak up on you. Maybe you were cheated on, or lied to in a former relationship that broke apart. “Will it happen again?” you may worry… Let me put your mind at ease, by teaching you the specifics…
Read More7 Proven Things Men Want in a Woman
Have you ever found yourself asking the question: “What do Men want”? Wouldn’t it be great if a bunch of computer nerds, slamming Red Bull in a room somewhere, just sat down and collected a bunch of scientific data to finally give you the definitive answers to that question? Well, I’ve got some good news…
Read More5 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest After Sex + How to Change That
You waited until you’d dated a guy for several weeks before sleeping together. Though you were hot for him and curious about what getting in the sack would be like, you made a conscious effort to get to know him and trust him first. So…that’s good, right?? Except…after you slept together for the first time,…
Read More9 Dating Rules EVERY 21st Century Woman Must Always Follow
If you want to play the game then you have to know the dating rules, right? But what happens when the game changes? Full disclosure: it already has. What I mean is that dating today is pretty much nothing like it was in your 20s, which may be the last time you dated. If you’ve…
Read MoreHow to Make Him Miss You: 5 Ways To Make Him Crazy for You
So you want to learn how to make him miss you. You’ve tried every trick in the book, and you’re coming up short. You’re really trying to work the whole “absence makes the heart grow fonder” thing, but you could use some guidance on how to make him miss you. That adage, by the way,…
Read MoreSigns He Loves You: 5 Things He Will Do If His Heart Is Truly Yours
Are you looking for signs he loves you? Unsure of where to start? Unless you are some type of superhero or one of those TV psychics I keep seeing on late-night TV infomercials… you are NOT a mind reader, are you? Okay. Didn’t think so. So if you can’t take a peek inside the head…
Read More3 Signs He Loves You But Is Scared of Commitment
Has this ever happened to you? You’re dating an amazing guy, and while things are going well, you’re a bit confused. There are definitely signs he loves you but is scared. Let’s review. You meet a guy and the sparks are clearly there. When you’re together, it’s like you can conquer the world as a…
Read MoreWhy You Should ONLY Date guys with money (and How to Find out he has Any)
Today’s video is going to be a little controversial and to be perfectly honest… it might piss a few people off. “Money shouldn’t matter if you’re in love,” my critics will say. But it does. The reality is that money DOES matter. Find out exactly why I insist that a man’s financial health is so…
Read More7 Sexy Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
Let me level with you for a second, because this really needs to be said: You’ve got way more power than you may realize. What am I talking about? All it takes are a few of the right sexy triggers and ANY man will be lit up like a Christmas tree– dopamine surging, hormones blazing…
Read More3 Phrases to Make ANY Man Feel Crazy In Love With You
Have you ever said something to a man that just seemed to “trigger” a strong, loving emotional response? Maybe it was unintentional, or maybe you were using some of the scripts from my various premium programs. Regardless, words can be an incredibly powerful way to build a connection with any man. And in this week’s…
Read More3 Signs You’re WAY Too Available With Men (The Opposite of “Playing Hard to Get”)
I want you to remember this ONE thing: Scarcity creates value. When something is scarce then it’s hard to come by, and that means it’s worth more. This is just as true for dating as it is for diamonds or gold. A prime example: If you show yourself as too available then men won’t value…
Read More1 Sneaky Game to Get Handsome Guys to Approach You
What do you do when you go out? Do you simply hang back and wait for the hottest guys to approach you? I hope not. Going out is a hell of a lot more fun when you can talk to the most attractive men in the room whenever you feel like it. Plus, it does…
Read More9 Personality Traits Men Want in a Woman
How do you know if you’re THAT GIRL? How do you know if you’ve got “the right stuff” that drives men wild, turns us on, and keeps us hooked on YOU? We all have our personal preferences… … but there are SOME things that every man is looking for when it comes to “girlfriend material.”…
Read MoreIf You Start Falling In Love With Him, DON’T DO THIS
What do you do when you REALLY like a guy? How do you flirt, keep him interested and show him the engaging parts of your personality? Well if you’ve been following my emails then you’ve already learned some key “tips and tricks” based on sexy confidence. This means you already have an idea of what…
Read More5 Proven Ways to Be Way More Attractive to Men
We’ve come a long way, haven’t we? Together we’ve explored all sorts of strategies to help you improve your dating and romantic life–from how to flirt and improve your communication skills to developing inner confidence and much more. But none of that matters if you can’t catch his eye! That’s why I’ve decided that it’s…
Read More10 Essential Steps to Succeeding in Life, Love and Business (100K Subs!)
Today is a very special day because Sexy Confidence has hit 100,000 subscribers on YouTube. Our growth over the past year has been astronomical and I couldn’t have done it without you. So to celebrate this milestone, I’ve created a video for you that shares an “insider” look into how I started Sexy Confidence from…
Read More3 Easy Ways to Calm Your Nerves Before a First Date
Do you experience anxiety before a first date? Does your heart speed up? Do you feel queasy? Do your thoughts turn to worry or do they even race a bit? If you’re like most people then the answer is “uh… HELL YES!” First dates CAN be nerve-wracking… BUT they really don’t HAVE to be! If…
Read More3 Qualities You MUST Have to Keep a Man Interested In the Relationship
You did it! You made it past those oh-so-critical first steps and now you’re in a REAL relationship. Ahhhh… If feels good, right? BUT not so fast! Now that you’ve got the RIGHT man by your side… … the guy who makes you feel COMPLETE… … you need to understand how to KEEP him! If…
Read MoreHow to Get More Guys to Approach You
“Why aren’t guys approaching me?” “Is it something I’m doing… or NOT doing???” This is one of the most common questions that I receive from my coaching clients. The thing is, unless you’re meeting all of your dates online (or YOU like being the one to “go out on a limb”) then you NEED to…
Read More5 Awkward Texts You Need To Stop Sending Him
Are your text messages SABOTAGING things with the guy you like? It’s true: texts CAN make or break things with him… That’s because they have the POWER to: – Draw him in like a moth to a flame… – IGNITE his interest in you… – Turn him ON even if you’re miles apart and most…
Read More3 Reasons Why You Only Attract Needy Men
Needy men are like vampires—and not the sexy kind. Here’s why: Guys like this will suck every ounce of energy out of you, because they depend on you for everything. -They depend on you for constant approval… -They depend on you for “ego-stroking” reassurance… -They even depend on you to make all the decisions in…
Read More5 Signs He’s Seeing Other Women
How do you REALLY know if the guy you’ve been dating is “playing the field”? Most women overlook the tell-tale signs…and then become surprised, shocked, or disappointed when they find out he’s been keeping his options open the whole time. Want to know the truth? Do yourself a favor and check out this video where…
Read More3 Red Flags To Look For When You First Meet A Guy
Warning… Warning! Does your internal warning system ever go off when you first meet a guy? Sometimes it’s easy to pick up on the red flags… but other times it can be a bit tricky. In today’s video I’m going to talk about 3 of these red flags that you absolutely MUST look out for…
Read MoreIs He Lying to You? 7 Steps to Spotting a Liar
Do you ever get that sinking feeling that he’s telling you a lie? What’s going on when this happens? Is it a false alarm? Do you have trust issues? Or is he just being shady and is it time to say adios? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. That’s because in today’s video I give…
Read More4 Signs You’re Too Picky For Love
“I have VERY high standards.” “I’m VERY picky.” These two statements can be a “nail in the coffin” when it comes to your love life. No joke. Here’s why: If you’ve already put up a wall around yourself to keep 99% of men from ever having a chance… ….how can you possibly end up finding…
Read MoreWhy You Attract All the WRONG Men
Do you feel like you’re attracting all the wrong men into your life? If so, you’re not alone. This is a super common complaint I hear among women today. If you want to know what you can do about it so you can start attracting the RIGHT men, check out the video below:
Read MoreHow to Make Any Man Want You
So you’re single and looking for a relationship, and now you’re probably trying to understand the male mind. Well in this week’s video I’m going to dive into 3 powerful strategies that will melt any man’s heart. I know you’re gonna love it.
Read More3 Reasons Why You’re Ugly to Men (No Matter How Much Makeup You Wear)
It’s true, you can be “hot,” yet be an extremely ugly person. And I think we all focus a little too much energy trying to be “hot” and not nearly enough energy on being “attractive.” I’ll explain in this week’s (weird) but important video.
Read More1 Major Turn OFF the Morning After You Hook Up
Have you ever slept with a guy only to never hear from him again? Well in this week’s video, I’ll explain how ONE little thing you do the next morning can turn him off for good. It may seem little to you, but I promise – it can have HUGE ramifications.
Read MoreHow Men Fall in Love: 5 Steps to Make Him Love You
Have you ever wondered how men fall in love? Or if it’s a different “process” than women go through when they fall in love? If so, you’re in luck. This week’s video is a special one. It dives into the five steps most men go through when they are falling in love. It’ll help you…
Read MoreWhere to Meet Successful Single Men? EXPLAINED
If you’re like most women who are part of this community, you’re a smart successful woman who wants to find her match. But that raises a question…where do you meet them? One of my favorite Unity members, Amanda, recently asked me: I’m a smart and successful woman but can’t seem to meet the guys who…
Read MoreDo Men Love Bitches? EXPLAINED
There’s this old-school dating advice book out there, called “Men Love Bitches,” that one of my Unity members must’ve gotten her hands on. And let me tell yah, it got her head spinning (in the worst way possible). So as part of this week’s Unity relaunch, I’m going to answer her question publicly. There’s this…
Read MoreWill He Ever Commit to You? 5 Questions to Ask Yourself
Some women think that ALL guys are “commitment-phobes.” But I’m here to tell you that it’s just not true. You just need to know what questions to ask. So as part of this week’s Unity relaunch, I’ll be answering another Unity Member’s question: “I’ve been dating a guy for four months now, and I’m definitely…
Read MoreShould Women Pursue Men? EXPLAINED
Should women pursue men? Have you ever been really into a guy, but he wasn’t exactly “chasing” you? Well as part of this week’s Unity relaunch, I’m answering some of the most pressing questions from my top Unity members. In today’s video I’ll let you know whether or not you should EVER pursue a guy.
Read MoreDo Long Distance Relationships Work? 4 Questions to Ask Yourself
Have you ever been in a long distance relationship and wondered if it’s even possible to make it work? As part of my Unity membership relaunch this week, I’m answering some of the most commonly asked questions. Here’s today’s question: Adam, I’m in a long distance relationship and I really love him, but he lives…
Read More7 Reasons Why You’re Single on Valentine’s Day
Oh Valentine’s Day! It’s that time of year when you’re either feeling REALLY romantic and loved or you’re feeling a little left out because you’re single. Well this year I wanted to make a fun video about Valentine’s day outlining a few reasons why you might be single this time of year. I promise you’ll…
Read MoreHow to Become the Beautiful Woman Men Desire
We are a society obsessed with skin care, anti-aging and makeup products. But the question is… does that stuff actually make you more beautiful to men? I say NO… but with a strong caveat. Watch this week’s video to learn more.
Read More7 Subtle Signs He Wants to Be Your Boyfriend
It’s pretty rare to meet a guy who’s DYING to find a girlfriend. Sure, he might be open to it, but it’s unlikely that you’ll find a guy who’s on the “hunt for a bae”. But they do exist, I promise you – you just need to watch out for a few key behaviors.
Read More9 HORRIBLE Things Guys Lie about And Why
Sometime’s men lie about the darndest things and this is especially true when a guy is first getting to know a woman. Now I’m not saying that all men lie, but I am telling you that there are some guys out there that will stretch the truth just to get you into bed. And that’s…
Read MoreWhy He Disappeared (It’s NOT What You Think)
Have you ever gone out with a guy, thought the date went really well, but then he disappeared into thin air? I know there’s nothing more frustrating than a good date turned into a “rejection,” so I created a very special video for you this week. In it, I’ll explain the real reason why a…
Read More9 Weird Signs He’s Flirting With You
When a guy is attracted to a gal, he starts doing some really weird stuff. All of the “love chemicals” in his brain are flipping his world upside down causing him to act erratically. So this week, I wanted to create a video to clear up some of your confusion. If he’s acting a little…
Read MoreTop 9 Dating and Relationship Advice Blogs for Women
The world of love is a scary one. Whether you’re looking for it or broken by it, we all need some advice and guidance once in awhile. Unfortunately, our friends aren’t always enough. They’re about as clueless as you and sometimes, it doesn’t hurt to look elsewhere. Love is a game and there’s rules and…
Read More6 Questions You Should NEVER Ask a Guy on a First Date
First dates can be super duper awkward. I mean, you barely even know the guy sitting across from you, and there’s an overwhelming amount of pressure to “connect” with him on some deep level. And all of that pressure can sometimes lead women to ask some VERY bad questions. So in this week’s video, I…
Read More17 Reasons Why He Might Have Pulled Away
Dating is stressful. To many women, it’s a lot like a roller coaster. One day he likes you, the next he’s refusing to answer your texts. One minute you’re having a great time, the next you’re stressing about if he’ll call you tomorrow. Women try and smooth out the bumpy ride by coming up with their…
Read MoreHow To Make Him Want You: 4 Ways To Get Him To Chase You
You want to know how to make him want you, and you’re tempted to play games to achieve your goal. But take it from me: if board games are for kids, then dating games are for sexually frustrated adults. Unlike board games, however, there’s not always a clear winner with dating games, and the end…
Read MoreWhy You’re Attracted to the “Bad Boy” Type
Are you constantly chasing the “bad boy” type? You know in your head that he’s probably not right for you, but even still…there’s something about him that you crave. If you’re always finding yourself with this type of guy, then this week’s video is perfect for you. It explains the three reasons why you’re drawn…
Read MoreThe Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in You
Have you ever met a guy and it seems to be going REALLY well, but then suddenly he loses interest? Or maybe you’ve made it passed the honey moon phase, and suddenly you feel him slipping away… If you’ve ever struggled with keeping a man interested, then this week’s video is perfect for you. In…
Read MoreThe Difference Between a One-Time Girl and a Lifetime Woman
Men are simple creatures. Outside our extensive knowledge on Megan Fox and strippers in Grand Theft Auto, we don’t know much about women. To many of us, women fit into two categories exclusively. Blonde or brunette (not to exclude red heads). Hot or cute. Low maintenance or high maintenance. One-time girl or lifetime girl. Yes, a lot of these…
Read MoreWhy Modern Dating is Better Than Old School Courtship
There are “dating experts” all across the world claiming that present day dating is much worse than it used to be– I disagree. While some aspects of current technology and behavior can inhibit dating success, I believe we have come remarkably far from where we were in old fashion dating. Society has changed the way we view intimacy, gender…
Read MoreThe Only Relationship Standard You Should Have
Let’s face it—we all like to imagine we will stumble upon the perfect person. We select the ideal salary, appearance, intellect, personality and habits of this fictional character and then store that image in the back of our minds while dating. As harmless as this may seem, it can actually wreck your love life. I’m…
Read More7 Signs You’re Dating the Wrong Guy
You’re friends say, “I’m not so sure about your boyfriend, you could do a lot better.” You’re mom says, “Trust me, run as fast as you can in the other direction and don’t look back!” But you think to yourself, “I’m just not sure…he seems OK to me.”
Read More5 Signs He’s Not Falling In Love With You
Does he love me, or does he not? THAT is the question. I’ve noticed that a lot of women have dated guys and wondered whether or not he’s falling in love. Well, this video opens up some of the truths about love and relationships that I think we all need to here.
Read MoreIs Dating An Older Man Weird? EXPLAINED
We see it all the time – the 24 year old actress dating the 45 year old producer or the 28 year old “yo pro” dating the 34 year old engineer. Is it weird? Is it gross?
Read MoreHow to Make Him Chase You
Do you feel like the only guys that are chasing you, are the guys you DON’T want? And when you finally start falling for a guy, he doesn’t chase you… Well, all of that nonsense stops today. In this week’s video I teach you three strategies that will make any man chase you.
Read MoreWhat Men Find Beautiful In a Woman
We’ve heard it time and again that “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. This may be true – but there is still ONE key component to beauty that all men find wildly attractive in a woman. And no, it has nothing to do with your hair, nails or perfume. It’s something much deeper.
Read MoreWhy Men Suddenly Pull Away
Have you ever started dating “the perfect” guy and out of no where he suddenly pulls away? In this week’s short video I give four reasons why a man might retract in a relationship and what to do about it. Watch “Why Men Pull Away”
Read MoreThe Harsh Reality About Why Some Relationships Fail
Relationships fail for all sorts of reasons. Maybe there wasn’t chemistry. Maybe there wasn’t long term compatibility. Maybe the timing was off. Or maybe, just maybe, there was something VERY wrong with someone in the relationship.
Read More7 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Need to Bring Back
Dating has changed more in the past 20 years than in all of human history. Most of it is good, but some of it is NOT so good. So in this week’s video I wanted to outline 7 old fashioned dating habits that we need to bring back.
Read MoreThe Best Friend You Want to F#%K
Everyone and their mother (literally) thinks they know the formula for the “perfect relationship”. Or worse, they know what’s the “perfect relationship” for YOU. If you google “What is the perfect relationship”, you get over 55 Million responses. How is anyone supposed to figure out who is the perfect match for them? Well in this…
Read More10 Realities We Need To Accept About Modern Dating
Things change. Dating has changed. Rather than objecting to it, we can embrace it. We can adapt and improve. We can evolve. 1. Technology plays a role. We can complain about it all we want. We can say it’s negative and detrimental to the health of human of communication. Either way, we won’t change anything.…
Read MoreWhy You Have To Love Yourself Before Anyone Else Can
Learning to love is like learning to walk. You start out bewildered and curious. You watch the people around you moving about in such a magical way, and you want to do the same. You start to model your movements after theirs, but you always begin with a crawl. Crawling means holding your own body…
Read More15 Biggest Turn Ons For Guys
Last month I released the 10 biggest turn offs for guys and it got a huge response. So this week I thought I’d compile a list of the 15 biggest turn ons. This is based on my personal preference, feedback from other men, and from tried and true research. You’ll not only learn a lot, but…
Read More9 Fears Guaranteed to Destroy Your Love Life
Sometimes you’re your own monster under the bed. 1. A Fear of Flaws No one is perfect — not you, not me, not the guy you’re dating — and not all flaws are unattractive. Stop fearing the very things that make you, well, human. Everyone is going to have their quirks and past mistakes, you…
Read MoreWhat Attracts Men to Women (3 Irresistible Female Mindsets)
Attraction is a crazy emotion. It comes seemingly out of no where – and once you feel it, it’s almost impossible to ignore. Attraction is not a choice. And believe it or not, there are 3 female mindsets that will make him as addicted to you, as I am to cookies.
Read More5 Reasons Why Men Marry Certain Women and Not Others
Marriage. It feels like an ancient tradition these days. But not this year…at least for me. I was in the wedding party for my two best friend’s weddings this year and it completely consumed my summer (in the best way possible). And the best part of weddings? Bachelor parties. Now as you might imagine on…
Read More7 Ways to Simplify Your Love Life
How many times have you heard the following statement from a friend? “My dating life is so complicated…I can’t even tell you where to begin.” Do you ever roll your eyes and want to reply with, “Your dating life isn’t complicated, YOU are making it complicated!” Of course, sometimes there are VERY real complications in…
Read More9 Relationship Fears All Men Have (The REAL Reasons Men Fear Commitment)
Relationships are both wonderful and terrifying at the same time. You’ve finally met someone that you can’t stop thinking about and want nothing more than to just sit at home, snuggle up and tell each other, “you’re awesome.” But alongside the joy of a new relationship comes an enormous amount of fear for a lot of folks. So…
Read More7 Clear Signs You Can Trust a Man
The first few months of dating someone is like walking through a landmine. With each and every step you take, you wonder, “Is this the moment when everything ends?” But as you continue on through the relationship, you begin to trust that everything is going to be OK. You become comfortable sharing who you REALLY are.…
Read MoreIs Your Halloween Costume Sexy Or Just SLUTTY? Find Out In This Video
I’ve personally experienced 29 Halloweens in my life. Many of which were focused on obtaining as much candy as my chubby little face could handle. But then suddenly puberty hit and the Halloween goal of stuffing my face with Gummy Bears suddenly switched to flirting with Sexy Nurses and Devil girls. That’s why I love Halloween. It’s that one day of the…
Read MoreRomance is Now Officially DEAD! Here’s the Proof…
Dating has certainly changed over the past 20 years, nonetheless the past 70 years. For example, I remember the very first time I asked a girl out. I had to go to the yellow pages, look up her number, dial it on a land line, speak to her father to get her on the phone, and…
Read MoreWhat Men REALLY Want In a Woman (6 Surprising Qualities)
The question, “What do men REALLY want?” has literally been asked by billions of women for thousands of years. And there’s certainly been no shortage of romantic comedies produced to answer the question. It makes sense that women are so confused. A man might seem as if he only wants sex, then suddenly he gets…
Read More7 Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship -All Women MUST WATCH
My first few months working with women as a dating coach were truly eye opening. Men can inflict major damage on women in ways I never knew possible. As a man who would NEVER dream of hitting a woman, I truly didn’t understand how violent other men can be to a woman. And with the release of Ray…
Read More5 Secrets Women Don’t Know About Men
I’ve now been a dating coach for BOTH men and women for over 4 years. And let me tell yah, I hear stuff from each side of the isle that would make you cringe. “Men are horny pigs” says one woman. I sigh. “Women are psycho” says one man. I awkwardly laugh. Because I know one…
Read More10 Things Women Should NEVER Say to a Man (#6 Is RIDICULOUS)
Have you ever said something that you IMMEDIATELY wish you could “take back”? This weeks video is going to shed some serious light on things women should NEVER say to a guy. Some of these things are rude, some are inappropriate, and some of them will just straight up guarantee a man will NOT like…
Read More7 REAL Reasons Why Men Suddenly Disappear
There is nothing more frustrating than meeting someone you like, going out with them for a while, and then they suddenly disappear. So many of my female clients have been asking me this question, “Why Do Men Suddenly Disappear?” So I figured it was time for a video on this subject. Sometimes it just seems…
Read MoreHow to Transform Your Love Life
SPRING IS FINALLY HERE! And because of the beautiful changing weather, I wanted to create a video that’s focused on one thing: “Change” Why? Because in order to transform your love life, you must be totally open to change. It’s literally impossible to improve unless you’re willing to let go of some of your old…
Read MoreJust Hooking Up? How to Get Him to Commit to ONLY You
So you’ve been hooking up or dating a guy casually for a few months, and now you’re starting to actually FEEL something for him. Damn those pesky feelings. But what is a girl to do? You like him, he seems perfect…but it doesn’t seem like he wants a girlfriend. When you’re faced with this situation,…
Read More3 CLEAR Signs a Guy Likes You More than Just a Friend
So you’re getting the “feeling” that he’s digging your style, but is he just being friendly or does he actually like you? This is an age old question that women have spent many hours on Sunday afternoon’s trying to decode. Well now you can make your Sunday’s slightly more productive, because this video will teach…
Read MoreWhy You MUST Use Online Dating (And 3 Critical Lessons To Succeed)
Once upon a time, if someone asked how you met your significant other and you responded with “Match.com” there was an ensuing awkward silence. Not so anymore. Today, everyone is online dating, and it’s awesome. This means one thing: The caliber of men online has improved drastically.
Read MoreHow to Be the MOST Social Woman On the Planet
Want to become a more social woman? Well, I just got back from a month-long vacation and the female travelers I met along the way happened to be the most social women I’ve ever met. And this is coming from a guy who’s done a ton of traveling in his day. There are some insanely…
Read MoreBe Happy Being Single (or in a Relationship)…Just Be Happy
It’s finally the season of the New Year’s fleeting motivation, long work days, and fad diets. And all I’m seeing in my facebook newsfeed are posts about this year’s resolutions. As I was facebook creeping, I realized something about relationship goals that REALLY frustrated me.
Read More5 Signs He’s Emotionally Attracted Versus Physically Attracted
As we all know, men love sex, and a lot of them would rather just “hook up” than commit. No surprise there, right? So, you agree to his “boundaries.” However, sometimes, you begin seeing a guy casually, and then, just like clockwork, you start to actually have FEELINGS for him. But then, it’s time to…
Read More5 Amazing Places to Meet Healthy Men
Are you sick and tired of dating hamburger-eating smokers, who complain that they “really need to go to the gym” every night? Have you ever stopped to realize that maybe this is a direct result of you meeting all these guys that hang out in the smoking section of the local McDonalds (hmmm…can you still…
Read MoreThe RIGHT Way to Smile at a Guy to Get His Attention
So, I’ll admit that I creep onto a lot of other dating coaches’ websites because I like to know what the heck they’re advising their clients to do. Not too surprisingly, I either love their ideas, or I hate them. But, there’s one piece of advice that I both love and hate simultaneously, and it…
Read More3 Reasons Why Your Dating Life is Miserable (And How to Change it)
Have you ever had that friend who’s pissed off when it’s too hot out and equally as pissed off when it’s too cold out? Oh, and she’s also pissed off when it’s 72 degrees out because it’s just too “nice?” Yep, I know that you know what I’m talking about. We all know that person,…
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